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  • C Christian Graus

    I'd say she's telling you she wants to cease all access to her trouser area, but to stay on friendly terms. But, women are confusing, don't ask a bunch of geeks to decode, ask her for clarification.

    Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. Read my blog to find out how I've worked around bugs in Microsoft tools and frameworks.

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    Brian C Hart
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    My question is, should you/can you remain on friendly terms? Brian

    Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

    Regards,

    Dr. Brian Hart
    drbrianhart343@gmail.com email
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-brian-hart-astrophysicist-veteran/

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      My question is, should you/can you remain on friendly terms? Brian

      Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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      Why not? as CG says, a damnably good shaggin' seems out of the question, but hanging out would seem to be fine - and she may have some friends..

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      • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

        My question is, should you/can you remain on friendly terms? Brian

        Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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        Christian Graus
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        I think that would always be doomed, but the only girl I ever broke up with was my first wife, who was banging my best friend, so I don't have a depth of experience to draw on.

        Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. Read my blog to find out how I've worked around bugs in Microsoft tools and frameworks.

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        • C Christian Graus

          I'd say she's telling you she wants to cease all access to her trouser area, but to stay on friendly terms. But, women are confusing, don't ask a bunch of geeks to decode, ask her for clarification.

          Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. Read my blog to find out how I've worked around bugs in Microsoft tools and frameworks.

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          Christian Graus wrote:

          but to stay on friendly terms

          That's what they (we...) say... but in actual fact, staying friends with an ex is a man's thing. Someone said to me: Men chooses the "Save as..." option whereas women just hit the "Save" button and click "yes" to "Do you want to overwrite this data?" ;P Likelihood is, she'll do her best, but you'll be completely erased from her life in a few weeks.:~

          Almost, but not quite, entirely unlike... me...

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          • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

            The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

            Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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            PIEBALDconsult
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            Depends... the woman who is my wife dumped me a few times while we were dating. She kept pulling me back in. :-D

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              Depends... the woman who is my wife dumped me a few times while we were dating. She kept pulling me back in. :-D

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              AspDotNetDev
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              Ah, so women do eventually give up and settle.

              Help a brotha out and vote Managing Your JavaScript Library in ASP.NET as the best ASP.NET article of May 2011.

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              • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

                Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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                Mike Hankey
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                Sounds like she wants to keep it a friendship with benefits.

                "Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forward." Kierkegaard, Søren

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                • C Christian Graus

                  I think that would always be doomed, but the only girl I ever broke up with was my first wife, who was banging my best friend, so I don't have a depth of experience to draw on.

                  Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. Read my blog to find out how I've worked around bugs in Microsoft tools and frameworks.

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                  _Damian S_
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                  He's your best friend now, because he took her off your hands!! rofl...

                  Silence is golden... but duct tape is silver!! Booger Mobile - My bright green 1964 Ford Falcon - check out the blog here!! | If you feel generous - make a donation to Camp Quality!!

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                  • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                    The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

                    Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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                    Henry Minute
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                    You're toast. Dry toast. Toast[^].

                    Henry Minute Do not read medical books! You could die of a misprint. - Mark Twain Girl: (staring) "Why do you need an icy cucumber?" “I want to report a fraud. The government is lying to us all.” I wouldn't let CG touch my Abacus! When you're wrestling a gorilla, you don't stop when you're tired, you stop when the gorilla is.

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                    • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                      The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

                      Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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                      Brian C Hart wrote:

                      what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

                      Usually, yes. It means she's done but not angry at you. Just done. It also usually means she's got the next person lined up. Proper reply:"do you think it's worrisome when urination is painful?"

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                        Brian C Hart wrote:

                        what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

                        Usually, yes. It means she's done but not angry at you. Just done. It also usually means she's got the next person lined up. Proper reply:"do you think it's worrisome when urination is painful?"

                        _____________________________ Give a man a mug, he drinks for a day. Teach a man to mug...

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                        yep you're on the money. Bryce

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                        • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                          The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

                          Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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                          bryce
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                          dude shes already moved on - hate to say you need to as well (asap) sorry man Bryce

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                            dude shes already moved on - hate to say you need to as well (asap) sorry man Bryce

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                            Brian C Hart
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                            Oh that relationship ended a long time ago..just checking to see if I got her point correctly She actually said it twice 2 or 3 months apart lol and kept changing her mind until the last time Usually I start by assuming whatever comes out out of women's mouths is total BS half the time

                            Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

                            Regards,

                            Dr. Brian Hart
                            drbrianhart343@gmail.com email
                            LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-brian-hart-astrophysicist-veteran/

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                            • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                              Oh that relationship ended a long time ago..just checking to see if I got her point correctly She actually said it twice 2 or 3 months apart lol and kept changing her mind until the last time Usually I start by assuming whatever comes out out of women's mouths is total BS half the time

                              Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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                              Christian Graus
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                              Brian C Hart wrote:

                              Usually I start by assuming whatever comes out out of women's mouths is total BS half the time

                              That is sadly an instance where being right does not end up helping your cause.

                              Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. Read my blog to find out how I've worked around bugs in Microsoft tools and frameworks.

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                              • A AspDotNetDev

                                Ah, so women do eventually give up and settle.

                                Help a brotha out and vote Managing Your JavaScript Library in ASP.NET as the best ASP.NET article of May 2011.

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                                :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

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                                • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                                  The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

                                  Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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                                  A while ago I was on the highway and passed the exit named 'Neandertal'. I am very sure that some 200000 or 30000 years ago some guys sat there in a cave around a fire and discussed similar questions. And like them, we can just sit here and guess. Of course you could simply ask her what it is supposed to mean. But do that only if you are the adventurous type and are prepared for the possible consequences. Pick the wrong time/word/gesture/smell/color of your shirt and she will discover some nonexisting hidden meaning in even the most straightforward question and start to make your life interesting.

                                  "I just exchanged opinions with my boss. I went in with mine and came out with his." - me, 2011 ---
                                  I am endeavoring, Madam, to construct a mnemonic memory circuit using stone knives and bearskins - Mr. Spock 1935 and me 2011

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                                  • C Christian Graus

                                    Brian C Hart wrote:

                                    Usually I start by assuming whatever comes out out of women's mouths is total BS half the time

                                    That is sadly an instance where being right does not end up helping your cause.

                                    Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. Read my blog to find out how I've worked around bugs in Microsoft tools and frameworks.

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                                    Hahahahaha Sad but true, bro, sad but true Oh well there are approx 3.25 billion (plus or minus a billion) others on the planet

                                    Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

                                    Regards,

                                    Dr. Brian Hart
                                    drbrianhart343@gmail.com email
                                    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-brian-hart-astrophysicist-veteran/

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                                      Ah, so women do eventually give up and settle.

                                      Help a brotha out and vote Managing Your JavaScript Library in ASP.NET as the best ASP.NET article of May 2011.

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                                      Hahahahaha

                                      Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

                                      Regards,

                                      Dr. Brian Hart
                                      drbrianhart343@gmail.com email
                                      LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-brian-hart-astrophysicist-veteran/

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                                        He's your best friend now, because he took her off your hands!! rofl...

                                        Silence is golden... but duct tape is silver!! Booger Mobile - My bright green 1964 Ford Falcon - check out the blog here!! | If you feel generous - make a donation to Camp Quality!!

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                                        Brian C Hart
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                                        Totally. Were talking total Mary Jane Rottencrotch here

                                        Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

                                        Regards,

                                        Dr. Brian Hart
                                        drbrianhart343@gmail.com email
                                        LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-brian-hart-astrophysicist-veteran/

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                                        • P PaulowniaK

                                          Christian Graus wrote:

                                          but to stay on friendly terms

                                          That's what they (we...) say... but in actual fact, staying friends with an ex is a man's thing. Someone said to me: Men chooses the "Save as..." option whereas women just hit the "Save" button and click "yes" to "Do you want to overwrite this data?" ;P Likelihood is, she'll do her best, but you'll be completely erased from her life in a few weeks.:~

                                          Almost, but not quite, entirely unlike... me...

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                                          Yeah, we actually both just hit "Save" and "Overwrite this data" the next day... Wait a minute if that's true then why am I posting this? Oh, wait, I forgot to empty my memory's "Recycle Bin"...dang you, Microsoft Windows Cerebellum 7! Hahahahahaha

                                          Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

                                          Regards,

                                          Dr. Brian Hart
                                          drbrianhart343@gmail.com email
                                          LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-brian-hart-astrophysicist-veteran/

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