Are distance relationship Successful ???
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Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...
Depends how long either can keep their urges in place :p Today with the internet being alot more common, you can 'be' with the person always.
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Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...
They may. It is mostly a matter of trust, I think. If you trust your partner, and he/she trusts you, this might work out. If one partner starts to get jealous, the relationship will probably fail. I know some people who had very successful distance relationships. I would think that most LONG distance relationships (as in long time, not long distance) will fail.
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
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My relationship with you can only improve with distance. Marc
lol...its about your luv dude...hehe
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Depends how long either can keep their urges in place :p Today with the internet being alot more common, you can 'be' with the person always.
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yeh true..but there are more things which cant be done on internet..or can it be done n m not aware...??? Anything can happen in this world ;-)
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My relationship with you can only improve with distance. Marc
Is this the day of love declarations? A while ago John, now you... who's next? :-D
If you truly believe you need to pick a mobile phone that "says something" about your personality, don't bother. You don't have a personality. A mental illness, maybe - but not a personality. - Charlie Brooker My Blog - My Photos - ScrewTurn Wiki
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yeh true..but there are more things which cant be done on internet..or can it be done n m not aware...??? Anything can happen in this world ;-)
Software_Specialist wrote:
there are more things which cant be done on internet
For example? :-D
If you truly believe you need to pick a mobile phone that "says something" about your personality, don't bother. You don't have a personality. A mental illness, maybe - but not a personality. - Charlie Brooker My Blog - My Photos - ScrewTurn Wiki
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Is this the day of love declarations? A while ago John, now you... who's next? :-D
If you truly believe you need to pick a mobile phone that "says something" about your personality, don't bother. You don't have a personality. A mental illness, maybe - but not a personality. - Charlie Brooker My Blog - My Photos - ScrewTurn Wiki
He never specified love per se. :)
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Software_Specialist wrote:
there are more things which cant be done on internet
For example? :-D
If you truly believe you need to pick a mobile phone that "says something" about your personality, don't bother. You don't have a personality. A mental illness, maybe - but not a personality. - Charlie Brooker My Blog - My Photos - ScrewTurn Wiki
you really want me to elaborate that...:-D i knw you are quite smart to understand that..so ill leave it..:)
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They may. It is mostly a matter of trust, I think. If you trust your partner, and he/she trusts you, this might work out. If one partner starts to get jealous, the relationship will probably fail. I know some people who had very successful distance relationships. I would think that most LONG distance relationships (as in long time, not long distance) will fail.
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
If one partner starts to get jealous
Jealous in what sence...?
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Software_Specialist wrote:
there are more things which cant be done on internet
For example? :-D
If you truly believe you need to pick a mobile phone that "says something" about your personality, don't bother. You don't have a personality. A mental illness, maybe - but not a personality. - Charlie Brooker My Blog - My Photos - ScrewTurn Wiki
Baking cookies! :)
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Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...
They realy suck in my experience, but they can be good for people who like their space but don't actualy want to be alone. They also cot a fortune with all the travelling expenses and travel has its own cost too. A freind of mine who's girlfreind lives in Berlin is starting to get all sorts of strange stomach symptoms he beleives are from flying so regularly. Now that's not conclusive and I don't have an article to point you to but it also happend to another freind who flew alot for work. Huge phone bills too are a pain in the arse but properly done phone sex with someone you love is a real buzz. The main problem though is that when people get lonely they seek apropriate company and when the inevitable occasional down moments strike it's easy to feel the relationship has no future. If the wrong person is around at the time... well you get the idea. I don't want to bring just ideas of doom and gloom here. If they are massively in love then they'd be fools to let that go no matter what. It will be tricky though and requires real commitment but then again it always does anyway. Best of luck to em'
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Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...
Okay, so they LOVE each other and you think he should dump her because of the distance? Do you know how many people spend years upon years trying to find love? My husband and I lived apart for about 2 years because of his job. He was 75 miles away, so still close enough he could drive home on a weeknight if he wanted to. I remember September 11th happened when we were apart and we spent the morning on the phone watching tv and not saying much, just wanting to be with each other. If you really have found love, you don't care about other girls/guys around. You don't want a different flavor. You just want what feels right.
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Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...
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Okay, so they LOVE each other and you think he should dump her because of the distance? Do you know how many people spend years upon years trying to find love? My husband and I lived apart for about 2 years because of his job. He was 75 miles away, so still close enough he could drive home on a weeknight if he wanted to. I remember September 11th happened when we were apart and we spent the morning on the phone watching tv and not saying much, just wanting to be with each other. If you really have found love, you don't care about other girls/guys around. You don't want a different flavor. You just want what feels right.
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yeh i agree with you..But if you take it from a girls point of view. She is quite beautiful as he showed me her pic and at the same time she gets many praposals from guys around her. Well how long she would wait for the guy so far. According to me long distance works upto certain limit. Well i dont have much idea so i cant tell really. Just an assumption. And then rest depends how long can you live without necessory stuff..Or it would be fine if both are cheating each other behind each others back n havin fun wid gal or guy nearby.
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So you mean you have a successful distance relationship..So how long have u been seperated or how often do u guys meet...
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So you mean you have a successful distance relationship..So how long have u been seperated or how often do u guys meet...
Well, first three years were sort of an every other week-end relationship, four following were an every week-end one, and for a year now, it is everyday :) and still runs fine (married, baby coming soon).
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yeh i agree with you..But if you take it from a girls point of view. She is quite beautiful as he showed me her pic and at the same time she gets many praposals from guys around her. Well how long she would wait for the guy so far. According to me long distance works upto certain limit. Well i dont have much idea so i cant tell really. Just an assumption. And then rest depends how long can you live without necessory stuff..Or it would be fine if both are cheating each other behind each others back n havin fun wid gal or guy nearby.
Software_Specialist wrote:
she gets many praposals from guys around her
You obviously have problems to trust her. That is no good.
Software_Specialist wrote:
it would be fine if both are cheating each other behind each others back n havin fun wid gal or guy nearby
This is not my opinion of a relationship.
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Well, first three years were sort of an every other week-end relationship, four following were an every week-end one, and for a year now, it is everyday :) and still runs fine (married, baby coming soon).
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ok congrats... Well its not that bad. Every weekend relationship is still fine but what do you think about every year relationship..?
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ok congrats... Well its not that bad. Every weekend relationship is still fine but what do you think about every year relationship..?
It is a no go.
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Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...
Software_Specialist wrote:
Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...
no relationships just "works" this is the biggest mistake of relationships. Some relationships are easier than others, but all relationships require some level of effort and dedication to make them work. Distant relationships require the most effort and the most dedication, which may seem to mean it is guarenteed to work out.... But there are also no guarentees. A distance based relationship has that distance inside of it. Even if the two people are madly in love with each other, they don't have to put up with the daily quirks of each other either, in that way it is easier. Once the distance closes, a new test on the relationship enters. Dedication and effort may already be there, but daily annoyances may belly-up that relationship rapidly. In the end, it comes down to the two people involved. No answer works for everyone, and there are no solutions to all problems, and no secret plan to make a relationship work. edit: My wife and I met 2.5 years ago, she is in Albuquerque, I am 3+ hours south. We were married on June 29, she moves in two weeks. We see each other often (real often - even with a hybrid, I feel like a sole supporter of oil companies), but now a whole new series of challenges begins.
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