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  • C CSS_Shadow

    It isn't worth it, I don't want a bank account anymore.

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    Shog9 0
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    CSS_Shadow(); wrote:

    It isn't worth it

    You think someone is screwing you over, and it's not even worth a phone call to resolve the matter?!

    CSS_Shadow(); wrote:

    I don't want a bank account anymore.

    Ever?

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      CSS_Shadow(); wrote:

      It isn't worth it

      You think someone is screwing you over, and it's not even worth a phone call to resolve the matter?!

      CSS_Shadow(); wrote:

      I don't want a bank account anymore.

      Ever?

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      CSS_Shadow
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      Shog9 wrote:

      Ever?

      Not unless banks change. With all the free money banks are getting from taxpayers, and the ability for banks to loan out 10 times the money they have, I take pride in being a cash only person.

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      • C CSS_Shadow

        They get to loan out my money and collect interest. That checking account I had was free, no min balance, and I received no interest regardless of the balance.

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        Christian Graus
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        So, people with jobs, who have money and a capacity to lend money, should be charged fees so that you get services for free ?

        Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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          So, people with jobs, who have money and a capacity to lend money, should be charged fees so that you get services for free ?

          Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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          CSS_Shadow
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          No people who borrow money get charged fees and interest.

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          • C CSS_Shadow

            Shog9 wrote:

            Ever?

            Not unless banks change. With all the free money banks are getting from taxpayers, and the ability for banks to loan out 10 times the money they have, I take pride in being a cash only person.

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            Christian Graus
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            CSS_Shadow(); wrote:

            , I take pride in being a cash only person.

            From the look of your bank statement, that wouldn't be hard. I mean, it's not like you have a lot of cash, right ?

            Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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            • C CSS_Shadow

              No people who borrow money get charged fees and interest.

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              Christian Graus
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              That's what I said. The people who earn enough that banks will lend to them, get charged fees and the banks should use that money to extend free services to you, is what you're saying.

              Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                CSS_Shadow(); wrote:

                , I take pride in being a cash only person.

                From the look of your bank statement, that wouldn't be hard. I mean, it's not like you have a lot of cash, right ?

                Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                CSS_Shadow
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                I have more in my wallet than I do in that account.

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                • C CSS_Shadow

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                  Oakman
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                  Didn't you get the sympathy you were expecting?

                  Jon Smith & Wesson: The original point and click interface Algoraphobia: An exaggerated fear of the outside world rooted in the belief that one might spontaneously combust due to global warming.

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                    Didn't you get the sympathy you were expecting?

                    Jon Smith & Wesson: The original point and click interface Algoraphobia: An exaggerated fear of the outside world rooted in the belief that one might spontaneously combust due to global warming.

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                    CSS_Shadow
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                    I don't want the whole world to see that. Just the regulars who already know my location.

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                    • C CSS_Shadow

                      I have more in my wallet than I do in that account.

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                      Christian Graus
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                      Well, you'd have to, wouldn't you ? How do you make money that you have cash that doesn't go through an account ? Selling drugs ? I didn't think any legal job still paid in cash. FWIW, I remember being dirt poor and frustrated when the bank charged me an overdraw fee, or an account keeping fee, on the basis that it really did cut into my meagre funds. But, the right response is both to better yourself so you stop caring about an $8.00 fee, and never have to worry about being overdrawn, and in general to make yourself aware of the policies of the banks, so you can make sure your account costs you as little as possible.

                      Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                        Well, you'd have to, wouldn't you ? How do you make money that you have cash that doesn't go through an account ? Selling drugs ? I didn't think any legal job still paid in cash. FWIW, I remember being dirt poor and frustrated when the bank charged me an overdraw fee, or an account keeping fee, on the basis that it really did cut into my meagre funds. But, the right response is both to better yourself so you stop caring about an $8.00 fee, and never have to worry about being overdrawn, and in general to make yourself aware of the policies of the banks, so you can make sure your account costs you as little as possible.

                        Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                        CSS_Shadow
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                        Christian Graus wrote:

                        How do you make money that you have cash that doesn't go through an account ?

                        When I worked at the waffle house they paid cash. It was nice receiving a stack of 20s from the boss every week.

                        Christian Graus wrote:

                        But, the right response is both to better yourself so you stop caring about an $8.00 fee

                        I am always dirt poor around this time of year, but once I get back on my feet I'm always better off than I was the year before when I was on my feet.

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                        • C CSS_Shadow

                          I don't want the whole world to see that. Just the regulars who already know my location.

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                          Did you know that banks have their very own credit reporting service? And that once you are listed as a deadbeat, you can't get a bank account anywhere else in the country?

                          Jon Smith & Wesson: The original point and click interface Algoraphobia: An exaggerated fear of the outside world rooted in the belief that one might spontaneously combust due to global warming.

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                            Did you know that banks have their very own credit reporting service? And that once you are listed as a deadbeat, you can't get a bank account anywhere else in the country?

                            Jon Smith & Wesson: The original point and click interface Algoraphobia: An exaggerated fear of the outside world rooted in the belief that one might spontaneously combust due to global warming.

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                            Oakman wrote:

                            once you are listed as a deadbeat, you can't get a bank account anywhere else in the country?

                            They corrected the error.

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                              Oakman wrote:

                              once you are listed as a deadbeat, you can't get a bank account anywhere else in the country?

                              They corrected the error.

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                              And eliminated all the charges? If so, good on you for taking the adult road, maybe there's hope for you, yet

                              Jon Smith & Wesson: The original point and click interface Algoraphobia: An exaggerated fear of the outside world rooted in the belief that one might spontaneously combust due to global warming.

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                                And eliminated all the charges? If so, good on you for taking the adult road, maybe there's hope for you, yet

                                Jon Smith & Wesson: The original point and click interface Algoraphobia: An exaggerated fear of the outside world rooted in the belief that one might spontaneously combust due to global warming.

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                                Oakman wrote:

                                And eliminated all the charges?

                                Yes, and apologized with a lengthy detailed explanation of what happened.

                                Oakman wrote:

                                If so, good on you for taking the adult road, maybe there's hope for you, yet

                                :rolleyes: I remember negotiating my DSL bill from $35 to $19.99, and removing late fees from my credit card bill.

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                                  Oakman wrote:

                                  And eliminated all the charges?

                                  Yes, and apologized with a lengthy detailed explanation of what happened.

                                  Oakman wrote:

                                  If so, good on you for taking the adult road, maybe there's hope for you, yet

                                  :rolleyes: I remember negotiating my DSL bill from $35 to $19.99, and removing late fees from my credit card bill.

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                                  I remember negotiating my DSL bill from $35 to $19.99, and removing late fees from my credit card bill.

                                  Happens all the time - the outrageous stories about corporations screwing over their customers quite royally are true, of course, but they are important simply because they are rare.

                                  Jon Smith & Wesson: The original point and click interface Algoraphobia: An exaggerated fear of the outside world rooted in the belief that one might spontaneously combust due to global warming.

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                                  • C CSS_Shadow

                                    Christian Graus wrote:

                                    How do you make money that you have cash that doesn't go through an account ?

                                    When I worked at the waffle house they paid cash. It was nice receiving a stack of 20s from the boss every week.

                                    Christian Graus wrote:

                                    But, the right response is both to better yourself so you stop caring about an $8.00 fee

                                    I am always dirt poor around this time of year, but once I get back on my feet I'm always better off than I was the year before when I was on my feet.

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                                    Chris Austin
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                                    CSS_Shadow(); wrote:

                                    I am always dirt poor around this time of year, but once I get back on my feet I'm always better off than I was the year before when I was on my feet.

                                    Man, There is a pattern here. You must absolutely do what you can to break it. You said earlier in this thread that you kept meticulous records and receipts as it pertained to your bank. Try to inventory the decisions you have made and see how and where they take you "off of your feet." Be honest with yourself and start making monthly goals to get your self out of the pattern. This isn't about the bank or anybody else; you have got to take care of this stuff or you will almost always be an unexpected expense away from being broke. I don't mean to be judgmental with you. But, I know what it's like to be so poor you cant afford to keep the utilities turned on or buy shoes when you need them.

                                    Sovereign ingredient for a happy marriage: Pay cash or do without. Interest charges not only eat up a household budget; awareness of debt eats up domestic felicity. --Lazarus Long Avoid the crowd. Do your own thinking independently. Be the chess player, not the chess piece. --?

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                                      Shog9 wrote:

                                      Did you call the bank yet?

                                      I sent an email with no reply. My phone uses minutes and I would end up wasting more money waiting on hold. I absolutely must have my phone.

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                                      CSS_Shadow(); wrote:

                                      I absolutely must have my phone.

                                      Have to stay in touch with your pusher? :suss:

                                      "Republicans are the party that says government doesn't work and then they get elected and prove it." -- P.J. O'Rourke

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                                        Has it possibly occurred to you that it might not be their fault that you can't add? And, evidently don't read all the details (fine print included) when you open the account...

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                                        Tsk tsk, there you go, callously applying logic. *Elaine shakes an admonishing paw*

                                        Visit http://www.notreadytogiveup.com/[^] and do something special today.

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                                        • C Christian Graus

                                          That's what I said. The people who earn enough that banks will lend to them, get charged fees and the banks should use that money to extend free services to you, is what you're saying.

                                          Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                                          Banks don't lend only on earnings - they lend on assets. And, assuming the bank is not paying you interest on the money deposited, why wouldn't they fund my deposit account with the interest (not fees) charged those borrowing. In this case, the bank is being the 'middle man' in effect - brokering a loan. If I lend money I expect interest (unless it is to my brother in law, in which case I expect never to see it again). I lend money to the bank - they lend it to someone else at some level of interest. (Caveat - the original message has been deleted - which annoys the living bejesus out of me - so I may be basing my responses on something unrelated to the OP)

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