What to give as a wedding gift?
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If you cared and wanted to be nice, wedding photography would be a great present. We paid for a photographer to do the standard stuff, and we hardly ever look at the album, but my brother in law took some gret black and white photos of us together at the reception that we still have hanging on the wall. Of course your artistic sensabilites would have to match.
Since I used to be a wedding photographer they already "asked" for my services (which means free). Rule number one: don't ever do family. Plus his mom is the "crazy" one of the family. It wouldn't be a good situation. some of the other cousins have already married and I said no.
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I agree with Andy above ... I thought somewhere you mentioned you were a photographer at some stage - so take a camera and put something nice together so they'll remember the special day (your time and thought and expertise is more precious than raw $$) 'g'
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I agree with Andy above ... I thought somewhere you mentioned you were a photographer at some stage - so take a camera and put something nice together so they'll remember the special day (your time and thought and expertise is more precious than raw $$) 'g'
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Okay, in two weekends my husband's cousin Michael is getting married. Currently he and his fiance live and work in eastern SD where I used to live--a 2 hour drive. The bride to be is originally from western SD and hasn't lived there in several years. However, they decided to get married out in the Black Hills where she is from. So all of his family and a good portion of hers have to travel out there. Koris is in the wedding so we have to spend an additional night out there. So far I caculate the following for the wedding: 1. kori's tux rental: $100 2. 3 nights of hotel: about $300 3. Gas there and back (a five hour drive each way): about $100 4. Food for the weekend: about $50 So we are shelling out $500+ for this wedding so I really don't want to give them something expensive. And I'm also bitter about the drive. Any ideas? If we give cash, how much?
Black Hills Gold trinkets are fairly cheap, and you should be able to grab a handful of 'em on your way in...
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Yeah, thank god we didn't get alot of that when we got married. I only suggested it because of the tone of the post.
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Looks much better.
Andy Brummer wrote:
Looks much better.
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Since I used to be a wedding photographer they already "asked" for my services (which means free). Rule number one: don't ever do family. Plus his mom is the "crazy" one of the family. It wouldn't be a good situation. some of the other cousins have already married and I said no.
leckey wrote:
some of the other cousins have already married and I said no.
erm.... not to each other, I hope.
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Okay, in two weekends my husband's cousin Michael is getting married. Currently he and his fiance live and work in eastern SD where I used to live--a 2 hour drive. The bride to be is originally from western SD and hasn't lived there in several years. However, they decided to get married out in the Black Hills where she is from. So all of his family and a good portion of hers have to travel out there. Koris is in the wedding so we have to spend an additional night out there. So far I caculate the following for the wedding: 1. kori's tux rental: $100 2. 3 nights of hotel: about $300 3. Gas there and back (a five hour drive each way): about $100 4. Food for the weekend: about $50 So we are shelling out $500+ for this wedding so I really don't want to give them something expensive. And I'm also bitter about the drive. Any ideas? If we give cash, how much?
If you don't give a gift that is one less thank you card they have to write.
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You could do what I'm going to do for my friends' wedding, buy them a tea set. I'm still trying to decided between the cherry blosum tea set http://www.japanesegifts.com/adtea.asp[^] and the phoenix and dragon tea set http://www.enjoyingtea.com/phdrjtease.html[^]. I generally think that gifts that are related to food or drink are generally the best if they are something that people would love to have but won't usually buy for themselves. Plus you can generally stuff some extra stuff into the package[^] to really make them go gaga. Just remember that if they both enjoy beer that giving them too large mugs and a keg probably will get you weird looks. Not that I ever did that.... :-O
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Okay, in two weekends my husband's cousin Michael is getting married. Currently he and his fiance live and work in eastern SD where I used to live--a 2 hour drive. The bride to be is originally from western SD and hasn't lived there in several years. However, they decided to get married out in the Black Hills where she is from. So all of his family and a good portion of hers have to travel out there. Koris is in the wedding so we have to spend an additional night out there. So far I caculate the following for the wedding: 1. kori's tux rental: $100 2. 3 nights of hotel: about $300 3. Gas there and back (a five hour drive each way): about $100 4. Food for the weekend: about $50 So we are shelling out $500+ for this wedding so I really don't want to give them something expensive. And I'm also bitter about the drive. Any ideas? If we give cash, how much?
leckey wrote:
4. Food for the weekend: about $50
Is that for one person? Assuming breakfast, lunch and dinner for 3 days, that's about 5 bucks a meal for 1 person. Might want to bump that budget up a bit, unless you're relying on fast food. Or maybe restaurants are cheaper in SD, haven't been there in awhile... As far as a gift, give them something whacky that sits around the house and everytime they see it, they remember you. Or something unique they might not use everyday, but when they do they think of you. Some of the best gifts we got, we're the ones that weren't on our registry.
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leckey wrote:
some of the other cousins have already married and I said no.
erm.... not to each other, I hope.
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Who cares? It's South Dakota, after all, and it stays in the family :cool:
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Okay, in two weekends my husband's cousin Michael is getting married. Currently he and his fiance live and work in eastern SD where I used to live--a 2 hour drive. The bride to be is originally from western SD and hasn't lived there in several years. However, they decided to get married out in the Black Hills where she is from. So all of his family and a good portion of hers have to travel out there. Koris is in the wedding so we have to spend an additional night out there. So far I caculate the following for the wedding: 1. kori's tux rental: $100 2. 3 nights of hotel: about $300 3. Gas there and back (a five hour drive each way): about $100 4. Food for the weekend: about $50 So we are shelling out $500+ for this wedding so I really don't want to give them something expensive. And I'm also bitter about the drive. Any ideas? If we give cash, how much?
leckey wrote:
1. kori's tux rental: $100
When I was 21 my parents (along with the rest of the family) chipped into get me a full Prince Charlie style Highland Dress[^]. Moving Cultures: Would it not be cheaper, in the long run, just to own the Tux?
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leckey wrote:
4. Food for the weekend: about $50
Is that for one person? Assuming breakfast, lunch and dinner for 3 days, that's about 5 bucks a meal for 1 person. Might want to bump that budget up a bit, unless you're relying on fast food. Or maybe restaurants are cheaper in SD, haven't been there in awhile... As far as a gift, give them something whacky that sits around the house and everytime they see it, they remember you. Or something unique they might not use everyday, but when they do they think of you. Some of the best gifts we got, we're the ones that weren't on our registry.
- S 50 cups of coffee and you know it's on!
It's more than enough if you hit the supermarket and the frying pan :) I spent half a year with a friend on a $18/day average for both of us - and most of that went into gas and reparing keeping the car running
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It's more than enough if you hit the supermarket and the frying pan :) I spent half a year with a friend on a $18/day average for both of us - and most of that went into gas and reparing keeping the car running
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It's more than enough if you hit the supermarket and the frying pan
That's true, a loaf of wonderbread and bologna goes a long way. I could probably live on corn-nuts for a good week if I had to, especially if they were Nacho or Picante flavored. :-D I was assuming she was on the road and going to a wedding where you get sucked into going out with people, and even if you only order a salad, the bill is split equally, so you end up getting screwed.
peterchen wrote:
I spent half a year with a friend on a $18/day average for both of us
Yeah, I did that once too, it was called college. :) Bit longer than half a year, but we survived!
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peterchen wrote:
It's more than enough if you hit the supermarket and the frying pan
That's true, a loaf of wonderbread and bologna goes a long way. I could probably live on corn-nuts for a good week if I had to, especially if they were Nacho or Picante flavored. :-D I was assuming she was on the road and going to a wedding where you get sucked into going out with people, and even if you only order a salad, the bill is split equally, so you end up getting screwed.
peterchen wrote:
I spent half a year with a friend on a $18/day average for both of us
Yeah, I did that once too, it was called college. :) Bit longer than half a year, but we survived!
- S 50 cups of coffee and you know it's on!
Steve Echols wrote:
going to a wedding where you get sucked into going out with people
Absolutely. I wondered that too, but hey, there's a wedding, they can stuff their bellies and pockets!
Steve Echols wrote:
it was called college.
Eh ;) But I truly believe we saw a bit more... I know no other developed country where you can see as much, and get around on so little.
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Steve Echols wrote:
going to a wedding where you get sucked into going out with people
Absolutely. I wondered that too, but hey, there's a wedding, they can stuff their bellies and pockets!
Steve Echols wrote:
it was called college.
Eh ;) But I truly believe we saw a bit more... I know no other developed country where you can see as much, and get around on so little.
We are a big screwed up dysfunctional psychotic happy family - some more screwed up, others more happy, but everybody's psychotic joint venture definition of CP
Tree in C# || Fold With Us! || sighistpeterchen wrote:
I know no other developed country where you can see as much, and get around on so little.
Seeing the stuff is free, but getting there will cost you now. Kind of sad really, because it's usually not where you're going, but the journey that gives you the most memories. Sigh...I remember road trips where we didn't worry about the cost of gas, more the cost of food and booze. Ahhhh, nostalgia....
- S 50 cups of coffee and you know it's on!
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Okay, in two weekends my husband's cousin Michael is getting married. Currently he and his fiance live and work in eastern SD where I used to live--a 2 hour drive. The bride to be is originally from western SD and hasn't lived there in several years. However, they decided to get married out in the Black Hills where she is from. So all of his family and a good portion of hers have to travel out there. Koris is in the wedding so we have to spend an additional night out there. So far I caculate the following for the wedding: 1. kori's tux rental: $100 2. 3 nights of hotel: about $300 3. Gas there and back (a five hour drive each way): about $100 4. Food for the weekend: about $50 So we are shelling out $500+ for this wedding so I really don't want to give them something expensive. And I'm also bitter about the drive. Any ideas? If we give cash, how much?
How about a case of condoms? Since 50% or more of American marriages end up in divorce, why complicate things by bringing kids into it too early.:-D
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Since I used to be a wedding photographer they already "asked" for my services (which means free). Rule number one: don't ever do family. Plus his mom is the "crazy" one of the family. It wouldn't be a good situation. some of the other cousins have already married and I said no.
My boyfriend is an amateur photographer (a very good one though, he got barred from a couple of competitions because someone thought he was a proffesional) and has his own 'war stories' of wedding photography....
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When we got married the minimum cash gift we recieved from family was around $100. On the other hand a crystal picture frame is a generic gift that works for any wedding.
Andy Brummer wrote:
On the other hand a crystal picture frame is a generic gift that works for any wedding.
I think crystal picture frames are totally naff and I'd be pretty pissed off if I received a pile of them for my wedding (in the vanishingly small chance I ever have one).
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Okay, in two weekends my husband's cousin Michael is getting married. Currently he and his fiance live and work in eastern SD where I used to live--a 2 hour drive. The bride to be is originally from western SD and hasn't lived there in several years. However, they decided to get married out in the Black Hills where she is from. So all of his family and a good portion of hers have to travel out there. Koris is in the wedding so we have to spend an additional night out there. So far I caculate the following for the wedding: 1. kori's tux rental: $100 2. 3 nights of hotel: about $300 3. Gas there and back (a five hour drive each way): about $100 4. Food for the weekend: about $50 So we are shelling out $500+ for this wedding so I really don't want to give them something expensive. And I'm also bitter about the drive. Any ideas? If we give cash, how much?
leckey wrote:
And I'm also bitter about the drive.
Ouch..
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Okay, in two weekends my husband's cousin Michael is getting married. Currently he and his fiance live and work in eastern SD where I used to live--a 2 hour drive. The bride to be is originally from western SD and hasn't lived there in several years. However, they decided to get married out in the Black Hills where she is from. So all of his family and a good portion of hers have to travel out there. Koris is in the wedding so we have to spend an additional night out there. So far I caculate the following for the wedding: 1. kori's tux rental: $100 2. 3 nights of hotel: about $300 3. Gas there and back (a five hour drive each way): about $100 4. Food for the weekend: about $50 So we are shelling out $500+ for this wedding so I really don't want to give them something expensive. And I'm also bitter about the drive. Any ideas? If we give cash, how much?
leckey wrote:
So we are shelling out $500+ for this wedding so I really don't want to give them something expensive. And I'm also bitter about the drive.
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