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You saw the title and have been warned! If you do not understand my way of life, then save your breath because I've heard all there is you'd have to say. Anyway... I enjoy being a player in training. I'm still a novice, but I'm getting better at it. Well, a new lesson I have learned... never give a chick your email address. Dammit! Some chick - friend of a friend - came down for the weekend a couple of weeks ago. She wanted it, and I wanted it (duh, I'm a guy). So we fucked, but it wasn't until afterwards she mentioned anything other than sex. I gave her my email because she was like, "am I going to see you again?" I didn't want to be mean, so I told her (I figured it was better than my phone number!). I never wanted a damn "relationship". I only talked to her once since, and I keep on getting crap like this now: hey man, how is everything going?? this past week has been horrible for me, but i think things will get better soon i hope! i thought about you the other day, i was at work and we were leaving to go to CPR training when some one told another person that they looked spiffy and i could not help but giggle b/c i thought about when i told you the same thing. then the conversation at work turned toward how no one uses that word anymore. it was so weird since that was the same convo we had.... but anyway. blah, i'm so bored. my roommate and i have watched movies all weekend, i was supposed to go down to lake charles w/ a friend of mine out to some of her family's land, but she got sick so that fell through. so anything exciting happening in B.R.??? nothing ever happens here. well, i guess i'm off to eat some lunch, and probably watch another old movie. oh i forgot to say i'm sorry about my last email. i had a bad day that day and i think the beginning of it was kinda harsh, i did not want it to come out that way, i meant for it to be sarcastic. however, that is really hard to do on a computer. i hope i did not upset you, that was the last thing i wanted to do. hope to hear back from you soon. Ashleigh I only saw this girl for two days when she was down. She lives like four hours away, and it's not like a long distance thing would work anyway. I'm going to have to start screening women I guess. Jeremy L. Falcon Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
"It was a blind man who taught me how to see." - AerosmithYou fucked the friend of a friend, and now you aren't man enough to follow up and lay it out for her? The consequences of your action will probably be: a) The friendship between those two individuals will be strained and/or destroyed when the girl gets the message that you're not interested in her that way. She will (unreasonably) blame your friend, and he will assume (also unreasonably) that he has to take sides. It won't occur to him to tell her that she is an adulkt and responsible for her own actions. b) The friendship between you and the friend that introduced the two of you will be strained and/or destroyed because you fucked with another friend's head. He will tell you you pissed her off, and will be lying when he tells you that it doesn't bother him in the least. c) Your friend will never set you up again with a chick (at least not a decent one). d) Anyone that the diss'd chick knows will hear your name, and at the least expected time, it will bite you on the ass (life has a funny and infuriating way of getting back at you). Your only possible salvation is that it's easy to change your email adress and phone number. The biggest physical risk you're taking (besides the possibility of contracting aids) is that she has one or more large brothers/cousins/friends that will gladly make the four-hour drive to come down and kick your ass for trampling all over her feelings. I know that if my sister asked me to do that for her, I would jump at the chance. Now, think about all of that the next time you let ol' Mr. One-Eye go on a tuna cave spelunking adventure. "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio.
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You fucked the friend of a friend, and now you aren't man enough to follow up and lay it out for her? The consequences of your action will probably be: a) The friendship between those two individuals will be strained and/or destroyed when the girl gets the message that you're not interested in her that way. She will (unreasonably) blame your friend, and he will assume (also unreasonably) that he has to take sides. It won't occur to him to tell her that she is an adulkt and responsible for her own actions. b) The friendship between you and the friend that introduced the two of you will be strained and/or destroyed because you fucked with another friend's head. He will tell you you pissed her off, and will be lying when he tells you that it doesn't bother him in the least. c) Your friend will never set you up again with a chick (at least not a decent one). d) Anyone that the diss'd chick knows will hear your name, and at the least expected time, it will bite you on the ass (life has a funny and infuriating way of getting back at you). Your only possible salvation is that it's easy to change your email adress and phone number. The biggest physical risk you're taking (besides the possibility of contracting aids) is that she has one or more large brothers/cousins/friends that will gladly make the four-hour drive to come down and kick your ass for trampling all over her feelings. I know that if my sister asked me to do that for her, I would jump at the chance. Now, think about all of that the next time you let ol' Mr. One-Eye go on a tuna cave spelunking adventure. "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio.
John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote: You f***ed the friend of a friend, Dude, they aren't close friends. She was down for the weekend. Also Jennifer - the friend - wants to see me play women (that's a long story). She knows all about it and doesn't care one iota. John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote: and now you aren't man enough to follow up and lay it out for her? She was all about "just sex" before it happened. I would tell her to bug off, but I don't really enjoy being ruthless. If I have to, I will. I'm just trying to avoid it I guess. John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote: Your friend will never set you up again with a chick It wasn't a set-up. Don't need 'em; don't want 'em. Well maybe! ;P We just happened to be at the same place at the same time. John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote: The biggest physical risk you're taking I'm a big guy (that's one reason why it's easy to get chicks I think), and I've learned to handle myself through the years. If someone did come down, I'd at least give 'em a run for their money. John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote: Now, think about all of that the next time you let ol' Mr. One-Eye go on a tuna cave spelunking adventure. You truly are an artist. :-D I have no intents on stopping what I hope will be a sex spree. I just need to remember that women usually mean something different than what they say. I used to have a friend that got thrown into a relationship the same way. Next time, I’ll just give her a bad address. :suss: Jeremy L. Falcon Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
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I suppose I should also follow up with a bit of info because I'm sure that despite the title, someone will read my post and get upset about it. I used to be the sensitive (emotionally that is) type. Long story short, I've been heartbroken more times than I can count. My first girlfriend told me I was the type of guy you marry, not the kind you date. We were still teenagers back then, and marriage isn't on the plate for most at that age. My point is, you either play or be played. If you think about it truthfully, you'll see what I mean. In a relationship it's usually one person wanting to be in it more than the other. I simply stopped being played. One day I might settle down, but not anytime soon. The tables have turned, and I have years of feeling sad and lonely to make up for. Jeremy L. Falcon Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
"It was a blind man who taught me how to see." - AerosmithYou'll continue to get yourself into these messes if you continue to behave this way. A friend of mine who use to get a lot of one night stands had an awesome trick for dumping the girls after the event. He'd tell them "I feel so bad now that we did this, what will my girlfriend [ insert ficticious name ] think if she finds out.? " I'm sure there are other tricks for doing it, pretty similar to picking chicks up. But to let her remotly believe there is a chance of a relationship is bad, and one day you'll run into one of those psychotic type chicks that will chop your penis off. Regardz Colin J Davies
Sonork ID 100.9197:Colin
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You saw the title and have been warned! If you do not understand my way of life, then save your breath because I've heard all there is you'd have to say. Anyway... I enjoy being a player in training. I'm still a novice, but I'm getting better at it. Well, a new lesson I have learned... never give a chick your email address. Dammit! Some chick - friend of a friend - came down for the weekend a couple of weeks ago. She wanted it, and I wanted it (duh, I'm a guy). So we fucked, but it wasn't until afterwards she mentioned anything other than sex. I gave her my email because she was like, "am I going to see you again?" I didn't want to be mean, so I told her (I figured it was better than my phone number!). I never wanted a damn "relationship". I only talked to her once since, and I keep on getting crap like this now: hey man, how is everything going?? this past week has been horrible for me, but i think things will get better soon i hope! i thought about you the other day, i was at work and we were leaving to go to CPR training when some one told another person that they looked spiffy and i could not help but giggle b/c i thought about when i told you the same thing. then the conversation at work turned toward how no one uses that word anymore. it was so weird since that was the same convo we had.... but anyway. blah, i'm so bored. my roommate and i have watched movies all weekend, i was supposed to go down to lake charles w/ a friend of mine out to some of her family's land, but she got sick so that fell through. so anything exciting happening in B.R.??? nothing ever happens here. well, i guess i'm off to eat some lunch, and probably watch another old movie. oh i forgot to say i'm sorry about my last email. i had a bad day that day and i think the beginning of it was kinda harsh, i did not want it to come out that way, i meant for it to be sarcastic. however, that is really hard to do on a computer. i hope i did not upset you, that was the last thing i wanted to do. hope to hear back from you soon. Ashleigh I only saw this girl for two days when she was down. She lives like four hours away, and it's not like a long distance thing would work anyway. I'm going to have to start screening women I guess. Jeremy L. Falcon Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
"It was a blind man who taught me how to see." - AerosmithLet her down easy. Tell her you could never seriously commit to anyone willing to have sex on a first date.
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Let her down easy. Tell her you could never seriously commit to anyone willing to have sex on a first date.
Ahhh, I like that, and it's true! What more could you ask for? :) Jeremy L. Falcon Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
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You'll continue to get yourself into these messes if you continue to behave this way. A friend of mine who use to get a lot of one night stands had an awesome trick for dumping the girls after the event. He'd tell them "I feel so bad now that we did this, what will my girlfriend [ insert ficticious name ] think if she finds out.? " I'm sure there are other tricks for doing it, pretty similar to picking chicks up. But to let her remotly believe there is a chance of a relationship is bad, and one day you'll run into one of those psychotic type chicks that will chop your penis off. Regardz Colin J Davies
Sonork ID 100.9197:Colin
More about me :-)
Colin Davies wrote: But to let her remotly believe there is a chance of a relationship is bad I agree. I'm not out to hurt people’s feelings, etc. I'm out to have fun. If she would've started talking about that crap beforehand, I wouldn’t have brought her home. This chick obviously needs a reality check because I never told her anything about a friggin' relationship. Jeremy L. Falcon Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
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You saw the title and have been warned! If you do not understand my way of life, then save your breath because I've heard all there is you'd have to say. Anyway... I enjoy being a player in training. I'm still a novice, but I'm getting better at it. Well, a new lesson I have learned... never give a chick your email address. Dammit! Some chick - friend of a friend - came down for the weekend a couple of weeks ago. She wanted it, and I wanted it (duh, I'm a guy). So we fucked, but it wasn't until afterwards she mentioned anything other than sex. I gave her my email because she was like, "am I going to see you again?" I didn't want to be mean, so I told her (I figured it was better than my phone number!). I never wanted a damn "relationship". I only talked to her once since, and I keep on getting crap like this now: hey man, how is everything going?? this past week has been horrible for me, but i think things will get better soon i hope! i thought about you the other day, i was at work and we were leaving to go to CPR training when some one told another person that they looked spiffy and i could not help but giggle b/c i thought about when i told you the same thing. then the conversation at work turned toward how no one uses that word anymore. it was so weird since that was the same convo we had.... but anyway. blah, i'm so bored. my roommate and i have watched movies all weekend, i was supposed to go down to lake charles w/ a friend of mine out to some of her family's land, but she got sick so that fell through. so anything exciting happening in B.R.??? nothing ever happens here. well, i guess i'm off to eat some lunch, and probably watch another old movie. oh i forgot to say i'm sorry about my last email. i had a bad day that day and i think the beginning of it was kinda harsh, i did not want it to come out that way, i meant for it to be sarcastic. however, that is really hard to do on a computer. i hope i did not upset you, that was the last thing i wanted to do. hope to hear back from you soon. Ashleigh I only saw this girl for two days when she was down. She lives like four hours away, and it's not like a long distance thing would work anyway. I'm going to have to start screening women I guess. Jeremy L. Falcon Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
"It was a blind man who taught me how to see." - AerosmithYou will die lonely and alone. Christian I am completely intolerant of stupidity. Stupidity is, of course, anything that doesn't conform to my way of thinking. - Jamie Hale - 29/05/2002
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You saw the title and have been warned! If you do not understand my way of life, then save your breath because I've heard all there is you'd have to say. Anyway... I enjoy being a player in training. I'm still a novice, but I'm getting better at it. Well, a new lesson I have learned... never give a chick your email address. Dammit! Some chick - friend of a friend - came down for the weekend a couple of weeks ago. She wanted it, and I wanted it (duh, I'm a guy). So we fucked, but it wasn't until afterwards she mentioned anything other than sex. I gave her my email because she was like, "am I going to see you again?" I didn't want to be mean, so I told her (I figured it was better than my phone number!). I never wanted a damn "relationship". I only talked to her once since, and I keep on getting crap like this now: hey man, how is everything going?? this past week has been horrible for me, but i think things will get better soon i hope! i thought about you the other day, i was at work and we were leaving to go to CPR training when some one told another person that they looked spiffy and i could not help but giggle b/c i thought about when i told you the same thing. then the conversation at work turned toward how no one uses that word anymore. it was so weird since that was the same convo we had.... but anyway. blah, i'm so bored. my roommate and i have watched movies all weekend, i was supposed to go down to lake charles w/ a friend of mine out to some of her family's land, but she got sick so that fell through. so anything exciting happening in B.R.??? nothing ever happens here. well, i guess i'm off to eat some lunch, and probably watch another old movie. oh i forgot to say i'm sorry about my last email. i had a bad day that day and i think the beginning of it was kinda harsh, i did not want it to come out that way, i meant for it to be sarcastic. however, that is really hard to do on a computer. i hope i did not upset you, that was the last thing i wanted to do. hope to hear back from you soon. Ashleigh I only saw this girl for two days when she was down. She lives like four hours away, and it's not like a long distance thing would work anyway. I'm going to have to start screening women I guess. Jeremy L. Falcon Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
"It was a blind man who taught me how to see." - AerosmithYou seen 'Fatal Attraction'. I hope you don't have a bunny :-D Michael :-) "Eureka" is Greek for "This bath is too hot"
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You will die lonely and alone. Christian I am completely intolerant of stupidity. Stupidity is, of course, anything that doesn't conform to my way of thinking. - Jamie Hale - 29/05/2002
Christian Graus wrote: You will die lonely and alone. Don't you just love those messages with cheerful undertones? :) I really do appreciate your thoughts because for some reason you're one of the few people I respect. You have to look at it like this. I spent the majority of my adolescence being lonely and alone (many reasons). The typical girl has her "fun" stage and then settles down after she's been plowed more times than a wheat field. When I was looking for serious before, I was trampled. Now, it's the other way around. But, I'm not even trying to be "mean." The damn woman lied to me about just wanting to have sex. Women are superficial anyway (at least the ones I've met), and don't love for the right reasons. So what's the point? Just look at how much emphasis they put on crap like make-up and hair. When I was overweight the best I could do was get a chick (Kellie) in my room, but all we did was talk about how she thinks god is a woman! :wtf: I'm being true to myself. I'm whole by myself, and I don't need a steady relationship to be happy. In fact, one would stop me from achieving my goals in life because the chick would want too much of my time. Jeremy L. Falcon Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
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Christian Graus wrote: You will die lonely and alone. Don't you just love those messages with cheerful undertones? :) I really do appreciate your thoughts because for some reason you're one of the few people I respect. You have to look at it like this. I spent the majority of my adolescence being lonely and alone (many reasons). The typical girl has her "fun" stage and then settles down after she's been plowed more times than a wheat field. When I was looking for serious before, I was trampled. Now, it's the other way around. But, I'm not even trying to be "mean." The damn woman lied to me about just wanting to have sex. Women are superficial anyway (at least the ones I've met), and don't love for the right reasons. So what's the point? Just look at how much emphasis they put on crap like make-up and hair. When I was overweight the best I could do was get a chick (Kellie) in my room, but all we did was talk about how she thinks god is a woman! :wtf: I'm being true to myself. I'm whole by myself, and I don't need a steady relationship to be happy. In fact, one would stop me from achieving my goals in life because the chick would want too much of my time. Jeremy L. Falcon Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
"It was a blind man who taught me how to see." - AerosmithJeremy Falcon wrote: Don't you just love those messages with cheerful undertones? My arms were sore, which is why I was brief. Hell, my arms are ALWAYS sore. Jeremy Falcon wrote: I spent the majority of my adolescence being lonely and alone (many reasons). There's a club for that. It's called the human race, minus a few jocks and cheerleaders, and they are too stupid to know better. I feel sorry for such people, because high school is the best they will be in their entire life. Jeremy Falcon wrote: The typical girl has her "fun" stage and then settles down after she's been plowed more times than a wheat field. Yuck. Any woman who should come with a health warning is best avoided IMO. Jeremy Falcon wrote: But, I'm not even trying to be "mean." The damn woman lied to me about just wanting to have sex. I didn't mean to imply you were trying to be mean. Jeremy Falcon wrote: Women are superficial anyway (at least the ones I've met), and don't love for the right reasons. So what's the point? Just look at how much emphasis they put on crap like make-up and hair. When I was overweight the best I could do was get a chick (Kellie) in my room, but all we did was talk about how she thinks god is a woman! It's pretty clear then that you're looking in the wrong places, doncha think ? Kellie sounds a hoot though !!! Jeremy Falcon wrote: I'm whole by myself, and I don't need a steady relationship to be happy. My point is that unless you grow past a stage of scoring sex with strangers, you're likely to find your ability to do so lessens with age and you will end up wishing you had made different choices. Well, to be honest, that's me judging you by how I look at life, but I don't see how else it can work in the long run. However, I'd be happy to admit I probably was more family oriented than a lot of folks are at your age. Hell, who am I to talk about this ? I've had sex with two people, and I had married both of them. Christian I am completely intolerant of stupidity. Stupidity is, of course, anything that doesn't conform to my way of thinking. - Jamie Hale - 29/05/2002
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Jeremy Falcon wrote: Don't you just love those messages with cheerful undertones? My arms were sore, which is why I was brief. Hell, my arms are ALWAYS sore. Jeremy Falcon wrote: I spent the majority of my adolescence being lonely and alone (many reasons). There's a club for that. It's called the human race, minus a few jocks and cheerleaders, and they are too stupid to know better. I feel sorry for such people, because high school is the best they will be in their entire life. Jeremy Falcon wrote: The typical girl has her "fun" stage and then settles down after she's been plowed more times than a wheat field. Yuck. Any woman who should come with a health warning is best avoided IMO. Jeremy Falcon wrote: But, I'm not even trying to be "mean." The damn woman lied to me about just wanting to have sex. I didn't mean to imply you were trying to be mean. Jeremy Falcon wrote: Women are superficial anyway (at least the ones I've met), and don't love for the right reasons. So what's the point? Just look at how much emphasis they put on crap like make-up and hair. When I was overweight the best I could do was get a chick (Kellie) in my room, but all we did was talk about how she thinks god is a woman! It's pretty clear then that you're looking in the wrong places, doncha think ? Kellie sounds a hoot though !!! Jeremy Falcon wrote: I'm whole by myself, and I don't need a steady relationship to be happy. My point is that unless you grow past a stage of scoring sex with strangers, you're likely to find your ability to do so lessens with age and you will end up wishing you had made different choices. Well, to be honest, that's me judging you by how I look at life, but I don't see how else it can work in the long run. However, I'd be happy to admit I probably was more family oriented than a lot of folks are at your age. Hell, who am I to talk about this ? I've had sex with two people, and I had married both of them. Christian I am completely intolerant of stupidity. Stupidity is, of course, anything that doesn't conform to my way of thinking. - Jamie Hale - 29/05/2002
Christian Graus wrote: minus a few jocks and cheerleaders, and they are too stupid to know better. I feel sorry for such people, because high school is the best they will be in their entire life. Psst! Is now the best time to remind you I played football in high school? :) But, in general, you are correct. Most of my old football buddies aren't doing so well these days. Christian Graus wrote: Yuck. Any woman who should come with a health warning is best avoided IMO. LOL Christian Graus wrote: Well, to be honest, that's me judging you by how I look at life Everyone has his or her own ideas about so many things. I have my mine and you have yours. In the end, who's to say what's right and wrong definitively? Accepting the differences is about the best we can do. Jeremy L. Falcon Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
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Christian Graus wrote: minus a few jocks and cheerleaders, and they are too stupid to know better. I feel sorry for such people, because high school is the best they will be in their entire life. Psst! Is now the best time to remind you I played football in high school? :) But, in general, you are correct. Most of my old football buddies aren't doing so well these days. Christian Graus wrote: Yuck. Any woman who should come with a health warning is best avoided IMO. LOL Christian Graus wrote: Well, to be honest, that's me judging you by how I look at life Everyone has his or her own ideas about so many things. I have my mine and you have yours. In the end, who's to say what's right and wrong definitively? Accepting the differences is about the best we can do. Jeremy L. Falcon Homepage : Sonork = 100.16311
"It was a blind man who taught me how to see." - AerosmithJeremy Falcon wrote: Psst! Is now the best time to remind you I played football in high school? *grin* You were obviously more than that though, or you would not be here. Jeremy Falcon wrote: Accepting the differences is about the best we can do. You're right, of course. Christian I am completely intolerant of stupidity. Stupidity is, of course, anything that doesn't conform to my way of thinking. - Jamie Hale - 29/05/2002
