Booored...and need some tips..
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Uh..what a dull night this turned aout to be..:( So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action.:-O Any good tips...possible bad to...are much appreciated. :-D /M
- Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.
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Uh..what a dull night this turned aout to be..:( So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action.:-O Any good tips...possible bad to...are much appreciated. :-D /M
- Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.
loket wrote: So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action Well if you are desperate then it definitley won't happen. Women can smell desperation a mile away, trust me, I know! Secondly if your soul aim is to get some action, go to Amsterdam. I seriously do not see the point of taking a girl home for hot-chocolate in a cup when you really want to be licking hot-chocolate off her. Enjoy her company, enjoy her conversation. If there is action to be had, it will come. If there is no action to be had, it won't come and there is no point in trying to force the issue. Your sig is rather apt :-D loket wrote: - Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things. Just relax, be yourself and if that does not work get a ticket to Amsterdam, they don't care much about conversation. regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Alison Pentland wrote: I now have an image of you in front of the mirror in the morning, wearing your knickers, socks and shoes trying to decided if they match!
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Uh..what a dull night this turned aout to be..:( So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action.:-O Any good tips...possible bad to...are much appreciated. :-D /M
- Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.
If she's interested, she'll let you know. Like others have said, talk to her and let things happen naturally. Talk to her about how you want the relationship to progress, the worst thing she can say is 'No'. Michael :-) Look, try and use your intelligence, man, even if you are a politician. - The Doctor
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Uh..what a dull night this turned aout to be..:( So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action.:-O Any good tips...possible bad to...are much appreciated. :-D /M
- Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.
Do a crash course on NLP Regardz Colin J Davies
Sonork ID 100.9197:Colin
I am sick of fighting with Martin, I think I will ignore his posts from here on in, and spend the time working on articles instead. Christian Graus
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If she's interested, she'll let you know. Like others have said, talk to her and let things happen naturally. Talk to her about how you want the relationship to progress, the worst thing she can say is 'No'. Michael :-) Look, try and use your intelligence, man, even if you are a politician. - The Doctor
Michael P Butler wrote: the worst thing she can say is 'No'. How about "Michael, I am pregnant." ;P Michael P Butler wrote: Talk to her about how you want the relationship to progress, Of course if it is a first date or still very early in a relationship, you don't want to put the cart before the horse and scare her away. I don't think there is any "best practices" guide for dating or "getting action." Being yourself sounds so cliched and trite, but it is really the only way to do it "honestly." regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Alison Pentland wrote: I now have an image of you in front of the mirror in the morning, wearing your knickers, socks and shoes trying to decided if they match!
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Do a crash course on NLP Regardz Colin J Davies
Sonork ID 100.9197:Colin
I am sick of fighting with Martin, I think I will ignore his posts from here on in, and spend the time working on articles instead. Christian Graus
Colin Davies wrote: Do a crash course on NLP I did a search on Google and all I am getting is crap about self-hypnosis and using hypnotic phrases and techniques for dating. Is that really what you are advocating? Or what does NLP reall mean/do to you? regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Alison Pentland wrote: I now have an image of you in front of the mirror in the morning, wearing your knickers, socks and shoes trying to decided if they match!
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Uh..what a dull night this turned aout to be..:( So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action.:-O Any good tips...possible bad to...are much appreciated. :-D /M
- Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.
- Find a chick that will give you a knobber without being asked. 2) Tell your next date that you think you're gay. 3) Tell your next date that you think SHE'S gay. 4) Become gay. Based on what you said, and the fact that you're complaining to propeller heads, you're a lost cause anyway. ------- signature starts "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio. ------- signature ends
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Michael P Butler wrote: the worst thing she can say is 'No'. How about "Michael, I am pregnant." ;P Michael P Butler wrote: Talk to her about how you want the relationship to progress, Of course if it is a first date or still very early in a relationship, you don't want to put the cart before the horse and scare her away. I don't think there is any "best practices" guide for dating or "getting action." Being yourself sounds so cliched and trite, but it is really the only way to do it "honestly." regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Alison Pentland wrote: I now have an image of you in front of the mirror in the morning, wearing your knickers, socks and shoes trying to decided if they match!
Paul Watson wrote: Of course if it is a first date or still very early in a relationship, you don't want to put the cart before the horse and scare her away. I assumed it was further along than a first date. If it was a first date then he should know that there is no chance of getting "some action". Not unless the girl is of questionable morals but you don't really want to meet those kind ;-) Michael :-) Look, try and use your intelligence, man, even if you are a politician. - The Doctor
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- Find a chick that will give you a knobber without being asked. 2) Tell your next date that you think you're gay. 3) Tell your next date that you think SHE'S gay. 4) Become gay. Based on what you said, and the fact that you're complaining to propeller heads, you're a lost cause anyway. ------- signature starts "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio. ------- signature ends
John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote: 4) Become gay. Based on what you said, and the fact that you're complaining to propeller heads, you're a lost cause anyway. ROFLMAO - I think you should put this stuff in a book, it'd be a best seller. Michael :-) Look, try and use your intelligence, man, even if you are a politician. - The Doctor
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Did you try talking to her?
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Michael P Butler wrote: the worst thing she can say is 'No'. How about "Michael, I am pregnant." ;P Michael P Butler wrote: Talk to her about how you want the relationship to progress, Of course if it is a first date or still very early in a relationship, you don't want to put the cart before the horse and scare her away. I don't think there is any "best practices" guide for dating or "getting action." Being yourself sounds so cliched and trite, but it is really the only way to do it "honestly." regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Alison Pentland wrote: I now have an image of you in front of the mirror in the morning, wearing your knickers, socks and shoes trying to decided if they match!
I think you should have said "cart before the horse trying to put the horse between the shafts" :-D Roger Allen Sonork 100.10016 If I had a quote, it would be a very good one.
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http://www.fastseduction.com This stuff works because it's based on NLP.
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loket wrote: So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action Well if you are desperate then it definitley won't happen. Women can smell desperation a mile away, trust me, I know! Secondly if your soul aim is to get some action, go to Amsterdam. I seriously do not see the point of taking a girl home for hot-chocolate in a cup when you really want to be licking hot-chocolate off her. Enjoy her company, enjoy her conversation. If there is action to be had, it will come. If there is no action to be had, it won't come and there is no point in trying to force the issue. Your sig is rather apt :-D loket wrote: - Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things. Just relax, be yourself and if that does not work get a ticket to Amsterdam, they don't care much about conversation. regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Alison Pentland wrote: I now have an image of you in front of the mirror in the morning, wearing your knickers, socks and shoes trying to decided if they match!
Paul Watson wrote: loket wrote: So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action Well if you are desperate then it definitley won't happen. Women can smell desperation a mile away, trust me, I know! I was not desperate, probably more to the other side...and maybe to much at that to. :( Paul Watson wrote: Secondly if your soul aim is to get some action, go to Amsterdam. I seriously do not see the point of taking a girl home for hot-chocolate in a cup when you really want to be licking hot-chocolate off her. Enjoy her company, enjoy her conversation. If there is action to be had, it will come. If there is no action to be had, it won't come and there is no point in trying to force the issue Maybe her aim is to get some action, but she dont want to initiate it then if i do nothing she will think that i am a wuss and find it somewhere else. What i wnant is some smoot move that she could pick up on if thats what she wants. Or either i can make it look like it was innocent and carry on talking, knowing she dont want some action...yet. :-D /M
- Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.
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Paul Watson wrote: Of course if it is a first date or still very early in a relationship, you don't want to put the cart before the horse and scare her away. I assumed it was further along than a first date. If it was a first date then he should know that there is no chance of getting "some action". Not unless the girl is of questionable morals but you don't really want to meet those kind ;-) Michael :-) Look, try and use your intelligence, man, even if you are a politician. - The Doctor
Michael P Butler wrote: I assumed it was further along than a first date. Yes it was. Michael P Butler wrote: Not unless the girl is of questionable morals but you don't really want to meet those kind Yes i do. And who is talking about a relationship? Just came off one and now i just wanted a little action. :-D /M
- Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.
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i found out that it is always being a dilemma in such situations. to be a man,i should take some actions(as you said,but do not imagine further),but most probably the result is the girl will slam the door or slap your face. but if i do not do something,the girl will also slam the door and maybe do not say a word to you within quite a few days. consulting is badly welcome! :-O you are far from being a bad man:go and reform
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Paul Watson wrote: loket wrote: So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action Well if you are desperate then it definitley won't happen. Women can smell desperation a mile away, trust me, I know! I was not desperate, probably more to the other side...and maybe to much at that to. :( Paul Watson wrote: Secondly if your soul aim is to get some action, go to Amsterdam. I seriously do not see the point of taking a girl home for hot-chocolate in a cup when you really want to be licking hot-chocolate off her. Enjoy her company, enjoy her conversation. If there is action to be had, it will come. If there is no action to be had, it won't come and there is no point in trying to force the issue Maybe her aim is to get some action, but she dont want to initiate it then if i do nothing she will think that i am a wuss and find it somewhere else. What i wnant is some smoot move that she could pick up on if thats what she wants. Or either i can make it look like it was innocent and carry on talking, knowing she dont want some action...yet. :-D /M
- Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.
loket wrote: Maybe her aim is to get some action, but she dont want to initiate it then if i do nothing she will think that i am a wuss and find it somewhere else. What i wnant is some smoot move that she could pick up on if thats what she wants. Or either i can make it look like it was innocent and carry on talking, knowing she dont want some action...yet. I don't think you get what everyone is telling you. If you just want to get laid, go to the specialists. Don't try and chat up a friend or aquaintence and try smooth moves on them if all you want is release. Casual sex is just lame, even if you both want it. If you want meaningful sex then get a relationship (though really it shouldnt work that way either. You should get a relationship and then meainingful sex happens.) Talk to her, laugh with her, be her friend and let her be yours. Let things develop and if it is right, it will happen. If she thinks you are a wuss for not tearing off her blouse and ravishing her right there on the couch... then you have the wrong woman for you. This whole first move thing is just confused when it is purely casual sex. When it it isn't, first move is irrelevant. So in short: Either get a red light district friend, or get a girlfriend. Smooth moves are for movies and jocks who end up 40 years old with three divorces, ten unwanted kids and a lot of angry women. regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Alison Pentland wrote: I now have an image of you in front of the mirror in the morning, wearing your knickers, socks and shoes trying to decided if they match!
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Yes, im not really have a problem with that i got no action. What bothers me is thay maybe She wanted that and i did not make any move. /M
- Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.
loket wrote: What bothers me is thay maybe She wanted that and i did not make any move. Well from my experience when a girl and a guy are on a couch, alone and chatting, if she wants it, she gets it. A guy is almost de-facto wanting it, so she normally does not need to worry about "does he or doesnt he want to?" What is your relationship with this girl? Friend? Someone you met in a bar half an hour ago? Friend of a friend? Girlfriend? Also what was the situation on that evening? Been out all night and she came back to your place after saying goodbye to her other friends? You two were on a date? Answer those and we can help you more. regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Alison Pentland wrote: I now have an image of you in front of the mirror in the morning, wearing your knickers, socks and shoes trying to decided if they match!
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loket wrote: Maybe her aim is to get some action, but she dont want to initiate it then if i do nothing she will think that i am a wuss and find it somewhere else. What i wnant is some smoot move that she could pick up on if thats what she wants. Or either i can make it look like it was innocent and carry on talking, knowing she dont want some action...yet. I don't think you get what everyone is telling you. If you just want to get laid, go to the specialists. Don't try and chat up a friend or aquaintence and try smooth moves on them if all you want is release. Casual sex is just lame, even if you both want it. If you want meaningful sex then get a relationship (though really it shouldnt work that way either. You should get a relationship and then meainingful sex happens.) Talk to her, laugh with her, be her friend and let her be yours. Let things develop and if it is right, it will happen. If she thinks you are a wuss for not tearing off her blouse and ravishing her right there on the couch... then you have the wrong woman for you. This whole first move thing is just confused when it is purely casual sex. When it it isn't, first move is irrelevant. So in short: Either get a red light district friend, or get a girlfriend. Smooth moves are for movies and jocks who end up 40 years old with three divorces, ten unwanted kids and a lot of angry women. regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Alison Pentland wrote: I now have an image of you in front of the mirror in the morning, wearing your knickers, socks and shoes trying to decided if they match!
Paul Watson wrote: If you just want to get laid, go to the specialists. Don't try and chat up a friend or aquaintence and try smooth moves on them if all you want is release. Casual sex is just lame, even if you both want it. What i really wanted is to know what she wanted. And i would never even consider going to a'specialist', that if anything woulf feel meaningless. I could not get anything out having sex with someone really not wanting to have sex with me.. X| And casual sex can be good, there is that tension and exitement that you loose later on. And you could move on after that to, and once you had sex with someone you are seeing things get more releaxed and both can be who they really are. /M
- Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.
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loket wrote: What bothers me is thay maybe She wanted that and i did not make any move. Well from my experience when a girl and a guy are on a couch, alone and chatting, if she wants it, she gets it. A guy is almost de-facto wanting it, so she normally does not need to worry about "does he or doesnt he want to?" What is your relationship with this girl? Friend? Someone you met in a bar half an hour ago? Friend of a friend? Girlfriend? Also what was the situation on that evening? Been out all night and she came back to your place after saying goodbye to her other friends? You two were on a date? Answer those and we can help you more. regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Alison Pentland wrote: I now have an image of you in front of the mirror in the morning, wearing your knickers, socks and shoes trying to decided if they match!
Paul Watson wrote: Well from my experience when a girl and a guy are on a couch, alone and chatting, if she wants it, she gets it. A guy is almost de-facto wanting it, so she normally does not need to worry about "does he or doesnt he want to?" Yes, thatis my experince to, you usually can tell what she wants. But this time i am really unsure what happened.. Paul Watson wrote: What is your relationship with this girl? Friend? Someone you met in a bar half an hour ago? Friend of a friend? Girlfriend? Also what was the situation on that evening? Been out all night and she came back to your place after saying goodbye to her other friends? You two were on a date? Friend of a friend of a friend sort of thing. Met her on a party this weekend, got her number, then i called and we talked yesterday and she came on over. /M
- Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.
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Colin Davies wrote: Do a crash course on NLP I did a search on Google and all I am getting is crap about self-hypnosis and using hypnotic phrases and techniques for dating. Is that really what you are advocating? Or what does NLP reall mean/do to you? regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Alison Pentland wrote: I now have an image of you in front of the mirror in the morning, wearing your knickers, socks and shoes trying to decided if they match!
Paul Watson wrote: Is that really what you are advocating? Or what does NLP reall mean/do to you? Go to www.fastseduction.com. It is a free site that has a bunch of info taken from alt.seduction.fast because the newsgroup became overrun by trolls. Alot of it is based on creating emotional states in women so that they see value in you, and will want to sleep with you. There is a lot of material, but if you stick with it, you will change from "Anouther Frustrated Chump(AFC)" to a "PUA"(Pick Up Artist). Trust me it works, just look at my bio pic, and you'll be amazed that I'm getting 8 and 9's for dates.