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I cannot understand how people can get married without both enjoying their sexual life - and if possible together. Am I the only one to find obvious that sexual fulfillment is a key condition for a couple to last?
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K(arl) wrote:
Am I the only one to find obvious that sexual fulfillment is a key condition for a couple to last?
Nope. Count me as another.
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I cannot understand how people can get married without both enjoying their sexual life - and if possible together. Am I the only one to find obvious that sexual fulfillment is a key condition for a couple to last?
Patriotism is when love of your own people comes first; nationalism, when hate for people other than your own comes first Fold with us! ¤ flickr
K(arl) wrote:
Am I the only one to find obvious that sexual fulfillment is a key condition for a couple to last?
I am confused. Don't you live in France?
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Andy Brummer wrote:
Watson's law: As an online discussion of cars grows longer, the probability of a comparison involving the Bugatti Veyron approaches one.
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Divorcing huh...I guess he didn't find it a turn-on then...
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K(arl) wrote:
Am I the only one to find obvious that sexual fulfillment is a key condition for a couple to last?
I am confused. Don't you live in France?
regards, Paul Watson Ireland & South Africa
Andy Brummer wrote:
Watson's law: As an online discussion of cars grows longer, the probability of a comparison involving the Bugatti Veyron approaches one.
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Yes, and I wear a beret and have a baguette under my arm :rolleyes: It's like everywhere, many people live together for some bad reasons.
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What about the onions and the bicycle? Can't be French without them!
regards, Paul Watson Ireland & South Africa
Andy Brummer wrote:
Watson's law: As an online discussion of cars grows longer, the probability of a comparison involving the Bugatti Veyron approaches one.
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I cannot understand how people can get married without both enjoying their sexual life - and if possible together. Am I the only one to find obvious that sexual fulfillment is a key condition for a couple to last?
Patriotism is when love of your own people comes first; nationalism, when hate for people other than your own comes first Fold with us! ¤ flickr
I think sexual fulfillment is the consequence of a happy relationship, not the cause of it. Defining 'sexual fulfillment' as some kind of essential goal in life is kind of like defining a good bowell movement in the same way. It isn't something you actually can fulfill except in the most temporary of ways.
Please excuse my refusal to participate in the suicide of western civilization
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I think sexual fulfillment is the consequence of a happy relationship, not the cause of it. Defining 'sexual fulfillment' as some kind of essential goal in life is kind of like defining a good bowell movement in the same way. It isn't something you actually can fulfill except in the most temporary of ways.
Please excuse my refusal to participate in the suicide of western civilization
Stan Shannon wrote:
Defining 'sexual fulfillment' as some kind of essential goal in life is kind of like defining a good bowell movement in the same way
Well, he is French. They are kind of obsessed with sex, relationships, infidelity and so on.
Morality is indistinguishable from social proscription
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Divorcing huh...I guess he didn't find it a turn-on then...
"There's not a man in America who at one time or another hasn't had a secret desire to boot a child in the ass." - W. C. Fields
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I think sexual fulfillment is the consequence of a happy relationship, not the cause of it. Defining 'sexual fulfillment' as some kind of essential goal in life is kind of like defining a good bowell movement in the same way. It isn't something you actually can fulfill except in the most temporary of ways.
Please excuse my refusal to participate in the suicide of western civilization
Stan Shannon wrote:
Defining 'sexual fulfillment' as some kind of essential goal in life is kind of like defining a good bowell movement in the same way. It isn't something you actually can fulfill except in the most temporary of ways.
...But go too long without one, and everything else starts to seem less important... :rolleyes:
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Divorcing huh...I guess he didn't find it a turn-on then...
"There's not a man in America who at one time or another hasn't had a secret desire to boot a child in the ass." - W. C. Fields
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What about the onions and the bicycle? Can't be French without them!
regards, Paul Watson Ireland & South Africa
Andy Brummer wrote:
Watson's law: As an online discussion of cars grows longer, the probability of a comparison involving the Bugatti Veyron approaches one.
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I think sexual fulfillment is the consequence of a happy relationship, not the cause of it. Defining 'sexual fulfillment' as some kind of essential goal in life is kind of like defining a good bowell movement in the same way. It isn't something you actually can fulfill except in the most temporary of ways.
Please excuse my refusal to participate in the suicide of western civilization
Stan Shannon wrote:
I think sexual fulfillment is the consequence of a happy relationship, not the cause of it
Being that old and that naive... ;-P IMO of there's no sexual fulfillment, then there's no happy relationship, just some happy 'let live our problems together - I fit yours as you fit mine'. It's not happiness to me.
Stan Shannon wrote:
Defining 'sexual fulfillment' as some kind of essential goal
Not a goal, but a condition. And don't forget the 'shared'. Both should enjoy their sexual life, it's a condition sine qua none for a happy couple. A couple claiming being happy without sex is IMO neurotic.
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Stan Shannon wrote:
Defining 'sexual fulfillment' as some kind of essential goal in life is kind of like defining a good bowell movement in the same way
Well, he is French. They are kind of obsessed with sex, relationships, infidelity and so on.
Morality is indistinguishable from social proscription
fat_boy wrote:
They are kind of obsessed with sex, relationships, infidelity and so on
And proud of it :-D I think the term 'Latin' would fit better than 'French'. IMO we share these characteristics with our southern neighbors.
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I think sexual fulfillment is the consequence of a happy relationship, not the cause of it. Defining 'sexual fulfillment' as some kind of essential goal in life is kind of like defining a good bowell movement in the same way. It isn't something you actually can fulfill except in the most temporary of ways.
Please excuse my refusal to participate in the suicide of western civilization
Stan Shannon wrote:
the consequence of a happy relationship, not the cause of it
5 (I think there are a few exceptions to that rule, but still)
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K(arl) wrote:
bicycle is for Netherlanders
Just don't talk to them about it. They won't stop complaining that the Germans stole their bicycles in 1945. Sheesh!
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I think sexual fulfillment is the consequence of a happy relationship, not the cause of it. Defining 'sexual fulfillment' as some kind of essential goal in life is kind of like defining a good bowell movement in the same way. It isn't something you actually can fulfill except in the most temporary of ways.
Please excuse my refusal to participate in the suicide of western civilization
I see obstacles on the horizon for a happy relationship, if the thought of having sex makes you want wash the dishes instead. If it's right, it's right. If it isn't, the relationship is bound to fade away rather quickly.
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fat_boy wrote:
They are kind of obsessed with sex, relationships, infidelity and so on
And proud of it :-D I think the term 'Latin' would fit better than 'French'. IMO we share these characteristics with our southern neighbors.
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K(arl) wrote:
And proud of it
You get less ass than Tim Craig.
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I cannot understand how people can get married without both enjoying their sexual life - and if possible together. Am I the only one to find obvious that sexual fulfillment is a key condition for a couple to last?
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There plenty of couples who are hot in the bedroom and hate each other in every other room. It's really communication--you have to talk about what is bothering you, communicate what you like and admire in the othe person, and yes, communicate wants in the bedroom. If you can talk to each other like adults and not be a 'have to be right all the time' person then I think that is the key.
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There plenty of couples who are hot in the bedroom and hate each other in every other room. It's really communication--you have to talk about what is bothering you, communicate what you like and admire in the othe person, and yes, communicate wants in the bedroom. If you can talk to each other like adults and not be a 'have to be right all the time' person then I think that is the key.
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leckey wrote:
If you can talk to each other like adults and not be a 'have to be right all the time' person then I think that is the key.
In my experience (which, admittedly, is not as long as others here) this is THE key. There's the idea that the most stable relationships are defined by how the partners argue, since disagreement and arguments are inevitable, you HAVE to be able to get through them without coming out bigger enemies on the other side. Pretty much the only way to do that is to put your ego aside and realize you don't have to be right, that the relationship is more valuable than winning some stupid argument over who said what or who put what in the kitchen sink. It's a very natural tendency, the need to be right. We all suffer from it. I think the strongest and wisest individuals are the ones who can put that aside and see past it.
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