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Nope, I ain't gay and my GADAR is real weak so here's my question ... if a guy is well settled (earns around $100K, has a house, a car etc.) and is in this 30s ... doesn't have a girlfriend and has never mentioned having one from the past ... is he gay ? -- moved at 15:29 Tuesday 5th December, 2006
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Read my post closely ... especially the first line. The reason I am asking is because it sometimes gets awkard during smalltalk ... and I don't want to offend him in anyway. I am married and with a kid ... now if I tell him "Someday you will have kids" ... that might not be appropriate.
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toxcct wrote:
what's "GADAR" ?
Gay-Radar :-)
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SmartCube wrote:
is he gay ?
Are you that interested in him? :-D
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Maximilien wrote:
Why do you care, it's none of your business.
He probably doesn't care - it's just curiosity :-)
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Nope, I ain't gay and my GADAR is real weak so here's my question ... if a guy is well settled (earns around $100K, has a house, a car etc.) and is in this 30s ... doesn't have a girlfriend and has never mentioned having one from the past ... is he gay ? -- moved at 15:29 Tuesday 5th December, 2006
SmartCube wrote:
is he gay ?
Only if he has expressed interest in another male. Short of that, it's pure speculation on your part.
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SmartCube wrote:
is he gay ?
Are you that interested in him? :-D
From the Churchdown Parish Magazine: "Would the Congregation please note that the bowl at the back of the Church, labelled 'For The Sick,' is for monetary donations only."
Daniel Turini wrote:
Are you that interested in him?
Exactly my point. ;P
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Nope, I ain't gay and my GADAR is real weak so here's my question ... if a guy is well settled (earns around $100K, has a house, a car etc.) and is in this 30s ... doesn't have a girlfriend and has never mentioned having one from the past ... is he gay ? -- moved at 15:29 Tuesday 5th December, 2006
Either gay or he has a two inch penis and is to embarassed to be with a woman. But seriously, you could ask him. He'll either open up and you'll become better friends or he'll get pissed at you and you won't be friends. That being said, my brother and I were friends with a gay dude in high school. When he finally came out, he thought we would be suprised. Of course we weren't. He asked us why we never brought it up. We knew he was gay, but we didn't care.
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Nope, I ain't gay and my GADAR is real weak so here's my question ... if a guy is well settled (earns around $100K, has a house, a car etc.) and is in this 30s ... doesn't have a girlfriend and has never mentioned having one from the past ... is he gay ? -- moved at 15:29 Tuesday 5th December, 2006
If all else fails, get Chuck Norris involved. Chuck will know what to do.
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Nope, I ain't gay and my GADAR is real weak so here's my question ... if a guy is well settled (earns around $100K, has a house, a car etc.) and is in this 30s ... doesn't have a girlfriend and has never mentioned having one from the past ... is he gay ? -- moved at 15:29 Tuesday 5th December, 2006
I don't think that not-having a girlfriend means, that he is gay. If you consider him as friend, just pop it up in a conversation. Or ask another friend with better gaydar skils :P Or even better, introduce him to me. I kind of need a boyfriend :P ... But than i'm probably half way arround the world :) To sum up, if you consider each other friends, and he is not so out yet, he will be glad you asked and that he dind't have to "confess". Because, from my own experience, i felt realy stupid, when i had to tell one of my friends, that i am gay. It felt really stupid. I really don't know why though :confused:. It would be much easier, if he just asked. :-D
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Nope, I ain't gay and my GADAR is real weak so here's my question ... if a guy is well settled (earns around $100K, has a house, a car etc.) and is in this 30s ... doesn't have a girlfriend and has never mentioned having one from the past ... is he gay ? -- moved at 15:29 Tuesday 5th December, 2006
Who cares? Anyhow, you can't always rely on behavior. My husbad has a lot of women in his family. He's expressive and was an art major at school. When I first met him I though maybe he was gay. He was actually kind of a manho in college. Maybe he doesn't like commitment hence no visible girlfriends. But if you want to find out you could always bring up Barbara Striesand.
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Who cares? Anyhow, you can't always rely on behavior. My husbad has a lot of women in his family. He's expressive and was an art major at school. When I first met him I though maybe he was gay. He was actually kind of a manho in college. Maybe he doesn't like commitment hence no visible girlfriends. But if you want to find out you could always bring up Barbara Striesand.
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leckey wrote:
He was actually kind of a manho in college.
What's a manho?
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Nope, I ain't gay and my GADAR is real weak so here's my question ... if a guy is well settled (earns around $100K, has a house, a car etc.) and is in this 30s ... doesn't have a girlfriend and has never mentioned having one from the past ... is he gay ? -- moved at 15:29 Tuesday 5th December, 2006
Well, I'm 36, have a house, car, earn a decent income. I live alone and have had few serious girlfriends, most of which I never mention. I have several reasons/excuses/rationalizations/etc for not having found a wife. Being gay is not one of them.
BW
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leckey wrote:
He was actually kind of a manho in college.
What's a manho?
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Thanks.
Regards, Nish
Nish’s thoughts on MFC, C++/CLI and .NET (my blog)
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leckey wrote:
He was actually kind of a manho in college.
What's a manho?
Regards, Nish
Nish’s thoughts on MFC, C++/CLI and .NET (my blog)
Currently working on C++/CLI in Action for Manning Publications. (*Sample chapter available online*)I think leckey ment to say macho. Or probably not...
regards, Mircea Many people spend their life going to sleep when they're not sleepy and waking up while they still are.
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I think leckey ment to say macho. Or probably not...
regards, Mircea Many people spend their life going to sleep when they're not sleepy and waking up while they still are.
Mircea Grelus wrote:
Or probably not...
I actually thought manho was short for man-whore. In fact it may exactly have been how the word originated.
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Nope, I ain't gay and my GADAR is real weak so here's my question ... if a guy is well settled (earns around $100K, has a house, a car etc.) and is in this 30s ... doesn't have a girlfriend and has never mentioned having one from the past ... is he gay ? -- moved at 15:29 Tuesday 5th December, 2006
Geez, and I popped onto CP to see if there was any intelligent discussions going on. :sigh: Marc
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Nope, I ain't gay and my GADAR is real weak so here's my question ... if a guy is well settled (earns around $100K, has a house, a car etc.) and is in this 30s ... doesn't have a girlfriend and has never mentioned having one from the past ... is he gay ? -- moved at 15:29 Tuesday 5th December, 2006
Maybe he just likes his own company.
