Regarding Divorce
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Just wanted to know what people thought of Divorce. I don't mean your religious views. I mean your own thoughts on that concept. Mine is that if two people have a problem living together and it's not a temporary fight, they should best get divorced at the soonest possible instance. Regards, Nish
Author of the romantic comedy Summer Love and Some more Cricket [New Win] Review by Shog9 Click here for review[NW]
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Just wanted to know what people thought of Divorce. I don't mean your religious views. I mean your own thoughts on that concept. Mine is that if two people have a problem living together and it's not a temporary fight, they should best get divorced at the soonest possible instance. Regards, Nish
Author of the romantic comedy Summer Love and Some more Cricket [New Win] Review by Shog9 Click here for review[NW]
Nishant S wrote: Just wanted to know what people thought of Divorce. I don't mean your religious views. I mean your own thoughts on that concept. It's a weird situation. Personally I think that if people are getting divorced then they should not have gooten married in the first place... if you love someone enough to marry them then you shoudl be able to work through almost anything... But that could be the Irish in me.. over here divorces are very, very, very, very rare... we had a vote a few years ago to get the constitution changed in order to allow divorce. Only barely passed. I know that there are situations where divorce is needed but people probably get married too easily now-a-days.. just for the sake of "being married". To me it's something amazing and very special... but hey. I'm only 21 and probably won't get married for a long time, if at all, so I'm probably talking through my ho*e :-) Regards, Brian Dela :-)
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Just wanted to know what people thought of Divorce. I don't mean your religious views. I mean your own thoughts on that concept. Mine is that if two people have a problem living together and it's not a temporary fight, they should best get divorced at the soonest possible instance. Regards, Nish
Author of the romantic comedy Summer Love and Some more Cricket [New Win] Review by Shog9 Click here for review[NW]
I regard marriage - the kind entered into voluntarily by both parties - as one of the most sacred of personal committments. No effort short of everything you've got is too much to expend to make it work. But even then, there are times when divorce is the only option, albeit a distasteful one. In the case of arranged marriages, still practiced in some parts of the world, marriage is a farcical form of slavery, with no valid claim to legitimacy. Such arrangements should be ignored if they are unpleasant, and as readily abandoned as a job that sucks. No partnership without true committment of the heart and soul has any place in life, nor any sanction in any god's sight.
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I regard marriage - the kind entered into voluntarily by both parties - as one of the most sacred of personal committments. No effort short of everything you've got is too much to expend to make it work. But even then, there are times when divorce is the only option, albeit a distasteful one. In the case of arranged marriages, still practiced in some parts of the world, marriage is a farcical form of slavery, with no valid claim to legitimacy. Such arrangements should be ignored if they are unpleasant, and as readily abandoned as a job that sucks. No partnership without true committment of the heart and soul has any place in life, nor any sanction in any god's sight.
Roger Wright wrote: No effort short of everything you've got is too much to expend to make it work My sentiments exactly. Regards, Brian Dela :-)
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Just wanted to know what people thought of Divorce. I don't mean your religious views. I mean your own thoughts on that concept. Mine is that if two people have a problem living together and it's not a temporary fight, they should best get divorced at the soonest possible instance. Regards, Nish
Author of the romantic comedy Summer Love and Some more Cricket [New Win] Review by Shog9 Click here for review[NW]
Four threads in a row? In The Soapbox? With your reputation? Whatever could you be thinking? :laugh: Back on topic, my opinion is simple: even though divorce should be an option, it should not be considered as one. If you're not taking marriage seriously, then you shouldn't be getting married - divorce should not be seen as an "undo" feature, for use as soon as you realize you've made a mistake; rather, it should be seen as a bottle of whiteout, able to make a very bad situation a little better, but unable to ever repair the damage done by thoughtless actions.
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Just wanted to know what people thought of Divorce. I don't mean your religious views. I mean your own thoughts on that concept. Mine is that if two people have a problem living together and it's not a temporary fight, they should best get divorced at the soonest possible instance. Regards, Nish
Author of the romantic comedy Summer Love and Some more Cricket [New Win] Review by Shog9 Click here for review[NW]
Nishant S wrote: Just wanted to know what people thought of Divorce. Me: "It's always the children who pay the highest price with divorce". You: "But I haven't got any children". Me: "My point exactly"!! Regardz Colin J Davies
Sonork ID 100.9197:Colin
You are the intrepid one, always willing to leap into the fray! A serious character flaw, I might add, but entertaining. Said by Roger Wright about me.
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Nishant S wrote: Just wanted to know what people thought of Divorce. Me: "It's always the children who pay the highest price with divorce". You: "But I haven't got any children". Me: "My point exactly"!! Regardz Colin J Davies
Sonork ID 100.9197:Colin
You are the intrepid one, always willing to leap into the fray! A serious character flaw, I might add, but entertaining. Said by Roger Wright about me.
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Shog9 wrote: ...That's really deep, Colin. Yeah it is Shogi. Regardz Colin J Davies
Sonork ID 100.9197:Colin
You are the intrepid one, always willing to leap into the fray! A serious character flaw, I might add, but entertaining. Said by Roger Wright about me.
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Just wanted to know what people thought of Divorce. I don't mean your religious views. I mean your own thoughts on that concept. Mine is that if two people have a problem living together and it's not a temporary fight, they should best get divorced at the soonest possible instance. Regards, Nish
Author of the romantic comedy Summer Love and Some more Cricket [New Win] Review by Shog9 Click here for review[NW]
Nishant S wrote: Regarding Divorce Ok I will answer your question after my short (yeah right) sermon: Divorce is not the problem. Marriage is. Or rather the ease of entry into marriage. Marriage should be the hard thing to do, not divorce. To get divorced is a long, troublesome and hard thing to do really (we only see the end result of divorce. We don't see all the legal hassles, the talking, the lawyers and such crap.) But to get married involves two signatures in a book and the handing over of a "license" really. As for your question: Rather be able to divorce than be unhappily married. Unhappy but together parents are far worse than happy but not together parents. My parents are divorced (thankfully only when I was 18) but they are much happier now as friends than when they were married. They still love each other, they just can't live together (and don't think that is a cliche or some story book fantasy, it is very true as I am finding out.)
Paul Watson
Bluegrass
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Just wanted to know what people thought of Divorce. I don't mean your religious views. I mean your own thoughts on that concept. Mine is that if two people have a problem living together and it's not a temporary fight, they should best get divorced at the soonest possible instance. Regards, Nish
Author of the romantic comedy Summer Love and Some more Cricket [New Win] Review by Shog9 Click here for review[NW]
It's a truly horrible thing to have to go through, but sometimes there's just no choice. I'm going through it right now (the Decree Nisi was pronounced today), and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. :(( Anna :rose: "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
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