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  • O Oakman

    Slacker007 wrote:

    Correct. However, I'm talking about the Catholic church.

    Why single them out? Is there any logic or just personal prejudice?

    The 3-legged stool of understanding is held up by history, languages, and mathematics. Equipped with these three you can learn anything you want to learn. But if you lack any one of them you are just another ignorant peasant with dung on your boots. R. A. H.

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    Oakman wrote:

    Why single them out?

    I abhor organized religion. The Catholic church is still one of the most powerful institutions of organized religion. Their views and practices regarding sexual abuse over the centuries, really hasn't changed much at all. If it wasn't for the fact that so much publicity has been brought against the church in the last 15-20 years about this issue then I honestly think they would not have changed much about how they deal with these matters. I am very well aware of the fact that many members here are Catholics and that they most likely would rather me not post about such subjects/issues regarding their faith.

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    • O Oakman

      The Bishop's Conference said that the American Catholic Church considers child pornography to be a form of child abuse and against church law. It said that abusing the mentally disabled of any age was the equivalent of child abuse. Almost ten years ago it repudiated the idea of concealing child abuse by priests in order to protect the reputation of the church and ordered that priests accused of having abused children be turned over to the cops. The revisions mean that any priest found with child pornography or who abuses retardates will also be turned over. There is certainly nothing in the revisions or the original charter that indicates that the Church claims special status for its priests, or intends to cover up their predation. CNN found one guy - who makes his living by attacking the Church - who says that the Church isn't doing what it said it was doing. It is possible that this guy is telling the truth. I have no idea, but I saw nothing in the brief article by CNN, or a couple of longer ones that I searched out, that suggested there are facts backing his accusations. Am I missing something? Although there's no doubt that there are pedophile priests, there are also statistics that show that there are pedophile rabbis, ministers, and imams. Pedophile teachers abound and, until recently, were often covered for by the school system in much the same way as the Catholic Church covered for its own - but ALL of these are a drop in the bucket. Most children who are abused are abused by their fathers, stepfathers, uncles, or elder brothers, and their crimes are covered up completely and thoroughly. It is estimated that there are 60 million survivors of childhood sexual abuse in America today, and the great majority of those who are Catholic were abused by a family member. For the record, I am not now, nor have I ever been a Catholic and while I did have sex with a priest, she was Episcopal and we were both in our 40's. ;)

      The 3-legged stool of understanding is held up by history, languages, and mathematics. Equipped with these three you can learn anything you want to learn. But if you lack any one of them you are just another ignorant peasant with dung on your boots. R. A. H.

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      5 for a well written, infromative, logical and polite post. Hopefully the Catholic church's attitude really has changed but I have to say I am sceptical.

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      • L Lost User

        Whether you agree with Oakman or not, his post wass considered, logical and polite. You could learn a lot from him, especially manners.

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        Very well said, slayer of Trolls. ;)

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          Whether you agree with Oakman or not, his post wass considered, logical and polite. You could learn a lot from him, especially manners.

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          He's my white whale. Anyway, he's been plenty rude to me. The things he said, though, are too obscene to repeat here.

          modified on Friday, June 17, 2011 11:39 AM

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          • L Lost User

            F*** that! They come under local law! Anything else is the Catholic curch telling people what should happen in their country.

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            Trollslayer wrote:

            F*** that! They come under local law!

            Yes, they do, and the article never said otherwise. Church/Canon law is the body of regulations that the Clergy must adhere to. The local legal status of canon law differs from country to country, for the most part it has no status other than a regulatory function of a professional body. Within the Vatican City canon law is the law, IIRC. The Church of England's canon law has some legal status (the Catholic Canon has none) with respect to Church issues: Discipline of the Clergy, changing the fabric of churches, etc. You can still see the difference in marriages within England: for an Anglican marriage, the banns being read are sufficient, other religions (and civil marriages) must post a "Notifications of Marriage" at their registry office(s). As a final point, in the UK the covering up of paedophile priests was/is illegal under civil law. The main point of conflict here is the "Seal of the Confessional" canon law dictates that this is absolute, but it has no legal standing under UK civil law (not even for Anglicans - who do have the "seal") for this matter. The US is different as I undertsand it, where the seal of the confessional is legal under the freedom of religion laws (statutes?). [Edit] Though I agree with the general position that they should be treated like every other sex offended. If anything, priestly abuse is worse given the levels of trust given to them, similar (or worse, given the moral stance a priest takes!) than cases involving teachers.

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            • O Oakman

              The Bishop's Conference said that the American Catholic Church considers child pornography to be a form of child abuse and against church law. It said that abusing the mentally disabled of any age was the equivalent of child abuse. Almost ten years ago it repudiated the idea of concealing child abuse by priests in order to protect the reputation of the church and ordered that priests accused of having abused children be turned over to the cops. The revisions mean that any priest found with child pornography or who abuses retardates will also be turned over. There is certainly nothing in the revisions or the original charter that indicates that the Church claims special status for its priests, or intends to cover up their predation. CNN found one guy - who makes his living by attacking the Church - who says that the Church isn't doing what it said it was doing. It is possible that this guy is telling the truth. I have no idea, but I saw nothing in the brief article by CNN, or a couple of longer ones that I searched out, that suggested there are facts backing his accusations. Am I missing something? Although there's no doubt that there are pedophile priests, there are also statistics that show that there are pedophile rabbis, ministers, and imams. Pedophile teachers abound and, until recently, were often covered for by the school system in much the same way as the Catholic Church covered for its own - but ALL of these are a drop in the bucket. Most children who are abused are abused by their fathers, stepfathers, uncles, or elder brothers, and their crimes are covered up completely and thoroughly. It is estimated that there are 60 million survivors of childhood sexual abuse in America today, and the great majority of those who are Catholic were abused by a family member. For the record, I am not now, nor have I ever been a Catholic and while I did have sex with a priest, she was Episcopal and we were both in our 40's. ;)

              The 3-legged stool of understanding is held up by history, languages, and mathematics. Equipped with these three you can learn anything you want to learn. But if you lack any one of them you are just another ignorant peasant with dung on your boots. R. A. H.

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              Oakman wrote:

              Am I missing something?

              I doubt it, got my 5 any way.

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              • K Keith Barrow

                Trollslayer wrote:

                F*** that! They come under local law!

                Yes, they do, and the article never said otherwise. Church/Canon law is the body of regulations that the Clergy must adhere to. The local legal status of canon law differs from country to country, for the most part it has no status other than a regulatory function of a professional body. Within the Vatican City canon law is the law, IIRC. The Church of England's canon law has some legal status (the Catholic Canon has none) with respect to Church issues: Discipline of the Clergy, changing the fabric of churches, etc. You can still see the difference in marriages within England: for an Anglican marriage, the banns being read are sufficient, other religions (and civil marriages) must post a "Notifications of Marriage" at their registry office(s). As a final point, in the UK the covering up of paedophile priests was/is illegal under civil law. The main point of conflict here is the "Seal of the Confessional" canon law dictates that this is absolute, but it has no legal standing under UK civil law (not even for Anglicans - who do have the "seal") for this matter. The US is different as I undertsand it, where the seal of the confessional is legal under the freedom of religion laws (statutes?). [Edit] Though I agree with the general position that they should be treated like every other sex offended. If anything, priestly abuse is worse given the levels of trust given to them, similar (or worse, given the moral stance a priest takes!) than cases involving teachers.

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                A Dead ringer for Kate Winslett[^]

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                In theory yes, they come under UK law but that requires the church think that way. Historically has not been the case.

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                • O Oakman

                  The Bishop's Conference said that the American Catholic Church considers child pornography to be a form of child abuse and against church law. It said that abusing the mentally disabled of any age was the equivalent of child abuse. Almost ten years ago it repudiated the idea of concealing child abuse by priests in order to protect the reputation of the church and ordered that priests accused of having abused children be turned over to the cops. The revisions mean that any priest found with child pornography or who abuses retardates will also be turned over. There is certainly nothing in the revisions or the original charter that indicates that the Church claims special status for its priests, or intends to cover up their predation. CNN found one guy - who makes his living by attacking the Church - who says that the Church isn't doing what it said it was doing. It is possible that this guy is telling the truth. I have no idea, but I saw nothing in the brief article by CNN, or a couple of longer ones that I searched out, that suggested there are facts backing his accusations. Am I missing something? Although there's no doubt that there are pedophile priests, there are also statistics that show that there are pedophile rabbis, ministers, and imams. Pedophile teachers abound and, until recently, were often covered for by the school system in much the same way as the Catholic Church covered for its own - but ALL of these are a drop in the bucket. Most children who are abused are abused by their fathers, stepfathers, uncles, or elder brothers, and their crimes are covered up completely and thoroughly. It is estimated that there are 60 million survivors of childhood sexual abuse in America today, and the great majority of those who are Catholic were abused by a family member. For the record, I am not now, nor have I ever been a Catholic and while I did have sex with a priest, she was Episcopal and we were both in our 40's. ;)

                  The 3-legged stool of understanding is held up by history, languages, and mathematics. Equipped with these three you can learn anything you want to learn. But if you lack any one of them you are just another ignorant peasant with dung on your boots. R. A. H.

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                  I don't like the direction I'm taking here, so I'm going to avoid talking to you ever again.

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                  • S Slacker007

                    Oakman wrote:

                    Why single them out?

                    I abhor organized religion. The Catholic church is still one of the most powerful institutions of organized religion. Their views and practices regarding sexual abuse over the centuries, really hasn't changed much at all. If it wasn't for the fact that so much publicity has been brought against the church in the last 15-20 years about this issue then I honestly think they would not have changed much about how they deal with these matters. I am very well aware of the fact that many members here are Catholics and that they most likely would rather me not post about such subjects/issues regarding their faith.

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                    Oakman
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                    Slacker007 wrote:

                    I abhor organized religion.

                    Can't say I'm in love with it myself. As a man-made institution just about any religion attempts to use the concept of a god to enforce a behavioral code and - as you (sort of) point out - often the powers-that-be within the church consider themselves to be exempt from the standards of behavior they promulgate. Of course, substitute "of a nation" for "of a god" and we could be talking about the U.S. Congress, the British Parliament or (with other substitutions) any other organization (including everything from the Survivors Network to the United Nations) that has found a way of pressing an emotional hot button instead of appealing to rationality. The trick, I believe, is to recognize than any organization created by man will begin to react out of the self-interest of its leaders, rather than living up to its purported goals very shortly after coming into being - no matter how lofty those goals are. Singling out one organization and saying that it is the epitome of evil is, I think, responding emotionally rather than rationally. On the other hand, my opinion is worth every penny you paid for it, n'est-ce-pas?

                    The 3-legged stool of understanding is held up by history, languages, and mathematics. Equipped with these three you can learn anything you want to learn. But if you lack any one of them you are just another ignorant peasant with dung on your boots. R. A. H.

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                    • O Oakman

                      Slacker007 wrote:

                      I abhor organized religion.

                      Can't say I'm in love with it myself. As a man-made institution just about any religion attempts to use the concept of a god to enforce a behavioral code and - as you (sort of) point out - often the powers-that-be within the church consider themselves to be exempt from the standards of behavior they promulgate. Of course, substitute "of a nation" for "of a god" and we could be talking about the U.S. Congress, the British Parliament or (with other substitutions) any other organization (including everything from the Survivors Network to the United Nations) that has found a way of pressing an emotional hot button instead of appealing to rationality. The trick, I believe, is to recognize than any organization created by man will begin to react out of the self-interest of its leaders, rather than living up to its purported goals very shortly after coming into being - no matter how lofty those goals are. Singling out one organization and saying that it is the epitome of evil is, I think, responding emotionally rather than rationally. On the other hand, my opinion is worth every penny you paid for it, n'est-ce-pas?

                      The 3-legged stool of understanding is held up by history, languages, and mathematics. Equipped with these three you can learn anything you want to learn. But if you lack any one of them you are just another ignorant peasant with dung on your boots. R. A. H.

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                      Oakman wrote:

                      I believe, is to recognize than any organization created by man will begin to react out of the self-interest of its leaders, rather than living up to its purported goals very shortly after coming into being

                      Exactly. :thumbsup:

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                      • S soap brain

                        I don't like the direction I'm taking here, so I'm going to avoid talking to you ever again.

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                        Slacker007
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                        Ravel H. Joyce wrote:

                        I'm going to avoid talking to you ever again.

                        Believe it when I see it. ;) People have a habit of pulling emotions out of you from time to time. We all face it and deal with it. Just let it roll off your back and try to not take it personally.

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                        • K Keith Barrow

                          Trollslayer wrote:

                          F*** that! They come under local law!

                          Yes, they do, and the article never said otherwise. Church/Canon law is the body of regulations that the Clergy must adhere to. The local legal status of canon law differs from country to country, for the most part it has no status other than a regulatory function of a professional body. Within the Vatican City canon law is the law, IIRC. The Church of England's canon law has some legal status (the Catholic Canon has none) with respect to Church issues: Discipline of the Clergy, changing the fabric of churches, etc. You can still see the difference in marriages within England: for an Anglican marriage, the banns being read are sufficient, other religions (and civil marriages) must post a "Notifications of Marriage" at their registry office(s). As a final point, in the UK the covering up of paedophile priests was/is illegal under civil law. The main point of conflict here is the "Seal of the Confessional" canon law dictates that this is absolute, but it has no legal standing under UK civil law (not even for Anglicans - who do have the "seal") for this matter. The US is different as I undertsand it, where the seal of the confessional is legal under the freedom of religion laws (statutes?). [Edit] Though I agree with the general position that they should be treated like every other sex offended. If anything, priestly abuse is worse given the levels of trust given to them, similar (or worse, given the moral stance a priest takes!) than cases involving teachers.

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                          -Or-
                          A Dead ringer for Kate Winslett[^]

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                          Oakman
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                          Keith Barrow wrote:

                          As a final point, in the UK the covering up of paedophile priests was/is illegal under civil law.

                          You got my 5, but I am wondering if you mean "civil" law which afaik deals with contracts and such, or "criminal" law. (I realize you were contrasting it with cannon law, in either case.)

                          The 3-legged stool of understanding is held up by history, languages, and mathematics. Equipped with these three you can learn anything you want to learn. But if you lack any one of them you are just another ignorant peasant with dung on your boots. R. A. H.

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                          • O Oakman

                            Keith Barrow wrote:

                            As a final point, in the UK the covering up of paedophile priests was/is illegal under civil law.

                            You got my 5, but I am wondering if you mean "civil" law which afaik deals with contracts and such, or "criminal" law. (I realize you were contrasting it with cannon law, in either case.)

                            The 3-legged stool of understanding is held up by history, languages, and mathematics. Equipped with these three you can learn anything you want to learn. But if you lack any one of them you are just another ignorant peasant with dung on your boots. R. A. H.

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                            Oakman wrote:

                            You got my 5, but I am wondering if you mean "civil" law which afaik deals with contracts and such, or "criminal" law

                            Yes, I used the wrong term to contrast.

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                            • O Oakman

                              The Bishop's Conference said that the American Catholic Church considers child pornography to be a form of child abuse and against church law. It said that abusing the mentally disabled of any age was the equivalent of child abuse. Almost ten years ago it repudiated the idea of concealing child abuse by priests in order to protect the reputation of the church and ordered that priests accused of having abused children be turned over to the cops. The revisions mean that any priest found with child pornography or who abuses retardates will also be turned over. There is certainly nothing in the revisions or the original charter that indicates that the Church claims special status for its priests, or intends to cover up their predation. CNN found one guy - who makes his living by attacking the Church - who says that the Church isn't doing what it said it was doing. It is possible that this guy is telling the truth. I have no idea, but I saw nothing in the brief article by CNN, or a couple of longer ones that I searched out, that suggested there are facts backing his accusations. Am I missing something? Although there's no doubt that there are pedophile priests, there are also statistics that show that there are pedophile rabbis, ministers, and imams. Pedophile teachers abound and, until recently, were often covered for by the school system in much the same way as the Catholic Church covered for its own - but ALL of these are a drop in the bucket. Most children who are abused are abused by their fathers, stepfathers, uncles, or elder brothers, and their crimes are covered up completely and thoroughly. It is estimated that there are 60 million survivors of childhood sexual abuse in America today, and the great majority of those who are Catholic were abused by a family member. For the record, I am not now, nor have I ever been a Catholic and while I did have sex with a priest, she was Episcopal and we were both in our 40's. ;)

                              The 3-legged stool of understanding is held up by history, languages, and mathematics. Equipped with these three you can learn anything you want to learn. But if you lack any one of them you are just another ignorant peasant with dung on your boots. R. A. H.

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                              Oakman wrote:

                              CNN found one guy - who makes his living by attacking the Church - who says that the Church isn't doing what it said it was doing. It is possible that this guy is telling the truth. I have no idea, but I saw nothing in the brief article by CNN, or a couple of longer ones that I searched out, that suggested there are facts backing his accusations.
                               
                              Am I missing something?

                              Not sure what you are questioning there. If the church is in fact doing what they said they are doing then why are they now creating new guidelines to address it?

                              Oakman wrote:

                              Although there's no doubt that there are pedophile priests, there are also statistics that show that there are pedophile rabbis, ministers, and imams. Pedophile teachers abound and, until recently, were often covered for by the school system in much the same way as the Catholic Church covered for its own - but ALL of these are a drop in the bucket. Most children who are abused are abused by their fathers, stepfathers, uncles, or elder brothers, and their crimes are covered up completely and thoroughly. It is estimated that there are 60 million survivors of childhood sexual abuse in America today, and the great majority of those who are Catholic were abused by a family member.

                              Not sure what your point is with this statement. When those who you mentioned make a press release stating that they have created new guidelines specifically to reduce the problem then at that time it might be relevant to address those other groups.

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                                Oakman wrote:

                                CNN found one guy - who makes his living by attacking the Church - who says that the Church isn't doing what it said it was doing. It is possible that this guy is telling the truth. I have no idea, but I saw nothing in the brief article by CNN, or a couple of longer ones that I searched out, that suggested there are facts backing his accusations.
                                 
                                Am I missing something?

                                Not sure what you are questioning there. If the church is in fact doing what they said they are doing then why are they now creating new guidelines to address it?

                                Oakman wrote:

                                Although there's no doubt that there are pedophile priests, there are also statistics that show that there are pedophile rabbis, ministers, and imams. Pedophile teachers abound and, until recently, were often covered for by the school system in much the same way as the Catholic Church covered for its own - but ALL of these are a drop in the bucket. Most children who are abused are abused by their fathers, stepfathers, uncles, or elder brothers, and their crimes are covered up completely and thoroughly. It is estimated that there are 60 million survivors of childhood sexual abuse in America today, and the great majority of those who are Catholic were abused by a family member.

                                Not sure what your point is with this statement. When those who you mentioned make a press release stating that they have created new guidelines specifically to reduce the problem then at that time it might be relevant to address those other groups.

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                                jschell wrote:

                                Not sure what you are questioning there. If the church is in fact doing what they said they are doing then why are they now creating new guidelines to address it?

                                So when I said, "The revisions mean that any priest found with child pornography or who abuses retardates will also be turned over." which part of it confused you?

                                The 3-legged stool of understanding is held up by history, languages, and mathematics. Equipped with these three you can learn anything you want to learn. But if you lack any one of them you are just another ignorant peasant with dung on your boots. R. A. H.

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                                  The Bishop's Conference said that the American Catholic Church considers child pornography to be a form of child abuse and against church law. It said that abusing the mentally disabled of any age was the equivalent of child abuse. Almost ten years ago it repudiated the idea of concealing child abuse by priests in order to protect the reputation of the church and ordered that priests accused of having abused children be turned over to the cops. The revisions mean that any priest found with child pornography or who abuses retardates will also be turned over. There is certainly nothing in the revisions or the original charter that indicates that the Church claims special status for its priests, or intends to cover up their predation. CNN found one guy - who makes his living by attacking the Church - who says that the Church isn't doing what it said it was doing. It is possible that this guy is telling the truth. I have no idea, but I saw nothing in the brief article by CNN, or a couple of longer ones that I searched out, that suggested there are facts backing his accusations. Am I missing something? Although there's no doubt that there are pedophile priests, there are also statistics that show that there are pedophile rabbis, ministers, and imams. Pedophile teachers abound and, until recently, were often covered for by the school system in much the same way as the Catholic Church covered for its own - but ALL of these are a drop in the bucket. Most children who are abused are abused by their fathers, stepfathers, uncles, or elder brothers, and their crimes are covered up completely and thoroughly. It is estimated that there are 60 million survivors of childhood sexual abuse in America today, and the great majority of those who are Catholic were abused by a family member. For the record, I am not now, nor have I ever been a Catholic and while I did have sex with a priest, she was Episcopal and we were both in our 40's. ;)

                                  The 3-legged stool of understanding is held up by history, languages, and mathematics. Equipped with these three you can learn anything you want to learn. But if you lack any one of them you are just another ignorant peasant with dung on your boots. R. A. H.

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                                  Maybe you can answer a nagging question then; is the missionary position the same for all religions? :)

                                  "Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forward." Kierkegaard, Søren

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                                    Maybe you can answer a nagging question then; is the missionary position the same for all religions? :)

                                    "Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forward." Kierkegaard, Søren

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                                    So that's keeping you up at night worrying about it, is it? :laugh:

                                    The 3-legged stool of understanding is held up by history, languages, and mathematics. Equipped with these three you can learn anything you want to learn. But if you lack any one of them you are just another ignorant peasant with dung on your boots. R. A. H.

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                                      So that's keeping you up at night worrying about it, is it? :laugh:

                                      The 3-legged stool of understanding is held up by history, languages, and mathematics. Equipped with these three you can learn anything you want to learn. But if you lack any one of them you are just another ignorant peasant with dung on your boots. R. A. H.

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                                      Merely intellectual curiosity? :)

                                      "Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forward." Kierkegaard, Søren

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                                      • S soap brain

                                        When he stops being a sanctimonious douchebag, I'll stop talking to him.

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                                        Is that because then you would no longer consider yourself to have anything in common?

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                                          Maybe you can answer a nagging question then; is the missionary position the same for all religions? :)

                                          "Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forward." Kierkegaard, Søren

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                                          Well you got me thinking so I thought I'd goggle it, that was hours ago, what a fascinating subject that is.

                                          Never underestimate the power of human stupidity RAH

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