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  • C Christian Graus

    I went to school. I didn't ever make a lot of friends. Take me to a computer club, or a metal gig, and I'm able to hit it off with pretty much anyone. So, my advice was better :-) I don't think school ever advanced me as a person, everything I've achieved, has been based on things I taught myself, not what school tried to teach me. I am not against schooling, but I don't think it magically makes people better.

    Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )

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    Christian Graus wrote:

    I don't think school ever advanced me as a person, everything I've achieved, has been based on things I taught myself, not what school tried to teach me. I am not against schooling, but I don't think it magically makes people better.

    I don't think you need school to be a better person, but in this case you have a guy who works at a waffle house (but in all honesty has more potential than that), is getting addicted to drugs and exhibiting the early sounds of Hannibal Lecterian sexual depravity. I think he needs structure more than anything else. And I disagree that school is a bad place to meet new people.


    If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter

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    • C Christian Graus

      By your logic, all guys who are at school are getting laid. This is not true. However, I agree that being desperate for sex at any cost is a recipe for never getting any, for the reasons you stated.

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      Christian Graus wrote:

      By your logic, all guys who are at school are getting laid. This is not true.

      No, but my understanding is that lawyers get laid a lot.


      If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter

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      • C Christian Graus

        Sure - but, you're not alone in that. Again, I'm not saying you need to hang out in pubs or dance clubs. Go somewhere that you'll feel comfortable because you have something in common with the people there. That's the people who you're likely to be friends with anyhow, right ?

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        My problems start with the nazi girl I feel fucking terrible.

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          Christian Graus wrote:

          By your logic, all guys who are at school are getting laid. This is not true.

          No, but my understanding is that lawyers get laid a lot.


          If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter

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          Perhaps.

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            Christian Graus wrote:

            I don't think school ever advanced me as a person, everything I've achieved, has been based on things I taught myself, not what school tried to teach me. I am not against schooling, but I don't think it magically makes people better.

            I don't think you need school to be a better person, but in this case you have a guy who works at a waffle house (but in all honesty has more potential than that), is getting addicted to drugs and exhibiting the early sounds of Hannibal Lecterian sexual depravity. I think he needs structure more than anything else. And I disagree that school is a bad place to meet new people.


            If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter

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            Red Stateler wrote:

            I think he needs structure more than anything else

            Probably

            Red Stateler wrote:

            And I disagree that school is a bad place to meet new people.

            I didn't say that, I just said it doesn't work out for everyone.

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              My problems start with the nazi girl I feel fucking terrible.

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              Well, then you're in trouble. If you're able to give one person the ability to control how your life turns out, then you're screwed. if something doesn't work out with a particular person, be it a relationship, a friendship, or whatever, then, you need to be able to move on. Otherwise, you've given someone who obvioulsy doesn't care about you full power over your happiness. That just can't work out for you.

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              • R Red Stateler

                INITCOMMONCONTROLSEX wrote:

                No, I wonder why you keep replying to me talking about that. I must have really made you angry pointing out your stupid beliefs earlier.

                Actually I'm laughing. At you.


                If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter

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                Red Stateler wrote:

                Actually I'm laughing. At you.

                So are the rest of us but we dont need to be so picky, you're both laughable

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                • C Christian Graus

                  Well, then you're in trouble. If you're able to give one person the ability to control how your life turns out, then you're screwed. if something doesn't work out with a particular person, be it a relationship, a friendship, or whatever, then, you need to be able to move on. Otherwise, you've given someone who obvioulsy doesn't care about you full power over your happiness. That just can't work out for you.

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                  Christian Graus wrote:

                  if something doesn't work out with a particular person, be it a relationship, a friendship, or whatever, then, you need to be able to move on.

                  Either that or learn how to properly cook human brain.


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                    My problems start with the nazi girl I feel fucking terrible.

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                    qwertyuiop[asdfghjklzxcvb wrote:

                    My problems start with the nazi girl

                    A lot of people have given you good advice here reciently and there is one common theme to that advice. "You need to ......" "You should....." "You could......" "Why dont you...." Notice the word YOU. She cant make you happy, only you can. Sure, its easier said than done and its terrible cliché but its true

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                      qwertyuiop[asdfghjklzxcvb wrote:

                      My problems start with the nazi girl

                      A lot of people have given you good advice here reciently and there is one common theme to that advice. "You need to ......" "You should....." "You could......" "Why dont you...." Notice the word YOU. She cant make you happy, only you can. Sure, its easier said than done and its terrible cliché but its true

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                      Awwwww...Ya big lug! You DO care!


                      If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter

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                        Awwwww...Ya big lug! You DO care!


                        If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter

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                        Red Stateler wrote:

                        You DO care!

                        Yes but my compassion is a result of the inherrant guilt of liberalism!

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                          Red Stateler wrote:

                          You DO care!

                          Yes but my compassion is a result of the inherrant guilt of liberalism!

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                          Josh Gray wrote:

                          Yes but my compassion is a result of the inherrant guilt of liberalism!

                          I thought liberalism grants a guilt free life (since no behavior is inherently wrong). :confused:


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                          • C Christian Graus

                            qwertyuiop[asdfghjklzxcvb wrote:

                            I'm obsessed with sex

                            qwertyuiop[asdfghjklzxcvb wrote:

                            im really confused about what teh f*** life is

                            That makes you different from every other teenager, how ?

                            qwertyuiop[asdfghjklzxcvb wrote:

                            I'm addicted to DXM

                            What is that ? Funny thing is, I get around in a denim jacket covered in heavy metal patches, I go to any metal show I can, my room is covered in music related posters, I'm plainly trying to cling to my teenage years, but when I think back, those years were the worst of my life, bar none.

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                            Christian Graus wrote:

                            qwertyuiop[asdfghjklzxcvb wrote:

                            I'm addicted to DXM

                            What is that ?

                            Cough syrup. Vile stuff. I mean, just awful. The flavor, the vomiting... ...oh, and i guess it messes with your body's ability to regulate temperature or some such thing. So in addition to the aforementioned vomiting and groovy feelings, you can also die. Fun.

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                            I don't care what you consider witty, but at least I do not blather on posting nonsense like Jim Crafton.

                            -- Stringcheese, humbled by Crafton's ability to string together multiple sentences

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                              Josh Gray wrote:

                              Yes but my compassion is a result of the inherrant guilt of liberalism!

                              I thought liberalism grants a guilt free life (since no behavior is inherently wrong). :confused:


                              If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter

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                              Red Stateler wrote:

                              I thought liberalism grants a guilt free life (since no behavior is inherently wrong).

                              You've got it all wrong. Im white, male, middle class, comfortable, I live a GREAT life. How can I not feel guilty knowing that people are suffering the world over. SUFFERING!!!! the guilt I feel is amazing

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                                I'm lonely I have no one to talk to. All I do is go to work, come home, sleep, get high on DXM and weed and occasionally salviva and I need a girl to show me what its like. I'm high right now as a matter of fact and I don't know what to do with my self..........

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                                Go for a walk already. Get out and be lonely and miserable with nature. Find a good donut shop. Meditate. ...but wait for the DXM to wear off first.

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                                I don't care what you consider witty, but at least I do not blather on posting nonsense like Jim Crafton.

                                -- Stringcheese, humbled by Crafton's ability to string together multiple sentences

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                                  Christian Graus wrote:

                                  qwertyuiop[asdfghjklzxcvb wrote:

                                  I'm addicted to DXM

                                  What is that ?

                                  Cough syrup. Vile stuff. I mean, just awful. The flavor, the vomiting... ...oh, and i guess it messes with your body's ability to regulate temperature or some such thing. So in addition to the aforementioned vomiting and groovy feelings, you can also die. Fun.

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                                  I don't care what you consider witty, but at least I do not blather on posting nonsense like Jim Crafton.

                                  -- Stringcheese, humbled by Crafton's ability to string together multiple sentences

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                                  Gosh, where do I get some.... X|

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                                    I'm lonely I have no one to talk to. All I do is go to work, come home, sleep, get high on DXM and weed and occasionally salviva and I need a girl to show me what its like. I'm high right now as a matter of fact and I don't know what to do with my self..........

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                                    qwertyuiop[asdfghjklzxcvb wrote:

                                    ...I don't know what to do with my self...

                                    ...Burt Bacarach song.

                                    Michael Martin Australia "I controlled my laughter and simple said "No,I am very busy,so I can't write any code for you". The moment they heard this all the smiling face turned into a sad looking face and one of them farted. So I had to leave the place as soon as possible." - Mr.Prakash One Fine Saturday. 24/04/2004

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                                    • R Red Stateler

                                      I told you that drugs are bad, mmmkay?


                                      If liberals are not traitors, their only fallback argument at this point is that they're really stupid. -Ann Coulter

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                                      You can do it, it's all up to you... mmmmmmmmmmmkaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay

                                      ------------------------------------------- Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow; Don't walk behind me, I may not lead; Just bugger off and leave me alone!!

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                                      • A Al Beback

                                        devboycpp wrote:

                                        I am really alone, depressed , bored , confused . What would you recommend ?

                                        Match-making sites.


                                        Man is a marvelous curiosity ... he thinks he is the Creator's pet ... he even believes the Creator loves him; has a passion for him; sits up nights to admire him; yes and watch over him and keep him out of trouble. He prays to him and thinks He listens. Isn't it a quaint idea. - Mark Twain

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                                        Why would anyone need a site to make matches? Just go down to the store and buy a box damnit.

                                        regards, Paul Watson Ireland & South Africa

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                                        Watson's law: As an online discussion of cars grows longer, the probability of a comparison involving the Bugatti Veyron approaches one.

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                                          Why would anyone need a site to make matches? Just go down to the store and buy a box damnit.

                                          regards, Paul Watson Ireland & South Africa

                                          Andy Brummer wrote:

                                          Watson's law: As an online discussion of cars grows longer, the probability of a comparison involving the Bugatti Veyron approaches one.

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                                          Boooooooooooooo! :rolleyes:

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