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  • M Matthew Faithfull

    Marriage is a unique institution; it was not invented by man but by God and as such all debate about redefining it is moot. None of use own the definition so none of us can change it. We can lie to ourselves and attempt to exceed our authority but it makes no difference. You are married if God considers yo married and not if he considers you not and that's an end of it. Anyone who wants to invent some other form of union or statute or institution can do so if they have the power but it is not marriage.

    Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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    Matthew Faithfull wrote:

    Marriage is a unique institution; it was not invented by man but by God

    Yes, thats why animals get married too.

    Morality is indistinguishable from social proscription

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    • M Matthew Faithfull

      Marriage is a unique institution; it was not invented by man but by God and as such all debate about redefining it is moot. None of use own the definition so none of us can change it. We can lie to ourselves and attempt to exceed our authority but it makes no difference. You are married if God considers yo married and not if he considers you not and that's an end of it. Anyone who wants to invent some other form of union or statute or institution can do so if they have the power but it is not marriage.

      Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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      R Giskard Reventlov
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      Quick, pass the sick bag: that is the largest sack of bullshit I've read so far. Are you actually married? Do you have a clue? Who the hell are you to impose your beliefs on other people? There is no god: marriage is a man made institution and is an arbitrary (and temporary) union of 2 people for whatever reasons they deemed fit at the time they decided to do it. You need to get off that high horse before you fall off.

      bin the spin home

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      • O Oakman

        Marriage isn't about the government saying its okay to fuck any more. It certainly isn't about God saying its okay to fuck. The only sane reason for a marriage to exist is that it is a legal binding together of two people in an economic partnership for the purpose of raising kids.

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        But it does bring up the broader issue of whether or not we are a culture in any meaningful sense of that word and what institutions within our society should have some degree of authority to define the parameters of that culture. Marriage is about as fundamental to the definition of 'culture' as there is. To maintain that marriage is whatever any two, or more, individuals say it is, and that the rest of us have no option but to accept such associations is to say that we are not a culture in any way at all. I have no problem with such an open, cultureless, society as long as one of the other principles of that society is that I am free to discriminate against any part of it I like, in whatever way I like for whatever reason I like. But if I can be forced by the very same government which is not supposed to define marriage to accept whatever bizarre forms of marriage get created, than what is the difference in that and just leaving society the way it is and force marriage to remain between a man and a woman? Either way, the government is imposing itself upon the definitions of culture.

        Please excuse my refusal to participate in the suicide of western civilization

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        • M Matthew Faithfull

          Marriage is a unique institution; it was not invented by man but by God and as such all debate about redefining it is moot. None of use own the definition so none of us can change it. We can lie to ourselves and attempt to exceed our authority but it makes no difference. You are married if God considers yo married and not if he considers you not and that's an end of it. Anyone who wants to invent some other form of union or statute or institution can do so if they have the power but it is not marriage.

          Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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          Matthew Faithfull wrote:

          Marriage is a unique institution

          The rest is nonsense.

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          • R R Giskard Reventlov

            Quick, pass the sick bag: that is the largest sack of bullshit I've read so far. Are you actually married? Do you have a clue? Who the hell are you to impose your beliefs on other people? There is no god: marriage is a man made institution and is an arbitrary (and temporary) union of 2 people for whatever reasons they deemed fit at the time they decided to do it. You need to get off that high horse before you fall off.

            bin the spin home

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            Matthew Faithfull
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            Sorry mate, I never got on it. I'm simply reporting the facts, not asserting them on my own authority, has nothing to do with my personal experience, or in fact with me at all. I'm not imposing anything, God is by virtue of being God. You invent the concept of foobulbar then you own it, you get to say what is and isn't foobulbar and when and where it applies. If I come and along and disagree then it doesn't change anything, it's not my concept to change. How much more so with God who's concepts determine the very fabric and operation of the universe. Trying to redefine marriage is like trying to redefine causality, a futile exercise in self agrandisement and self delusion.

            Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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            • R R Giskard Reventlov

              Joe wrote:

              Give a man a fish, he'll eat for a day. Teach a man how to fish, he'll eat for lifetime.

              Show him where Tesco is and he doesn't have to sit in the cold by a river all day.

              bin the spin home

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              digital man wrote:

              Show him where Tesco is and he doesn't have to sit in the cold by a river all day.

              Show him France and the government will feed him for free.


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                Matthew Faithfull wrote:

                Marriage is a unique institution

                The rest is nonsense.

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                Matthew Faithfull
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                You are of course welcome to have an opinion even if, as in this case, it has no apparent basis in fact or reason. :)

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                • M Matthew Faithfull

                  You are of course welcome to have an opinion even if, as in this case, it has no apparent basis in fact or reason. :)

                  Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                  Matthew, if you wish to accept ancient biblical writings as the basis for your belief, then do so. Not everybody accepts those ancient biblical writings as fact.

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                    Matthew, if you wish to accept ancient biblical writings as the basis for your belief, then do so. Not everybody accepts those ancient biblical writings as fact.

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                    Matthew Faithfull
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                    Absolutely, although the logical implication of my accepting something that says it is the truth and everyone should believe it is that I believe that everyone else should believe it too. If I didn't believe that I would be at least a self contradictory hypocrite whatever the fashionable meta-belief system of the time says about 'imposing' ones beliefs. In other words pretending not to actually believe what I believe is against my religion ( and also objectively irrational ) even if it is the only acceptable behaviour in current society. :)

                    Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                    • M Matthew Faithfull

                      Sorry mate, I never got on it. I'm simply reporting the facts, not asserting them on my own authority, has nothing to do with my personal experience, or in fact with me at all. I'm not imposing anything, God is by virtue of being God. You invent the concept of foobulbar then you own it, you get to say what is and isn't foobulbar and when and where it applies. If I come and along and disagree then it doesn't change anything, it's not my concept to change. How much more so with God who's concepts determine the very fabric and operation of the universe. Trying to redefine marriage is like trying to redefine causality, a futile exercise in self agrandisement and self delusion.

                      Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                      R Giskard Reventlov
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                      Damnation: replied to you a while back and it hasn't stuck. Must be gods fault. In any case I like marriage so much I keep doing it and you can't use the word 'facts' and 'god' in the same sentence. There is no connection between the 2. Unless and until you can prove the existence of your god please keep it to yourself: you don't hear me ramming my atheism down people's throats at every opportunity: it's as boring as your theism is. Actually, one thing I don't get is let's say you can prove the existence of your god (and I accept it) why do you feel the need to worship it? Is your god so mentally feeble that it requires the prostrations of mere men to make it feel worthwhile? Seems a bit weak to me.

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                      • M Matthew Faithfull

                        Absolutely, although the logical implication of my accepting something that says it is the truth and everyone should believe it is that I believe that everyone else should believe it too. If I didn't believe that I would be at least a self contradictory hypocrite whatever the fashionable meta-belief system of the time says about 'imposing' ones beliefs. In other words pretending not to actually believe what I believe is against my religion ( and also objectively irrational ) even if it is the only acceptable behaviour in current society. :)

                        Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                        Matthew Faithfull wrote:

                        that I believe that everyone else should believe it too

                        Shout it from the rooftops if you so wish. But I will be deaf to your words of wisdom. Since the masses learned how to read and write, they are no longer dependent upon the local vicar's pontifications. We are no longer the ill-educated that can be led by the nose blindly towards a particular belief or religious viewpoint.

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                        • R R Giskard Reventlov

                          Damnation: replied to you a while back and it hasn't stuck. Must be gods fault. In any case I like marriage so much I keep doing it and you can't use the word 'facts' and 'god' in the same sentence. There is no connection between the 2. Unless and until you can prove the existence of your god please keep it to yourself: you don't hear me ramming my atheism down people's throats at every opportunity: it's as boring as your theism is. Actually, one thing I don't get is let's say you can prove the existence of your god (and I accept it) why do you feel the need to worship it? Is your god so mentally feeble that it requires the prostrations of mere men to make it feel worthwhile? Seems a bit weak to me.

                          bin the spin home

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                          Matthew Faithfull
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                          digital man wrote:

                          you don't hear me ramming my atheism down people's throats

                          Strangely that's exactly how your post with statements like

                          digital man wrote:

                          Unless and until you can prove the existence of your god please keep it to yourself

                          comes across. You place your acceptance or otherwise of an argument you demand from me above my right to express what I believe and even above any evidence. This is classic atheism by false assumptions, e.g. my understanding defines reality. God is defined by my understanding of the concept of God. All anthropomorphic projections of my self onto my concept of God are valid and override your understanding of God to the point of being assumable be your opinion. What these all ammount to is the unacknowledged false belief summed up as 'I am God and will accept no rivals', otherwise known as the original sin. None of this is unusual or unexpected, most people hold the same position you do. They are all equally wrong, none of them is God either. :)

                          Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                            Matthew Faithfull wrote:

                            that I believe that everyone else should believe it too

                            Shout it from the rooftops if you so wish. But I will be deaf to your words of wisdom. Since the masses learned how to read and write, they are no longer dependent upon the local vicar's pontifications. We are no longer the ill-educated that can be led by the nose blindly towards a particular belief or religious viewpoint.

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                            Matthew Faithfull
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                            Richard A. Abbott wrote:

                            Shout it from the rooftops if you so wish.

                            Thank you, I will.

                            Richard A. Abbott wrote:

                            But I will be deaf to your words of wisdom.

                            Sadly true as without the spirit of God no one is capable of faith.

                            Richard A. Abbott wrote:

                            Since the masses learned how to read and write, they are no longer dependent upon the local vicar's pontifications. We are no longer the ill-educated that can be led by the nose blindly towards a particular belief or religious viewpoint.

                            This carries the tacit assumption that all such belief and religious viewpoints are false and therefore less likely to be accepted by more educated people. Of course if one such belief or viewpoint were in fact to be true then all good education would only increase the level of acceptance of it. In fact as the fundamental truth all good education would be based on it. Perhaps this is why most of that drive to educate that you identify as having occured was originally led and promoted by Christians, even the predecessors of very vicars you disagree with.

                            Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                              digital man wrote:

                              Show him where Tesco is and he doesn't have to sit in the cold by a river all day.

                              Show him France and the government will feed him for free.


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                              Frogs and wine? :-D

                              -- Kein Mitleid Für Die Mehrheit

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                              • M Matthew Faithfull

                                digital man wrote:

                                you don't hear me ramming my atheism down people's throats

                                Strangely that's exactly how your post with statements like

                                digital man wrote:

                                Unless and until you can prove the existence of your god please keep it to yourself

                                comes across. You place your acceptance or otherwise of an argument you demand from me above my right to express what I believe and even above any evidence. This is classic atheism by false assumptions, e.g. my understanding defines reality. God is defined by my understanding of the concept of God. All anthropomorphic projections of my self onto my concept of God are valid and override your understanding of God to the point of being assumable be your opinion. What these all ammount to is the unacknowledged false belief summed up as 'I am God and will accept no rivals', otherwise known as the original sin. None of this is unusual or unexpected, most people hold the same position you do. They are all equally wrong, none of them is God either. :)

                                Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                                R Giskard Reventlov
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                                Err, you started it, I just asked some questions. Deflection and ibfuscation are the cornerstone of, well, you. The are no false assumptions in atheism since there were none to hold in the first place: only theism makes assumptions about their gods. Actually I am god. Prove me wrong.

                                bin the spin home

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                                • R R Giskard Reventlov

                                  Err, you started it, I just asked some questions. Deflection and ibfuscation are the cornerstone of, well, you. The are no false assumptions in atheism since there were none to hold in the first place: only theism makes assumptions about their gods. Actually I am god. Prove me wrong.

                                  bin the spin home

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                                  Matthew Faithfull
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                                  digital man wrote:

                                  The are no false assumptions in atheism since there were none to hold in the first place

                                  That statement proves itself wrong, no further evidence of your lack of Godhood is required.

                                  Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                                  • R R Giskard Reventlov

                                    What utter nonsense. People get married for all sorts of reasons and they are not always religious in nature and not everyone who gets married is Hindu or even believes in a god. And then the bitch leaves and... oh shit, wrong thread... :laugh:

                                    bin the spin home

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                                    Vikram A Punathambekar
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                                    Well said. :laugh:

                                    Cheers, Vikram.


                                    Zeppelin's law: In any Soapbox discussion involving Stan Shannon, the probability of the term "leftist" or "Marxist" appearing approaches 1 monotonically. Harris' addendum: I think you meant "monotonously". Martin's second addendum: Jeffersonian... I think that should at least get a mention.

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                                      Frogs and wine? :-D

                                      -- Kein Mitleid Für Die Mehrheit

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                                      Heh. Yes. Actually, the French food is good. Some of the people...well...not so good. There are, of course, exceptions.


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                                      • M Matthew Faithfull

                                        digital man wrote:

                                        The are no false assumptions in atheism since there were none to hold in the first place

                                        That statement proves itself wrong, no further evidence of your lack of Godhood is required.

                                        Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                                        Matthew Faithfull wrote:

                                        That statement proves itself wrong, no further evidence of your lack of Godhood is required.

                                        Personally I wouldn't want to be a god: all that charging around creating and destroying shit and then having these billions of annoying little meat-bags harping at every little thing I do for them. Or don't do for them. There's no pleasing some species. It's not like some of them have the sense to think for themselves, oh no. It's just God this and God that... I didn't mean to stop you thinking; you can't just believe in me 'cos you're scared of reality or it's easier than thinking about things that really only I, as your god, should think about. Besides, when was the last time I bothered to show up for a wedding or funeral? What sort of an unfeeling brute am I? Oh, and the marriage thing. It was a joke: I told JC to tell you but in all furore it slipped his mind. Bummer.

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                                        • R R Giskard Reventlov

                                          Matthew Faithfull wrote:

                                          That statement proves itself wrong, no further evidence of your lack of Godhood is required.

                                          Personally I wouldn't want to be a god: all that charging around creating and destroying shit and then having these billions of annoying little meat-bags harping at every little thing I do for them. Or don't do for them. There's no pleasing some species. It's not like some of them have the sense to think for themselves, oh no. It's just God this and God that... I didn't mean to stop you thinking; you can't just believe in me 'cos you're scared of reality or it's easier than thinking about things that really only I, as your god, should think about. Besides, when was the last time I bothered to show up for a wedding or funeral? What sort of an unfeeling brute am I? Oh, and the marriage thing. It was a joke: I told JC to tell you but in all furore it slipped his mind. Bummer.

                                          bin the spin home

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                                          Matthew Faithfull
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                                          There you go again not only imposing your beliefs on others (against your creed if not mine), even God, and making the very assumptions you've just denied making. :doh: Lets for one moment assume you're entirely correct. The logical consequence of that (as your statements are contrary to themselves) is that we live in an irrational and inconsistent universe about which nothing can therefore be known. Either this is ture in which case you don't even definitely exist and neither does this thread or it's false in which case you're wrong. That's the problem with logic, if you believe in it you just can't stop using it and if you don't it's just meaningless to you. :)

                                          Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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