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I'd say that would be tough on a new marriage, leaving early in the morning and arriving home late at night. Then again if the job is one that will make you happy then there is that positive to the relationship to consider. Why isn't moving closer an option? Would it move your fiance away from her job so making her commute longer? And congratulations on the pending wedding :) regards, Paul Watson Ireland FeedHenry needs you
eh, stop bugging me about it, give it a couple of days, see what happens.
Paul Watson wrote:
And congratulations on the pending wedding
Thanks Paul!
Paul Watson wrote:
Why isn't moving closer an option? Would it move your fiance away from her job so making her commute longer?
Yes, that's it more or less. It would also move her away from her familiy (even if it is only a few kilometers), and for some private reasons which I completely agree with, she needs to stay in a closer area. ~RaGE();
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Ray Kinsella wrote:
Well I spent an hour and fifteen minuts driving less than 10km this morning
:wtf: This is insane, I would not have such patience. Nothing against driving far, but waiting in the car... Why don't you ride your bicycle ? 10 km is not that much, could be achieved in less than an hour. ~RaGE();
Rage wrote:
Why don't you ride your bicycle ? 10 km is not that much, could be achieved in less than an hour.
Heck, I can leisurely jog 10km in less than an hour! :)
Ryan
"Punctuality is only a virtue for those who aren't smart enough to think of good excuses for being late" John Nichol "Point Of Impact"
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Oh... 1 hour each way. That's not so bad. I used to sit in traffic for one and a half to two hour each way. That was to a job only 40kms away. Since then I got a new job that's 70kms away but I work better hours so I miss the traffic. It only takes me about 45 minutes each way now. You can get use to one hour each way. Is the pay more and the work better?
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As per his statment, It seems he's just making an extra 15 min to reach the office. For this you think he should leave what he calls a "tempting offer" ??
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VuNic wrote:
an extra 15 min
Here you have to count with time relativity :| . For having done the drive a few times now, I can assure you that the additional 15 minutes seem to last much more than really 15 minutes. The question is whether the feeling remains´when doing it daily, or whether it fades out with time- ~RaGE();
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Rage wrote:
Why don't you ride your bicycle ? 10 km is not that much, could be achieved in less than an hour.
Heck, I can leisurely jog 10km in less than an hour! :)
Ryan
"Punctuality is only a virtue for those who aren't smart enough to think of good excuses for being late" John Nichol "Point Of Impact"
Ryan Binns wrote:
Heck, I can leisurely jog 10km in less than an hour!
:-D For sure. But you would not be able to work right away, I would expect you to be a bit sweaty, whereas riding a bike quietly does not bring you to sweat, usually. And jogging quietly is quite difficult. ~RaGE();
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VuNic wrote:
an extra 15 min
Here you have to count with time relativity :| . For having done the drive a few times now, I can assure you that the additional 15 minutes seem to last much more than really 15 minutes. The question is whether the feeling remains´when doing it daily, or whether it fades out with time- ~RaGE();
Just make a test drive once, you'll know if its comfortable for you or not. If it's a little bit uncomfortable, no problem, you'd certainly get used to it. But if you find it really unconfortable, then day by day, you'll start feeling more and more of it. So decide with the help of your test drive. and also dont forget to think about similar opportunities around the place where you work now. If its possible to find a similar job nearby(may be after sometime), then just drop it.
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Ryan Binns wrote:
Heck, I can leisurely jog 10km in less than an hour!
:-D For sure. But you would not be able to work right away, I would expect you to be a bit sweaty, whereas riding a bike quietly does not bring you to sweat, usually. And jogging quietly is quite difficult. ~RaGE();
Rage wrote:
I would expect you to be a bit sweaty,
Perhaps just a little bit :-O. I can run 10km in about 42min, so an hour really is a leisurely jog :)
Ryan
"Punctuality is only a virtue for those who aren't smart enough to think of good excuses for being late" John Nichol "Point Of Impact"
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Rage wrote:
I would expect you to be a bit sweaty,
Perhaps just a little bit :-O. I can run 10km in about 42min, so an hour really is a leisurely jog :)
Ryan
"Punctuality is only a virtue for those who aren't smart enough to think of good excuses for being late" John Nichol "Point Of Impact"
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Hi, I've been offered a new job opportunity today, but it would make me drive at least 2 hours a day, since it is about 100 km far from where I live, and moving closer is not an option. The job is very tempting, but I am not sure about spending so much time in a car. I already drive about 1h30 a day, but 30 minutes more seem to me like ages. What would you guys do ? Do you think I will get used to it ? ~RaGE();
Rage wrote:
What would you guys do ? Do you think I will get used to it ?
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Hi, I've been offered a new job opportunity today, but it would make me drive at least 2 hours a day, since it is about 100 km far from where I live, and moving closer is not an option. The job is very tempting, but I am not sure about spending so much time in a car. I already drive about 1h30 a day, but 30 minutes more seem to me like ages. What would you guys do ? Do you think I will get used to it ? ~RaGE();
Rage wrote:
What would you guys do ? Do you think I will get used to it ?
Don't know about you, but I left New York exactly because of crazy commuting times. It woulde take me almost 2 hours one way, and after a while it was no fun at all. Commuting is even worse than unpaid overtime IMHO X|
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2 Hours??? Each way??? So, let's say you start work at 0900. You need to leave home by 0700 which means, to have time for a shower and a coffee, you need to be up by 0630. You have an 8 hour day plus an hour for lunch so you leave work at 1800. You don't get home until 2000 (on a good day). By the time you come in and open & deal with the post, your family, the dog and sort out the daily bits that need to be sorted out it's around 2045. Now you need to eat. You're done and washed up by 2130 even if you have someone to make it for you. You sit down and spend some more time with your family hoping that they remember who you are and noting that you only see your (young) children at the weekend: bit like being a part-time or absent parent. 2230: knackered so a final check of the email, kiss your loved ones goodnight and off to bed. Welcome to your world - the job takes around 13 hours out of your day. Say you sleep 8 hours that is 21 hours. That gives you 3 hours of life a day. No job is worth giving up your life for: remember work to live not live to work. home
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Rage wrote:
I would expect you to be a bit sweaty,
Perhaps just a little bit :-O. I can run 10km in about 42min, so an hour really is a leisurely jog :)
Ryan
"Punctuality is only a virtue for those who aren't smart enough to think of good excuses for being late" John Nichol "Point Of Impact"
Braggart :-D. My best 10K time is a tad over 56 minutes :sigh:.
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Braggart :-D. My best 10K time is a tad over 56 minutes :sigh:.
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delete this;Sorry :-O
Ryan
"Punctuality is only a virtue for those who aren't smart enough to think of good excuses for being late" John Nichol "Point Of Impact"
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Ryan Binns wrote:
Heck, I can leisurely jog 10km in less than an hour!
:-D For sure. But you would not be able to work right away, I would expect you to be a bit sweaty, whereas riding a bike quietly does not bring you to sweat, usually. And jogging quietly is quite difficult. ~RaGE();
Rage wrote:
a bike quietly does not bring you to sweat
I can't imagine riding and not sweating. I'm in good shape, but I sweat at the drop of a hat. Any hat. Hats in Cleveland.
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Hi, I've been offered a new job opportunity today, but it would make me drive at least 2 hours a day, since it is about 100 km far from where I live, and moving closer is not an option. The job is very tempting, but I am not sure about spending so much time in a car. I already drive about 1h30 a day, but 30 minutes more seem to me like ages. What would you guys do ? Do you think I will get used to it ? ~RaGE();
My wife drives an hour each way (2 hours per day). She hates the commute, but LOVES her job. If the job is something you will really enjoy, a little bit of extra time on the road shouldn't matter. Brigg Thorp Senior Software Engineer Timex Corporation
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Rage wrote:
about 100 km far from where I live
100 km away and only 2 hours driving a day :wtf: There's no traffic or anything on the roads ?
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The statement above is false.Monty2 wrote:
100 km away and only 2 hours driving a day
try FaridaBad - agra Highway at Night!, my average speed on that road is 75km/h on maruti 800 std:)
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Monty2 wrote:
100 km away and only 2 hours driving a day
try FaridaBad - agra Highway at Night!, my average speed on that road is 75km/h on maruti 800 std:)
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ThatsAlok wrote:
try FaridaBad - agra Highway at Night!, my average speed on that road is 75km/h on maruti 800 std
i live in faridabad bro :-D why do you travel that route :)
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The statement above is false.Monty2 wrote:
i live in faridabad bro :-D
wow!i live in gurgaon...
Monty2 wrote:
why do you travel that route :)
actaully, i am going for my relative marrige in mathura:)
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Monty2 wrote:
i live in faridabad bro :-D
wow!i live in gurgaon...
Monty2 wrote:
why do you travel that route :)
actaully, i am going for my relative marrige in mathura:)
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see you can make money on the street , you would be spending 4 hours on the road. you can carry passengers and make money also you can chit chat with them. 100 km in 2 hours.. ferrari guys .. are you listening?? hidden talent is here ;) wierd.. 4 hours daily ppatel
ppatel567 wrote:
wierd.. 4 hours daily
in my training days i used to travel 5-6 hr daily from my home to office!
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