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Are distance relationship Successful ???

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  • S Software_Specialist

    Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...

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    My relationship with my favorite ex-wife improves dramatically as the distance between us increases. :-D

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      Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...

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      Since you seem to consider the girlfriend a replacable object it looks like you will never understand. My b/f and I have had a rough time the past couple of years but we are even closer than before and things are finally coming together (Insert A Team joke here).

      Visit http://www.readytogiveup.com/[^] and do something special today.

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        Since you seem to consider the girlfriend a replacable object it looks like you will never understand. My b/f and I have had a rough time the past couple of years but we are even closer than before and things are finally coming together (Insert A Team joke here).

        Visit http://www.readytogiveup.com/[^] and do something special today.

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        brianwelsch
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        It's making it through those rough times that makes a relationship stronger. Something no one ever told me as a young'un. I spent way too much time avoiding conflict, rather seeing it something that defines us.

        BW


        Quick to judge, quick to anger, slow to understand.
        Ignorance and prejudice and fear walk hand in hand.
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        • J JimmyRopes

          My relationship with my favorite ex-wife improves dramatically as the distance between us increases. :-D

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          El Corazon
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          JimmyRopes wrote:

          My relationship with my favorite ex-wife improves dramatically as the distance between us increases

          Mine dramatically improved when I no longer knew where she was.... oh, sure, for a year there it was touch and go... never knowing if there was a blade at my back. But I figure if she hasn't put out a contract on me in 5 years, she probably won't. :)

          _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)

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          • S Software_Specialist

            Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...

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            It is upto them i guess. If they 'Love' each other then they will sort something out themselves. by the sounds of it you dont know what 'Love' is or even a proper relationship with someone you 'like'. my advice to your friend would be: be honest with the girl you 'Love' tell her what you want to do, find out what she wants to do with her life and see if you can find a way to share it. if not you have a problem that no one but your self can solve. I hope it works out for your friend and his girl friend :) and i also hope you get a girl you fall in 'love' with then you might understand what it feel like and how silly you sound now. by the way if your attitude to women stays the same your going to end up being played and a rather upset old man.

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            • E El Corazon

              JimmyRopes wrote:

              My relationship with my favorite ex-wife improves dramatically as the distance between us increases

              Mine dramatically improved when I no longer knew where she was.... oh, sure, for a year there it was touch and go... never knowing if there was a blade at my back. But I figure if she hasn't put out a contract on me in 5 years, she probably won't. :)

              _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)

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              El Corazon wrote:

              for a year there it was touch and go... never knowing if there was a blade at my back

              Things can get ugly. X|

              El Corazon wrote:

              But I figure if she hasn't put out a contract on me in 5 years, she probably won't.

              Out of sight, out of mind. :cool:

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                El Corazon wrote:

                for a year there it was touch and go... never knowing if there was a blade at my back

                Things can get ugly. X|

                El Corazon wrote:

                But I figure if she hasn't put out a contract on me in 5 years, she probably won't.

                Out of sight, out of mind. :cool:

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                El Corazon
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                JimmyRopes wrote:

                Out of sight, out of mind.

                I could assume she lives in Texas now... At least then I can sing a song about it.... ;)

                _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)

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                • E El Corazon

                  JimmyRopes wrote:

                  Out of sight, out of mind.

                  I could assume she lives in Texas now... At least then I can sing a song about it.... ;)

                  _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)

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                  All my Exxes live in Texas. :-D

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                  • S Software_Specialist

                    yeh i agree with you..But if you take it from a girls point of view. She is quite beautiful as he showed me her pic and at the same time she gets many praposals from guys around her. Well how long she would wait for the guy so far. According to me long distance works upto certain limit. Well i dont have much idea so i cant tell really. Just an assumption. And then rest depends how long can you live without necessory stuff..Or it would be fine if both are cheating each other behind each others back n havin fun wid gal or guy nearby.

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                    Software_Specialist wrote:

                    back n havin fun wid gal or guy nearby.

                    It looks like you have a decent langauge skill, but why to use "U wud a gal or gi" Kinda SMS stuff? people just hate it. Use the full form always and make it pleasing to read for the viewers.


                    Best wishes to Rexx[^]

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                    • M Marc Clifton

                      My relationship with you can only improve with distance. Marc

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                      Vasudevan Deepak Kumar
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                      There is a saying that "Distance lends enchantment". While at close proximity, one wouldn't understand the necessity of another. And when there is a distance of separation and after a while, the pangs of separation would be bit prickly painful to bring the parties closer.

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                      • V Vasudevan Deepak Kumar

                        There is a saying that "Distance lends enchantment". While at close proximity, one wouldn't understand the necessity of another. And when there is a distance of separation and after a while, the pangs of separation would be bit prickly painful to bring the parties closer.

                        Vasudevan Deepak Kumar Personal Homepage Tech Gossips

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                        Dan Neely
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                        Vasudevan Deepak Kumar wrote:

                        There is a saying that "Distance lends enchantment".

                        :) The common English equivalent phrase is "Absence makes the heart grow fonder"/

                        -- You have to explain to them [VB coders] what you mean by "typed". their first response is likely to be something like, "Of course my code is typed. Do you think i magically project it onto the screen with the power of my mind?" --- John Simmons / outlaw programmer

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