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Chris is right about the whole friends thing. Also as you mature you change and your friends change as well. I'm under the feeling that adults have very few real friends, but possibly close aquaintances. If you do settle down with someone oneday eg a partner, I advise you that this person needs to be more than just a lover but a close friend. Its darn hard to meet the "right" girls, just what are the 'right' girls? Also if you are flashy with money cars and clothes you are sending out signals for gold-diggers. Regardz Colin J Davies
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****Colin Davies wrote: I advise you that this person needs to be more than just a lover but a close friend. You're right. That's why I'm taking my time finding her, and in the meantime I just wanna have some fun. ****Colin Davies wrote: Also if you are flashy with money cars and clothes you are sending out signals for gold-diggers. Up until recently I have bought my clothes from Wal-Mart because that's where we went growing up and habits stick. I have been driving a 1991 Toyota Camry for years now. It's not exactly a flashy car. Although, I just gave in and I am buying a newer, sportier vehicle -- especially since my current one tends to break down a lot. Jeremy L. Falcon "You do not know the power of the dumb side." Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
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****Colin Davies wrote: I advise you that this person needs to be more than just a lover but a close friend. You're right. That's why I'm taking my time finding her, and in the meantime I just wanna have some fun. ****Colin Davies wrote: Also if you are flashy with money cars and clothes you are sending out signals for gold-diggers. Up until recently I have bought my clothes from Wal-Mart because that's where we went growing up and habits stick. I have been driving a 1991 Toyota Camry for years now. It's not exactly a flashy car. Although, I just gave in and I am buying a newer, sportier vehicle -- especially since my current one tends to break down a lot. Jeremy L. Falcon "You do not know the power of the dumb side." Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
Maybe my mangling might misguide malicious miscreants momentarily?I dunno why you are attracting gold-diggers then, unless you are dating girls a lot younger than yourself. Not all girls are gold-diggers. There are quite a few girls about who are independant but they are the ones hard to find. Regardz Colin J Davies
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I dunno why you are attracting gold-diggers then, unless you are dating girls a lot younger than yourself. Not all girls are gold-diggers. There are quite a few girls about who are independant but they are the ones hard to find. Regardz Colin J Davies
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Maybe I should elaborate. I know they are not all gold diggers per sé, but they tend to look for the men that can provide for them and/or a current/future family unless they are "liberated" and/or already wealthy. More often than not, even if money seemingly isn't the main criterion for a chick, it's at least an important one. This is compounded by the fact that - at least where I am from - women are taught to be taken care of and men are taught to provide for women and family. I have no problem doing this - in fact I like it. But, when a woman is influenced in her decision about me because of it, then I can't stand it simply because if me as a person is not the real reason we are together then she'll be more liable to cheat, etc. down the road. Marriage isn't quite as honored as it used to be, and we all know how quickly a woman can change her mind. And yes, I know this from experience. And yes, I don't trust most women (thanks to my mother, people I know, etc.). And yes, I would love nothing more than to be proven dead wrong, but it hasn't happened yet. :( Jeremy L. Falcon "You do not know the power of the dumb side." Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
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Maybe I should elaborate. I know they are not all gold diggers per sé, but they tend to look for the men that can provide for them and/or a current/future family unless they are "liberated" and/or already wealthy. More often than not, even if money seemingly isn't the main criterion for a chick, it's at least an important one. This is compounded by the fact that - at least where I am from - women are taught to be taken care of and men are taught to provide for women and family. I have no problem doing this - in fact I like it. But, when a woman is influenced in her decision about me because of it, then I can't stand it simply because if me as a person is not the real reason we are together then she'll be more liable to cheat, etc. down the road. Marriage isn't quite as honored as it used to be, and we all know how quickly a woman can change her mind. And yes, I know this from experience. And yes, I don't trust most women (thanks to my mother, people I know, etc.). And yes, I would love nothing more than to be proven dead wrong, but it hasn't happened yet. :( Jeremy L. Falcon "You do not know the power of the dumb side." Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
Maybe my mangling might misguide malicious miscreants momentarily?Jeremy Falcon wrote: Marriage isn't quite as honored as it used to be, Yes thats true, and I think more so in America than here. Correct selection of partner must be of the highest importance. Too many marraiges are based on looks, love, sex etc. That are factors that are not permanent. I think any girl who doesn't value money is darn short sighted so I'd rather have a bit of that. My only advice is to keep looking. It's interesting how many girls also are without partners., and never the two sets seem to mix. Regardz Colin J Davies
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I've worked hard to get where I am at an early age (23). I make decent money. I'm not rich, but I do well for my age. I try to stay in good health (in the past year I lost over 100 pounds because I missed being in shape). I always try coming to work happy. I am energetic most of the time and try and stay exited about life. What does this evaluate to? I only have two friends left. One doesn't want to be around anymore because I go to dance clubs and he doesn't want to. The other is so insecure that he gets pissed if a girl shows me more attention, but when the opposite is true everything is honky-dory by him. I lost a five year friendship because he decides to reveal his gayness after I get back into shape, and I am not gay. I lost an eight year friendship because that moron got married within two weeks of meeting some girl. She plainly confessed and acted like she was attracted to me, so that friendship ended real quickly. You can't win for losing. Now, I'm considered spastic and too "wired". Any athlete will tell you that when you have energy to burn, you want to burn it. But, as usual, I travel the harder road all alone and none of my lazy friends understand this concept. As long as I'm complaining... let's not forget 99% of women are gold diggers. The exception is if they already have money. If they don't, they always care about how much their man makes. Some people strive harder than others, and yet still end up saddened - go figure. I'm tired of being the one to motivate others. People see me loosing weight and they want to loose weight, but not until after they see me do it (then they give up). What the hell? Then, when I have my weak days (and eat a candy bar or something) they are disappointed in me. WTF, I lost a shitload of weight and I exercise a lot, and there are times I need carbs (just a better source than a candy bar or pizza). And recently, I've gone against one of my fundamental beliefs of not lying so I could be "the nice person." Someone is crooked (long story), and yet for me to be honest about it I'm the asshole. Ok, I'm done venting. Damn CP can be therapeutic. I can say whatever and don't have to look anyone in the face when I do. Herm. I'll feel better soon; I just didn't have anyone else to vent to at the moment. No replies needed as long as I know someone read it and understands the point. I'm done rambling. I'll go now.
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Jeremy Falcon wrote: I lost a five year friendship because he decides to reveal his gayness after I get back into shape, and I am not gay. Did he reveal his gayness by grabbing you on the butt, or were you just insecure about having a gay friend ? Jeremy Falcon wrote: As long as I'm complaining... let's not forget 99% of women are gold diggers. The exception is if they already have money. If they don't, they always care about how much their man makes. *ahem* crap, crap, crap. That's like saying 'all men want is sex'. Doesn't it annoy you when women say that ? Jeremy Falcon wrote: People see me loosing weight and they want to loose weight, but not until after they see me do it (then they give up). What the hell? Then, when I have my weak days (and eat a candy bar or something) they are disappointed in me. WTF, I lost a shitload of weight and I exercise a lot, and there are times I need carbs (just a better source than a candy bar or pizza). When you get a bit older, you'll probably find that you stop caring about people being 'disappointed in you' and learn to worry only about not being disappointed in yourself. I have one close friend ( not counting my wife ), and that does me fine. If I wanted more, I would go and put myself around people similar to me. As for the chick thing, I don't get people going out looking for someone because they feel it's time to 'settle down'. I settled down because I met someone worth settling down with, not because she was the best thing going at the time. So I say don't worry about when it's time to settle down, just meet people, have friends, and one day you'll meet someone and decide that at whatever age you are, it's time to settle down. Christian The tragedy of cyberspace - that so much can travel so far, and yet mean so little. And you don't spend much time with the opposite sex working day and night, unless the pizza delivery person happens to be young, cute, single and female. I can assure you, I've consumed more than a programmer's allotment of pizza, and these conditions have never aligned. - Christopher Duncan - 18/04/2002
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Jeremy Falcon wrote: I lost a five year friendship because he decides to reveal his gayness after I get back into shape, and I am not gay. Did he reveal his gayness by grabbing you on the butt, or were you just insecure about having a gay friend ? Jeremy Falcon wrote: As long as I'm complaining... let's not forget 99% of women are gold diggers. The exception is if they already have money. If they don't, they always care about how much their man makes. *ahem* crap, crap, crap. That's like saying 'all men want is sex'. Doesn't it annoy you when women say that ? Jeremy Falcon wrote: People see me loosing weight and they want to loose weight, but not until after they see me do it (then they give up). What the hell? Then, when I have my weak days (and eat a candy bar or something) they are disappointed in me. WTF, I lost a shitload of weight and I exercise a lot, and there are times I need carbs (just a better source than a candy bar or pizza). When you get a bit older, you'll probably find that you stop caring about people being 'disappointed in you' and learn to worry only about not being disappointed in yourself. I have one close friend ( not counting my wife ), and that does me fine. If I wanted more, I would go and put myself around people similar to me. As for the chick thing, I don't get people going out looking for someone because they feel it's time to 'settle down'. I settled down because I met someone worth settling down with, not because she was the best thing going at the time. So I say don't worry about when it's time to settle down, just meet people, have friends, and one day you'll meet someone and decide that at whatever age you are, it's time to settle down. Christian The tragedy of cyberspace - that so much can travel so far, and yet mean so little. And you don't spend much time with the opposite sex working day and night, unless the pizza delivery person happens to be young, cute, single and female. I can assure you, I've consumed more than a programmer's allotment of pizza, and these conditions have never aligned. - Christopher Duncan - 18/04/2002
Christian Graus wrote: *ahem* crap, crap, crap. That's like saying 'all men want is sex'. Doesn't it annoy you when women say that ? No. Because it's true. ;P
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Jeremy Falcon wrote: I lost a five year friendship because he decides to reveal his gayness after I get back into shape, and I am not gay. Did he reveal his gayness by grabbing you on the butt, or were you just insecure about having a gay friend ? Jeremy Falcon wrote: As long as I'm complaining... let's not forget 99% of women are gold diggers. The exception is if they already have money. If they don't, they always care about how much their man makes. *ahem* crap, crap, crap. That's like saying 'all men want is sex'. Doesn't it annoy you when women say that ? Jeremy Falcon wrote: People see me loosing weight and they want to loose weight, but not until after they see me do it (then they give up). What the hell? Then, when I have my weak days (and eat a candy bar or something) they are disappointed in me. WTF, I lost a shitload of weight and I exercise a lot, and there are times I need carbs (just a better source than a candy bar or pizza). When you get a bit older, you'll probably find that you stop caring about people being 'disappointed in you' and learn to worry only about not being disappointed in yourself. I have one close friend ( not counting my wife ), and that does me fine. If I wanted more, I would go and put myself around people similar to me. As for the chick thing, I don't get people going out looking for someone because they feel it's time to 'settle down'. I settled down because I met someone worth settling down with, not because she was the best thing going at the time. So I say don't worry about when it's time to settle down, just meet people, have friends, and one day you'll meet someone and decide that at whatever age you are, it's time to settle down. Christian The tragedy of cyberspace - that so much can travel so far, and yet mean so little. And you don't spend much time with the opposite sex working day and night, unless the pizza delivery person happens to be young, cute, single and female. I can assure you, I've consumed more than a programmer's allotment of pizza, and these conditions have never aligned. - Christopher Duncan - 18/04/2002
Christian Graus wrote: Did he reveal his gayness by grabbing you on the butt, or were you just insecure about having a gay friend ? Four months of comments like "I'd suck your [fill in the rest]", "Would you be friends with me I was gay?” and always starting down south and commenting on my butt. Frequently, he'd stick his ass in my face and accuse me of staring at it. He would never walk beside me or in front. We literally got into an argument once because he didn't want to walk in front of me. His porn collection mainly consisted of guys -- it just happened to be tangled in with his downloads of course. He refused to delete naked pics of my other friend (long story). I'm a pretty wild guy at parties and I used to moon chicks, but he'd catch it on film and keep the images as wallpaper, etc. He's plainly confessed to me that he feels like a girl. The list goes on and on... What took the cake... I woke up one morning after a party as his place, on the front porch with my ass hanging out. Yeah, I drank too much and I was "drug" outside. Consequently, I didn't remember much. But, there's no way in hell my ass would've came out for that. Christian Graus wrote: *ahem* crap, crap, crap. That's like saying 'all men want is sex'. Doesn't it annoy you when women say that ? That is all we want! (just kidding) Did you read my elaboration on this yet? Jeremy L. Falcon "You do not know the power of the dumb side." Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
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I've worked hard to get where I am at an early age (23). I make decent money. I'm not rich, but I do well for my age. I try to stay in good health (in the past year I lost over 100 pounds because I missed being in shape). I always try coming to work happy. I am energetic most of the time and try and stay exited about life. What does this evaluate to? I only have two friends left. One doesn't want to be around anymore because I go to dance clubs and he doesn't want to. The other is so insecure that he gets pissed if a girl shows me more attention, but when the opposite is true everything is honky-dory by him. I lost a five year friendship because he decides to reveal his gayness after I get back into shape, and I am not gay. I lost an eight year friendship because that moron got married within two weeks of meeting some girl. She plainly confessed and acted like she was attracted to me, so that friendship ended real quickly. You can't win for losing. Now, I'm considered spastic and too "wired". Any athlete will tell you that when you have energy to burn, you want to burn it. But, as usual, I travel the harder road all alone and none of my lazy friends understand this concept. As long as I'm complaining... let's not forget 99% of women are gold diggers. The exception is if they already have money. If they don't, they always care about how much their man makes. Some people strive harder than others, and yet still end up saddened - go figure. I'm tired of being the one to motivate others. People see me loosing weight and they want to loose weight, but not until after they see me do it (then they give up). What the hell? Then, when I have my weak days (and eat a candy bar or something) they are disappointed in me. WTF, I lost a shitload of weight and I exercise a lot, and there are times I need carbs (just a better source than a candy bar or pizza). And recently, I've gone against one of my fundamental beliefs of not lying so I could be "the nice person." Someone is crooked (long story), and yet for me to be honest about it I'm the asshole. Ok, I'm done venting. Damn CP can be therapeutic. I can say whatever and don't have to look anyone in the face when I do. Herm. I'll feel better soon; I just didn't have anyone else to vent to at the moment. No replies needed as long as I know someone read it and understands the point. I'm done rambling. I'll go now.
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Firstly, Jeremy, congrats on dropping 100 pounds. That is one heck of an amount of weight to loose, you've done well there. I know it's easy to take what advice I'm about to give with a pinch of salt, but I use it in my own life everyday and it works. No matter what happens in your life, your mind will reach out, grab it, and interpret it in some form. The optimist will find the good in it. The pessimist will find the bad in it. When bad thoughts enter your mind, just discard them, because at the end of the day, they are only thoughts - they are fabricated in your head. They do not represent what is happening out there in the real world. That is the difference between a happy and usually depressed person. A happy person is able to say "well, here's a bad thought entering my head, out it goes, on with my life.". The depressed person will dwell on it and his mind will exaggerate it. Why dwell on things? If you think about it, it's so silly! It only makes you feel worse and yet nothing has changed. Discard bad thoughts, because they are only thoughts, and do not exist. Once you learn to do this, you'll find that you'll be a lot happier with life. I'm not saying you're a pessemist or depressive, but just try what I have suggested. Congrats once again on your weight loss. :) :-D Simon Following an eye test, I have discovered that I do not need pointdexter-style glasses with 6-inch thick steel frames in order to continue staring at my monitor. How gutted am I? Sonork ID 100.10024
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Christian Graus wrote: Did he reveal his gayness by grabbing you on the butt, or were you just insecure about having a gay friend ? Four months of comments like "I'd suck your [fill in the rest]", "Would you be friends with me I was gay?” and always starting down south and commenting on my butt. Frequently, he'd stick his ass in my face and accuse me of staring at it. He would never walk beside me or in front. We literally got into an argument once because he didn't want to walk in front of me. His porn collection mainly consisted of guys -- it just happened to be tangled in with his downloads of course. He refused to delete naked pics of my other friend (long story). I'm a pretty wild guy at parties and I used to moon chicks, but he'd catch it on film and keep the images as wallpaper, etc. He's plainly confessed to me that he feels like a girl. The list goes on and on... What took the cake... I woke up one morning after a party as his place, on the front porch with my ass hanging out. Yeah, I drank too much and I was "drug" outside. Consequently, I didn't remember much. But, there's no way in hell my ass would've came out for that. Christian Graus wrote: *ahem* crap, crap, crap. That's like saying 'all men want is sex'. Doesn't it annoy you when women say that ? That is all we want! (just kidding) Did you read my elaboration on this yet? Jeremy L. Falcon "You do not know the power of the dumb side." Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
Maybe my mangling might misguide malicious miscreants momentarily?Jeremy Falcon wrote: Four months of comments like "I'd suck your [fill in the rest]", I take back my assumption - the guy is a jerk. Jeremy Falcon wrote: I'm a pretty wild guy at parties and I used to moon chicks And you're hoping to meet a shy, sensitive creature in this manner ? :P Jeremy Falcon wrote: That is all we want! (just kidding) Did you read my elaboration on this yet? No ? :confused: Christian The tragedy of cyberspace - that so much can travel so far, and yet mean so little. And you don't spend much time with the opposite sex working day and night, unless the pizza delivery person happens to be young, cute, single and female. I can assure you, I've consumed more than a programmer's allotment of pizza, and these conditions have never aligned. - Christopher Duncan - 18/04/2002
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Jeremy Falcon wrote: Four months of comments like "I'd suck your [fill in the rest]", I take back my assumption - the guy is a jerk. Jeremy Falcon wrote: I'm a pretty wild guy at parties and I used to moon chicks And you're hoping to meet a shy, sensitive creature in this manner ? :P Jeremy Falcon wrote: That is all we want! (just kidding) Did you read my elaboration on this yet? No ? :confused: Christian The tragedy of cyberspace - that so much can travel so far, and yet mean so little. And you don't spend much time with the opposite sex working day and night, unless the pizza delivery person happens to be young, cute, single and female. I can assure you, I've consumed more than a programmer's allotment of pizza, and these conditions have never aligned. - Christopher Duncan - 18/04/2002
Christian Graus wrote: No ? Same thread, spawned from Chris' post between Colin and I. Jeremy L. Falcon "You do not know the power of the dumb side." Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
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Firstly, Jeremy, congrats on dropping 100 pounds. That is one heck of an amount of weight to loose, you've done well there. I know it's easy to take what advice I'm about to give with a pinch of salt, but I use it in my own life everyday and it works. No matter what happens in your life, your mind will reach out, grab it, and interpret it in some form. The optimist will find the good in it. The pessimist will find the bad in it. When bad thoughts enter your mind, just discard them, because at the end of the day, they are only thoughts - they are fabricated in your head. They do not represent what is happening out there in the real world. That is the difference between a happy and usually depressed person. A happy person is able to say "well, here's a bad thought entering my head, out it goes, on with my life.". The depressed person will dwell on it and his mind will exaggerate it. Why dwell on things? If you think about it, it's so silly! It only makes you feel worse and yet nothing has changed. Discard bad thoughts, because they are only thoughts, and do not exist. Once you learn to do this, you'll find that you'll be a lot happier with life. I'm not saying you're a pessemist or depressive, but just try what I have suggested. Congrats once again on your weight loss. :) :-D Simon Following an eye test, I have discovered that I do not need pointdexter-style glasses with 6-inch thick steel frames in order to continue staring at my monitor. How gutted am I? Sonork ID 100.10024
Simon Walton wrote: Firstly, Jeremy, congrats on dropping 100 pounds. Thank you, but I should be kicking my arse for gaining it in the first place. But, I had my crazy, convoluted reasons. :| Simon Walton wrote: Once you learn to do this, you'll find that you'll be a lot happier with life. You hit the nail on the head. I try my best to be positive, but there are times when stupidity gets the best of me. Jeremy L. Falcon "You do not know the power of the dumb side." Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
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Jeremy Falcon wrote: Four months of comments like "I'd suck your [fill in the rest]", I take back my assumption - the guy is a jerk. Jeremy Falcon wrote: I'm a pretty wild guy at parties and I used to moon chicks And you're hoping to meet a shy, sensitive creature in this manner ? :P Jeremy Falcon wrote: That is all we want! (just kidding) Did you read my elaboration on this yet? No ? :confused: Christian The tragedy of cyberspace - that so much can travel so far, and yet mean so little. And you don't spend much time with the opposite sex working day and night, unless the pizza delivery person happens to be young, cute, single and female. I can assure you, I've consumed more than a programmer's allotment of pizza, and these conditions have never aligned. - Christopher Duncan - 18/04/2002
Christian Graus wrote: And you're hoping to meet a shy, sensitive creature in this manner ? My ideal woman would be a lady (in public) with a wild streak (in private) in her, but that's just me. Jeremy L. Falcon "You do not know the power of the dumb side." Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
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Christian Graus wrote: And you're hoping to meet a shy, sensitive creature in this manner ? My ideal woman would be a lady (in public) with a wild streak (in private) in her, but that's just me. Jeremy L. Falcon "You do not know the power of the dumb side." Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
Maybe my mangling might misguide malicious miscreants momentarily?Jeremy Falcon wrote: but that's just me. No, Jeremy, I think that's slightly less than half the world's population. :P Christian The tragedy of cyberspace - that so much can travel so far, and yet mean so little. And you don't spend much time with the opposite sex working day and night, unless the pizza delivery person happens to be young, cute, single and female. I can assure you, I've consumed more than a programmer's allotment of pizza, and these conditions have never aligned. - Christopher Duncan - 18/04/2002
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Maybe I should elaborate. I know they are not all gold diggers per sé, but they tend to look for the men that can provide for them and/or a current/future family unless they are "liberated" and/or already wealthy. More often than not, even if money seemingly isn't the main criterion for a chick, it's at least an important one. This is compounded by the fact that - at least where I am from - women are taught to be taken care of and men are taught to provide for women and family. I have no problem doing this - in fact I like it. But, when a woman is influenced in her decision about me because of it, then I can't stand it simply because if me as a person is not the real reason we are together then she'll be more liable to cheat, etc. down the road. Marriage isn't quite as honored as it used to be, and we all know how quickly a woman can change her mind. And yes, I know this from experience. And yes, I don't trust most women (thanks to my mother, people I know, etc.). And yes, I would love nothing more than to be proven dead wrong, but it hasn't happened yet. :( Jeremy L. Falcon "You do not know the power of the dumb side." Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
Maybe my mangling might misguide malicious miscreants momentarily?Jeremy Falcon wrote: know they are not all gold diggers per sé, but they tend to look for the men that can provide for them and/or a current/future family unless they are "liberated" and/or already wealthy. It's funny that you say that. The other night I was having a conversation with my girlfriend about possible job opportunities when I graduate. She said something like "...you need to get a good job so you can take care of your family..." It just kinda struck me. We have been dating for almost two years and she is always talking about marriage, but we don't have children or anything. I have always told her that my main goal is to finish college first right now, and then take things one step at a time. I just really makes me wonder what she may really want out of our relationship. Nick Parker