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Words you never want to hear from your spouse: "Now don't be mad at me, but..."

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  • M Mike Gaskey

    leckey wrote:

    I can definately see the generation gap.

    re: generation gap That's why I finally pointed out my age. However I couldn't begin to tell you how many $ 0.25 I spent on pong when it became a staple in bars. Ditto pinball machines, I won a lot of free beer in pinball challenges. As life gets shorter, time becomes much more precious. By the way, can you offer an unattributable opinion on the FX530-series.

    Mike The NYT - my leftist brochure. dennisd45: My view of the world is slightly more nuanced dennisd45 (the NAMBLA supporter) wrote: I know exactly what it means. So shut up you mother killing baby raper.

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    Stuart Dootson
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    [edit]Pressed the Post Message button before writing the message - Shog9 - any chance of CPhog detecting an empty message and posting an "Are you sure you want to post an empty message" dialog? Mike - it's not just a question of age. My mum and dad are a case in point. They're both in their 60s, but while my mum's always enjoyed video games (she has a Gameboy that gets use every day), my dad can't see the point and really can't be bothered. Me - I take after my mum in this respect :-)

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    • C Christian Graus

      Yeah, that went over real well.  She kept a secret card for about 6 *years*.  This is after we established that I could afford to pay all the bills, so I gave her an account I had saved $2000 in, and she was to put her pay in there.  Whenever I asked how much was in there, she'd say - we'll have $8000 by Feb.  Next time it would be 'We'll have $600 by Feb', and so on.  In Feb, there was $1000 in there ( just under ).  This was while she had the secret card. So you can imagine how I felt when I came back from my last US trip and was told she got a c/card while I was away, but didn't activate it.  I'm now accustomed to a financial disaster from her every 2 years or so.  I'm kind of due as we speak, actually.

      Christian Graus - C++ MVP 'Why don't we jump on a fad that hasn't already been widely discredited ?' - Dilbert

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      Christian Graus wrote:

      I'm now accustomed to a financial disaster from her every 2 years or so. I'm kind of due as we speak, actually.

      Kind of like living on the San Andreas Fault, then, really...

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      • S Stuart Dootson

        Christian Graus wrote:

        I'm now accustomed to a financial disaster from her every 2 years or so. I'm kind of due as we speak, actually.

        Kind of like living on the San Andreas Fault, then, really...

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        Christian Graus
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        Gee, now you're making it sound exciting...

        Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog

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        • L leckey 0

          Yesterday the hubby and I were shopping at Wally World and we split up. He found me in the middle of the store carrying a bag as he already bought something which I thought was incredibly odd. The first words out of his mouth are, "Now don't be mad at me, but..." He has never prefaced a sentence that way. The sentence ended with, "but I bought a Nintendo Wii." He just got a PS3 a couple months ago. Then he goes on to tell me how he can sell it for a profit. I put off getting a new dishwasher because first he got the PS3. Then I put it off again because he needed to get a new surround sound system. Now until he sells this dumb thing I have to wait some more. Has your spouse/sig other started a conversation like this? What did they do? Were you actually mad?

          _________________________________________________________________ Dick Cheney looks like a high school calculus teacher with persistent heartburn.

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          Rage
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          leckey wrote:

          a new dishwasher

          Can't you simply wash it yourself instead of using a machine ? What are you supposed to do while he is playing the PS3 or the Wii with the new surround system turned on ? You're the lady... :rolleyes: Rage ducks

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            leckey wrote:

            a new dishwasher

            Can't you simply wash it yourself instead of using a machine ? What are you supposed to do while he is playing the PS3 or the Wii with the new surround system turned on ? You're the lady... :rolleyes: Rage ducks

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            ednrgc
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            leckey wrote:

            a new dishwasher

            He already married the dishwasher.

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              Yesterday the hubby and I were shopping at Wally World and we split up. He found me in the middle of the store carrying a bag as he already bought something which I thought was incredibly odd. The first words out of his mouth are, "Now don't be mad at me, but..." He has never prefaced a sentence that way. The sentence ended with, "but I bought a Nintendo Wii." He just got a PS3 a couple months ago. Then he goes on to tell me how he can sell it for a profit. I put off getting a new dishwasher because first he got the PS3. Then I put it off again because he needed to get a new surround sound system. Now until he sells this dumb thing I have to wait some more. Has your spouse/sig other started a conversation like this? What did they do? Were you actually mad?

              _________________________________________________________________ Dick Cheney looks like a high school calculus teacher with persistent heartburn.

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              ednrgc
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              leckey wrote:

              The sentence ended with, "but I bought a Nintendo Wii."

              better than "but it can be cleared up in a few days with these pills":laugh:

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                I don't mind him getting a new surround sound system. The last one was on the fritz and the receiver created only two levels of volume: 1. "Heh?" and 2. "Oh my G-d my ears are bleeding!" I just want my new dishwasher.

                _________________________________________________________________ Dick Cheney looks like a high school calculus teacher with persistent heartburn.

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                leckey wrote:

                I just want my new dishwasher.

                He's busy playing with his wii...

                "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt, 1997
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                  Yesterday the hubby and I were shopping at Wally World and we split up. He found me in the middle of the store carrying a bag as he already bought something which I thought was incredibly odd. The first words out of his mouth are, "Now don't be mad at me, but..." He has never prefaced a sentence that way. The sentence ended with, "but I bought a Nintendo Wii." He just got a PS3 a couple months ago. Then he goes on to tell me how he can sell it for a profit. I put off getting a new dishwasher because first he got the PS3. Then I put it off again because he needed to get a new surround sound system. Now until he sells this dumb thing I have to wait some more. Has your spouse/sig other started a conversation like this? What did they do? Were you actually mad?

                  _________________________________________________________________ Dick Cheney looks like a high school calculus teacher with persistent heartburn.

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                  We don't have that particular problem at my house. *My* particular problem is feature creep. My new TV is a perfect example. Her: Hey honey, so-and-so at my office got one of those 65-inch rear-projection TVs over the weekend and it only cost $1500. She says it's really nice. Me: That's nice, but that's still an awful lot to pay for a TV. Her: That's okay, we can afford it (meaning we can pay cash) if we want one. Me: Do you want to out and look at some? Her: Sure, but let's look around on the web first. Over the next couple of months, I dutifully researched pretty much every TV ever made, and settled on two, and further established that they were available locally. Me: Okay, we should one of these two. They're both about the same amount of money, but both are more expensive than so-and-so's. Her: How much more? Me: Depending on where you get it, $300-500 more. Her: Why? Me: Well, because the one so-and-so got only has 1 HDMI port and 1 component port. Further, it ony goes up to 720i. The ones I've selected both have 2 HDI ports and 2 Component ports, and the max resolution is 1080p. Her: Do we need all that? Me: Well, we only need 1 HDMI, but we need 2 component, and while no HD device serves up 1080p right now, it will be available in the future, so we're future-proofing our purchase. Besides, the other specs on these two are better than so-and-so's tv. Her: How big is it? Me: One is 55 inches and one is 57. I'm leaning towards the 57 because it's a bit less expensive and more than one place in town carries it. Her: Fine, let's go look at 'em. So we go down and look at both, and we both agree that the 57 is a better TV, and we end up at BestBuy for our purchase. Her: So just the TV? Me: Well, not quite. I was readin up on it on the web and everyone seems to think you get much better signal quality if you go with high-quality shielded cables. Her: How much are they. Me: Depending on the length and what kind of cable, anywhere from $50 to $120. Her: For all of them? Me: No. EACH. If we're going to drop $2k on a TV, we should make absolutely sure we can't blame the cables for a crappy picture/signal. She grimaced, and visibly wilted as the price for cables alone exceeded $350. I have to admit, I think it's a freakin ripoff myself. Anyway, we got home and later that week I was dismantling our entertainment center in anticipation of the delivery of the new TV, when I discovered that my curret DVD player would not upscale the picture

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                    Yesterday the hubby and I were shopping at Wally World and we split up. He found me in the middle of the store carrying a bag as he already bought something which I thought was incredibly odd. The first words out of his mouth are, "Now don't be mad at me, but..." He has never prefaced a sentence that way. The sentence ended with, "but I bought a Nintendo Wii." He just got a PS3 a couple months ago. Then he goes on to tell me how he can sell it for a profit. I put off getting a new dishwasher because first he got the PS3. Then I put it off again because he needed to get a new surround sound system. Now until he sells this dumb thing I have to wait some more. Has your spouse/sig other started a conversation like this? What did they do? Were you actually mad?

                    _________________________________________________________________ Dick Cheney looks like a high school calculus teacher with persistent heartburn.

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                    The few times my girfriend said so, each time she was right in her presumption I would be mad. After all, such a sentence is used to state that you beloved one didn't give a fuck about your opinion and/or your feelings. Not the best thing coming from the partner in couple. Liberty consists in the freedom to do everything which injures no one else; The same limit applies for selfishness in a couple.


                    Where do you expect us to go when the bombs fall?

                    Fold with us! ¤ flickr

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                      We don't have that particular problem at my house. *My* particular problem is feature creep. My new TV is a perfect example. Her: Hey honey, so-and-so at my office got one of those 65-inch rear-projection TVs over the weekend and it only cost $1500. She says it's really nice. Me: That's nice, but that's still an awful lot to pay for a TV. Her: That's okay, we can afford it (meaning we can pay cash) if we want one. Me: Do you want to out and look at some? Her: Sure, but let's look around on the web first. Over the next couple of months, I dutifully researched pretty much every TV ever made, and settled on two, and further established that they were available locally. Me: Okay, we should one of these two. They're both about the same amount of money, but both are more expensive than so-and-so's. Her: How much more? Me: Depending on where you get it, $300-500 more. Her: Why? Me: Well, because the one so-and-so got only has 1 HDMI port and 1 component port. Further, it ony goes up to 720i. The ones I've selected both have 2 HDI ports and 2 Component ports, and the max resolution is 1080p. Her: Do we need all that? Me: Well, we only need 1 HDMI, but we need 2 component, and while no HD device serves up 1080p right now, it will be available in the future, so we're future-proofing our purchase. Besides, the other specs on these two are better than so-and-so's tv. Her: How big is it? Me: One is 55 inches and one is 57. I'm leaning towards the 57 because it's a bit less expensive and more than one place in town carries it. Her: Fine, let's go look at 'em. So we go down and look at both, and we both agree that the 57 is a better TV, and we end up at BestBuy for our purchase. Her: So just the TV? Me: Well, not quite. I was readin up on it on the web and everyone seems to think you get much better signal quality if you go with high-quality shielded cables. Her: How much are they. Me: Depending on the length and what kind of cable, anywhere from $50 to $120. Her: For all of them? Me: No. EACH. If we're going to drop $2k on a TV, we should make absolutely sure we can't blame the cables for a crappy picture/signal. She grimaced, and visibly wilted as the price for cables alone exceeded $350. I have to admit, I think it's a freakin ripoff myself. Anyway, we got home and later that week I was dismantling our entertainment center in anticipation of the delivery of the new TV, when I discovered that my curret DVD player would not upscale the picture

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                      John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote:

                      the story about me walking into a motorcycle shop to buy a $90 helmet and coming home with a $22,000 motorcycle?

                      You finally decided to buy a motorcycle? Congrats!


                      Where do you expect us to go when the bombs fall?

                      Fold with us! ¤ flickr

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                        John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote:

                        the story about me walking into a motorcycle shop to buy a $90 helmet and coming home with a $22,000 motorcycle?

                        You finally decided to buy a motorcycle? Congrats!


                        Where do you expect us to go when the bombs fall?

                        Fold with us! ¤ flickr

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                        Nooo.... That happened back in 1999, and I already had a bike at the time...

                        "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt, 1997
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                          Nooo.... That happened back in 1999, and I already had a bike at the time...

                          "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt, 1997
                          -----
                          "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001

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                          Oh... I thought you had only H-Ds.


                          Where do you expect us to go when the bombs fall?

                          Fold with us! ¤ flickr

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