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Words you never want to hear from your spouse: "Now don't be mad at me, but..."

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  • L leckey 0

    It could be worse. My husband's best friend has two kids and had the same number of um, how to discretely say...'special meetings with the wife' for the entire LAST YEAR.

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    Christian Graus
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    I went without for a year, and close to it for about 6 years after, I know what you're saying.

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    • L leckey 0

      They are almost impossible to find in this area so he might have a buyer at work. Otherwise he said he can probably make about $50 US selling it on EBay.

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      OK, they are in short supply ? That's fair enough then. If he sells it. It's calling him as we speak...

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      • C Christian Graus

        I went without for a year, and close to it for about 6 years after, I know what you're saying.

        Christian Graus - C++ MVP 'Why don't we jump on a fad that hasn't already been widely discredited ?' - Dilbert

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        leckey 0
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        Christian Graus wrote:

        about 6 years after

        That's way past the point of it being a medical condition!

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          OK, they are in short supply ? That's fair enough then. If he sells it. It's calling him as we speak...

          Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog

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          leckey 0
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          Isn't the format in Australia different? Seems like when I was there last I tried buying a cricket game for our Playstation and they said it wouldn't play on an American system. I know VHS and DVDs are like that.

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          • L leckey 0

            Yesterday the hubby and I were shopping at Wally World and we split up. He found me in the middle of the store carrying a bag as he already bought something which I thought was incredibly odd. The first words out of his mouth are, "Now don't be mad at me, but..." He has never prefaced a sentence that way. The sentence ended with, "but I bought a Nintendo Wii." He just got a PS3 a couple months ago. Then he goes on to tell me how he can sell it for a profit. I put off getting a new dishwasher because first he got the PS3. Then I put it off again because he needed to get a new surround sound system. Now until he sells this dumb thing I have to wait some more. Has your spouse/sig other started a conversation like this? What did they do? Were you actually mad?

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            Im guessing you do the washing up? Tell him to wash the bloody dishes for a week while you play with your new Wii. Im sure he'll change his tune :)

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            • C Christian Graus

              Yeah, that went over real well.  She kept a secret card for about 6 *years*.  This is after we established that I could afford to pay all the bills, so I gave her an account I had saved $2000 in, and she was to put her pay in there.  Whenever I asked how much was in there, she'd say - we'll have $8000 by Feb.  Next time it would be 'We'll have $600 by Feb', and so on.  In Feb, there was $1000 in there ( just under ).  This was while she had the secret card. So you can imagine how I felt when I came back from my last US trip and was told she got a c/card while I was away, but didn't activate it.  I'm now accustomed to a financial disaster from her every 2 years or so.  I'm kind of due as we speak, actually.

              Christian Graus - C++ MVP 'Why don't we jump on a fad that hasn't already been widely discredited ?' - Dilbert

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              Christian Graus wrote:

              So you can imagine how I felt when I came back from my last US trip and was told she got a c/card while I was away, but didn't activate it. I'm now accustomed to a financial disaster from her every 2 years or so. I'm kind of due as we speak, actually.

              If you contact BayCorp (the credit reference agency) you can ask to be sent an email everytime someone makes a request for a credit report for a small annual fee. You can print out the form from their web site and fax it to them. Ask her to sign the form, use your email and you will know straight away when she applies for almost anything. Our experiance with fraud over the last few months has proven its a good idea anyway.

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              • L Lost User

                Im guessing you do the washing up? Tell him to wash the bloody dishes for a week while you play with your new Wii. Im sure he'll change his tune :)

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                leckey 0
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                So much easier said than done. I have to pull teeth to get him to take out the garbage.

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                  So much easier said than done. I have to pull teeth to get him to take out the garbage.

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                  leckey wrote:

                  So much easier said than done. I have to pull teeth to get him to take out the garbage.

                  Wife != Mother !!!!!!! We have a simple rule at home, one cooks and the other cleans.

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                  • L leckey 0

                    I don't mind him getting a new surround sound system. The last one was on the fritz and the receiver created only two levels of volume: 1. "Heh?" and 2. "Oh my G-d my ears are bleeding!" I just want my new dishwasher.

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                    leckey wrote:

                    I just want my new dishwasher.

                    You might be married to one. It just needs a bit of TLC (and a Wii) before it'll start. ;)


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                    • L leckey 0

                      Yesterday the hubby and I were shopping at Wally World and we split up. He found me in the middle of the store carrying a bag as he already bought something which I thought was incredibly odd. The first words out of his mouth are, "Now don't be mad at me, but..." He has never prefaced a sentence that way. The sentence ended with, "but I bought a Nintendo Wii." He just got a PS3 a couple months ago. Then he goes on to tell me how he can sell it for a profit. I put off getting a new dishwasher because first he got the PS3. Then I put it off again because he needed to get a new surround sound system. Now until he sells this dumb thing I have to wait some more. Has your spouse/sig other started a conversation like this? What did they do? Were you actually mad?

                      _________________________________________________________________ Dick Cheney looks like a high school calculus teacher with persistent heartburn.

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                      Colin Angus Mackay
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                      My ex never prefixed a sentence in any way like that. She'd go out and spend my money on things and to soften the blow she'd buy something for me. This wouldn't have been so bad except it was my money in the first place, and it usually cost a lot. The most notable item was a lovely piece of Lladró porcelain which I really liked for about £500 ($900) - it didn't work. We split up about a week later and to this day I'm still paying off the credit card debt.


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                      • L leckey 0

                        I don't mind him getting a new surround sound system. The last one was on the fritz and the receiver created only two levels of volume: 1. "Heh?" and 2. "Oh my G-d my ears are bleeding!" I just want my new dishwasher.

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                        Colin Angus Mackay
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                        I got my first dishwasher a few months ago. Wow! What a difference. If it was on the fritz and it was a choice between a new dishwasher and a Wii I'd go for the dishwasher. I'd just satisfy myself with watching some DVDs - By the way, have you tried Amazon's rental service. Absolutely fantastic!


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                        • D David Wulff

                          "I'm not mad at you, I'm just dissapointed."


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                          Colin Angus Mackay
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                          David Wulff wrote:

                          "I'm not mad at you, I'm just dissapointed."

                          I recon that's probably one of the most devastating replies. It's sincere, yet understated. It says a lot more than it appears to say.


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                          • L leckey 0

                            I don't mind him getting a new surround sound system. The last one was on the fritz and the receiver created only two levels of volume: 1. "Heh?" and 2. "Oh my G-d my ears are bleeding!" I just want my new dishwasher.

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                            Chris S Kaiser
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                            Sounds like its time for your own: "Now don't be mad at me, but..." "I bought a new dishwasher." :laugh:

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                            • M Mike Gaskey

                              Why would an adult want a game machine?

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                              Chris S Kaiser
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                              Think of it in terms of interactive entertainment.

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                              • C Chris Meech

                                I've heard those words from my wife on three separate occassions. Oh did I mention that I have three daughters. :)

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                                Colin Angus Mackay
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                                Chris Meech wrote:

                                I've heard those words from my wife on three separate occassions. Oh did I mention that I have three daughters.

                                If I had a wife, and she said she was pregnant I'd be overjoyed. However, I've not been the most successful in the loving wife department (My ex was a psyco and marriage was averted at T minus 53 hours) so the chances of hearing that news are fairly limited. I have thought about going to an adoption agency as they will adopt to prospective single parents. However, I wouldn't know where to start and I really would need a partner (not just to help me, but for the child too)


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                                • C Colin Angus Mackay

                                  David Wulff wrote:

                                  "I'm not mad at you, I'm just dissapointed."

                                  I recon that's probably one of the most devastating replies. It's sincere, yet understated. It says a lot more than it appears to say.


                                  Upcoming events: * Glasgow Geek Dinner (5th March) * Glasgow: Tell us what you want to see in 2007 My: Website | Blog | Photos

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                                  Colin Angus Mackay wrote:

                                  I recon that's probably one of the most devastating replies. It's sincere, yet understated. It says a lot more than it appears to say.

                                  :) Like when my girl friend looks at me while Im smoking a ciggy, rolls her eyes and says "Im not going to say anything"

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                                  • M Mike Gaskey

                                    brianwelsch wrote:

                                    The better question is: why would an adult NOT want a game machine?

                                    Because there are books to be read.

                                    Mike The NYT - my leftist brochure. dennisd45: My view of the world is slightly more nuanced dennisd45 (the NAMBLA supporter) wrote: I know exactly what it means. So shut up you mother killing baby raper.

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                                    I don't know who gave you a 1-vote but I countered it. I thought it was rather unfair. There are some excellent books out there.


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                                    • L leckey 0

                                      Isn't the format in Australia different? Seems like when I was there last I tried buying a cricket game for our Playstation and they said it wouldn't play on an American system. I know VHS and DVDs are like that.

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                                      Christian Graus
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                                      VHS is completely different, it plays at a different speed, and your TV system is different.  DVDs are region encoded to try and stop people buying from OS, but most of my DVDs are from the US.  PS games are also encoded, you can get XBox and PS2 mods to play games from the US

                                      Christian Graus - C++ MVP 'Why don't we jump on a fad that hasn't already been widely discredited ?' - Dilbert

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                                      • L leckey 0

                                        Christian Graus wrote:

                                        about 6 years after

                                        That's way past the point of it being a medical condition!

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                                        Yes, yes it is.  Typical conversations in my house her:  sex isn't love me: absence of sex isn't love either, if it was, then I'd be cheating on you with everyone else in the world her: but sex isn't everything me: yes, but it's *something* Then I sleep in the spare room. Apparently she had post natal depression, which lingered and led into a spending spiral on the secret credit cards.  She's also overweight and lazy, I think a big problem is just that she can't be bothered. My core issue, really, is that she didn't talk to me about any of this, I found out years later.

                                        Christian Graus - C++ MVP 'Why don't we jump on a fad that hasn't already been widely discredited ?' - Dilbert

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                                        • L leckey 0

                                          Isn't the format in Australia different? Seems like when I was there last I tried buying a cricket game for our Playstation and they said it wouldn't play on an American system. I know VHS and DVDs are like that.

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                                          leckey wrote:

                                          Seems like when I was there last I tried buying a cricket game for our Playstation and they said it wouldn't play on an American system.

                                          The PS games were region-locked, similar to how DVDs are. In addition, there were both PAL and NTSC games (PAL and NTSC are two common but incompatible television systems; most countries use one or the other, effectively region-locking VHS tapes produced for these regions). In the PS1 days, a mod chip would easily defeat region locking, and there were hacks and devices for playing PAL games in NTSC regions as well. The Wii also has a system of region locking, but i'm not aware of how it's implemented or how difficult it would be to circumvent. If nothing else, a person importing a Wii might be stuck importing all their games as well...

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