Are distance relationship Successful ???
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Okay, so they LOVE each other and you think he should dump her because of the distance? Do you know how many people spend years upon years trying to find love? My husband and I lived apart for about 2 years because of his job. He was 75 miles away, so still close enough he could drive home on a weeknight if he wanted to. I remember September 11th happened when we were apart and we spent the morning on the phone watching tv and not saying much, just wanting to be with each other. If you really have found love, you don't care about other girls/guys around. You don't want a different flavor. You just want what feels right.
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yeh i agree with you..But if you take it from a girls point of view. She is quite beautiful as he showed me her pic and at the same time she gets many praposals from guys around her. Well how long she would wait for the guy so far. According to me long distance works upto certain limit. Well i dont have much idea so i cant tell really. Just an assumption. And then rest depends how long can you live without necessory stuff..Or it would be fine if both are cheating each other behind each others back n havin fun wid gal or guy nearby.
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So you mean you have a successful distance relationship..So how long have u been seperated or how often do u guys meet...
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So you mean you have a successful distance relationship..So how long have u been seperated or how often do u guys meet...
Well, first three years were sort of an every other week-end relationship, four following were an every week-end one, and for a year now, it is everyday :) and still runs fine (married, baby coming soon).
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yeh i agree with you..But if you take it from a girls point of view. She is quite beautiful as he showed me her pic and at the same time she gets many praposals from guys around her. Well how long she would wait for the guy so far. According to me long distance works upto certain limit. Well i dont have much idea so i cant tell really. Just an assumption. And then rest depends how long can you live without necessory stuff..Or it would be fine if both are cheating each other behind each others back n havin fun wid gal or guy nearby.
Software_Specialist wrote:
she gets many praposals from guys around her
You obviously have problems to trust her. That is no good.
Software_Specialist wrote:
it would be fine if both are cheating each other behind each others back n havin fun wid gal or guy nearby
This is not my opinion of a relationship.
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Well, first three years were sort of an every other week-end relationship, four following were an every week-end one, and for a year now, it is everyday :) and still runs fine (married, baby coming soon).
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ok congrats... Well its not that bad. Every weekend relationship is still fine but what do you think about every year relationship..?
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ok congrats... Well its not that bad. Every weekend relationship is still fine but what do you think about every year relationship..?
It is a no go.
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Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...
Software_Specialist wrote:
Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...
no relationships just "works" this is the biggest mistake of relationships. Some relationships are easier than others, but all relationships require some level of effort and dedication to make them work. Distant relationships require the most effort and the most dedication, which may seem to mean it is guarenteed to work out.... But there are also no guarentees. A distance based relationship has that distance inside of it. Even if the two people are madly in love with each other, they don't have to put up with the daily quirks of each other either, in that way it is easier. Once the distance closes, a new test on the relationship enters. Dedication and effort may already be there, but daily annoyances may belly-up that relationship rapidly. In the end, it comes down to the two people involved. No answer works for everyone, and there are no solutions to all problems, and no secret plan to make a relationship work. edit: My wife and I met 2.5 years ago, she is in Albuquerque, I am 3+ hours south. We were married on June 29, she moves in two weeks. We see each other often (real often - even with a hybrid, I feel like a sole supporter of oil companies), but now a whole new series of challenges begins.
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Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...
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Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...
If it's working for them, why the hell would you try break that apart? Mind your own business.
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Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...
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yeh i agree with you..But if you take it from a girls point of view. She is quite beautiful as he showed me her pic and at the same time she gets many praposals from guys around her. Well how long she would wait for the guy so far. According to me long distance works upto certain limit. Well i dont have much idea so i cant tell really. Just an assumption. And then rest depends how long can you live without necessory stuff..Or it would be fine if both are cheating each other behind each others back n havin fun wid gal or guy nearby.
Software_Specialist wrote:
According to me long distance works upto certain limit.
How very narcissistic of you. What you believe must be true of all people right?
Software_Specialist wrote:
Well how long she would wait for the guy so far.
In other words, per the above, you would not wait, therefore she would not, therefore you believe things would not work.
Software_Specialist wrote:
And then rest depends how long can you live without necessory stuff..Or it would be fine if both are cheating each other behind each others back n havin fun wid gal or guy nearby.
by necessary stuff, you are implying by the second part being sex. Here is a problem for you. If your wife is ill, or pregnant, will you fool around on her because she is not up to necessary stuff? grow up, there is more to life than your view in the world. Anyone can wait with patience and encouragement. Without one or the other, it will fall apart, but it is physically possible to have a long distance relationship, it just requires more effort.
Software_Specialist wrote:
But if you take it from a girls point of view.
oh... and by the way, it is pretty obvious you cannot see things from a girl's point of view, so you shouldn't be assuming anything. You are making many assumptions, not just this one, assuming all people are like you. If you cannot do it, they cannot. If you will fool around, then they will (or should). This whole conversation centers around you and what you cannot handle, and still says very little about them, but a GREAT deal is said about you.
_________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
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Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...
My relationship with my favorite ex-wife improves dramatically as the distance between us increases. :-D
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Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...
Since you seem to consider the girlfriend a replacable object it looks like you will never understand. My b/f and I have had a rough time the past couple of years but we are even closer than before and things are finally coming together (Insert A Team joke here).
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Since you seem to consider the girlfriend a replacable object it looks like you will never understand. My b/f and I have had a rough time the past couple of years but we are even closer than before and things are finally coming together (Insert A Team joke here).
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It's making it through those rough times that makes a relationship stronger. Something no one ever told me as a young'un. I spent way too much time avoiding conflict, rather seeing it something that defines us.
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Ignorance and prejudice and fear walk hand in hand.
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My relationship with my favorite ex-wife improves dramatically as the distance between us increases. :-D
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I'm on-line therefore I am. JimmyRopesJimmyRopes wrote:
My relationship with my favorite ex-wife improves dramatically as the distance between us increases
Mine dramatically improved when I no longer knew where she was.... oh, sure, for a year there it was touch and go... never knowing if there was a blade at my back. But I figure if she hasn't put out a contract on me in 5 years, she probably won't. :)
_________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
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Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...
It is upto them i guess. If they 'Love' each other then they will sort something out themselves. by the sounds of it you dont know what 'Love' is or even a proper relationship with someone you 'like'. my advice to your friend would be: be honest with the girl you 'Love' tell her what you want to do, find out what she wants to do with her life and see if you can find a way to share it. if not you have a problem that no one but your self can solve. I hope it works out for your friend and his girl friend :) and i also hope you get a girl you fall in 'love' with then you might understand what it feel like and how silly you sound now. by the way if your attitude to women stays the same your going to end up being played and a rather upset old man.
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JimmyRopes wrote:
My relationship with my favorite ex-wife improves dramatically as the distance between us increases
Mine dramatically improved when I no longer knew where she was.... oh, sure, for a year there it was touch and go... never knowing if there was a blade at my back. But I figure if she hasn't put out a contract on me in 5 years, she probably won't. :)
_________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
El Corazon wrote:
for a year there it was touch and go... never knowing if there was a blade at my back
Things can get ugly. X|
El Corazon wrote:
But I figure if she hasn't put out a contract on me in 5 years, she probably won't.
Out of sight, out of mind. :cool:
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El Corazon wrote:
for a year there it was touch and go... never knowing if there was a blade at my back
Things can get ugly. X|
El Corazon wrote:
But I figure if she hasn't put out a contract on me in 5 years, she probably won't.
Out of sight, out of mind. :cool:
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I'm on-line therefore I am. JimmyRopesJimmyRopes wrote:
Out of sight, out of mind.
I could assume she lives in Texas now... At least then I can sing a song about it.... ;)
_________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
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JimmyRopes wrote:
Out of sight, out of mind.
I could assume she lives in Texas now... At least then I can sing a song about it.... ;)
_________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
All my Exxes live in Texas. :-D
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yeh i agree with you..But if you take it from a girls point of view. She is quite beautiful as he showed me her pic and at the same time she gets many praposals from guys around her. Well how long she would wait for the guy so far. According to me long distance works upto certain limit. Well i dont have much idea so i cant tell really. Just an assumption. And then rest depends how long can you live without necessory stuff..Or it would be fine if both are cheating each other behind each others back n havin fun wid gal or guy nearby.
Software_Specialist wrote:
back n havin fun wid gal or guy nearby.
It looks like you have a decent langauge skill, but why to use "U wud a gal or gi" Kinda SMS stuff? people just hate it. Use the full form always and make it pleasing to read for the viewers.
