Coming out of the closet
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Ravel H. Joyce wrote:
I'm gay.
I'm straight. ...versus being crooked. :) Anyhow, I think it is pretty cool that gay and not gay people can hang out and share ideas and thoughts about common interests and not so common interests. :thumbsup:
Ravel H. Joyce wrote:
I freely confess,
Nothing to confess, you did nothing wrong. Criminals confess.
Just along for the ride. "the meat from that butcher is just the dogs danglies, absolutely amazing cuts of beef." - DaveAuld (2011)
Slacker007 wrote:
Nothing to confess, you did nothing wrong. Criminals confess.
Ahh, I was so close to saying 'concede' as well! :mad: ;P
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Dalek Dave wrote:
And Catholics
Also true. Sheesh! What a life; always confessing and feeling guilty.
Just along for the ride. "the meat from that butcher is just the dogs danglies, absolutely amazing cuts of beef." - DaveAuld (2011)
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I'm gay. Not a hugely interesting revelation, I freely confess, so I shan't go on about it.
'Congratulations!' somehow seems awkward, but it does convey my best wishes.
Software Zen:
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wizardzz wrote:
Did you recently come out in your life, too? Or is this just a CP outing?
I've told a few people in real life. Nobody in my family, though.
wizardzz wrote:
Also, where is your italicized quote in your profile from?
Well, goodluck Ravel. I hope things go well with your family, if/when you decide to tell them. BTW, that Onion article is incredible. Wow, thanks for sharing it.
"I have a theory that the truth is never told during the nine-to-five hours. " — Hunter S. Thompson My comedy.
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'Congratulations!' somehow seems awkward, but it does convey my best wishes.
Software Zen:
delete this;Gary Wheeler wrote:
'Congratulations!' somehow seems awkward, but it does convey my best wishes.
:) Well, thank you all the same.
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Well, goodluck Ravel. I hope things go well with your family, if/when you decide to tell them. BTW, that Onion article is incredible. Wow, thanks for sharing it.
"I have a theory that the truth is never told during the nine-to-five hours. " — Hunter S. Thompson My comedy.
wizardzz wrote:
I hope things go well with your family, if/when you decide to tell them.
Thanks. I already know that they'll be all right with it, and in some ways that removes the pressure to tell them...
wizardzz wrote:
BTW, that Onion article is incredible. Wow, thanks for sharing it.
I know, right?! It's easily one of the best things I've ever read. :-D
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Dalek Dave wrote:
You told us all a while ago you were Bi
Many moons ago...
Dalek Dave wrote:
you for being dim
Oh my god! Dim! You cant be serious! :O
Dalek Dave wrote:
offensive
Glad you noticed. :)
Dalek Dave wrote:
wrong
Now you are taking the piss! :O
Dalek Dave wrote:
Being French, yes, that was a choice!
I am actually English, though I prefer the French. :)
============================== Nothing to say.
Fat__Eric wrote:
I am actually English, though I prefer the French.
:wtf:
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Gary Wheeler wrote:
'Congratulations!' somehow seems awkward, but it does convey my best wishes.
:) Well, thank you all the same.
By 'awkward' I also meant 'inadequate'. I don't know the etiquette for coming out announcements ;).
Software Zen:
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By 'awkward' I also meant 'inadequate'. I don't know the etiquette for coming out announcements ;).
Software Zen:
delete this;Well I think as DD said some time ago, the most normal response is "Yeah we know", cos whilst the outee has been struggling with it for some time everyone else has just taken it for granted and got on with things.
Every man can tell how many goats or sheep he possesses, but not how many friends.
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OK. I feel it important to announce that I'm heterosexual. I'm a guy who loves women. Thank you for your support. Why should his being gay matter? To anyone. It's a private matter that is his business. He shouldn't be treated any differently than anyone else.
If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braunahmed zahmed wrote:
Why should his being gay matter? To anyone. It's a private matter that is his business. He shouldn't be treated any differently than anyone else.
Other people make it their business, and when you're in a despised minority whose rights are being actively undermined by prominent groups in society, I can see the utility in not surrendering and hiding away out of sight. Ideally, yes, it shouldn't matter. But it does.
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It is more comfortable to sit on with her tail?
Every man can tell how many goats or sheep he possesses, but not how many friends.
Ouch! :rolleyes:
Ali
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Alison P wrote:
Great! Does that mean you can advise me on soft furnishings? ;)
Well, if you're in the market for bad advice, sure! ;P
Alison P wrote:
Sorry, you know I have to turn everything into a joke!
I love that quality in a person.
Alison P wrote:
... except maybe the odd cushion question.
Orange! No, purple! With lace! :-D
Ravel H. Joyce wrote:
Orange!
No, purple!
With lace!Hmmm .... I'll come back to you on that! ;) :-D
Ali
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I'm gay. Not a hugely interesting revelation, I freely confess, so I shan't go on about it.
IMHO everybody here are gay some why or another.
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Ravel H. Joyce wrote:
I'm an atheist
But you share a middle initial with Jesus.
Ravel H. Joyce wrote:
Well, that remains to be seen
So we'll have to wait for the future to unravel?
Every man can tell how many goats or sheep he possesses, but not how many friends.
No matter the outcome, there will be reason to rejoyce.
Martin Fowler wrote:
Any fool can write code that a computer can understand. Good programmers write code that humans can understand.
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ahmed zahmed wrote:
Why should his being gay matter? To anyone. It's a private matter that is his business. He shouldn't be treated any differently than anyone else.
Other people make it their business, and when you're in a despised minority whose rights are being actively undermined by prominent groups in society, I can see the utility in not surrendering and hiding away out of sight. Ideally, yes, it shouldn't matter. But it does.
Ravel H. Joyce wrote:
when you're in a despised minority whose rights are being actively undermined by prominent groups in society
What, developing on Windows?
Forgive your enemies - it messes with their heads
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wizardzz wrote:
Did you recently come out in your life, too? Or is this just a CP outing?
I've told a few people in real life. Nobody in my family, though.
wizardzz wrote:
Also, where is your italicized quote in your profile from?
Ravel H. Joyce wrote:
That's damned hilarious! I love this quote: "Either way, there will be anguish and sorrow at some unknown point." As well as the one in your profile. LMAO
If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun -
ahmed zahmed wrote:
You want a medal or something?
Well, that wasn't my aim, but I wouldn't say 'no'...
LOL. I didn't really think so. It saddens me though that you are made to feel the need to "announce" anything. It shouldn't be that way. One should be accepted and loved and cared about for who they are. I hope your life is happy as can be.
If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun -
No matter the outcome, there will be reason to rejoyce.
Martin Fowler wrote:
Any fool can write code that a computer can understand. Good programmers write code that humans can understand.
AspDotNetDev wrote:
rejoyce
Snort! :laugh: :laugh: 5!
If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun -
Congratulations. I never did figure out the proper way to respond to a revelation like that... Granted, I live in a very liberal area, so it's really a non-issue here.
Proud to have finally moved to the A-Ark. Which one are you in?
Author of the Guardians Saga (Sci-Fi/Fantasy novels)Ian Shlasko wrote:
I never did figure out the proper way to respond to a revelation like that
Neither have I. But when my best friend came out of the closet, my response without any thought was: "I'm not going to stop making gay jokes just because of that", which in hindsight seems to have been the right answer. But you know what? I basically did stop telling them. They have to be really good to be worth telling nowadays. And gays knows all the jokes already.
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I'm gay. Not a hugely interesting revelation, I freely confess, so I shan't go on about it.
I have a couple of friends that are gay, and their experience was that it's worse to tell people the closer they are. But keep in mind that the friends that doesn't accept it, aren't worth having as friends! Family is worse, but if they love you they will accept it. When my best friend finally scraped together enough guts to tell his family, his father told him: We've known for years son, I'm happy you have found yourself.