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  • L LittleYellowBird

    Ravel H. Joyce wrote:

    I'm gay.

    Great! Does that mean you can advise me on soft furnishings? ;) :-O Sorry, you know I have to turn everything into a joke! I'm pleased that you felt OK to tell us, I think that must have been tough. Nothing will change for me. :rose: ... except maybe the odd cushion question. ;)

    Ali

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    Dalek Dave
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    We know why you like soft cushions.

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    • D Dalek Dave

      They pay you for sperm donations... When I think of all the money I have let slip through my fingers... :(

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      Lost User
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      Dalek Dave wrote:

      When I think of all the money I have let slip through my fingers... :(

      This thread is about coming out, not coming over...

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      • D Dalek Dave

        wizardzz wrote:

        I recently came out to the Lounge as a struggling comedian

        That's a matter opinion! :) (Just kiddin')

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        I did say struggling On that note, don't try to perform comedy on the 10th anniversary of 9-11.

        "I have a theory that the truth is never told during the nine-to-five hours. " — Hunter S. Thompson My comedy.

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        • D Dalek Dave

          We know why you like soft cushions.

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          It is more comfortable to sit on with her tail?

          Every man can tell how many goats or sheep he possesses, but not how many friends.

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          • L Lost User

            Dalek Dave wrote:

            You told us all a while ago you were Bi

            Many moons ago...

            Dalek Dave wrote:

            you for being dim

            Oh my god! Dim! You cant be serious! :O

            Dalek Dave wrote:

            offensive

            Glad you noticed. :)

            Dalek Dave wrote:

            wrong

            Now you are taking the piss! :O

            Dalek Dave wrote:

            Being French, yes, that was a choice!

            I am actually English, though I prefer the French. :)

            ============================== Nothing to say.

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            Fat__Eric wrote:

            Dalek Dave wrote:

            You told us all a while ago you were Bi

            Many moons ago...

            There has to be a joke there somewhere, I just can't get it tidy enough.

            Every man can tell how many goats or sheep he possesses, but not how many friends.

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            • W wizardzz

              I did say struggling On that note, don't try to perform comedy on the 10th anniversary of 9-11.

              "I have a theory that the truth is never told during the nine-to-five hours. " — Hunter S. Thompson My comedy.

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              wizardzz wrote:

              On that note, don't try to perform comedy on the 10th anniversary of 9-11.

              Well as compensation you get a genuine LOL for that.

              Every man can tell how many goats or sheep he possesses, but not how many friends.

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              • L Lost User

                Dalek Dave wrote:

                You told us all a while ago you were Bi

                Many moons ago...

                Dalek Dave wrote:

                you for being dim

                Oh my god! Dim! You cant be serious! :O

                Dalek Dave wrote:

                offensive

                Glad you noticed. :)

                Dalek Dave wrote:

                wrong

                Now you are taking the piss! :O

                Dalek Dave wrote:

                Being French, yes, that was a choice!

                I am actually English, though I prefer the French. :)

                ============================== Nothing to say.

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                Bi - No probs Dim - we all are from time to time. Offensive - Regularly, like me. Wrong - Wait a moment...

                Fat__Eric wrote:

                I am actually English, though I prefer the French

                See, Wrong! And it is also a choice. :)

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                • W wizardzz

                  I did say struggling On that note, don't try to perform comedy on the 10th anniversary of 9-11.

                  "I have a theory that the truth is never told during the nine-to-five hours. " — Hunter S. Thompson My comedy.

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                  Dalek Dave
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                  Woah, Too Soon?

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                  • L Lost User

                    It is more comfortable to sit on with her tail?

                    Every man can tell how many goats or sheep he possesses, but not how many friends.

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                    Dalek Dave
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                    That earns a 5! But it should be far more!

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                    • D Dalek Dave

                      Woah, Too Soon?

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                      wizardzz
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                      There was an open mic last night, nobody was really in a great mood. I'm not sure if others can verify, but at least in a major city like Chicago, there was a solemn mood pretty much everywhere. I, for one, think laughter is the best therapy.

                      "I have a theory that the truth is never told during the nine-to-five hours. " — Hunter S. Thompson My comedy.

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                      • T TheGreatAndPowerfulOz

                        So what? You want a medal or something?

                        If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
                        You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                        soap brain
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                        ahmed zahmed wrote:

                        You want a medal or something?

                        Well, that wasn't my aim, but I wouldn't say 'no'...

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                        • T TheGreatAndPowerfulOz

                          Saying "I don't care, it matters not to me" is rude? OK, whatever.

                          If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
                          You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                          fjdiewornncalwe
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                          That's not what you said. You may have intended for your statement to be taken that way, but the "you want a medal" comment is pretty much never meant as anything other than a snarky remark.

                          I wasn't, now I am, then I won't be anymore.

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                          • I Ian Shlasko

                            Congratulations. I never did figure out the proper way to respond to a revelation like that... Granted, I live in a very liberal area, so it's really a non-issue here.

                            Proud to have finally moved to the A-Ark. Which one are you in?
                            Author of the Guardians Saga (Sci-Fi/Fantasy novels)

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                            soap brain
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                            Well, I think that response will suffice. :)

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                            • L Lost User

                              Fat__Eric wrote:

                              Dalek Dave wrote:

                              You told us all a while ago you were Bi

                              Many moons ago...

                              There has to be a joke there somewhere, I just can't get it tidy enough.

                              Every man can tell how many goats or sheep he possesses, but not how many friends.

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                              Dalek Dave
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                              Damn I missed it until you pointed it out!

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                              • A AspDotNetDev

                                I'm not sure if "Ravel" is a male or female name, so I'm going to assume you are a man. You could not have picked a better profession short of being a football player. In all seriousness, I have several gay coworkers. It's not a big deal (at least 'round these parts).

                                Martin Fowler wrote:

                                Any fool can write code that a computer can understand. Good programmers write code that humans can understand.

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                                soap brain
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                                AspDotNetDev wrote:

                                I'm going to assume you are a man

                                Correct.

                                AspDotNetDev wrote:

                                In all seriousness, I have several gay coworkers. It's not a big deal (at least 'round these parts).

                                That's why I didn't write a long message.

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                                • D Dalek Dave

                                  Damn I missed it until you pointed it out!

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                                  Dalek Dave wrote:

                                  Damn I missed it until you pointed it out!

                                  That's what she said. :-D

                                  Every man can tell how many goats or sheep he possesses, but not how many friends.

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                                  • F fjdiewornncalwe

                                    That's not what you said. You may have intended for your statement to be taken that way, but the "you want a medal" comment is pretty much never meant as anything other than a snarky remark.

                                    I wasn't, now I am, then I won't be anymore.

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                                    TheGreatAndPowerfulOz
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                                    Marcus Kramer wrote:

                                    snarky remark

                                    OK. Yes, I'll give you snarky. But it certainly wasn't rude.

                                    If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
                                    You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                                    • R R Giskard Reventlov

                                      Ravel H. Joyce wrote:

                                      I'm gay.

                                      and? p.s. No future Ravels?

                                      "If you think it's expensive to hire a professional to do the job, wait until you hire an amateur." Red Adair. nils illegitimus carborundum me, me, me

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                                      digital man wrote:

                                      and?

                                      I'm an atheist. ;P

                                      digital man wrote:

                                      p.s. No future Ravels?

                                      Well, that remains to be seen.

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                                      • S soap brain

                                        I'm gay. Not a hugely interesting revelation, I freely confess, so I shan't go on about it.

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                                        Slacker007
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                                        Ravel H. Joyce wrote:

                                        I'm gay.

                                        I'm straight. ...versus being crooked. :) Anyhow, I think it is pretty cool that gay and not gay people can hang out and share ideas and thoughts about common interests and not so common interests. :thumbsup:

                                        Ravel H. Joyce wrote:

                                        I freely confess,

                                        Nothing to confess, you did nothing wrong. Criminals confess.

                                        Just along for the ride. "the meat from that butcher is just the dogs danglies, absolutely amazing cuts of beef." - DaveAuld (2011)

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                                        • S soap brain

                                          digital man wrote:

                                          and?

                                          I'm an atheist. ;P

                                          digital man wrote:

                                          p.s. No future Ravels?

                                          Well, that remains to be seen.

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                                          Ravel H. Joyce wrote:

                                          I'm an atheist

                                          But you share a middle initial with Jesus.

                                          Ravel H. Joyce wrote:

                                          Well, that remains to be seen

                                          So we'll have to wait for the future to unravel?

                                          Every man can tell how many goats or sheep he possesses, but not how many friends.

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