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  • R Rama Krishna Vavilala

    Sijin wrote: But imagine what it would be like if you could discuss STL with your wife I will soon know what it would be like. My fiancee is a programmer. Not only that I can discuss Java and Oracle too. Only time when we had technical discussion was when I said that Oracle was a crap but she stood for oracle. Ofcourse I had to stop the discussion and since then we never had any technical discussion.:)

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    Rama Krishna wrote: My fiancee is a programmer. Not only that I can discuss Java and Oracle too. Cool. :) :) Endless Loop: n., see Loop, Endless. Sonork ID 100.9997 sijinjoseph

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      Are all programmers male ?? :confused: :confused: :confused: Maxwell Chen Lets make bugs better!

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      Nish Nishant
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      Maxwell Chen wrote: Are all programmers male ?? LOL Maxwell. Good thought provoking question! Nish


      Regards, Nish Native CPian. Born and brought up on CP. With the CP blood in him.

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        Not all the time, but it's good to have a wife with whom you could discuss some issues knowing that she can make sense of what you are saying. The point is we all are quite passionate about software/programming and that passion is not about to die, so it would be nice if your wife atleast understood what you are doing. It would be pretty sad if you do something really cool and you show it to your wife and she dosen't even understand what you have done. "Hello, World" 17 Errors, 31 Warnings... Sonork ID 100.9997 sijinjoseph

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        Sijin wrote: "Hello, World" 17 Errors, 31 Warnings... That must be a COBOL program I guess :-) Nish


        Regards, Nish Native CPian. Born and brought up on CP. With the CP blood in him.

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        • J Janice

          Hope somebody can offer me some good advice. I met this guy almost two years ago in an ICQ chat room. Well we started emailing each other a lot and sending pics and chatting a lot. This month he finally flew over to meet and he stayed in a hotel in town. We had a lot of fun together it was great, but towards the end of the first week I found he really did not know anything about computers :(( and was just really a user. I think I would hate to stay in a relationship where I was totally the technology savvy partner. Is it right for me to dump him, just because he does not understand OSes and can not program? Am I being selfish wanting somone who can boot from a floppy? I hope I have not bothered anyone by posting this here, but I thought I would turn to my friends first. :rose: Janice :rose:

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          Daniel Ferguson
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          Janice wrote: Am I being selfish wanting somone who can boot from a floppy? I, too, find this really funny. :) I think a relationship should be based on more than computers, so if you do like him and you have common interests, then keep in touch with him. her legs were like peanut butter - smooth and creamy and easy to spread

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            Janice wrote: Am I being selfish wanting somone who can boot from a floppy? I, too, find this really funny. :) I think a relationship should be based on more than computers, so if you do like him and you have common interests, then keep in touch with him. her legs were like peanut butter - smooth and creamy and easy to spread

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            Daniel Ferguson wrote: I, too, find this really funny. Do not worry it was intended to be funny. :-) Daniel Ferguson wrote: I think a relationship should be based on more than computers, Yes, I do too but computers play such a big part of my life, and I expect that to only increase in the future. Daniel Ferguson wrote: so if you do like him and you have common interests, then keep in touch with him. I probably will only because I find it so hard to meet guys. Yes that does sound week does it not :-(( And we do not really have any common interests. :rose: Janice :rose:

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              Daniel Ferguson wrote: I, too, find this really funny. Do not worry it was intended to be funny. :-) Daniel Ferguson wrote: I think a relationship should be based on more than computers, Yes, I do too but computers play such a big part of my life, and I expect that to only increase in the future. Daniel Ferguson wrote: so if you do like him and you have common interests, then keep in touch with him. I probably will only because I find it so hard to meet guys. Yes that does sound week does it not :-(( And we do not really have any common interests. :rose: Janice :rose:

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              Maxwell Chen
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              Janice wrote: I find it so hard to meet guys. It's so hard to meet girls here... I mean where I work and where I live. :(( :(( :(( :(( :(( Maxwell Chen Lets make bugs better!

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              • J Janice

                Hope somebody can offer me some good advice. I met this guy almost two years ago in an ICQ chat room. Well we started emailing each other a lot and sending pics and chatting a lot. This month he finally flew over to meet and he stayed in a hotel in town. We had a lot of fun together it was great, but towards the end of the first week I found he really did not know anything about computers :(( and was just really a user. I think I would hate to stay in a relationship where I was totally the technology savvy partner. Is it right for me to dump him, just because he does not understand OSes and can not program? Am I being selfish wanting somone who can boot from a floppy? I hope I have not bothered anyone by posting this here, but I thought I would turn to my friends first. :rose: Janice :rose:

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                Janice wrote: I think I would hate to stay in a relationship where I was totally the technology savvy partner. Knowlege of computers isn't everything. Everyone has their own interests and specialties; find out what his are. You may be able to teach each other quite a bit. If you can't find out what his interests/specialties are, then there's a good chance you're heading into a very dull relationship. Janice wrote: I hope I have not bothered anyone by posting this here, but I thought I would turn to my friends first. Ah well, i replied anyway. Best of luck to ya! --------

                This is what we've waited for This is it boys, this is War!

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                • M Maxwell Chen

                  Are all programmers male ?? :confused: :confused: :confused: Maxwell Chen Lets make bugs better!

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                  no Cathy Life's uncertain, have dessert first!

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                  • N Nish Nishant

                    Sijin wrote: "Hello, World" 17 Errors, 31 Warnings... That must be a COBOL program I guess :-) Nish


                    Regards, Nish Native CPian. Born and brought up on CP. With the CP blood in him.

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                    Sijin
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                    :-D :-D :-D yeah... That reminds me , a long long time ago when i first ventured from the Turbo C++ world into windows programming. I bought a book, Windows programming with Borland C++ i had no idea about Windows API or the OWL library. I wrote my hello world program using OWL and u can guess how many errors and warning i encountered, i didn't even have the OWL library :-D :-D :-D Anyways i think that set me back quite a bit and this was before the Net so i had no idea about how to proceed and this is how i ventured into the world of VB :-O :-O but thankfully i am out of it now. :) :) Do you program in Assembly ?" she asked. "NOP," he said Sonork ID 100.9997 sijinjoseph

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                      :-D :-D :-D yeah... That reminds me , a long long time ago when i first ventured from the Turbo C++ world into windows programming. I bought a book, Windows programming with Borland C++ i had no idea about Windows API or the OWL library. I wrote my hello world program using OWL and u can guess how many errors and warning i encountered, i didn't even have the OWL library :-D :-D :-D Anyways i think that set me back quite a bit and this was before the Net so i had no idea about how to proceed and this is how i ventured into the world of VB :-O :-O but thankfully i am out of it now. :) :) Do you program in Assembly ?" she asked. "NOP," he said Sonork ID 100.9997 sijinjoseph

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                      Nish Nishant
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                      Sijin wrote: Do you program in Assembly ?" she asked. "NOP," he said ROTFLMAO Brilliant!!!! Nish p.s. His answer must have given her a JMP ;-)


                      Regards, Nish Native CPian. Born and brought up on CP. With the CP blood in him.

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                      • J Janice

                        I'm a software developer and as so I have to work with users too often. I find they really give me headaches. Most of the people I work with are male and I prefer the smart ones by far. I really enjoy stimulating conversation and discovering, having to teach a guy anything doesn't interest me. If we get in to a long term relationship and I have continually have to explain things to him I'll be driven crazy. :rose: Janice :rose:

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                        I agree. You know that little indestructible black box that is used on airplanes? Why can't they make the whole plane out of that stuff? Sonork ID 100.9997 sijinjoseph

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                        • J Janice

                          Hope somebody can offer me some good advice. I met this guy almost two years ago in an ICQ chat room. Well we started emailing each other a lot and sending pics and chatting a lot. This month he finally flew over to meet and he stayed in a hotel in town. We had a lot of fun together it was great, but towards the end of the first week I found he really did not know anything about computers :(( and was just really a user. I think I would hate to stay in a relationship where I was totally the technology savvy partner. Is it right for me to dump him, just because he does not understand OSes and can not program? Am I being selfish wanting somone who can boot from a floppy? I hope I have not bothered anyone by posting this here, but I thought I would turn to my friends first. :rose: Janice :rose:

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                          Roger Wright
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                          Janice wrote: Am I being selfish wanting somone who can boot from a floppy? There's nothing wrong with wanting a partner who shares your abilities and interests. And there is good reason to avoid a man who poses as someone he is not. The dishonesty won't stop when the courtship is over... Janice wrote: I hope I have not bothered anyone by posting this here, but I thought I would turn to my friends first. I'm glad you thought to ask us. No one here has anything to gain by encouraging you or attempting to dissuade you from this relationship. We just want all of our friends here to find happiness and a life of contentment. It is always right, IMHO, to dump a doomed relationship, no matter what grandiose gestures were made to initiate it. There is no unhappiness in Dante's wildest imaginings so great as being with a partner who is wrong for you. It is far better to suffer the pangs of loneliness, than to be trapped in a relationship with a 'wrong' person!

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                            Hope somebody can offer me some good advice. I met this guy almost two years ago in an ICQ chat room. Well we started emailing each other a lot and sending pics and chatting a lot. This month he finally flew over to meet and he stayed in a hotel in town. We had a lot of fun together it was great, but towards the end of the first week I found he really did not know anything about computers :(( and was just really a user. I think I would hate to stay in a relationship where I was totally the technology savvy partner. Is it right for me to dump him, just because he does not understand OSes and can not program? Am I being selfish wanting somone who can boot from a floppy? I hope I have not bothered anyone by posting this here, but I thought I would turn to my friends first. :rose: Janice :rose:

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                            l a u r e n
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                            give him a "teach yourself c++ in 21 days" book wait 21 days give him a test program to write if he gets it right cool else face the thought of life with yinyin (the monkey) and tell im to hit the road :laugh:


                            "... and so i said to him ... if it don't dance and you can't eat it either f**k it or throw it away"
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                              Are all programmers male ?? :confused: :confused: :confused: Maxwell Chen Lets make bugs better!

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                              l a u r e n
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                              *lauren checks herself in the mirror* ummm apparently not ;P


                              "... and so i said to him ... if it don't dance and you can't eat it either f**k it or throw it away"
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                              • J Janice

                                Hope somebody can offer me some good advice. I met this guy almost two years ago in an ICQ chat room. Well we started emailing each other a lot and sending pics and chatting a lot. This month he finally flew over to meet and he stayed in a hotel in town. We had a lot of fun together it was great, but towards the end of the first week I found he really did not know anything about computers :(( and was just really a user. I think I would hate to stay in a relationship where I was totally the technology savvy partner. Is it right for me to dump him, just because he does not understand OSes and can not program? Am I being selfish wanting somone who can boot from a floppy? I hope I have not bothered anyone by posting this here, but I thought I would turn to my friends first. :rose: Janice :rose:

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                                alex barylski
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                                I say forget about him... Personally I need a women who is up to date with current affairs... Theres plenty of tech savvy guys on here.... *** cough *** like me... :) Just my input... Cheers! :) "An expert is someone who has made all the mistakes in his or her field" - Niels Bohr

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                                  Christian Graus wrote: 'Janice', it seems that the CPians have had a discussion and decided you're really a guy. Christian Graus wrote: Just take another photo ( in different undies if you could ), and this time have a book in one hand, ( any book on C++ or the STL will be fine ), and a sign that says 'I am woman, see me browse' in the other. Mmmm, the other CPans must have also noticed that my pic is a photo of a painting. I can hardly be expected to find an artist this early in the morning. :rose: Janice :rose:

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                                  Janice wrote: Mmmm, the other CPans must have also noticed that my pic is a photo of a painting. Doesn't look that way to me. Janice wrote: I can hardly be expected to find an artist this early in the morning. Assuming it's a photo of a painting of you, I didn't ask for another photo, did I ? Christian The tragedy of cyberspace - that so much can travel so far, and yet mean so little. And you don't spend much time with the opposite sex working day and night, unless the pizza delivery person happens to be young, cute, single and female. I can assure you, I've consumed more than a programmer's allotment of pizza, and these conditions have never aligned. - Christopher Duncan - 18/04/2002

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                                    Christian Graus wrote: 'Janice', it seems that the CPians have had a discussion and decided you're really a guy. Christian Graus wrote: Just take another photo ( in different undies if you could ), and this time have a book in one hand, ( any book on C++ or the STL will be fine ), and a sign that says 'I am woman, see me browse' in the other. Mmmm, the other CPans must have also noticed that my pic is a photo of a painting. I can hardly be expected to find an artist this early in the morning. :rose: Janice :rose:

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                                    Janice wrote: Mmmm, the other CPans must have also noticed that my pic is a photo of a painting. Doesn't look that way to me. Janice wrote: I can hardly be expected to find an artist this early in the morning. Assuming it's a photo of a painting of you, I didn't ask for another painting, did I ? Christian The tragedy of cyberspace - that so much can travel so far, and yet mean so little. And you don't spend much time with the opposite sex working day and night, unless the pizza delivery person happens to be young, cute, single and female. I can assure you, I've consumed more than a programmer's allotment of pizza, and these conditions have never aligned. - Christopher Duncan - 18/04/2002

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                                      *lauren checks herself in the mirror* ummm apparently not ;P


                                      "... and so i said to him ... if it don't dance and you can't eat it either f**k it or throw it away"
                                      sonork: 100.18128   8028finder.com

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                                      lauren wrote: ummm apparently not But most programmers are male I guess. Like traffic cops. No women :-( Nish


                                      Regards, Nish Native CPian. Born and brought up on CP. With the CP blood in him.

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                                        *lauren checks herself in the mirror* ummm apparently not ;P


                                        "... and so i said to him ... if it don't dance and you can't eat it either f**k it or throw it away"
                                        sonork: 100.18128   8028finder.com

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                                        Is the mirror the one in the story "Snow White" ? :-O :-O :-O Maxwell Chen Lets make bugs better!

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                                          Hope somebody can offer me some good advice. I met this guy almost two years ago in an ICQ chat room. Well we started emailing each other a lot and sending pics and chatting a lot. This month he finally flew over to meet and he stayed in a hotel in town. We had a lot of fun together it was great, but towards the end of the first week I found he really did not know anything about computers :(( and was just really a user. I think I would hate to stay in a relationship where I was totally the technology savvy partner. Is it right for me to dump him, just because he does not understand OSes and can not program? Am I being selfish wanting somone who can boot from a floppy? I hope I have not bothered anyone by posting this here, but I thought I would turn to my friends first. :rose: Janice :rose:

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                                          Mike Nordell
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                                          Is it right for me to dump him, just because he does not understand OSes and can not program? As an admin you should be accustomed to LART'ing. If it turns out he's incapable or unwilling to learn... Well, wouldn't you say it's grounds for account termination? But I'd also say that if you've kept in touch with this person for two years and didn't find out he's a computer illiterate until you met him IRL, maybe his computer skills matches your person skills? :-> Am I being selfish wanting somone who can boot from a floppy? I don't think so, it's just common sense to look for someone that knows at least the most basic of procedures during an earthquake in the SF bay area. Rather, stay away from someone that don't know what to do.

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