Depressed and lonely
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Seriously, what you're describing is a pattern. You keep doing what you're doing, and your life won't change. Ignoring your drug abuse for a moment, if you want to talk to people, you need to get out. The world is full of lonely people, entirely because they are stuck in a rut which doesn't give them chances to meet people. There are singles groups everywhere. There are all sorts of clubs, computer clubs for a start. Try to figure out where people who have something in common with you meet, and go there. It's that simple - get out, and put yourself in a place where you can meet people you have something in common with, and you'll have people to talk to. And, don't obsess on the sex thing. If you do, you're going to come across as needy to every chick you meet, and that's not attractive to anyone.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
I recommended school to him as that would not only allow him to meet people, but would advance him as a person. That was obviously rejected.
If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter
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That is some sound advice. I'm also not a people person I cant be super outgoing and shit.
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Sure - but, you're not alone in that. Again, I'm not saying you need to hang out in pubs or dance clubs. Go somewhere that you'll feel comfortable because you have something in common with the people there. That's the people who you're likely to be friends with anyhow, right ?
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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No, I wonder why you keep replying to me talking about that. I must have really made you angry pointing out your stupid beliefs earlier.
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It sucks being a virgin doesn't it? You don't know what its like and you ain't doin it.
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You know what chicks like? Guys that aren't desperate douchebags. That also like guys that don't work at Waffle House. Go to school and better yourself so that you have enough self-confidence to not fall all over yourself for chicks. Then they will want you. For cereal.
If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter
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I recommended school to him as that would not only allow him to meet people, but would advance him as a person. That was obviously rejected.
If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter
I went to school. I didn't ever make a lot of friends. Take me to a computer club, or a metal gig, and I'm able to hit it off with pretty much anyone. So, my advice was better :-) I don't think school ever advanced me as a person, everything I've achieved, has been based on things I taught myself, not what school tried to teach me. I am not against schooling, but I don't think it magically makes people better.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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You know what chicks like? Guys that aren't desperate douchebags. That also like guys that don't work at Waffle House. Go to school and better yourself so that you have enough self-confidence to not fall all over yourself for chicks. Then they will want you. For cereal.
If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter
By your logic, all guys who are at school are getting laid. This is not true. However, I agree that being desperate for sex at any cost is a recipe for never getting any, for the reasons you stated.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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I went to school. I didn't ever make a lot of friends. Take me to a computer club, or a metal gig, and I'm able to hit it off with pretty much anyone. So, my advice was better :-) I don't think school ever advanced me as a person, everything I've achieved, has been based on things I taught myself, not what school tried to teach me. I am not against schooling, but I don't think it magically makes people better.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
Christian Graus wrote:
I don't think school ever advanced me as a person, everything I've achieved, has been based on things I taught myself, not what school tried to teach me. I am not against schooling, but I don't think it magically makes people better.
I don't think you need school to be a better person, but in this case you have a guy who works at a waffle house (but in all honesty has more potential than that), is getting addicted to drugs and exhibiting the early sounds of Hannibal Lecterian sexual depravity. I think he needs structure more than anything else. And I disagree that school is a bad place to meet new people.
If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter
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By your logic, all guys who are at school are getting laid. This is not true. However, I agree that being desperate for sex at any cost is a recipe for never getting any, for the reasons you stated.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
Christian Graus wrote:
By your logic, all guys who are at school are getting laid. This is not true.
No, but my understanding is that lawyers get laid a lot.
If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter
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Sure - but, you're not alone in that. Again, I'm not saying you need to hang out in pubs or dance clubs. Go somewhere that you'll feel comfortable because you have something in common with the people there. That's the people who you're likely to be friends with anyhow, right ?
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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Christian Graus wrote:
By your logic, all guys who are at school are getting laid. This is not true.
No, but my understanding is that lawyers get laid a lot.
If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter
Perhaps.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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Christian Graus wrote:
I don't think school ever advanced me as a person, everything I've achieved, has been based on things I taught myself, not what school tried to teach me. I am not against schooling, but I don't think it magically makes people better.
I don't think you need school to be a better person, but in this case you have a guy who works at a waffle house (but in all honesty has more potential than that), is getting addicted to drugs and exhibiting the early sounds of Hannibal Lecterian sexual depravity. I think he needs structure more than anything else. And I disagree that school is a bad place to meet new people.
If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter
Red Stateler wrote:
I think he needs structure more than anything else
Probably
Red Stateler wrote:
And I disagree that school is a bad place to meet new people.
I didn't say that, I just said it doesn't work out for everyone.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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My problems start with the nazi girl I feel fucking terrible.
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Well, then you're in trouble. If you're able to give one person the ability to control how your life turns out, then you're screwed. if something doesn't work out with a particular person, be it a relationship, a friendship, or whatever, then, you need to be able to move on. Otherwise, you've given someone who obvioulsy doesn't care about you full power over your happiness. That just can't work out for you.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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INITCOMMONCONTROLSEX wrote:
No, I wonder why you keep replying to me talking about that. I must have really made you angry pointing out your stupid beliefs earlier.
Actually I'm laughing. At you.
If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter
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Well, then you're in trouble. If you're able to give one person the ability to control how your life turns out, then you're screwed. if something doesn't work out with a particular person, be it a relationship, a friendship, or whatever, then, you need to be able to move on. Otherwise, you've given someone who obvioulsy doesn't care about you full power over your happiness. That just can't work out for you.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
Christian Graus wrote:
if something doesn't work out with a particular person, be it a relationship, a friendship, or whatever, then, you need to be able to move on.
Either that or learn how to properly cook human brain.
If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter
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My problems start with the nazi girl I feel fucking terrible.
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qwertyuiop[asdfghjklzxcvb wrote:
My problems start with the nazi girl
A lot of people have given you good advice here reciently and there is one common theme to that advice. "You need to ......" "You should....." "You could......" "Why dont you...." Notice the word YOU. She cant make you happy, only you can. Sure, its easier said than done and its terrible cliché but its true
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qwertyuiop[asdfghjklzxcvb wrote:
My problems start with the nazi girl
A lot of people have given you good advice here reciently and there is one common theme to that advice. "You need to ......" "You should....." "You could......" "Why dont you...." Notice the word YOU. She cant make you happy, only you can. Sure, its easier said than done and its terrible cliché but its true
Awwwww...Ya big lug! You DO care!
If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter
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Awwwww...Ya big lug! You DO care!
If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter
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Red Stateler wrote:
You DO care!
Yes but my compassion is a result of the inherrant guilt of liberalism!
Josh Gray wrote:
Yes but my compassion is a result of the inherrant guilt of liberalism!
I thought liberalism grants a guilt free life (since no behavior is inherently wrong). :confused:
If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter
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qwertyuiop[asdfghjklzxcvb wrote:
I'm obsessed with sex
qwertyuiop[asdfghjklzxcvb wrote:
im really confused about what teh f*** life is
That makes you different from every other teenager, how ?
qwertyuiop[asdfghjklzxcvb wrote:
I'm addicted to DXM
What is that ? Funny thing is, I get around in a denim jacket covered in heavy metal patches, I go to any metal show I can, my room is covered in music related posters, I'm plainly trying to cling to my teenage years, but when I think back, those years were the worst of my life, bar none.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
Christian Graus wrote:
qwertyuiop[asdfghjklzxcvb wrote:
I'm addicted to DXM
What is that ?
Cough syrup. Vile stuff. I mean, just awful. The flavor, the vomiting... ...oh, and i guess it messes with your body's ability to regulate temperature or some such thing. So in addition to the aforementioned vomiting and groovy feelings, you can also die. Fun.
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I don't care what you consider witty, but at least I do not blather on posting nonsense like Jim Crafton.
-- Stringcheese, humbled by Crafton's ability to string together multiple sentences
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Josh Gray wrote:
Yes but my compassion is a result of the inherrant guilt of liberalism!
I thought liberalism grants a guilt free life (since no behavior is inherently wrong). :confused:
If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter
Red Stateler wrote:
I thought liberalism grants a guilt free life (since no behavior is inherently wrong).
You've got it all wrong. Im white, male, middle class, comfortable, I live a GREAT life. How can I not feel guilty knowing that people are suffering the world over. SUFFERING!!!! the guilt I feel is amazing