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I called you an idiot because you are an idiot. A Madison Avenue neo-trendy idiot who thinks highly of obama and worships the fed.
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Fail... My OLD job was on Madison Avenue... Now I'm on Fifth Avenue. If you're going to mindlessly insult someone, at least get the details right. :laugh:
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...I should add, though, that my beliefs affect a lot of people. Following the "golden rule" as mentioned above means taking care of folks in need. It feels great living that out (regardless of your beliefs).
Correction - it means that to you. How about a more realistic Platinum Rule that will still appear acceptable:
Do unto others as you expect them to do unto you.
Sounds fair to me - and therefore I will not be helping anyone. Because, realistically, they wouldn't help me either. Pro: - Socially acceptable unless carried to the extreme - Less effort, same gain - ???? - Profit!!! Con: - Nothing Win. It feels great living that out, you can just lay back and relax.
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Correction - it means that to you. How about a more realistic Platinum Rule that will still appear acceptable:
Do unto others as you expect them to do unto you.
Sounds fair to me - and therefore I will not be helping anyone. Because, realistically, they wouldn't help me either. Pro: - Socially acceptable unless carried to the extreme - Less effort, same gain - ???? - Profit!!! Con: - Nothing Win. It feels great living that out, you can just lay back and relax.
harold aptroot wrote:
I will not be helping anyone. Because, realistically, they wouldn't help me either
Hard to argue with that logic! :doh: My wife and I have no expectation of return on investment when we help out our elderly neighbours (which we have on both sides). I mow their lawns in the summer and shovel their walks through the winter. We prepare food for folks who have newborns, lose a family member or are sick and can't work. I help out at the community centre and coach kids at skating and soccer. We volunteer over 200 hours a year. If someone else chooses to live that way and I am someday a beneficiary, then that would be great, but I certainly don't expect it. Pro: - lots of folks are treated to some cheer, get a hand when they need it - I've gotten to know folks on my street - people with family losses can cross 'meal prep' off their list of things to worry about - no debts are created - kids are encouraged to do more positive things in the community - no one gets hurt - my neighbors aren't burdened with work they can't handle - there is generally less crime in neighborhoods where neighbors know each other Cons: - none Looks like a win here too. There's nothing stressful about doing the things above and I quite enjoy the time I spend with others in my community, again, regardless of their beliefs. I wouldn't trade coaching kids or digging out my neighbors' sidewalk (which always ends in great conversation) for a moment on the laz-y-boy. It's not my thing, and I don't have a problem with it being yours. (just let me know your address so I don't clean your walk! ;) )
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harold aptroot wrote:
I will not be helping anyone. Because, realistically, they wouldn't help me either
Hard to argue with that logic! :doh: My wife and I have no expectation of return on investment when we help out our elderly neighbours (which we have on both sides). I mow their lawns in the summer and shovel their walks through the winter. We prepare food for folks who have newborns, lose a family member or are sick and can't work. I help out at the community centre and coach kids at skating and soccer. We volunteer over 200 hours a year. If someone else chooses to live that way and I am someday a beneficiary, then that would be great, but I certainly don't expect it. Pro: - lots of folks are treated to some cheer, get a hand when they need it - I've gotten to know folks on my street - people with family losses can cross 'meal prep' off their list of things to worry about - no debts are created - kids are encouraged to do more positive things in the community - no one gets hurt - my neighbors aren't burdened with work they can't handle - there is generally less crime in neighborhoods where neighbors know each other Cons: - none Looks like a win here too. There's nothing stressful about doing the things above and I quite enjoy the time I spend with others in my community, again, regardless of their beliefs. I wouldn't trade coaching kids or digging out my neighbors' sidewalk (which always ends in great conversation) for a moment on the laz-y-boy. It's not my thing, and I don't have a problem with it being yours. (just let me know your address so I don't clean your walk! ;) )
I see, well if you enjoy doing those things then that's quite a different reason, and I can see why you would do it then, but:
TheyCallMeMrJames wrote:
Pro: - lots of folks are treated to some cheer, get a hand when they need it [not a benefit] - I've gotten to know folks on my street [dubious benefit, but if that's what you wanted..] - people with family losses can cross 'meal prep' off their list of things to worry about [not my problem] - no debts are created [don't accept help, works too] - kids are encouraged to do more positive things in the community [dubious benefit] - no one gets hurt [meh] - my neighbors aren't burdened with work they can't handle [not my problem] - there is generally less crime in neighborhoods where neighbors know each other [they invented police for that] Cons: - none it costs some of your valuable time that you could spend doing something that really benefits you, such as making money
Question for Josh Gray, if he's reading this: would you say this is an accurate depiction of the Dutch mentality?
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I see, well if you enjoy doing those things then that's quite a different reason, and I can see why you would do it then, but:
TheyCallMeMrJames wrote:
Pro: - lots of folks are treated to some cheer, get a hand when they need it [not a benefit] - I've gotten to know folks on my street [dubious benefit, but if that's what you wanted..] - people with family losses can cross 'meal prep' off their list of things to worry about [not my problem] - no debts are created [don't accept help, works too] - kids are encouraged to do more positive things in the community [dubious benefit] - no one gets hurt [meh] - my neighbors aren't burdened with work they can't handle [not my problem] - there is generally less crime in neighborhoods where neighbors know each other [they invented police for that] Cons: - none it costs some of your valuable time that you could spend doing something that really benefits you, such as making money
Question for Josh Gray, if he's reading this: would you say this is an accurate depiction of the Dutch mentality?
harold aptroot wrote:
it costs some of your valuable time that you could spend doing something that really benefits you, such as making money
We'll have to agree to disagree. We're operating on different sets of motivation.
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harold aptroot wrote:
it costs some of your valuable time that you could spend doing something that really benefits you, such as making money
We'll have to agree to disagree. We're operating on different sets of motivation.
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harold aptroot wrote:
Interesting, I didn't know I was a celebrity
No. You aren't. It is just that I see your posts here more than any other forum.
harold aptroot wrote:
maybe you can use it to prove a point or something
I don't want to prove anything. When it comes to religion, it is ones own belief. You cannot and should not judge it, IMO.
You know what I just thought of...
d@nish wrote:
You cannot and should not judge it
Ok, I'll try: Religion is stupid. There, I judged it. So it was possible after all :) Whether you should, well, should you judge whether you should or should not judge religion?
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Fail... My OLD job was on Madison Avenue... Now I'm on Fifth Avenue. If you're going to mindlessly insult someone, at least get the details right. :laugh:
Proud to have finally moved to the A-Ark. Which one are you in?
Author of the Guardians Saga (Sci-Fi/Fantasy novels)Ian Shlasko wrote:
If you're going to mindlessly insult someone, at least get the details right.
Surely by definition if he's mindlessly doing something, that actually precludes thinking about the details! So unless he stumbles into accuracy, it's unlikely he'll have the details right!! :laugh: :laugh:
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I see, well if you enjoy doing those things then that's quite a different reason, and I can see why you would do it then, but:
TheyCallMeMrJames wrote:
Pro: - lots of folks are treated to some cheer, get a hand when they need it [not a benefit] - I've gotten to know folks on my street [dubious benefit, but if that's what you wanted..] - people with family losses can cross 'meal prep' off their list of things to worry about [not my problem] - no debts are created [don't accept help, works too] - kids are encouraged to do more positive things in the community [dubious benefit] - no one gets hurt [meh] - my neighbors aren't burdened with work they can't handle [not my problem] - there is generally less crime in neighborhoods where neighbors know each other [they invented police for that] Cons: - none it costs some of your valuable time that you could spend doing something that really benefits you, such as making money
Question for Josh Gray, if he's reading this: would you say this is an accurate depiction of the Dutch mentality?
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harold aptroot wrote:
would you say this is an accurate depiction of the Dutch mentality? Quote Selected Text
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