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  • L Lost User

    Try getting involved in some kind of hobby, for me it is amateur astronomy and astrophotography.

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    INITCOMMONCONTROLSEX wrote:

    Try getting involved in some kind of hobby, for me it is amateur astronomy and astrophotography.

    And you wonder why you're a virgin!


    If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter

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      INITCOMMONCONTROLSEX wrote:

      Try getting involved in some kind of hobby, for me it is amateur astronomy and astrophotography.

      And you wonder why you're a virgin!


      If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter

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      No, I wonder why you keep replying to me talking about that. I must have really made you angry pointing out your stupid beliefs earlier.

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        No, I wonder why you keep replying to me talking about that. I must have really made you angry pointing out your stupid beliefs earlier.

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        INITCOMMONCONTROLSEX wrote:

        No, I wonder why you keep replying to me talking about that. I must have really made you angry pointing out your stupid beliefs earlier.

        Actually I'm laughing. At you.


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          Seriously, what you're describing is a pattern. You keep doing what you're doing, and your life won't change. Ignoring your drug abuse for a moment, if you want to talk to people, you need to get out. The world is full of lonely people, entirely because they are stuck in a rut which doesn't give them chances to meet people. There are singles groups everywhere. There are all sorts of clubs, computer clubs for a start. Try to figure out where people who have something in common with you meet, and go there. It's that simple - get out, and put yourself in a place where you can meet people you have something in common with, and you'll have people to talk to. And, don't obsess on the sex thing. If you do, you're going to come across as needy to every chick you meet, and that's not attractive to anyone.

          Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )

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          That is some sound advice. I'm also not a people person I cant be super outgoing and shit.

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          • L Lost User

            I feel exactly the same way I feel like shit. For some reason I'm obsessed with sex I have no friends , im really confused about what teh fuck life is and im terribly lonely. I'm addicted to DXM. There world, now you know what my problem is bitches, my brain is fried.

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            I told you that drugs are bad, mmmkay?


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              Seriously, what you're describing is a pattern. You keep doing what you're doing, and your life won't change. Ignoring your drug abuse for a moment, if you want to talk to people, you need to get out. The world is full of lonely people, entirely because they are stuck in a rut which doesn't give them chances to meet people. There are singles groups everywhere. There are all sorts of clubs, computer clubs for a start. Try to figure out where people who have something in common with you meet, and go there. It's that simple - get out, and put yourself in a place where you can meet people you have something in common with, and you'll have people to talk to. And, don't obsess on the sex thing. If you do, you're going to come across as needy to every chick you meet, and that's not attractive to anyone.

              Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )

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              I recommended school to him as that would not only allow him to meet people, but would advance him as a person. That was obviously rejected.


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              • L Lost User

                That is some sound advice. I'm also not a people person I cant be super outgoing and shit.

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                Sure - but, you're not alone in that. Again, I'm not saying you need to hang out in pubs or dance clubs. Go somewhere that you'll feel comfortable because you have something in common with the people there. That's the people who you're likely to be friends with anyhow, right ?

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                • L Lost User

                  No, I wonder why you keep replying to me talking about that. I must have really made you angry pointing out your stupid beliefs earlier.

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                  It sucks being a virgin doesn't it? You don't know what its like and you ain't doin it.

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                  • L Lost User

                    It sucks being a virgin doesn't it? You don't know what its like and you ain't doin it.

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                    You know what chicks like? Guys that aren't desperate douchebags. That also like guys that don't work at Waffle House. Go to school and better yourself so that you have enough self-confidence to not fall all over yourself for chicks. Then they will want you. For cereal.


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                      I recommended school to him as that would not only allow him to meet people, but would advance him as a person. That was obviously rejected.


                      If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter

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                      I went to school. I didn't ever make a lot of friends. Take me to a computer club, or a metal gig, and I'm able to hit it off with pretty much anyone. So, my advice was better :-) I don't think school ever advanced me as a person, everything I've achieved, has been based on things I taught myself, not what school tried to teach me. I am not against schooling, but I don't think it magically makes people better.

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                      • R Red Stateler

                        You know what chicks like? Guys that aren't desperate douchebags. That also like guys that don't work at Waffle House. Go to school and better yourself so that you have enough self-confidence to not fall all over yourself for chicks. Then they will want you. For cereal.


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                        By your logic, all guys who are at school are getting laid. This is not true. However, I agree that being desperate for sex at any cost is a recipe for never getting any, for the reasons you stated.

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                          I went to school. I didn't ever make a lot of friends. Take me to a computer club, or a metal gig, and I'm able to hit it off with pretty much anyone. So, my advice was better :-) I don't think school ever advanced me as a person, everything I've achieved, has been based on things I taught myself, not what school tried to teach me. I am not against schooling, but I don't think it magically makes people better.

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                          Christian Graus wrote:

                          I don't think school ever advanced me as a person, everything I've achieved, has been based on things I taught myself, not what school tried to teach me. I am not against schooling, but I don't think it magically makes people better.

                          I don't think you need school to be a better person, but in this case you have a guy who works at a waffle house (but in all honesty has more potential than that), is getting addicted to drugs and exhibiting the early sounds of Hannibal Lecterian sexual depravity. I think he needs structure more than anything else. And I disagree that school is a bad place to meet new people.


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                            By your logic, all guys who are at school are getting laid. This is not true. However, I agree that being desperate for sex at any cost is a recipe for never getting any, for the reasons you stated.

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                            Christian Graus wrote:

                            By your logic, all guys who are at school are getting laid. This is not true.

                            No, but my understanding is that lawyers get laid a lot.


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                              Sure - but, you're not alone in that. Again, I'm not saying you need to hang out in pubs or dance clubs. Go somewhere that you'll feel comfortable because you have something in common with the people there. That's the people who you're likely to be friends with anyhow, right ?

                              Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )

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                              My problems start with the nazi girl I feel fucking terrible.

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                                Christian Graus wrote:

                                By your logic, all guys who are at school are getting laid. This is not true.

                                No, but my understanding is that lawyers get laid a lot.


                                If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter

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                                Perhaps.

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                                  Christian Graus wrote:

                                  I don't think school ever advanced me as a person, everything I've achieved, has been based on things I taught myself, not what school tried to teach me. I am not against schooling, but I don't think it magically makes people better.

                                  I don't think you need school to be a better person, but in this case you have a guy who works at a waffle house (but in all honesty has more potential than that), is getting addicted to drugs and exhibiting the early sounds of Hannibal Lecterian sexual depravity. I think he needs structure more than anything else. And I disagree that school is a bad place to meet new people.


                                  If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter

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                                  Red Stateler wrote:

                                  I think he needs structure more than anything else

                                  Probably

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                                  And I disagree that school is a bad place to meet new people.

                                  I didn't say that, I just said it doesn't work out for everyone.

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                                  • L Lost User

                                    My problems start with the nazi girl I feel fucking terrible.

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                                    Well, then you're in trouble. If you're able to give one person the ability to control how your life turns out, then you're screwed. if something doesn't work out with a particular person, be it a relationship, a friendship, or whatever, then, you need to be able to move on. Otherwise, you've given someone who obvioulsy doesn't care about you full power over your happiness. That just can't work out for you.

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                                      INITCOMMONCONTROLSEX wrote:

                                      No, I wonder why you keep replying to me talking about that. I must have really made you angry pointing out your stupid beliefs earlier.

                                      Actually I'm laughing. At you.


                                      If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter

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                                      Red Stateler wrote:

                                      Actually I'm laughing. At you.

                                      So are the rest of us but we dont need to be so picky, you're both laughable

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                                        Well, then you're in trouble. If you're able to give one person the ability to control how your life turns out, then you're screwed. if something doesn't work out with a particular person, be it a relationship, a friendship, or whatever, then, you need to be able to move on. Otherwise, you've given someone who obvioulsy doesn't care about you full power over your happiness. That just can't work out for you.

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                                        Christian Graus wrote:

                                        if something doesn't work out with a particular person, be it a relationship, a friendship, or whatever, then, you need to be able to move on.

                                        Either that or learn how to properly cook human brain.


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                                        • L Lost User

                                          My problems start with the nazi girl I feel fucking terrible.

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                                          qwertyuiop[asdfghjklzxcvb wrote:

                                          My problems start with the nazi girl

                                          A lot of people have given you good advice here reciently and there is one common theme to that advice. "You need to ......" "You should....." "You could......" "Why dont you...." Notice the word YOU. She cant make you happy, only you can. Sure, its easier said than done and its terrible cliché but its true

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