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In India it's due to the indirect caste reference. In the old days people from specific lower castes used to be the barbers around the country - the reason being that, cutting or shaving someone else's hair was seen as a low-respect menial task. So maybe hair stylist is a better word to use because of the negative associations the word "barber" has in India.
d@nish wrote:
It is almost same as black people getting offended on being called as black. I am brown. Call me brown and there is nothing to be sad or happy about it. Black is black, brown is brown and white is white. But the discrimination is wrong.
Well you'd get in trouble if you directly referred to a black man as black in many parts in the States (unless you are black yourself). And if you call a brown person brown then you'd be accused of being a racist by everyone (including CNN) :-) The only safe color reference to make is to call white people white - no one seems to be bothered by that. :)
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In India it's due to the indirect caste reference. In the old days people from specific lower castes used to be the barbers around the country - the reason being that, cutting or shaving someone else's hair was seen as a low-respect menial task.
Caste reference is not bad. Its the consequences one *had* to face were bad. But today? And any job including ours can be of low-respect in some opinions. But one should not forget its an opinion. Did the protestors had a look at the movie? I guess no as the name was changed before release. Billu, lead, is a barber and hence Billu barber. Now WTF is derogatory?
Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
ell you'd get in trouble if you directly referred to a black man as black in many parts in the States
Never been to US. Whats the logic behind it? Whats wrong in calling a black/brown person black/brown? Not in a offending way but there are situations where it helps. Like there are 10 persons having just the one brown guy. You have to call the brown one and you say "Hey Mr brown guy.....". Is it offense?
The word "politics" describes the process so well: "Poli" in Latin meaning "many" and "tics" meaning "bloodsucking creatures." जय हिंद
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Unfortunately, there are some people who just want to create trouble for all others. This is all too common and by no way restricted to MH. Do you know the High Court in TN has functioned for all of 9 days this year? The lawyers are up in arms 'for the sake of Sri Lankan Tamils'. Very honourable, I'm sure, but why would anybody in Sri Lanka care if the Madras High Court functions or not?
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Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
The lawyers are up in arms 'for the sake of Sri Lankan Tamils'.
:wtf: I didn't know of this. This is scarily close to Pakistanis "pushing" for the betterment of Indian Muslims?
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Unfortunately, there are some people who just want to create trouble for all others. This is all too common and by no way restricted to MH. Do you know the High Court in TN has functioned for all of 9 days this year? The lawyers are up in arms 'for the sake of Sri Lankan Tamils'. Very honourable, I'm sure, but why would anybody in Sri Lanka care if the Madras High Court functions or not?
Cheers, Vıkram.
I've never ever worked anywhere where there has not been someone who given the choice I would not work with again. It's a job, you do your work, put up with the people you don't like, accept there are probably people there that don't like you a lot, and look forward to the weekends. - Josh Gray.
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Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
The only safe color reference to make is to call white people white - no one seems to be bothered by that.
When I think of white I think of a neighbor girl when I was growing up who was albino. She was a real "white girl".
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Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
High Court in TN has functioned for all of 9 days this year
9 out of 365? :omg: Not bad.
The word "politics" describes the process so well: "Poli" in Latin meaning "many" and "tics" meaning "bloodsucking creatures." जय हिंद
d@nish wrote:
9 out of 365?
Umm, this year is less than two months old.
d@nish wrote:
Not bad
Was that sarcasm, or did you misread "has functioned" as "has not functioned" ? :)
Cheers, Vıkram.
I've never ever worked anywhere where there has not been someone who given the choice I would not work with again. It's a job, you do your work, put up with the people you don't like, accept there are probably people there that don't like you a lot, and look forward to the weekends. - Josh Gray.
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Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
The lawyers are up in arms 'for the sake of Sri Lankan Tamils'.
:wtf: I didn't know of this. This is scarily close to Pakistanis "pushing" for the betterment of Indian Muslims?
Regards, Nish
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My latest book : C++/CLI in Action / Amazon.com linkNishant Sivakumar wrote:
I didn't know of this.
Nish, the support for the Sri Lankan Tamil cause is nothing new, it's decades old. While the LTTE are ruthless terrorists, it is undeniable that the Lankan Tamils have legitimate grievances. Indian Muslims are much, MUCH better off than Lankan Tamils, and Pakistan's interference is only to further the bullsh*t claim that they represent all Muslims of the subcontinent, something that sounded hollow even in 1947 when roughly one third of the subcontinent's Muslims chose to remain with India, and was laid bare in 1971 when Pakistan itself was dismembered.
Cheers, Vıkram.
I've never ever worked anywhere where there has not been someone who given the choice I would not work with again. It's a job, you do your work, put up with the people you don't like, accept there are probably people there that don't like you a lot, and look forward to the weekends. - Josh Gray.
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Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
In India it's due to the indirect caste reference. In the old days people from specific lower castes used to be the barbers around the country - the reason being that, cutting or shaving someone else's hair was seen as a low-respect menial task.
Caste reference is not bad. Its the consequences one *had* to face were bad. But today? And any job including ours can be of low-respect in some opinions. But one should not forget its an opinion. Did the protestors had a look at the movie? I guess no as the name was changed before release. Billu, lead, is a barber and hence Billu barber. Now WTF is derogatory?
Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
ell you'd get in trouble if you directly referred to a black man as black in many parts in the States
Never been to US. Whats the logic behind it? Whats wrong in calling a black/brown person black/brown? Not in a offending way but there are situations where it helps. Like there are 10 persons having just the one brown guy. You have to call the brown one and you say "Hey Mr brown guy.....". Is it offense?
The word "politics" describes the process so well: "Poli" in Latin meaning "many" and "tics" meaning "bloodsucking creatures." जय हिंद
d@nish wrote:
Whats the logic behind it? Whats wrong in calling a black/brown person black/brown?
The politically correct term for Americans of African descent keeps changing. Nigger, Negro, and Coloured Person (outright racist terms) were taboo roughly after WW2 (I don't know exactly when). They were then called Blacks, which also became politically incorrect, and they are now referred to as African-Americans. That's roughly how I understand it; I've never been to the USA myself.
Cheers, Vıkram.
I've never ever worked anywhere where there has not been someone who given the choice I would not work with again. It's a job, you do your work, put up with the people you don't like, accept there are probably people there that don't like you a lot, and look forward to the weekends. - Josh Gray.
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d@nish wrote:
9 out of 365?
Umm, this year is less than two months old.
d@nish wrote:
Not bad
Was that sarcasm, or did you misread "has functioned" as "has not functioned" ? :)
Cheers, Vıkram.
I've never ever worked anywhere where there has not been someone who given the choice I would not work with again. It's a job, you do your work, put up with the people you don't like, accept there are probably people there that don't like you a lot, and look forward to the weekends. - Josh Gray.
Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
Umm, this year is less than two months old.
Still in 2008 hangover. Poor me. :doh:
Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
Was that sarcasm, or did you misread "has functioned" as "has not functioned" ?
I read as "has functioned". Aren't they supposed to work through the week?
The word "politics" describes the process so well: "Poli" in Latin meaning "many" and "tics" meaning "bloodsucking creatures." जय हिंद
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Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
Umm, this year is less than two months old.
Still in 2008 hangover. Poor me. :doh:
Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
Was that sarcasm, or did you misread "has functioned" as "has not functioned" ?
I read as "has functioned". Aren't they supposed to work through the week?
The word "politics" describes the process so well: "Poli" in Latin meaning "many" and "tics" meaning "bloodsucking creatures." जय हिंद
d@nish wrote:
Still in 2008 hangover
:wtf: Are you in New Delhi? What's your native language, Hindi? Any chance you'll come down South, esp. Madras? :)
Cheers, Vıkram.
I've never ever worked anywhere where there has not been someone who given the choice I would not work with again. It's a job, you do your work, put up with the people you don't like, accept there are probably people there that don't like you a lot, and look forward to the weekends. - Josh Gray.
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Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
I didn't know of this.
Nish, the support for the Sri Lankan Tamil cause is nothing new, it's decades old. While the LTTE are ruthless terrorists, it is undeniable that the Lankan Tamils have legitimate grievances. Indian Muslims are much, MUCH better off than Lankan Tamils, and Pakistan's interference is only to further the bullsh*t claim that they represent all Muslims of the subcontinent, something that sounded hollow even in 1947 when roughly one third of the subcontinent's Muslims chose to remain with India, and was laid bare in 1971 when Pakistan itself was dismembered.
Cheers, Vıkram.
I've never ever worked anywhere where there has not been someone who given the choice I would not work with again. It's a job, you do your work, put up with the people you don't like, accept there are probably people there that don't like you a lot, and look forward to the weekends. - Josh Gray.
Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
While the LTTE are ruthless terrorists, it is undeniable that the Lankan Tamils have legitimate grievances.
Probably true but I still think it's none of India's business.
Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
Indian Muslims are much, MUCH better off than Lankan Tamils, and Pakistan's interference is only to further the bullsh*t claim that they represent all Muslims of the subcontinent, something that sounded hollow even in 1947 when roughly one third of the subcontinent's Muslims chose to remain with India, and was laid bare in 1971 when Pakistan itself was dismembered.
Yep, completely agree there. In fact I'd go so far as to say that for non-extremist Muslims India's probably one of the best countries to live in - they get more freedom here than in Muslim countries like Pakistan or Saudi Arabia :-)
Regards, Nish
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Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
In India it's due to the indirect caste reference. In the old days people from specific lower castes used to be the barbers around the country - the reason being that, cutting or shaving someone else's hair was seen as a low-respect menial task.
Caste reference is not bad. Its the consequences one *had* to face were bad. But today? And any job including ours can be of low-respect in some opinions. But one should not forget its an opinion. Did the protestors had a look at the movie? I guess no as the name was changed before release. Billu, lead, is a barber and hence Billu barber. Now WTF is derogatory?
Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
ell you'd get in trouble if you directly referred to a black man as black in many parts in the States
Never been to US. Whats the logic behind it? Whats wrong in calling a black/brown person black/brown? Not in a offending way but there are situations where it helps. Like there are 10 persons having just the one brown guy. You have to call the brown one and you say "Hey Mr brown guy.....". Is it offense?
The word "politics" describes the process so well: "Poli" in Latin meaning "many" and "tics" meaning "bloodsucking creatures." जय हिंद
d@nish wrote:
Whats wrong in calling a black/brown person black/brown? Not in a offending way but there are situations where it helps. Like there are 10 persons having just the one brown guy. You have to call the brown one and you say "Hey Mr brown guy.....". Is it offense?
Well imagine you are in school and you are talking to 3 classmates, one very fair, one very dark and one medium complexioned. Do you refer to them using color if you are new and don't know their names? Will you say something like, "I am sitting next to that black girl, just behind the white girl but I may eventually end up sitting next to that dark brown guy." That sounds pretty ridiculous and rude to me.
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d@nish wrote:
Still in 2008 hangover
:wtf: Are you in New Delhi? What's your native language, Hindi? Any chance you'll come down South, esp. Madras? :)
Cheers, Vıkram.
I've never ever worked anywhere where there has not been someone who given the choice I would not work with again. It's a job, you do your work, put up with the people you don't like, accept there are probably people there that don't like you a lot, and look forward to the weekends. - Josh Gray.
Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
Are you in New Delhi?
How in the world you got that?
Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
What's your native language, Hindi?
This one too.
Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
Any chance you'll come down South, esp. Madras?
May be around May. I wish to work in Chennai. If I get out of my current project, then I will prefer going down South. I have been many places but only Hyderabad as far as South is concerned. But its not in my hand to choose the location.
The word "politics" describes the process so well: "Poli" in Latin meaning "many" and "tics" meaning "bloodsucking creatures." जय हिंद
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d@nish wrote:
Whats wrong in calling a black/brown person black/brown? Not in a offending way but there are situations where it helps. Like there are 10 persons having just the one brown guy. You have to call the brown one and you say "Hey Mr brown guy.....". Is it offense?
Well imagine you are in school and you are talking to 3 classmates, one very fair, one very dark and one medium complexioned. Do you refer to them using color if you are new and don't know their names? Will you say something like, "I am sitting next to that black girl, just behind the white girl but I may eventually end up sitting next to that dark brown guy." That sounds pretty ridiculous and rude to me.
Regards, Nish
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My latest book : C++/CLI in Action / Amazon.com linkNishant Sivakumar wrote:
"I am sitting next to that black girl, just behind the white girl but I may eventually end up sitting next to that dark brown guy." That sounds pretty ridiculous and rude to me.
Each brain is different. I don't find it rude. Not even ridiculous but irritating. I meant not regularly but if it comes out while talking, is that offense or the way you used the word matters?
The word "politics" describes the process so well: "Poli" in Latin meaning "many" and "tics" meaning "bloodsucking creatures." जय हिंद
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Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
"I am sitting next to that black girl, just behind the white girl but I may eventually end up sitting next to that dark brown guy." That sounds pretty ridiculous and rude to me.
Each brain is different. I don't find it rude. Not even ridiculous but irritating. I meant not regularly but if it comes out while talking, is that offense or the way you used the word matters?
The word "politics" describes the process so well: "Poli" in Latin meaning "many" and "tics" meaning "bloodsucking creatures." जय हिंद
d@nish wrote:
Each brain is different. I don't find it rude. Not even ridiculous but irritating.
That's odd. For centuries black people were ill-treated because of their dark skin. So they don't want to be referred to using their skin color, specially since most "black" people aren't really black-skinned. Many "black" people are actually lighter toned than "brown" Indians.
d@nish wrote:
I meant not regularly but if it comes out while talking, is that offense or the way you used the word matters?
How you mean it does not matter much - what matters is how the word/phrase fits into a social context. As a more explicit example, you don't say, "Have you seen Mary?" and someone asks "Who's Mary?", and you say (in public) "Oh that big breasted girl from accounting". Factually it may be true, but that doesn't mean she's going to like it to be referred to using the size of her breasts. You can say you didn't mean to be rude and you were just trying to be accurate - but I doubt anyone'd buy that argument.
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d@nish wrote:
Each brain is different. I don't find it rude. Not even ridiculous but irritating.
That's odd. For centuries black people were ill-treated because of their dark skin. So they don't want to be referred to using their skin color, specially since most "black" people aren't really black-skinned. Many "black" people are actually lighter toned than "brown" Indians.
d@nish wrote:
I meant not regularly but if it comes out while talking, is that offense or the way you used the word matters?
How you mean it does not matter much - what matters is how the word/phrase fits into a social context. As a more explicit example, you don't say, "Have you seen Mary?" and someone asks "Who's Mary?", and you say (in public) "Oh that big breasted girl from accounting". Factually it may be true, but that doesn't mean she's going to like it to be referred to using the size of her breasts. You can say you didn't mean to be rude and you were just trying to be accurate - but I doubt anyone'd buy that argument.
Regards, Nish
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For centuries black people were ill-treated because of their dark skin. So they don't want to be referred to using their skin color, specially since most "black" people aren't really black-skinned.
Understand that. Their color their choice. I respect it. Its just that I will not find it offensive if I am the subject. Ofcourse the way it is used matters. That and caste discrimination is something I cannot stand and understand. (Wow!! beware you rappers)
Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
Many "black" people are actually lighter toned than "brown" Indians.
Halle Berry. We share almost same skin tone. :-D
The word "politics" describes the process so well: "Poli" in Latin meaning "many" and "tics" meaning "bloodsucking creatures." जय हिंद
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Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
For centuries black people were ill-treated because of their dark skin. So they don't want to be referred to using their skin color, specially since most "black" people aren't really black-skinned.
Understand that. Their color their choice. I respect it. Its just that I will not find it offensive if I am the subject. Ofcourse the way it is used matters. That and caste discrimination is something I cannot stand and understand. (Wow!! beware you rappers)
Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
Many "black" people are actually lighter toned than "brown" Indians.
Halle Berry. We share almost same skin tone. :-D
The word "politics" describes the process so well: "Poli" in Latin meaning "many" and "tics" meaning "bloodsucking creatures." जय हिंद
d@nish wrote:
Its just that I will not find it offensive if I am the subject.
Yeah it's the same with me - I personally wouldn't mind being called brown or curry muncher or whatever :-) But when I address someone I usually try and decide if a particular phrase might be insulting to him or her - that's what matters eventually, not whether I myself find it insulting or not. So as long as a majority of black and brown people find it insulting to be referred to via their skin color, I'll refrain from doing that except when making general statements like I just did. Funnily, it'd be politically correct for me to refer to Indians and Pakistanis as brown people because I am brown. :-)
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Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
While the LTTE are ruthless terrorists, it is undeniable that the Lankan Tamils have legitimate grievances.
Probably true but I still think it's none of India's business.
Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
Indian Muslims are much, MUCH better off than Lankan Tamils, and Pakistan's interference is only to further the bullsh*t claim that they represent all Muslims of the subcontinent, something that sounded hollow even in 1947 when roughly one third of the subcontinent's Muslims chose to remain with India, and was laid bare in 1971 when Pakistan itself was dismembered.
Yep, completely agree there. In fact I'd go so far as to say that for non-extremist Muslims India's probably one of the best countries to live in - they get more freedom here than in Muslim countries like Pakistan or Saudi Arabia :-)
Regards, Nish
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I still think it's none of India's business
It certainly is within India's right to ask foreign countries to treat Indian descendants fairly, all the more so when said countries depend on Indian aid. There are many war-torn countries in Africa; do you suggest India - and all other countries - pull out their peacekeepers because it's none of their business? (At times, I kind of agree to that, but that's another story :) )
Cheers, Vıkram.
I've never ever worked anywhere where there has not been someone who given the choice I would not work with again. It's a job, you do your work, put up with the people you don't like, accept there are probably people there that don't like you a lot, and look forward to the weekends. - Josh Gray.
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d@nish wrote:
Its just that I will not find it offensive if I am the subject.
Yeah it's the same with me - I personally wouldn't mind being called brown or curry muncher or whatever :-) But when I address someone I usually try and decide if a particular phrase might be insulting to him or her - that's what matters eventually, not whether I myself find it insulting or not. So as long as a majority of black and brown people find it insulting to be referred to via their skin color, I'll refrain from doing that except when making general statements like I just did. Funnily, it'd be politically correct for me to refer to Indians and Pakistanis as brown people because I am brown. :-)
Regards, Nish
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Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
Are you in New Delhi?
How in the world you got that?
Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
What's your native language, Hindi?
This one too.
Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
Any chance you'll come down South, esp. Madras?
May be around May. I wish to work in Chennai. If I get out of my current project, then I will prefer going down South. I have been many places but only Hyderabad as far as South is concerned. But its not in my hand to choose the location.
The word "politics" describes the process so well: "Poli" in Latin meaning "many" and "tics" meaning "bloodsucking creatures." जय हिंद
d@nish wrote:
How in the world you got that?
Magic. Or from your bike-ride-in-fog post. I forget which. ;)
d@nish wrote:
This one too.
Come, now, that's far too easy to guess. If you come to Chennai, drop me an email. BTW, May is probably the worst month to visit Chennai. You're probably used to the heat in Delhi, but Chennai's humidity is an entirely different kettle of fish. FYI: I've been sweating all day today, and I dread the summer.
Cheers, Vıkram.
I've never ever worked anywhere where there has not been someone who given the choice I would not work with again. It's a job, you do your work, put up with the people you don't like, accept there are probably people there that don't like you a lot, and look forward to the weekends. - Josh Gray.
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Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
I still think it's none of India's business
It certainly is within India's right to ask foreign countries to treat Indian descendants fairly, all the more so when said countries depend on Indian aid. There are many war-torn countries in Africa; do you suggest India - and all other countries - pull out their peacekeepers because it's none of their business? (At times, I kind of agree to that, but that's another story :) )
Cheers, Vıkram.
I've never ever worked anywhere where there has not been someone who given the choice I would not work with again. It's a job, you do your work, put up with the people you don't like, accept there are probably people there that don't like you a lot, and look forward to the weekends. - Josh Gray.
Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
It certainly is within India's right to ask foreign countries to treat Indian descendants fairly, all the more so when said countries depend on Indian aid.
I agree with that to an extent though I think sometimes we overdo it. For example, whenever Indian Americans are in the news, it becomes news in India too - even when these are 2nd generation US citizens who have never been to India. I don't really have a full picture of how Tamils are treated in Sri Lanka, but their most celebrated cricketer (Murali) is not only Tamil but he married an Indian Tamil girl (daughter of the Malar hospital owner I think - which is apparently one of South India's best heart hospitals). Of course he's rich and their best ever cricketer - so that's probably a wrong example when trying to consider the average plight of Tamils in that country. I get what you are saying though, but I still think it ridiculous that people in Tamil Nadu give so much priority to the issue when we have much bigger issues in our country.
Regards, Nish
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