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  • M Matthew Faithfull

    Oakman wrote:

    as sure of his redemption as you are of yours; as positive that he walked in God's grace, as you are

    You may assert this but it is unknowable.

    Oakman wrote:

    others who said the same thing.

    I doubt they said the same things, or meant them if they did. Regardless, "by their deeds you shall know them", just because someone like Torquemada may have known the truth or spoken it unknowingly does not lessen the value of the truth itself. Is house painting unacceptable because it was Hitlers profession? No

    Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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    Tim Craig
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    Matthew Faithfull wrote:

    You may assert this but it is unknowable.

    You use this argument a lot. But it always seems to be when someone rubs your nose in something you can't support. On the other hand, you seem to "know" everything.

    Doing my part to piss off the religious right.

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    • S Stan Shannon

      led mike wrote:

      Ah yes the old circular logic ploy, how novel and intellectual of you.

      Says the man who claims that men are only truly free when they are butt fucking one another.

      Please excuse my refusal to participate in the suicide of western civilization

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      Stan Shannon wrote:

      Says the man who claims that men are only truly free when they are butt f***ing one another.

      Geez, Stan. What is it with you and butt fucking? Get over it. No one is interested in your scrawney red necked ass. You're safe! :laugh:

      Doing my part to piss off the religious right.

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      • T Tim Craig

        Matthew Faithfull wrote:

        You may assert this but it is unknowable.

        You use this argument a lot. But it always seems to be when someone rubs your nose in something you can't support. On the other hand, you seem to "know" everything.

        Doing my part to piss off the religious right.

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        Matthew Faithfull
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        You don't like my argument but fail to say anything to undermine in. Oakmans invocation of a historical figure who he CLAIMS would support my opinions is a straw man. Mai Zedong or Pol Pot might support his opinions or even Dr Crippen, so what. It is a non argument so my nose is just fine thankyou. Hmm, 2 minutes ago I was 'ignorant' now I 'seem to "know" everything'. Keep up the consistent debating line Tim it's really making an impact. :-D

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        • M Matthew Faithfull

          Yes, it shows that you have an inadequate understanding of even my limited and partial understanding of God. It also shows that you have unacknowledged domain errors in your thinking which is probably why you make so little sense. God is exceptional by virtue of being God. If you can't spot the exceptionality of a definition that is fundamentally unique then you need a holdiay or brain reboot or something.

          Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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          Tim Craig
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          Matthew Faithfull wrote:

          it shows that you have an inadequate understanding of even my limited and partial understanding of God.

          So you admit you don't understand. So what gives you the balls to tell us that our understanding isn't better than yours? :suss:

          Doing my part to piss off the religious right.

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            Matthew Faithfull wrote:

            it shows that you have an inadequate understanding of even my limited and partial understanding of God.

            So you admit you don't understand. So what gives you the balls to tell us that our understanding isn't better than yours? :suss:

            Doing my part to piss off the religious right.

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            Matthew Faithfull
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            Tim Craig wrote:

            So what gives you the balls

            Nothing to do with balls, any claim to define or completely understand God is patently false and based on an inadequate original concept. Any concept of God that is small and pathetic even compared to mine is clearly lesser and therfore false, God is not less than my concept of him but infinitely more.

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            • M Matthew Faithfull

              Tim Craig wrote:

              So what gives you the balls

              Nothing to do with balls, any claim to define or completely understand God is patently false and based on an inadequate original concept. Any concept of God that is small and pathetic even compared to mine is clearly lesser and therfore false, God is not less than my concept of him but infinitely more.

              Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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              Tim Craig
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              Matthew Faithfull wrote:

              Any concept of God that is small and pathetic even compared to mine is clearly lesser and therfore false

              :laugh:

              Doing my part to piss off the religious right.

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              • M Matthew Faithfull

                You don't like my argument but fail to say anything to undermine in. Oakmans invocation of a historical figure who he CLAIMS would support my opinions is a straw man. Mai Zedong or Pol Pot might support his opinions or even Dr Crippen, so what. It is a non argument so my nose is just fine thankyou. Hmm, 2 minutes ago I was 'ignorant' now I 'seem to "know" everything'. Keep up the consistent debating line Tim it's really making an impact. :-D

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                Tim Craig
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                Matthew Faithfull wrote:

                Keep up the consistent debating line Tim it's really making an impact.

                I don't expect to make an impact on you. That's a hopeless cause. I just want to be in your face so you dont' think silence is agreement. And maybe some poor sod who is just making up his mind may see you exposed for what you are.

                Doing my part to piss off the religious right.

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                • T Tim Craig

                  Matthew Faithfull wrote:

                  Keep up the consistent debating line Tim it's really making an impact.

                  I don't expect to make an impact on you. That's a hopeless cause. I just want to be in your face so you dont' think silence is agreement. And maybe some poor sod who is just making up his mind may see you exposed for what you are.

                  Doing my part to piss off the religious right.

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                  Matthew Faithfull
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                  Expose away. As long as you keep attacking the messenger and not the message anyone reading the debate is bound to agree with you right :laugh:

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                  • M Matthew Faithfull

                    Expose away. As long as you keep attacking the messenger and not the message anyone reading the debate is bound to agree with you right :laugh:

                    Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                    Tim Craig
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                    Matthew Faithfull wrote:

                    As long as you keep attacking the messenger and not the message

                    Well, when the messenger is the message, it's all the same.

                    Doing my part to piss off the religious right.

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                    • O Oakman

                      Stan Shannon wrote:

                      Hence the famous battle cry

                      That's all you got? I guess you just ran out of trash talk, huh?

                      Jon Smith & Wesson: The original point and click interface

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                      Stan Shannon
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                      Thats all your comment warrented. We currently live in the society that hundreds of thousands of young men sacrificed their lives to acheive, and that society has elevated sexual liberty to a status of fundamental freedom on a par and even exceeding that of our traditional rights - speech, religion, the press. This is what they were fighting for. Providing a list of famous perverts is hardly an intelligent reply.

                      Please excuse my refusal to participate in the suicide of western civilization

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                        Stan Shannon wrote:

                        Says the man who claims that men are only truly free when they are butt f***ing one another.

                        Geez, Stan. What is it with you and butt fucking? Get over it. No one is interested in your scrawney red necked ass. You're safe! :laugh:

                        Doing my part to piss off the religious right.

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                        Stan Shannon
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                        Thanks. Comments such as that always indicate that I'm winning the argument.

                        Please excuse my refusal to participate in the suicide of western civilization

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                        • T Tim Craig

                          Oakman wrote:

                          Tim & I

                          Oh, damn. Drag me into this. :laugh:

                          Doing my part to piss off the religious right.

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                          Oakman
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                          Tim Craig wrote:

                          Oh, damn. Drag me into this

                          We're gonna fight him till the last ounce of your blood!

                          Jon Smith & Wesson: The original point and click interface

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                            Thats all your comment warrented. We currently live in the society that hundreds of thousands of young men sacrificed their lives to acheive, and that society has elevated sexual liberty to a status of fundamental freedom on a par and even exceeding that of our traditional rights - speech, religion, the press. This is what they were fighting for. Providing a list of famous perverts is hardly an intelligent reply.

                            Please excuse my refusal to participate in the suicide of western civilization

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                            Oakman
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                            Stan Shannon wrote:

                            hundreds of thousands of young men sacrificed their lives to acheive,

                            Yep and at tens of thousands of which were gay. You think they weren't hoping that that they could become first class citizens?

                            Stan Shannon wrote:

                            Providing a list of famous perverts is hardly an intelligent reply.

                            lets see, you don't like Indians, Blacks, homosexuals, people to the left of Richard Nixon - how do you feel about Asians?

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                            • O Oakman

                              Stan Shannon wrote:

                              But if the only way was to peek in the window, that would be a direct violation of explicitely stated constitutional protections. Thats the way the system is supposed to work.

                              Ah but once you have passed a law making sodomy illegal, all you have to do is get a warrant and you can peep all night long. :cool:

                              Jon Smith & Wesson: The original point and click interface

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                              That reminds me of the old SA, in the 70's, where police went to great lengths to catch people of different races having sex.

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                                That reminds me of the old SA, in the 70's, where police went to great lengths to catch people of different races having sex.

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                                Oakman
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                                The first time the Supreme Court got involved in determining whether state marriage laws were constitutional was when they struck down Virginia's anti-miscegenation law. A black and a white who had married elsewhere were being forced to leave the state or face jail. Stan, of course, regards this as a clear case of fascist judicial interference with the rights of the majority to oppress the minority.

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                                • M Matthew Faithfull

                                  It's right there in the early chapters of Genesis, a man will leave his parents and be joined to his wife, they will become one flesh. I don't have it in front of me. This is the basis and orgination of marriage. The ceremony and state recognition and everything we have added on top is simply an acknowledgement of a fact already recognised by God.

                                  Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                                  Brady Kelly
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                                  That seems more like an observation of a very natural and probable phenomenon.

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                                    yeah, all five of 'em.

                                    Please excuse my refusal to participate in the suicide of western civilization

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                                    oilFactotum
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                                    Stan Shannon wrote:

                                    yeah,

                                    Good to see you recognize that Fascism is authoritarianism of the right.

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                                      That seems more like an observation of a very natural and probable phenomenon.

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                                      Matthew Faithfull
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                                      Indeed, until you consider that all natural phenomena are the creation of God, including probability. This was God saying how it would be, not describing what already was. The same God who spoke the universe into existence. His words carry the authority of law, as in a law of nature. This is not of course to deny that both man and nature are fallen, see Genesis 3.

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                                      • T Tim Craig

                                        BoneSoft wrote:

                                        And it assumes they're all spiteful and vindictive. Which should be obviously silly to try to assert.

                                        Hey, if the foo shits..... :laugh:

                                        Doing my part to piss off the religious right.

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                                        BoneSoft
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                                        OK, so you're main interest is perpetuating partisan BS. Just checking.


                                        Try code model generation tools at BoneSoft.com.

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                                        • T Tim Craig

                                          BoneSoft wrote:

                                          I dunno, live and let live I suppose.

                                          Funny how you say this but in the one case you claim it's a slippery slope and that means the line is arbitrary because you disagree with where the line should be moved and in the other it's easy to establish the line because you want it at a certain point. :doh:

                                          Doing my part to piss off the religious right.

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                                          BoneSoft
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                                          You're right, to some extent my line for capital punishment can be argued as arbitrary. But it's not quite that simple. It's very common in many cultures to feel that the punishment should fit the crime. And most people who support capital punishment only want it as a punishment for murder. So virtually anybody with an opinion on capital punishment wants it in either no situation, or only in the case of murder and severe violent crimes. Not all that arbitrary really is it. On the other hand, who should be allowed to marry isn't so black and white. Well actually it is if you have religion. But since we have this growing movement of faithless people who really want to piss on the beliefs of those who do have religion, now the age old standard has to be questioned. And only when you remove the religious context from marriage, which has probably just about always been an integral part of it, then it turns completely arbitrary. The only thing that makes the current suggestion any more logical than including polygamy or other things to come, is that it's maybe the closest next step out from the standard. So, 1) for you to claim that the current suggestion is not arbitrary, would seem to mean that it's the first step in an intentional slippery slope. In which case, you'd probably fight the slippery slope argument fervently since loosing that argument would betray your actual intent. Or, 2) despite the fact that allowing gay marriage and not polygamy is completely arbitrary, you really want gay marriage so you'll dishonestly argue that it's not arbitrary for the same reason as #1. In either case, by starting this and insisting on removing the religious context you've made it completely arbitrary. And it is arbitrary, far more so than believing that murderers should be put to death. But life is change, and personally I'm not that concerned with what other people choose to do. There are valid arguments on both sides. But sure, to some extent you could argue that any decision on any issue is arbitrary. That's just my 2 yen.


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