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  • T Tomasz Sowinski

    'Making kids' point looks problematic for me. First, you don't have to be married if you want to make kids. Second - is making kids a plus? Tomasz Sowinski -- http://www.shooltz.com

    Free your mind and your ass will follow.

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    _Magnus_
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    Tomasz Sowinski wrote: Second - is making kids a plus? 'Making' kids and 'having' kids are a bit different... /Magnus


    - I don't necessarily agree with everything I say

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      Besides the tax stuff you can get all other without getting married. Plus - It's easier to pickup women if you have a ring on your finger. (wonder if that is true:~ ) /Magnus


      - I don't necessarily agree with everything I say

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      Brian Delahunty
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      _Magnus_ wrote: It's easier to pickup women if you have a ring on your finger. Never heard of that before!!! Regards, Brian Dela :-)

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        Besides the tax stuff you can get all other without getting married. Plus - It's easier to pickup women if you have a ring on your finger. (wonder if that is true:~ ) /Magnus


        - I don't necessarily agree with everything I say

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        Jeremy Falcon
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        _Magnus_ wrote: - It's easier to pickup women if you have a ring on your finger. No, not with most women. It's easier to get a woman's attention if you're with another women but not married, because if the other women can trust/be comfortable around you then surely she can, right? And, there's ego/competition/jealously that factor into this as well. Now, there are plenty of women who don't care about this, but those are the ones you use and loose and not get serious with. Jeremy Falcon Imputek "C# is the answer to a question nobody asked." - Chris Losinger

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          Tomasz Sowinski wrote: ForumThe Soapbox (Unmoderated) Subject:Re: Plus points for marriage. Sender:Tomasz Sowinski Date:10:25 26 Aug '02 'Making kids' point looks problematic for me. Care to add to the list rather than remove?

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          Jeremy Falcon
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          Anonymous wrote: Care to add to the list rather than remove? Care to not hide behind anonymity? Jeremy Falcon Imputek "C# is the answer to a question nobody asked." - Chris Losinger

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            Tomasz Sowinski wrote: ForumThe Soapbox (Unmoderated) Subject:Re: Plus points for marriage. Sender:Tomasz Sowinski Date:10:25 26 Aug '02 'Making kids' point looks problematic for me. Care to add to the list rather than remove?

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            Tomasz Sowinski
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            Anonymous wrote: Care to add to the list rather than remove? I don't think there's something you could add. Are you trying to convince yourself? Is she pushing you towards marriage? Tomasz Sowinski -- http://www.shooltz.com

            Free your mind and your ass will follow.

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              Tomasz Sowinski wrote: Second - is making kids a plus? 'Making' kids and 'having' kids are a bit different... /Magnus


              - I don't necessarily agree with everything I say

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              Brian Delahunty
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              _Magnus_ wrote: 'Making' kids and 'having' kids are a bit different... Very true _Magnus_ Very true :-) Regards, Brian Dela :-)

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                Anonymous wrote: Care to add to the list rather than remove? I don't think there's something you could add. Are you trying to convince yourself? Is she pushing you towards marriage? Tomasz Sowinski -- http://www.shooltz.com

                Free your mind and your ass will follow.

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                Tomasz Sowinski wrote: you trying to convince yourself? Is she pushing you towards marriage? She is, and I am trying to evaluate if it is a good option or not. I cannot find enough good reasons to get married (even to the most perfect girl). What confuses me is that people are always getting married. Why? There must some reasons - some plus points. I cannot think of any myself since I am already biased towards not getting married. I am hoping to get some good reasons to get married from other people.

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                  Anonymous wrote: Care to add to the list rather than remove? Care to not hide behind anonymity? Jeremy Falcon Imputek "C# is the answer to a question nobody asked." - Chris Losinger

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                  Why?

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                    Hi guys, I need some serious input here. I need a list of Plus points for getting married. Here is my list: -making kids -having someone to care for -having someone care for you -tax exemptions -good company Does anyone else dare to add? (no negative points please - that would be too easy) Thanks.

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                    Mauricio Ritter
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                    Anonymous wrote: -tax exemptions we don“t have this kinda stuff here.... interesting Mauricio Ritter - Brazil Sonorking now: 100.13560 MRitter

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                      Why?

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                      Jeremy Falcon
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                      Anonymous wrote: Why? Because I personally can't stand cowards. Jeremy Falcon Imputek "C# is the answer to a question nobody asked." - Chris Losinger

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                        Hi guys, I need some serious input here. I need a list of Plus points for getting married. Here is my list: -making kids -having someone to care for -having someone care for you -tax exemptions -good company Does anyone else dare to add? (no negative points please - that would be too easy) Thanks.

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                        Jorgen Sigvardsson
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                        Anonymous wrote: tax exemptions What? Where the hell do you live? :) Preferred storyline: - I am your father. Search your feelings and you'll know it's the truth. Together we can rule this galaxy like father and son. - Ok dad. Let's kick some butt!

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                          Hi guys, I need some serious input here. I need a list of Plus points for getting married. Here is my list: -making kids -having someone to care for -having someone care for you -tax exemptions -good company Does anyone else dare to add? (no negative points please - that would be too easy) Thanks.

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                          You're asking a bunch of propeller heads for advice like this? You must have a great big neon sign over your head that says "LOSER". Tax exemptions? ------- signature starts "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio. ------- signature ends

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                            Tomasz Sowinski wrote: you trying to convince yourself? Is she pushing you towards marriage? She is, and I am trying to evaluate if it is a good option or not. I cannot find enough good reasons to get married (even to the most perfect girl). What confuses me is that people are always getting married. Why? There must some reasons - some plus points. I cannot think of any myself since I am already biased towards not getting married. I am hoping to get some good reasons to get married from other people.

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                            Jon Sagara
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                            If you can't convince yourself to get married, then do her a favor: break up with her and let her get on with her life. It's obvious that she wants to get married, and if you won't give that to her, let her find someone who will. Jon Sagara Red Swingline Staplers

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                              Tomasz Sowinski wrote: you trying to convince yourself? Is she pushing you towards marriage? She is, and I am trying to evaluate if it is a good option or not. I cannot find enough good reasons to get married (even to the most perfect girl). What confuses me is that people are always getting married. Why? There must some reasons - some plus points. I cannot think of any myself since I am already biased towards not getting married. I am hoping to get some good reasons to get married from other people.

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                              Lost User
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                              How about you love someone enough to spend the rest of your lives together ? Elaine (fluffy tigress emoticon) Would you like to meet my teddy bear ?

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                                Besides the tax stuff you can get all other without getting married. Plus - It's easier to pickup women if you have a ring on your finger. (wonder if that is true:~ ) /Magnus


                                - I don't necessarily agree with everything I say

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                                The ring on your finger means 'who wants to be second best' :mad: Hope your wife doesn't get someone ot set up a honey trap..... Elaine (not so fluffy) Would you like to meet my teddy bear ?

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                                  Hi guys, I need some serious input here. I need a list of Plus points for getting married. Here is my list: -making kids -having someone to care for -having someone care for you -tax exemptions -good company Does anyone else dare to add? (no negative points please - that would be too easy) Thanks.

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                                  if u have a loving relationship, you could use marriage to solidfy it: 1- who will care for you 30 years from now? when u loose ur looks or money? 2- if u have a fight with ur g/f, being married is another reason to reconciliate 3- divorcing is not easier than breaking up. meaning that when u get married u you would ( or at least should) be less receptive to negative ideas of leaving/cheating ./....etc it amazes me why ppl wouldn't get married, but i guess my culture is different my parents got married at the age of 20, so and my wife and I we were all undergrads at our marraige time in US and canada and we are doing great,

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                                    Hi guys, I need some serious input here. I need a list of Plus points for getting married. Here is my list: -making kids -having someone to care for -having someone care for you -tax exemptions -good company Does anyone else dare to add? (no negative points please - that would be too easy) Thanks.

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                                    Anonymous wrote: Does anyone else dare to add - Shut the parents up ("when are you two getting married?", "when can we get grandkids?", "you been living together 2 days, aren't you married yet?" blah blah blah blah blah) - Shut the friends up ("oooohh you two are so cute, when are you getting married?") - Shut the waiters up ("you are such a lovely couple, are you engaged yet? And would you like fries with that") Other than that, no plus points. p.s. Every one of your plus points, except tax exemption, I get without having to be married :) regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa Simon Walton wrote: "You come across a lot of people who call themselves realists, when they are actually pessimists attempting to look intelligent."

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                                      Anonymous wrote: Does anyone else dare to add - Shut the parents up ("when are you two getting married?", "when can we get grandkids?", "you been living together 2 days, aren't you married yet?" blah blah blah blah blah) - Shut the friends up ("oooohh you two are so cute, when are you getting married?") - Shut the waiters up ("you are such a lovely couple, are you engaged yet? And would you like fries with that") Other than that, no plus points. p.s. Every one of your plus points, except tax exemption, I get without having to be married :) regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa Simon Walton wrote: "You come across a lot of people who call themselves realists, when they are actually pessimists attempting to look intelligent."

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                                      Tomasz Sowinski
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                                      Paul Watson wrote: Shut the waiters up Can't you just shoot the waiters? It doesn't require any marriages ;) Tomasz Sowinski -- http://www.shooltz.com

                                      Free your mind and your ass will follow.

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                                        Besides the tax stuff you can get all other without getting married. Plus - It's easier to pickup women if you have a ring on your finger. (wonder if that is true:~ ) /Magnus


                                        - I don't necessarily agree with everything I say

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                                        Tomasz Sowinski
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                                        _Magnus_ wrote: It's easier to pickup women if you have a ring on your finger. Isn't buying a ring without marrying somebody cheaper and faster? Tomasz Sowinski -- http://www.shooltz.com

                                        Free your mind and your ass will follow.

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                                          if u have a loving relationship, you could use marriage to solidfy it: 1- who will care for you 30 years from now? when u loose ur looks or money? 2- if u have a fight with ur g/f, being married is another reason to reconciliate 3- divorcing is not easier than breaking up. meaning that when u get married u you would ( or at least should) be less receptive to negative ideas of leaving/cheating ./....etc it amazes me why ppl wouldn't get married, but i guess my culture is different my parents got married at the age of 20, so and my wife and I we were all undergrads at our marraige time in US and canada and we are doing great,

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                                          Thanks aboshalabi.

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