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  • C Christopher Duncan

    I've been lying about my age on the "9 years" for decades. At 29, I told averyone I was 30, because I thought it was cool. Another milestone? Nobody ever thought I'd live that long! so, I've been 30, 40 and 50 twice. Great fun. :-D I grew up with the Vietnam war and opportunities for M-16s and green fatigues looming over me. Believe me when I tell you, even at an early age I thought aging was a Good Thing. Getting old is the point! :)

    Christopher Duncan Author of The Career Programmer and Unite the Tribes www.PracticalUSA.com

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    Christian Graus
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    Christopher Duncan wrote:

    Getting old is the point

    yep - it sure beats the alternative....

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    • A Anna Jayne Metcalfe

      I've come to the conclusion that 40 is no big deal really...it's 30 years before 70, and as far as I'm concerned that's plenty of time to do fun stuff. :)

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      Christian Graus
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      The main differences I can see between 16 and 40 1 - I've had time to learn to do the things I like ( NO, I am talking about guitar and programming ) 2 - no-one can tell me to stop and go to bed 3 - I have the money to pursue the things I like ( I have $20k worth of guitars and amps now, for example ) 4 - so long as I know I've treated people fairly, I no longer care what people think. I dress how I want, live how I want, do the things I want to do.

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      • C Christian Graus

        Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

        Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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        Pete OHanlon
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        BTW - happy birthday for tomorrow.

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          BTW - happy birthday for tomorrow.

          "WPF has many lovers. It's a veritable porn star!" - Josh Smith

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          Christian Graus
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          *grin* thanks.

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          • C Christian Graus

            The main differences I can see between 16 and 40 1 - I've had time to learn to do the things I like ( NO, I am talking about guitar and programming ) 2 - no-one can tell me to stop and go to bed 3 - I have the money to pursue the things I like ( I have $20k worth of guitars and amps now, for example ) 4 - so long as I know I've treated people fairly, I no longer care what people think. I dress how I want, live how I want, do the things I want to do.

            Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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            DaveyM69
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            Got my 5 :-D 40 is good, hopefuly it gets better!

            Dave
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            Visual Basic is not used by normal people so we're not covering it here. (Uncyclopedia)

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            • C Christian Graus

              Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

              Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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              Nemanja Trifunovic
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              Dude, you've been middle aged for ten years now - what's a big deal? :-\

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              • P Pete OHanlon

                Bassam Abdul-Baki wrote:

                you should do okay. 200 is my goal.

                Who wants to live to 200? By that age, you'll not get dates, you'll look like a date.

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                Bassam Abdul Baki
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                In 200 years, I'm sure they'll have robotox and I'll look like a 21 year old again.

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                  Got my 5 :-D 40 is good, hopefuly it gets better!

                  Dave
                  BTW, in software, hope and pray is not a viable strategy. (Luc Pattyn)
                  Visual Basic is not used by normal people so we're not covering it here. (Uncyclopedia)

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                  It does. :-D

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                  • C Christian Graus

                    Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

                    Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                    leckey 0
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                    Hubby turns 40 this summer and he really hasn't changed in 15 years. He loves tech toys, video games and could care less whom is in the Top 40 on the radio. But I still love him! He has tried to take a bigger interest in politics to have more conversations with me.

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                    • C Christian Graus

                      The main differences I can see between 16 and 40 1 - I've had time to learn to do the things I like ( NO, I am talking about guitar and programming ) 2 - no-one can tell me to stop and go to bed 3 - I have the money to pursue the things I like ( I have $20k worth of guitars and amps now, for example ) 4 - so long as I know I've treated people fairly, I no longer care what people think. I dress how I want, live how I want, do the things I want to do.

                      Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                      Vikram A Punathambekar
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                      Christian Graus wrote:

                      I dress how I want

                      It's very hard not to make a joke at that ;P but I'll just wish you a happy birthday :) May the rants keep flowing (they are entertaining!)

                      Cheers, Vıkram.


                      I've never ever worked anywhere where there has not been someone who given the choice I would not work with again. It's a job, you do your work, put up with the people you don't like, accept there are probably people there that don't like you a lot, and look forward to the weekends.   - Josh Gray.

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                      • C Christopher Duncan

                        I love the way people think that "middle aged" means that your life is essentially over. For those of you keeping score at home, here's a breakdown of age groups and what they mean in the US:

                        • Below 13: Child. Irrelevant to society other than the joy / burden of raising you.
                        • 13 to 19: Teenager. Obnoxious and prone to wild fits of manic behavior.
                        • 20: Young. The only years truly worth living.
                        • 30: Getting Old. Time to resign yourself to the fact that you're no longer young or able to have fun. Life sucks starting today. It's all about responsibilities, obligations and work. Hang up your party hat, you won't be needing it.
                        • 40: Over The Hill. It's all downhill from here. No point making plans. Your life is just about over, so why bother? Just fill out your will so we can have your money when you go. Er, you're going soon, right?
                        • 50: Old And In The Way. You're too old to function or contribute to society, let alone have any fun, so you'd do us all a favor if you would just go out back and shoot yourself so that we don't have to deal with you. (You did fill out that will, didn't you?)
                        • 60: Ancient. What, people really want to live that long? Good heavens, why?

                        As you can see, the only years worth living where you're able to enjoy life are your 20s. Beyond that, it's all a descending spiral towards death, with no real ability to have any fun. What a nation of whiners! No wonder anti-depressants are such big sellers. Do you think if you sit around and chant, "Life sucks, life sucks..." long enough, your life will magically become better? If you truly feel this way (and a huge chunk of society buys into this), why don't you just stay home, curl up in a fetal position and make more room for the rest of us? You're depressing and boring the pants off of us, and you're taking up valuable space that could better be used by those of us who are still alive. I'm 51, and I speak with authority when I say that everything they told you about getting old was BS. I'm stronger, smarter, faster and better in every way than I was at 20. Old and in the way? Trust me, boys and girls. I plan on being in the way a lot! :-D

                        Christopher Duncan Author of The Career Programmer and Unite the Tribes

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                        The youngest I'd ever want to be again is 25. But then, statistically, singles between 25 and 30 have the least sex.

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                        • C Christian Graus

                          Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

                          Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                          Dalek Dave
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                          Christian Graus wrote:

                          by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance

                          A sure sign you are middle aged!

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                          • C Christian Graus

                            Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

                            Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                            SimonRigby
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                            hehe. 39 next for me. Happy Birthday fella :). Just remember getting older is a good thing because you either make less mistakes or get better and talking yourself out of the ensuing sh*t. :)

                            The only thing unpredictable about me is just how predictable I'm going to be.

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                            • C Christian Graus

                              The main differences I can see between 16 and 40 1 - I've had time to learn to do the things I like ( NO, I am talking about guitar and programming ) 2 - no-one can tell me to stop and go to bed 3 - I have the money to pursue the things I like ( I have $20k worth of guitars and amps now, for example ) 4 - so long as I know I've treated people fairly, I no longer care what people think. I dress how I want, live how I want, do the things I want to do.

                              Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                              Anna Jayne Metcalfe
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                              I have to say that you've pretty much hit the nail on the head there. :cool:

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                              • G Gary R Wheeler

                                Swimming is probably an ideal form of exercise for middle-aged types. No impact, moderately aerobic, and if you pick the right pool and the right time of day, 'entertaining' (wink-wink, nudge-nudge).

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                                Gary R. Wheeler wrote:

                                'entertaining'

                                That's why us old farts don't wear Speedo's to the beach. :rose:

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                                • C Christian Graus

                                  Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

                                  Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                                  Bob1000
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                                  You have to separate chronological age from both psychological and biological age - The three are different!

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                                  • C Christian Graus

                                    The main differences I can see between 16 and 40 1 - I've had time to learn to do the things I like ( NO, I am talking about guitar and programming ) 2 - no-one can tell me to stop and go to bed 3 - I have the money to pursue the things I like ( I have $20k worth of guitars and amps now, for example ) 4 - so long as I know I've treated people fairly, I no longer care what people think. I dress how I want, live how I want, do the things I want to do.

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                                    Gary Wheeler
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                                    Christian Graus wrote:

                                    I no longer care what people think. I dress how I want, live how I want, do the things I want to do

                                    Damn straight!

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                                    • C Christian Graus

                                      Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

                                      Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                                      Earl Truss
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                                      Could you state that in the form of a question?

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                                      • C Christian Graus

                                        Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

                                        Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                                        dogdays
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                                        Nowadays I believe middle age starts in your sixties. I also believe that one should look for quality of life, not quantity. Dogdays

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                                        • C Christian Graus

                                          Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

                                          Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                                          Donsw
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                                          Hey I own a vette, they have nothign to do with age or anything else. if you like them drive them. Just like any other car.

                                          cheers, Donsw My Recent Article : Optimistic Concurrency with C# using the IOC and DI Design Patterns

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