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  • S Stan Shannon

    led mike wrote:

    es given you believe the appropriate approach to debate has nothing to do with facts and evidence.

    I still don't have a clue what you are referring to. You seem to want proof that the hisotry you are complaining about did not exist. But if it did not exist, what do you have to complain about? You seem to want me to provide proof that what you are complaining about is true while I am agreeing with you the entire time that it was true. There really were anti-sodomy laws in a Jeffersonian society. My only question for you is, if those laws were anti-Jeffersonian how did they get there? If anti-abortion laws were anti-Jeffersonian, how did the get there? If laws against flag burning were anti-Jeffersonian, how did they get there? If laws against interracial marriage were anti-Jeffersonian, how did they get there?

    Please excuse my refusal to participate in the suicide of western civilization

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    led mike
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    The same way slavery got there, through the oppression of few for the benefit of few. It was wrong then, wrong now, period, end of story. As for citing history, the Roe decision cites common law on abortion and that abortion legislation was relatively modern. Also we already fought one war against isolationist ideals of some Americans. I guess you think you will win this time. Now you can get back to your dreams of the good old days of burning witches, inquisitions and slavery.

    led mike

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    • M Matthew Faithfull

      led mike wrote:

      Neither of us is going to change the others mind about what the founders meant by their words referencing freedom and rights, period.

      It's your perogative to be closed to argument but not to put your words in quotes next to my name, for your own sake as much as mine. You believe it

      led mike wrote:

      fits your stated logic for the other issue

      and I believe it expressly contradicts it. As it's my stated logic I think I get the benefit of the doubt on that one although I'm sure you diagree. We may not agree on an interpretation but we might agree on the consequences of a particular interpretation especially if there's enough historical data to prove it out. That might help separate a poor interpretation from a better one in terms of outcome at least. Unfortunately my knowledge of US history and internal affairs especially pre Word War 2 is non good enough to sustain such a debate.

      Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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      led mike
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      Matthew Faithfull wrote:

      and I believe it expressly contradicts it.

      I didn't say I believed it, I said I showed that it fits by changing the words. You can believe whatever you want but my replacement of words shows what it shows, period.

      Matthew Faithfull wrote:

      As it's my stated logic

      Logic is Logic, it's not yours. You made the statement in an attempt to prove something and the statement was turned against your argument, period. If your not capable of comprehending that I don't see use in further attempts at rational debate with you.

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      • S Stan Shannon

        I agree completely with that. I don't think that local communites should have such laws and I would vote against them if they were brought up anywhere that I live. I'm simply saying that as long as there is no violation of specific rights as clearly defined in the constitution the right to define their legality rest with the states and the people. The subversion of such classical liberalism is, in fact, the lingering intellectual legacy of the influence of the very philosophies which were roundly and proudly touted as being 'fascist' by the left in the first few decades of the 20th century.

        Please excuse my refusal to participate in the suicide of western civilization

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        Vincent Reynolds
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        While I disagree strongly that a philosophy rooted in Locke in any way constitutes fascism, and would argue -- and have argued -- that the ideals stated in the Declaration of Independence can and should be used as a litmus for both legislation and interpretation of the Constitution, you do make a good point.

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        • L led mike

          Matthew Faithfull wrote:

          and I believe it expressly contradicts it.

          I didn't say I believed it, I said I showed that it fits by changing the words. You can believe whatever you want but my replacement of words shows what it shows, period.

          Matthew Faithfull wrote:

          As it's my stated logic

          Logic is Logic, it's not yours. You made the statement in an attempt to prove something and the statement was turned against your argument, period. If your not capable of comprehending that I don't see use in further attempts at rational debate with you.

          led mike

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          Matthew Faithfull
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          If you can't see that replacing something true with something false invalidates a logical expression then you clearly are not capable of

          led mike wrote:

          further attempts at rational debate with you.

          Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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          • M Matthew Faithfull

            If you can't see that replacing something true with something false invalidates a logical expression then you clearly are not capable of

            led mike wrote:

            further attempts at rational debate with you.

            Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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            led mike
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            Matthew Faithfull wrote:

            with something false

            And where is your evidence proving it's false?

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            • M Matthew Faithfull

              Now that is provably false and shows once again your utter lack of understanding of the idea of anything greater than yourself.

              Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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              Ri Qen Sin
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              Because there isn't.

              So the creationist says: Everything must have a designer. God designed everything. I say: Why is God the only exception? Why not make the "designs" (like man) exceptions and make God a creation of man?

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              • M Matthew Faithfull

                Neither does it say that we are not. Atoms have been photographed and there's pretty good evidence for them, although not necessarily for the traditional model of how they work, so why wouldn't I believe in them. Spirits have also been photographed and there is far more and more evidence for them but I guess you don't believe in such things. So which of us is consistent?

                Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                Ri Qen Sin
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                Yes. I know atoms exist. No. Spirits have not been photographed. Many of them are even known to be hoaxes/fakes. The technique to make them is commonly known.

                So the creationist says: Everything must have a designer. God designed everything. I say: Why is God the only exception? Why not make the "designs" (like man) exceptions and make God a creation of man?

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                • L led mike

                  Matthew Faithfull wrote:

                  with something false

                  And where is your evidence proving it's false?

                  led mike

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                  Matthew Faithfull
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                  That is exactly what we're debating. "unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness." does not include things that are wrong. It cannot be intepretted to do so or it is meaningless as it then potentially includes everything that is right and things that are wrong and no boundary condition to prevent that including everything that is wrong, making this statment equivalent to total license which was unarguably against the principles of the founding fathers. So if they only intended to include things that are right, or possibly even a subset of things that are right if any had totalitarian leanings, which I doubt, then the question becomes did they consider same sex marriage ( a non concept but we've already had that debate elsewhere ) to be right. I think you can probably work that one out for yourself. The vital assumption in this argument as pointed out elsewhere is a belief in objective right and wrong, without which of course all debate, philosophy and frankly life, is futile. Replacing 'eating apple pie', something that can be right or wrong depending on the circumstances and is a second or third order moral issue with 'same sex marriage', a non concept that is wrong in all cases and has primary social consequences is the equivalent of rewriting e = mc^2 as e = m0^2 and claiming the two are equivalent.

                  Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                  • M Matthew Faithfull

                    These are your opinions and they are both ignorant and incorrect.

                    Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                    Ri Qen Sin
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                    Those are not opinions. Those are facts. What part is wrong?

                    So the creationist says: Everything must have a designer. God designed everything. I say: Why is God the only exception? Why not make the "designs" (like man) exceptions and make God a creation of man?

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                    • M Matthew Faithfull

                      Tim Craig wrote:

                      So what gives you the balls

                      Nothing to do with balls, any claim to define or completely understand God is patently false and based on an inadequate original concept. Any concept of God that is small and pathetic even compared to mine is clearly lesser and therfore false, God is not less than my concept of him but infinitely more.

                      Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                      Ri Qen Sin
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                      That is just your opinion; I actually make sense.

                      So the creationist says: Everything must have a designer. God designed everything. I say: Why is God the only exception? Why not make the "designs" (like man) exceptions and make God a creation of man?

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                      • M Matthew Faithfull

                        Yes, it shows that you have an inadequate understanding of even my limited and partial understanding of God. It also shows that you have unacknowledged domain errors in your thinking which is probably why you make so little sense. God is exceptional by virtue of being God. If you can't spot the exceptionality of a definition that is fundamentally unique then you need a holdiay or brain reboot or something.

                        Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                        Ri Qen Sin
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                        Just where are you getting this "understanding" of God from? …and since this is a a programming website, I'm sure you've probably encountered the term "chain of trust" somewhere (if you're into cryptography/security). How do you know that the sources of information that you draw your understanding from isn't compromised by something like… the Devil??

                        So the creationist says: Everything must have a designer. God designed everything. I say: Why is God the only exception? Why not make the "designs" (like man) exceptions and make God a creation of man?

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                        • M Matthew Faithfull

                          Indeed, until you consider that all natural phenomena are the creation of God, including probability. This was God saying how it would be, not describing what already was. The same God who spoke the universe into existence. His words carry the authority of law, as in a law of nature. This is not of course to deny that both man and nature are fallen, see Genesis 3.

                          Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                          Ri Qen Sin
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                          You just attribute everything to God, don't you?

                          So the creationist says: Everything must have a designer. God designed everything. I say: Why is God the only exception? Why not make the "designs" (like man) exceptions and make God a creation of man?

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                            Those are not opinions. Those are facts. What part is wrong?

                            So the creationist says: Everything must have a designer. God designed everything. I say: Why is God the only exception? Why not make the "designs" (like man) exceptions and make God a creation of man?

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                            Matthew Faithfull
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                            Ok as you asked, here's a rewrite with the errors reversed. Marriage is an institution invented by God not an abstract concept. It is God's opinion. If God agrees you're married, then you're married. Marriage has one definition not many. Everyone has their own definitions but they done not carry any authority. God word is law. God is not an abstract concept and certainly not subjective. God is what not you think it is, he is. That's even the name he gives himself, 'I am' If you think there is a God then you're right. Reality is the same for everyone. Everyone has their own perception of reality all of which are flawed to a greater or lesser extent. It's just that some are more delusional than others. So you see in fact that it was all wrong exceot for the last sentence which is why I didn't bother to be specific. :)

                            Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                            • R Ri Qen Sin

                              That is just your opinion; I actually make sense.

                              So the creationist says: Everything must have a designer. God designed everything. I say: Why is God the only exception? Why not make the "designs" (like man) exceptions and make God a creation of man?

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                              Matthew Faithfull
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                              Anything I say is just my opinion unless it also happens to be true. Know the truth and he will make you free. :)

                              Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                              • M Matthew Faithfull

                                Anything I say is just my opinion unless it also happens to be true. Know the truth and he will make you free. :)

                                Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                                Ri Qen Sin
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                                I know truth when I can verify it. Care to answer my unanswered post[^]?

                                So the creationist says: Everything must have a designer. God designed everything. I say: Why is God the only exception? Why not make the "designs" (like man) exceptions and make God a creation of man?

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                                • M Matthew Faithfull

                                  Ok as you asked, here's a rewrite with the errors reversed. Marriage is an institution invented by God not an abstract concept. It is God's opinion. If God agrees you're married, then you're married. Marriage has one definition not many. Everyone has their own definitions but they done not carry any authority. God word is law. God is not an abstract concept and certainly not subjective. God is what not you think it is, he is. That's even the name he gives himself, 'I am' If you think there is a God then you're right. Reality is the same for everyone. Everyone has their own perception of reality all of which are flawed to a greater or lesser extent. It's just that some are more delusional than others. So you see in fact that it was all wrong exceot for the last sentence which is why I didn't bother to be specific. :)

                                  Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                                  Ri Qen Sin
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                                  Your modified statements only hold true because you think there is a god. They do not hold true for me. Here are the problem points:

                                  • "God is what not you think it is, he is. That's even the name he gives himself, 'I am' If you think there is a God then you're right." There is an example of an individual's perception of God.
                                  • "Marriage is an institution invented by God not an abstract concept. It is God's opinion. If God agrees you're married, then you're married. Marriage has one definition not many. Everyone has their own definitions but they done not carry any authority. God word is law." —assuming that there is a God, or that the person reading it believes that's exactly what God mandates.

                                  You're not arguing from a common point of view. You're arguing with the assumption that everyone already agrees with the statements you establish.

                                  So the creationist says: Everything must have a designer. God designed everything. I say: Why is God the only exception? Why not make the "designs" (like man) exceptions and make God a creation of man?

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                                    That is exactly what we're debating. "unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness." does not include things that are wrong. It cannot be intepretted to do so or it is meaningless as it then potentially includes everything that is right and things that are wrong and no boundary condition to prevent that including everything that is wrong, making this statment equivalent to total license which was unarguably against the principles of the founding fathers. So if they only intended to include things that are right, or possibly even a subset of things that are right if any had totalitarian leanings, which I doubt, then the question becomes did they consider same sex marriage ( a non concept but we've already had that debate elsewhere ) to be right. I think you can probably work that one out for yourself. The vital assumption in this argument as pointed out elsewhere is a belief in objective right and wrong, without which of course all debate, philosophy and frankly life, is futile. Replacing 'eating apple pie', something that can be right or wrong depending on the circumstances and is a second or third order moral issue with 'same sex marriage', a non concept that is wrong in all cases and has primary social consequences is the equivalent of rewriting e = mc^2 as e = m0^2 and claiming the two are equivalent.

                                    Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                                    led mike
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                                    Matthew Faithfull wrote:

                                    Replacing 'eating apple pie', something that can be right or wrong

                                    Whew ok at least I now understand what you were saying. However you are attempting to prove your POV by claiming the dominion of right and wrong. In debate you can't just make claims you must also provide proof. You also claim the intent of our quoted unalienable rights passage, however there is not a shred of evidence that the founders were limiting freedoms to things that weren't wrong. If that was their intention why did they not write it? "Life Liberty and the pursuit of things that are right", see it's not that difficult, I'm sure they could have figured it out. The only fact in evidence is that they did not write ANYTHING OF THE SORT, period. You have no facts to support your argument, period. Your statements to this effect are unprovable and in a scored debate you would most certainly have lost for lack of providing any evidence supporting your claims.

                                    led mike

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                                    • R Ri Qen Sin

                                      Just where are you getting this "understanding" of God from? …and since this is a a programming website, I'm sure you've probably encountered the term "chain of trust" somewhere (if you're into cryptography/security). How do you know that the sources of information that you draw your understanding from isn't compromised by something like… the Devil??

                                      So the creationist says: Everything must have a designer. God designed everything. I say: Why is God the only exception? Why not make the "designs" (like man) exceptions and make God a creation of man?

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                                      Matthew Faithfull
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                                      Ri Qen-Sin wrote:

                                      Just where are you getting this "understanding" of God from?

                                      From God, what other source would be more trustworthy. He who swears by himself because there is no higher name by which to swear, who sits enthroned above the circle of the earth, who's word is like a two edge sword sharp enough to separate the soul from the marrow. There is no one like him and no other to compare to him. His word is truth, he testifies to it. The whole universe was brought into being by his word and holds together by his authority. To him the nations are but a drop in a bucket and yet he has known me and loved me since before the foundation of the world and he has humbled himself, and become a man, lived among us and suffered and died so that all the just punishment my sin deserves may be placed on him and I may be free and enter into the eternal life he is preparing for me. More than this he has defeated death through his resurection becoming the firstborn from among the dead so that I may have confidence that neither life nor death nor angels nor demons nor powers or authorities in heaven or on earth can ever separate me from the love of God. This is the good news, a summary of parts of it anyway, and if I speak with authority then that authority is not my own but is given to me for a purpose, may that purpose be fullfilled. :)

                                      Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                                      • R Ri Qen Sin

                                        You just attribute everything to God, don't you?

                                        So the creationist says: Everything must have a designer. God designed everything. I say: Why is God the only exception? Why not make the "designs" (like man) exceptions and make God a creation of man?

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                                        Matthew Faithfull
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                                        In the sense that he is the creator and ultimate source of everything, yes. Who do you attribute everything to I wonder?

                                        Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                                        • M Matthew Faithfull

                                          Ri Qen-Sin wrote:

                                          Just where are you getting this "understanding" of God from?

                                          From God, what other source would be more trustworthy. He who swears by himself because there is no higher name by which to swear, who sits enthroned above the circle of the earth, who's word is like a two edge sword sharp enough to separate the soul from the marrow. There is no one like him and no other to compare to him. His word is truth, he testifies to it. The whole universe was brought into being by his word and holds together by his authority. To him the nations are but a drop in a bucket and yet he has known me and loved me since before the foundation of the world and he has humbled himself, and become a man, lived among us and suffered and died so that all the just punishment my sin deserves may be placed on him and I may be free and enter into the eternal life he is preparing for me. More than this he has defeated death through his resurection becoming the firstborn from among the dead so that I may have confidence that neither life nor death nor angels nor demons nor powers or authorities in heaven or on earth can ever separate me from the love of God. This is the good news, a summary of parts of it anyway, and if I speak with authority then that authority is not my own but is given to me for a purpose, may that purpose be fullfilled. :)

                                          Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                                          Ri Qen Sin
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                                          That appears to be straight from the Christian Bible… I also asked how you would know you're not being fed "corrupt" information.

                                          So the creationist says: Everything must have a designer. God designed everything. I say: Why is God the only exception? Why not make the "designs" (like man) exceptions and make God a creation of man?

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