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  • L Le centriste

    Matthew Faithfull wrote:

    Any you are claiming to know which is which. Are you the final arbiter of truth?

    So you are. You are claiming to speak of what God did and did not, as if it was a fact? If you believe that the Earth and everything on it just popped out into existence as an act of God, this is your belief, not a fact. At best, a theory, like the Big Bang is a theory, not a fact. That is the problem with people like you. You take your religious beliefs as it was a fact, and try to impose to other people. If you believe in God and choose to rule your life accordingly, good for you. I will never impose my atheism to you, so don't impose your religion to me.

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    As you will hopefully understand if you read this thread it is a part of my belief to 'impose' my beliefs on you as you put it. If I didn't do this, simply because you insist on it, I would have your beliefs and not mine and you would have imposed them on me, making your belief system self-inconsistent, therefore illogical, therefore wrong. So you'd better hope I don't do as you want or it would simply prove you wrong.

    Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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      All forms of argument have been misused for evil, twisted by evil people and turned inside out by those wishing to distort, destroy, bury or forget the truth. This is the fallen nature of man. The very argument you are using has been used to allow evil to go on without raising a finger to stop it. I have advocated no stake burning or in fact anything at all harmful to anyone except the straw man you are putting up to avoid having to deal with what I'm saying.

      Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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      Matthew Faithfull wrote:

      I have advocated no stake burning or in fact anything at all harmful to anyone except the straw man you are putting up to avoid having to deal with what I'm saying

      Unfortunately Torquemada was no straw man but a very real creature, as sure of his redemption as you are of yours; as positive that he walked in God's grace, as you are; and using the same arguments against those who walked different paths that you do. He just had a power that, at least so far, has been denied you. For from avoiding what you are saying, I hear you very clearly. I just don't hear the angelic choir singing loudly enough to drown out the screams of those burned by the stake by others who said the same thing.

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        Where was marriage invented by God? I'm genuinely curious, because my primary school religious instruction never covered it. The first mention I recall of it was when Cain went to Nod and found a wife.

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        Matthew Faithfull
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        It's right there in the early chapters of Genesis, a man will leave his parents and be joined to his wife, they will become one flesh. I don't have it in front of me. This is the basis and orgination of marriage. The ceremony and state recognition and everything we have added on top is simply an acknowledgement of a fact already recognised by God.

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        • M Matthew Faithfull

          As you will hopefully understand if you read this thread it is a part of my belief to 'impose' my beliefs on you as you put it. If I didn't do this, simply because you insist on it, I would have your beliefs and not mine and you would have imposed them on me, making your belief system self-inconsistent, therefore illogical, therefore wrong. So you'd better hope I don't do as you want or it would simply prove you wrong.

          Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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          Le centriste
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          You remind me of Red Stateler. He had the same circular reasoning that he thought proved him he was right.

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          • L led mike

            Based on your posts it seems you are missing the most important point. It has nothing to do with the truth (which is right and which is wrong, is God or not). It has only to do with that fact that this country was founded on the basis of freedom and religious freedom is a significantly important one. Now since not all of them can be 100% correct it is without question that the freedom you are entitled to as an American is not dependent on your beliefs being correct. Since we have the unalienable right to freedom, no one, not even a majority has the right to deny those freedoms. This aspect of our history is fundamental to Jeffersonian Principles and had a major impact on the Constitution and design of the checks and balances. Today there is a massive effort to destroy our founding principles by the religious right. What will happen? I have no idea what the future holds but the past is known.

            led mike

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            led mike wrote:

            Today there is a massive effort to destroy our founding principles by the religious right.

            Hmm, I'm not sure it's the religious right who're going after your founding principles but the neo-conservative satanists who hide behind them have certainly been gong after your freedoms. One problem is the understanding of freedom itself and the difference between freedom and license. Total license says you can do anything you want even if that includes murdering your neighbour and raping his wife. My best take on the definition of freedom is that being free means knowing what is right and being able to do it. Total freedom would be always knowing what is right and always being able to do it, an unobtainable goal but a worthy one. The difference between the two is huge and yet many people confuse these ideas.

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            • M Matthew Faithfull

              Oakman wrote:

              God does not, cannot share His ineffable self with the like of you.

              If you read the scripture you will find that that is precisely what he has done, even you can partake of Christ. It is the most amazing thing there is period.

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              Matthew Faithfull wrote:

              If you read the scripture

              Do you read Aramaic? And Greek? Unless you do, you have never read the Scriptures.

              Matthew Faithfull wrote:

              even you can partake of Christ

              ROFL! I have probably munched on more unleavened crackers and cheap red wine than you have dreamed of. I was at least as much of a religious cannibal as you are.

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                led mike wrote:

                What does that have to do with the making same sex marriage illegal?

                A parallel to nurses who are required in some hospitals to assist with abortions. Not important to my thesis of course, so feel free to ignore it.

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                Sorry but I fail to see how that answers my question. :confused:

                led mike

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                • O Oakman

                  Matthew Faithfull wrote:

                  I have advocated no stake burning or in fact anything at all harmful to anyone except the straw man you are putting up to avoid having to deal with what I'm saying

                  Unfortunately Torquemada was no straw man but a very real creature, as sure of his redemption as you are of yours; as positive that he walked in God's grace, as you are; and using the same arguments against those who walked different paths that you do. He just had a power that, at least so far, has been denied you. For from avoiding what you are saying, I hear you very clearly. I just don't hear the angelic choir singing loudly enough to drown out the screams of those burned by the stake by others who said the same thing.

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                  Matthew Faithfull
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                  Oakman wrote:

                  as sure of his redemption as you are of yours; as positive that he walked in God's grace, as you are

                  You may assert this but it is unknowable.

                  Oakman wrote:

                  others who said the same thing.

                  I doubt they said the same things, or meant them if they did. Regardless, "by their deeds you shall know them", just because someone like Torquemada may have known the truth or spoken it unknowingly does not lessen the value of the truth itself. Is house painting unacceptable because it was Hitlers profession? No

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                  • M Matthew Faithfull

                    Oakman wrote:

                    Facts are verifiable. Beliefs or opinions are not.

                    I have already showed you that this is logically false so you're using bad definitions that can only lead to bad conclusions.

                    Oakman wrote:

                    So far you have shown no way to verify the existence of your god

                    Neither have I attempted to do that which cannot be done and is unnecessary.

                    Oakman wrote:

                    one you have already admitted may be a snare of the Antichrist.

                    That is simply a lie, or you simply can't read, go back and look again.

                    Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                    Matthew Faithfull wrote:

                    I have already showed you that this is logically false so you're using bad definitions that can only lead to bad conclusions.

                    Actually, the only thing you've shown is that you are either unwilling or unable to see outside your rather pathetic circular-reasoned view of the universe. And I have wasted as much time as I ever will in trying to help you see what the real world is like. Bye.

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                    • O Oakman

                      Matthew Faithfull wrote:

                      If you read the scripture

                      Do you read Aramaic? And Greek? Unless you do, you have never read the Scriptures.

                      Matthew Faithfull wrote:

                      even you can partake of Christ

                      ROFL! I have probably munched on more unleavened crackers and cheap red wine than you have dreamed of. I was at least as much of a religious cannibal as you are.

                      Jon Smith & Wesson: The original point and click interface

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                      Matthew Faithfull
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                      Oakman wrote:

                      Do you read Aramaic? And Greek? Unless you do, you have never read the Scriptures.

                      Nonsense, and you forgot Hebrew.

                      Oakman wrote:

                      have probably munched on more unleavened crackers and cheap red wine than you have dreamed of. I was at least as much of a religious cannibal as you are.

                      And yet you have no part in Christ so all you do is eat and drink judgement on yourself, how sad. :sigh:

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                      • L led mike

                        Sorry but I fail to see how that answers my question. :confused:

                        led mike

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                        led mike wrote:

                        Sorry but I fail to see how that answers my question.

                        Then I don't understand your question.:confused:

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                        • L Le centriste

                          You remind me of Red Stateler. He had the same circular reasoning that he thought proved him he was right.

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                          Matthew Faithfull
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                          No my reasoning is not circular,nor as wholee as a string vest, like Red's, you simply don't accept the basis of it and cannot argue against it.

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                            No my reasoning is not circular,nor as wholee as a string vest, like Red's, you simply don't accept the basis of it and cannot argue against it.

                            Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                            Le centriste
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                            Your basis is: God exists. I feel like I am talking to a 4-year old.

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                              Well Oakman says your post is rational and intelligent. You have not yet pulled the wool over my eyes of course. ;) You can flower up your posts all you want, but at the end of the day you are just proposing oppression of individual freedoms of people that want to do things that you are 100% sure you will never want to do. As you are well aware we have had many past discussions regarding the constitutional support for freedom. I'm still not buying your bigoted bag of crap I don't care how fancy you wrap it up or how much perfumed prose you pour over it.

                              led mike

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                              led mike wrote:

                              but at the end of the day you are just proposing oppression of individual freedoms of people that want to do things that you are 100% sure you will never want to do.

                              I am indeed proposing that. It is a question fundamental to our federalism itself. Should there be institutions within our society which have some degree of authority in defining the parameters of our culture other than government itself? Is religious sentiment as appropriate a means of determining ones democratic opinion and if the majority view reflects taht sentiment is it as valid a basis for our legal system as any other? Is discrimination against behavior a behavior that is allowed or is that to be the one kind of behavior the state can legitimately surpress? If you believe that government's appropriate role is to define behaviors and suppress attitudes against those behaviors, than you are a fascist. Such principles are part and parcel of fascist political idealogy. Since I am a Jeffersonian, I reject facist principles and thus believe that personal discrimination is a more basic and fundamental freedom than is butt fucking or other similar forms of behavior.

                              Please excuse my refusal to participate in the suicide of western civilization

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                              • L Le centriste

                                Your basis is: God exists. I feel like I am talking to a 4-year old.

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                                Well done, you got that much anyway. This does not mean of course that I believe that some random, made up on the spot, definition of God digital_man comes up with is in any way valid. I don't define God, he has revealed himself to the extent that he chooses to.

                                Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                                • M Matthew Faithfull

                                  led mike wrote:

                                  Today there is a massive effort to destroy our founding principles by the religious right.

                                  Hmm, I'm not sure it's the religious right who're going after your founding principles but the neo-conservative satanists who hide behind them have certainly been gong after your freedoms. One problem is the understanding of freedom itself and the difference between freedom and license. Total license says you can do anything you want even if that includes murdering your neighbour and raping his wife. My best take on the definition of freedom is that being free means knowing what is right and being able to do it. Total freedom would be always knowing what is right and always being able to do it, an unobtainable goal but a worthy one. The difference between the two is huge and yet many people confuse these ideas.

                                  Nothing is exactly what it seems but everything with seems can be unpicked.

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                                  led mike
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                                  Matthew Faithfull wrote:

                                  Hmm, I'm not sure it's the religious right who're going after your founding principles but the neo-conservative satanists who hide behind them have certainly been gong after your freedoms.

                                  Sure, I have no problem with that distinction, I mean I don't know if your are correct, but I could certainly be wrong.

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                                  One problem is the understanding of freedom itself

                                  Well I think people pretend to not understand it, and/or they attempt to define it to their own purposes. Stan and (D)espeir are great examples of that. They propose that two men marrying infringes on their right/freedom to believe that two men should not marry, which is of course completely retarded and a great example of how bigots purposefully attempt to manipulate truth and reason to their own twisted ends. The fact that other less bigoted people are fooled into believing that their ugly intentions hidden behind intellectual prose passes for logic reason and truth is very sad. It's actually very simple. We all have the same rights, therefore very simply put one individuals freedoms or rights end anytime their implementation of what they believe is a freedom infringes upon someone else's, period. For example driving laws origin is safety because you don't have the right to endanger others, why? Not because it's wrong but because if you injure someone you have infringed upon their right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness, period.

                                  led mike

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                                    Well Oakman says your post is rational and intelligent. You have not yet pulled the wool over my eyes of course. ;) You can flower up your posts all you want, but at the end of the day you are just proposing oppression of individual freedoms of people that want to do things that you are 100% sure you will never want to do. As you are well aware we have had many past discussions regarding the constitutional support for freedom. I'm still not buying your bigoted bag of crap I don't care how fancy you wrap it up or how much perfumed prose you pour over it.

                                    led mike

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                                    led mike wrote:

                                    Well Oakman says your post is rational and intelligent. You have not yet pulled the wool over my eyes of course.

                                    ROFL. Is that why it got so dark all of a sudden?

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                                    • L led mike

                                      Matthew Faithfull wrote:

                                      Hmm, I'm not sure it's the religious right who're going after your founding principles but the neo-conservative satanists who hide behind them have certainly been gong after your freedoms.

                                      Sure, I have no problem with that distinction, I mean I don't know if your are correct, but I could certainly be wrong.

                                      Matthew Faithfull wrote:

                                      One problem is the understanding of freedom itself

                                      Well I think people pretend to not understand it, and/or they attempt to define it to their own purposes. Stan and (D)espeir are great examples of that. They propose that two men marrying infringes on their right/freedom to believe that two men should not marry, which is of course completely retarded and a great example of how bigots purposefully attempt to manipulate truth and reason to their own twisted ends. The fact that other less bigoted people are fooled into believing that their ugly intentions hidden behind intellectual prose passes for logic reason and truth is very sad. It's actually very simple. We all have the same rights, therefore very simply put one individuals freedoms or rights end anytime their implementation of what they believe is a freedom infringes upon someone else's, period. For example driving laws origin is safety because you don't have the right to endanger others, why? Not because it's wrong but because if you injure someone you have infringed upon their right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness, period.

                                      led mike

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                                      led mike wrote:

                                      It's actually very simple. We all have the same rights, therefore very simply put one individuals freedoms or rights end anytime their implementation of what they believe is a freedom infringes upon someone else's, period. Bravo. For example driving laws origin is safety because you don't have the right to endanger others, why? Not because it's wrong but because if you injure someone you have infringed upon their right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness, purfuit of happineff period.

                                      I fixed that for you.

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                                      • M Matthew Faithfull

                                        If you accept that which is the opposite of what you believe then that surely says something about the weakness of your belief, or perhaps the inherant weakness of what you believe in?

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                                        It is none of that. I hear what you say. I accept that what you say is your view/belief. I do not agree your view/belief. It is no different than me saying "I accept his point of view without agreeing with it". There is no weakness in that statement.

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                                          led mike wrote:

                                          but at the end of the day you are just proposing oppression of individual freedoms of people that want to do things that you are 100% sure you will never want to do.

                                          I am indeed proposing that. It is a question fundamental to our federalism itself. Should there be institutions within our society which have some degree of authority in defining the parameters of our culture other than government itself? Is religious sentiment as appropriate a means of determining ones democratic opinion and if the majority view reflects taht sentiment is it as valid a basis for our legal system as any other? Is discrimination against behavior a behavior that is allowed or is that to be the one kind of behavior the state can legitimately surpress? If you believe that government's appropriate role is to define behaviors and suppress attitudes against those behaviors, than you are a fascist. Such principles are part and parcel of fascist political idealogy. Since I am a Jeffersonian, I reject facist principles and thus believe that personal discrimination is a more basic and fundamental freedom than is butt fucking or other similar forms of behavior.

                                          Please excuse my refusal to participate in the suicide of western civilization

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                                          Stan Shannon wrote:

                                          It is a question fundamental to our federalism itself.

                                          No, it's a question fundamental to our VERY FREEDOM itself. Try posing you intellectual bigot clap trap at someone who will buy into it, it's completely wasted on me.

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                                          Since I am a Jeffersonian

                                          What crock of shit, you're nothing but a poser.

                                          led mike

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