A discussion On What Constitutes Abuse And What Should Be Done About It
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You succeeded in "not winning hearts" and "challenging the system". Chris asked you to remove your sig. You changed it much later and we now have a lot of posts and threads. What I think: At the beginning I sympathised with you because I did not accepted the message deletions. But you still do not understand that a community requires backing down sometimes.
Chris asked me to remove my sig a long time after the noise and discussion initiated between both camps. I actually changed it quite soon after he asked, and if you go back to ' is this a bug' you will see that is the case. And then we cone to the 'community'. Chris posed the question here, and clearly the majority of people are un favour of allowing my sig, even if not agreeing with the content, so should I abide by the communities wish and reinstate it?
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Jochen Arndt wrote:
But you still do not understand that a community requires backing down sometimes.
That's something he's not good at, but a personal smack on the hand is a better solution than the creation and enforcement or rules and processes.
But the community is clearly in favour of allowing my sig if you look at the responses in this thread. Anyway, I have changed it, since it was getting a bit old anyway (yes, I have had that sig for a long time).
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Munchies_Matt wrote:
I was just saying that in the old days CP was much rowdier than it is today, and that if you found my sig so shocking then if yo9u were here in 2006/2007 you would have been mortified!
Yes, and CP survived and thrived, just as other groups always survive and thrive through such things. For many members, a little antagonism and controversy between members is the making of the group. I have yet to witness a group survive an attack of "the Blue Meanies", though. Such collapses always start with a minor group forcing their wishes on other members of the group by abusing one small rule, and end with... Well, they end with everyone of value upping pegs and moving on. Here, we have religious factions taking the Blue Meanie role. You'd think the world had had enough of religions trying to force their ways on everyone.
I quite agree. Vivre le difference! as they say in my adopted country, and as the Dutch are also very good at observing. It wold be a sad and sterile place if we all had to toe the middle line, the world AND CP.
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BillWoodruff wrote:
I am much more concerned about the daily abuse I witness on QA, than I am about what goes down in the Lounge.
Now, that is certainly something I agree with.
What sort of abuse, people name calling? :wtf:
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So everything that anyone decides to perceive as breaking the rules should be voted as abuse? Right. Might as well quit the site today, because it'll turn into an unbearable rat-hole within a couple of months. Or did you mean that it's only the things that you decide to perceive as breaking the rules should be voted as abuse? If so, I'll quit the site right this minute, because it'll turn into an unbearable rat-hole within a couple of weeks. "Playing nicely with the other children" does not include the statement "I'll decide what's right and wrong!"
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I condemn your reaction that you are not even ready to listen to Admins. I think you are the first to ignore the advise from them and have such an attitude. So called 'freedom of speech' has nothing to do with this discussion or the issue we are discussing on. What do you mean by your current signature? All i want to say is, you should be ready to face the consequences in form of account cancellation.
Rohan Leuva wrote:
I condemn your reaction
Oh do you now. Who made you the judge and jury? You are just like many other people in the world, you cant abide difference. Well you are wrong in so many ways I am not even gong to bother pointing them out to you.
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You might want to expound on that. Just telling someone they are wrong is not an argument and does not move someone from their position.
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Dave KreskowiakWell, that clearly Chris is wrong when he thinks my intent is to go against posting rules. My intent is to advertise the a petition that seeks to uphold international law since if enforced there is a far greater chance of peace in the ME and hence the world.
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Chris asked me to remove my sig a long time after the noise and discussion initiated between both camps. I actually changed it quite soon after he asked, and if you go back to ' is this a bug' you will see that is the case. And then we cone to the 'community'. Chris posed the question here, and clearly the majority of people are un favour of allowing my sig, even if not agreeing with the content, so should I abide by the communities wish and reinstate it?
If you had removed the sig when recognising that it makes problems we would not have these discussions. Insisting is often not the best choice. I will now follow my own advice and back out from this discussion.
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If you had removed the sig when recognising that it makes problems we would not have these discussions. Insisting is often not the best choice. I will now follow my own advice and back out from this discussion.
I saw too much support from the community, that's why I didn't remove it. Whoever runs the site, without members, without the community, CP wouldn't exist, so its always the opinion of the majority that should be considered.
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Rohan Leuva wrote:
I condemn your reaction
Oh do you now. Who made you the judge and jury? You are just like many other people in the world, you cant abide difference. Well you are wrong in so many ways I am not even gong to bother pointing them out to you.
Munchies_Matt wrote:
I am not even gong to bother pointing them out to you
I don't care.
Munchies_Matt wrote:
Who made you the judge and jury
Don't you see label on the post which says
Rohan Leuva 5hrs 19mins ago? It clearly means that whatever i posted was my opinion. Everyone is free to express their views. If i was the judge and the jury, you would have got kicks before this discussion. Thank Chris that he still expects community to have discussion on this. After reading all your messages, i don't think you are mature enough to have some fruitful discussion(even arguments) in here. -
Munchies_Matt wrote:
I am not even gong to bother pointing them out to you
I don't care.
Munchies_Matt wrote:
Who made you the judge and jury
Don't you see label on the post which says
Rohan Leuva 5hrs 19mins ago? It clearly means that whatever i posted was my opinion. Everyone is free to express their views. If i was the judge and the jury, you would have got kicks before this discussion. Thank Chris that he still expects community to have discussion on this. After reading all your messages, i don't think you are mature enough to have some fruitful discussion(even arguments) in here.Rohan Leuva wrote:
Everyone is free to express their views
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: That is so deeply amusing. The whole point of this discussion is censoring me from expressing a view because, as some have pointed out, that view is an unpopular one with some people, including you, and now you say you have the right to express your opinion. So what gives you the right to express yours and not others?
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Mark_Wallace wrote:
Richard Deeming wrote:
On this site, your word is law.
And that is exactly the way to do it. Setting up processes/rules/laws to govern what may and may not be done introduces a never-ending stream of problems, because what is written can be intentionally misread and misrepresented -- and there are always plenty of people who just love misreading and misrepresenting stuff, to give themselves imaginary rights to treat others badly.
And there you go. Someone has decided to flag my above posting as abuse. The question we need to ask appears to be: Does CP need people who behave like that?
I agree. Look at this chap: http://www.codeproject.com/Messages/4986659/Re-A-discussion-On-What-Constitutes-Abuse-And-What.aspx[^] See how he claims he has the right to express himself yet has decided others don't? With people like him around how can you expect fair play?
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Rohan Leuva wrote:
Everyone is free to express their views
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: That is so deeply amusing. The whole point of this discussion is censoring me from expressing a view because, as some have pointed out, that view is an unpopular one with some people, including you, and now you say you have the right to express your opinion. So what gives you the right to express yours and not others?
Munchies_Matt wrote:
The whole point of this discussion is censoring me from expressing a view
Because you didn't follow rules. Views should be expressed within limits. It should not break the rules. You did because your generation believes in crossing boundaries,right?
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Munchies_Matt wrote:
The whole point of this discussion is censoring me from expressing a view
Because you didn't follow rules. Views should be expressed within limits. It should not break the rules. You did because your generation believes in crossing boundaries,right?
As others have pointed out it was the content rather than the fact it was political that caused a stir. Many posts of a political nature have been made in the lounge before without upsetting anyone. The only limits we abide by, in the UK, are those set down by racism, hate speech laws. Many other countries don't have such rules and speech is truly free. SO tell me, what rules does your country have regarding freedom of speech?
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I agree. Look at this chap: http://www.codeproject.com/Messages/4986659/Re-A-discussion-On-What-Constitutes-Abuse-And-What.aspx[^] See how he claims he has the right to express himself yet has decided others don't? With people like him around how can you expect fair play?
Munchies_Matt wrote:
With people like him around how can you expect fair play
Everyone is having fair play even if i am here since 2 years 3 months. If you are not able to, thats your personal problem i think.
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Munchies_Matt wrote:
With people like him around how can you expect fair play
Everyone is having fair play even if i am here since 2 years 3 months. If you are not able to, thats your personal problem i think.
And I have been here for what, 8 years? And in that time I have seen plenty of mobocratic behaviour. --edit-- make that almost 19 years.
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And I have been here for what, 8 years? And in that time I have seen plenty of mobocratic behaviour. --edit-- make that almost 19 years.
Munchies_Matt wrote:
And I have been here for what, 8 years?
Looking at your profile, soon it will become 'i was there for 8 years...' :laugh:
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Munchies_Matt wrote:
And I have been here for what, 8 years?
Looking at your profile, soon it will become 'i was there for 8 years...' :laugh:
This isn't my first account by the way. My original one was created in 2005.
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What did I succeed at? I didn't intend for sigs to be disabled, just for CP to maintain its lively character. Chris asked the community what it thought and it said my sig was OK. Clearly Chris is planning something for sigs, perhaps enabling them only in SB and BR, perhaps something else. Perhaps he wants to punish the community for not agreeing with him and has thus turned them off completely. Don't know, what do you think?
I had to admit that sigs has been disabled due to a bug. I apologise for presuming that yours leads Chris to disable them.
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I had to admit that sigs has been disabled due to a bug. I apologise for presuming that yours leads Chris to disable them.
Well that's very good of you to apologise, thank you. (And I couldn't quite believe Chris would just disable sigs. More like he would close my account. :) )