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  • D devvvy

    Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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    Roger Alsing 0
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    I have to agree with the rest , she is playing you. someone who is in love with his/her partner whould find it weird to go on vacation with someone else. so if she dont find that strange and is happy to go, Id say she is already humping the guy that asked her to go. //Roger

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      Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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      norm wrote:

      Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded?

      I just hope you don't live near Link2006 :~ *for lesser known people Link2006 is a CPian look up his past posts


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      • S Shog9 0

        Are they sharing a bed? Not trying to be rude, but that seems to be the key question here...

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        NormDroid
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        Shog9 wrote:

        Are they sharing a bed?

        They will be, by the time the vacation is over. We made the buttons on the screen look so good you'll want to lick them. Steve Jobs

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          Okay, girl perspective here and i have some questions: 1. How long have you been going out? 2. How long has she known this guy? 3. How well do you know the guy?

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          peterchen
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          Okay, guys curiosity here: Which set of answers would make it an "A-OK, let them go, nothing will happen"?


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          • D devvvy

            Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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            peterchen
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            It's not about right or wrong, the question is: Do you trust them both? Would he stop her if she made a move? Would she stop him if he made a move?


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            • D devvvy

              Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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              Steve Mayfield
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              have you asked if he is gay? Steve

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                Sorry, slightly tipsy so didn't read all the posts.:cool: As a girl, here are my thoughts: 1. A girl can share a room with a guy as long as the following conditions hold true: a) The girl is not a hottie (average is fine...) b) The girl and guy have been friends since childhood (because at some point they tried to find out if they are "compatible" so that test is over) c) One of the occupants of the room doesn't drink I have my doubts if you never met the guy. I'm pretty laid back as is my husband. Most of my friends are guys; if I went on vacation with one of them Kori (my husband) probably wouldn't have a problem with it since he knows them and their behavior when sober/drunk. If it was a stranger...no way dude. That's my two-cents worth, and no you can't have change.

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                Oh, you already answered my question :) - I don't think you are right, though.


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                • D devvvy

                  Thanks Vulnic... Norman Fung

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                  Welcome Norman. In most cases guys happen to be more loyal and "understanding" than their counterpart.And you know getting away from her would be as painful as leaving her to go with him. hufff.. It's all in her hand to understand you and stick to you. I wish it would happen as fast as it can.But I would also like to tell you one thing. Be in touch with her whenever you get time. Call her on phone atleast everyday. Make yourself available for little picnics. Make her laugh a lot , and enjoy it.In short spend sometime also with your girl friend. Good luck:rose::rose:


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                  • D devvvy

                    Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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                    You obviously didnt know her well enough or knew who she is, else she this wouldnt have shocked you. Time to cut your losses and move on. I guess some people could live with it. I for one cant. And I would expect my GF (if i ever get one again) to not be like that. :(**

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                    • J Jeremy Falcon

                      norm wrote:

                      "I want a vacation!" and made it sounds as though I was wrong getting pissed off.

                      Tell her you'll give her one when you get vacation time. :-D Jeremy Falcon

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                      Jeremy Falcon wrote:

                      Tell her you'll give her one when you get vacation time.

                      If she has to wait that long, no wonder she's going off with another guy...

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                      • R Rama Krishna Vavilala

                        Well looking at the title I thought it was another post by Link2006[^]. Thankfully it isn't. What is the reason you are not going?


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                        Ashley van Gerven
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                        exactly what i thought at first!

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                          have you asked if he is gay? Steve

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                          NormDroid
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                          That could be the only saving grave to this whole situation, norm could take a deep breath and relax... We made the buttons on the screen look so good you'll want to lick them. Steve Jobs

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                            Sorry, slightly tipsy so didn't read all the posts.:cool: As a girl, here are my thoughts: 1. A girl can share a room with a guy as long as the following conditions hold true: a) The girl is not a hottie (average is fine...) b) The girl and guy have been friends since childhood (because at some point they tried to find out if they are "compatible" so that test is over) c) One of the occupants of the room doesn't drink I have my doubts if you never met the guy. I'm pretty laid back as is my husband. Most of my friends are guys; if I went on vacation with one of them Kori (my husband) probably wouldn't have a problem with it since he knows them and their behavior when sober/drunk. If it was a stranger...no way dude. That's my two-cents worth, and no you can't have change.

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                            leckey wrote:

                            A girl can share a room with a guy as long as the following conditions hold true:

                            There are rules on this stuff ?

                            leckey wrote:

                            One of the occupants of the room doesn't drink

                            ROTFL !!!!

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                            That's my two-cents worth, and no you can't have change.

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                              You mean Tasmania? Sorry, could'nt resist it. Objects in mirror are closer than they appear

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                              • P peterchen

                                Okay, guys curiosity here: Which set of answers would make it an "A-OK, let them go, nothing will happen"?


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                                DerMeister
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                                If the guy was gay then I wouldn't see anything wrong with it. My gf has more gay male friends then straight so to me if he isn't gay then you should be worried.

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                                  Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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                                  Marco Stinger
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                                  NO ps: If you know ay REALLY HOT girl (the type other gilrs really hate) tell your GF that you're goin' on a 3 days trip together (when she really CANNOt come with you) and you'll share hotel room just to save a little money (witch I think it's the reason for your GF to share the room with the other guy) ... and WAIT FOR HELL :laugh: ;)

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                                    Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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                                    definately not. unless he's her brother. ---sig---
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                                      Welcome Norman. In most cases guys happen to be more loyal and "understanding" than their counterpart.And you know getting away from her would be as painful as leaving her to go with him. hufff.. It's all in her hand to understand you and stick to you. I wish it would happen as fast as it can.But I would also like to tell you one thing. Be in touch with her whenever you get time. Call her on phone atleast everyday. Make yourself available for little picnics. Make her laugh a lot , and enjoy it.In short spend sometime also with your girl friend. Good luck:rose::rose:


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                                      devvvy
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                                      VuNic wrote:

                                      In short spend sometime also with your girl friend

                                      I did. Although I been quite busy lately. But I did.

                                      VuNic wrote:

                                      Good luck

                                      We broke up, 9 hours ago. So, that was it. Norman Fung

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                                        That could be the only saving grave to this whole situation, norm could take a deep breath and relax... We made the buttons on the screen look so good you'll want to lick them. Steve Jobs

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                                        devvvy
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                                        hi norm Norman Fung

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                                        • L leppie

                                          You obviously didnt know her well enough or knew who she is, else she this wouldnt have shocked you. Time to cut your losses and move on. I guess some people could live with it. I for one cant. And I would expect my GF (if i ever get one again) to not be like that. :(**

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                                          devvvy
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                                          I got pretty angry when I called her back last night - this ended our relationship.

                                          leppie wrote:

                                          And I would expect my GF (if i ever get one again) to not be like that.

                                          Why would you think you'll never date again? Norman Fung

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