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  • J jonathan15

    Its not quite like that. He has only gone there for a few days. The house they live in was his before they met so he is giving her a week to 'sort her head out' as he puts it and find somewhere else rather than just kick her out there and then. I guess she will move back to her mums within a few days and he will go beck home as it really doesnt seem like they will stay together. Jon

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    Jon - sorry, had a few issues like this in my family, so I confess to overreacting. Hold on, I need to take my foot out of my mouth.... The best thing is to not try and act like it's a funeral. Life goes on, even when things get difficult.

    Charlie Gilley Will program for food... Whoever said children were cheaper by the dozen... lied. My son's PDA is an M249 SAW.

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    • J jonathan15

      Went to my mums yesterday after work to collect my little boy and found my brother has moved back in. It seems him and his wife are splitting up. After being together for about 8 years they got married last September. Now they are spitting up. I feel kind of awkward and dont know what to say to him. It seems she just doesnt want to be with him anymore.:sigh: Jon

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      Varindir Rajesh Mahdihar
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      life goes on, take him to a peeler bar and liqur him up, get him a few lap dances, then take him to the seedy part of town and get him laid

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      • J jonathan15

        Went to my mums yesterday after work to collect my little boy and found my brother has moved back in. It seems him and his wife are splitting up. After being together for about 8 years they got married last September. Now they are spitting up. I feel kind of awkward and dont know what to say to him. It seems she just doesnt want to be with him anymore.:sigh: Jon

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        Only thing you can say to him is; "How can I help? What can I do?"

        only two letters away from being an asset

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        • J jonathan15

          Went to my mums yesterday after work to collect my little boy and found my brother has moved back in. It seems him and his wife are splitting up. After being together for about 8 years they got married last September. Now they are spitting up. I feel kind of awkward and dont know what to say to him. It seems she just doesnt want to be with him anymore.:sigh: Jon

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          Marc Clifton
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          jonathan15 wrote:

          . I feel kind of awkward and dont know what to say to him.

          Say "hey, now that's she's available again, can you give me her number?" ;P Marc

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          • M Marc Clifton

            jonathan15 wrote:

            . I feel kind of awkward and dont know what to say to him.

            Say "hey, now that's she's available again, can you give me her number?" ;P Marc

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            Some people believe what the bible says. Literally. At least [with Wikipedia] you have the chance to correct the wiki -- Jörgen Sigvardsson

            People are just notoriously impossible. --DavidCrow

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            Marc Clifton wrote:

            Say "hey, now that's she's available again, can you give me her number?"

            Ouch. :)

            :josh: My WPF Blog[^]

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            • V Varindir Rajesh Mahdihar

              life goes on, take him to a peeler bar and liqur him up, get him a few lap dances, then take him to the seedy part of town and get him laid

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              Varindir Rajesh Mahdihar wrote:

              life goes on, take him to a peeler bar and liqur him up, get him a few lap dances, then take him to the seedy part of town and get him laid

              Or show him your post and maybe he'll laugh at how insignificant his problems are in comparison to yours! ;P

              :josh: My WPF Blog[^]

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              • J jonathan15

                Went to my mums yesterday after work to collect my little boy and found my brother has moved back in. It seems him and his wife are splitting up. After being together for about 8 years they got married last September. Now they are spitting up. I feel kind of awkward and dont know what to say to him. It seems she just doesnt want to be with him anymore.:sigh: Jon

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                Jonathon, That was pretty predictable. Any time a couple date for more than 6-7 years before they get married, the chances of the marrige lasting are very slim. And more often than not they split up the first year. Tell him to fight for the mutaul friends. Good friends aren't easy to find, so he shouldn't just give them all to her. Chad

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                • M Marc Clifton

                  jonathan15 wrote:

                  . I feel kind of awkward and dont know what to say to him.

                  Say "hey, now that's she's available again, can you give me her number?" ;P Marc

                  XPressTier

                  Some people believe what the bible says. Literally. At least [with Wikipedia] you have the chance to correct the wiki -- Jörgen Sigvardsson

                  People are just notoriously impossible. --DavidCrow

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                  Gary R Wheeler
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                  That's so Link2006.


                  Software Zen: delete this;

                  Fold With Us![^]

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                  • J jonathan15

                    Went to my mums yesterday after work to collect my little boy and found my brother has moved back in. It seems him and his wife are splitting up. After being together for about 8 years they got married last September. Now they are spitting up. I feel kind of awkward and dont know what to say to him. It seems she just doesnt want to be with him anymore.:sigh: Jon

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                    peterchen
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                    and he? It's one of the weird things you hear from time to time - long term couples breaking up shortly after marriage. There are explanations, but I don't think they help (or are even applicable). Get his mind off "it". Don't hide, or shy away or avoid "the thing", just give him something else to occupy his thoughts. He might turn to sulky any time - that's ok, you both are men, you can just sit without talking :) You are brothers - any things you two did enjoy "back then when you were young"?


                    Some of us walk the memory lane, others plummet into a rabbit hole
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                    • G Gary R Wheeler

                      That's so Link2006.


                      Software Zen: delete this;

                      Fold With Us![^]

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                      Marc Clifton
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                      Gary R. Wheeler wrote:

                      That's so Link2006.

                      No, Link2600 would say something like "Well, now that she's not getting any from you, maybe I can go bang her". Marc

                      XPressTier

                      Some people believe what the bible says. Literally. At least [with Wikipedia] you have the chance to correct the wiki -- Jörgen Sigvardsson

                      People are just notoriously impossible. --DavidCrow

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