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    Don't drink and drive ... This is so hard! not for the faint of heart! http://www.texasdwi.org/[^] and Jacqui's Story[^] Max.

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      Don't drink and drive ... This is so hard! not for the faint of heart! http://www.texasdwi.org/[^] and Jacqui's Story[^] Max.

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      Max... Having grudgingly lived here in Dallas, Texas for the last 4 years maybe I can offer some (strongly opinioned) insight. I don't think the number of Drunk Drivers is any worse than any other place I stayed. But, what might be unique here is just how amazing aggressive and bad the drivers are coupled with extremely poorly built highways. Having lived in S. Cal I thought I had seen the worse possible driving in the States. But, the drivers here seem to have zero regard for any semblance of courtesy or safety. It is commonly joked that one should never give a turn single if they want to change lanes because, you can almost be guaranteed that some redneck in their “Fordosaurus” will speed up to cut you off. And, I can’t count the number of times that I have been doing 65+ mph in the “Slow Lane” only to be tailgated by said rednecks. This is further exasperated by just how bad the Highways have been built. Even in well know, high traffic areas the on ramps almost immediately merge with high-speed traffic. It is almost frightening to drive here. Hell just yesterday a local professional athlete sped at 100+ mph through an accident on the highway killing 2 people trying to rescue someone in a burning car. Fill me with your knowledge, your wisdom, your coffee.

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        Don't drink and drive ... This is so hard! not for the faint of heart! http://www.texasdwi.org/[^] and Jacqui's Story[^] Max.

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        7 years prison and $20,000 fine for the 2 people he killed. Nothing for the damage he did to Jaqui. That is fucked. I hope some vigilante cunt crushes his nuts between 2 bricks. Then I hope someone goes all Pulp Fiction on his arse using a pair of pliers and a blowtorch. Actually I can't even express the disgust and anger I feel. Michael Martin Australia mjm68@tpg.com.au "I personally love it because I can get as down and dirty as I want on the backend, while also being able to dabble with fun scripting and presentation games on the front end." - Chris Maunder 15/07/2002

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          Don't drink and drive ... This is so hard! not for the faint of heart! http://www.texasdwi.org/[^] and Jacqui's Story[^] Max.

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          Maximilien wrote: This is so hard! not for the faint of heart! Not to detract from Jacqui at all, I've seen far worse locally, and they aren't the victims of drunk driving: they are the victims of inbreeding. It must be very hard for them, you can see how concsious they are, and we being humans cannot help but stare as they are so different. Poor girl. I hope for the boy's sake she is forgiving. Any idiot who drink drives deserves to kill themselves as far as I am concerned. Maybe if every one of the idiots who do so ended up with 60% burns and one lid-less eye they might think twice about fucking with other people's lives in the future. :~


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            7 years prison and $20,000 fine for the 2 people he killed. Nothing for the damage he did to Jaqui. That is fucked. I hope some vigilante cunt crushes his nuts between 2 bricks. Then I hope someone goes all Pulp Fiction on his arse using a pair of pliers and a blowtorch. Actually I can't even express the disgust and anger I feel. Michael Martin Australia mjm68@tpg.com.au "I personally love it because I can get as down and dirty as I want on the backend, while also being able to dabble with fun scripting and presentation games on the front end." - Chris Maunder 15/07/2002

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            I suspect the problem is largely one of intent. I doubt that a 19 year old football player sets out to turn a hot girl into a freak, and so the courts are unlikely to punish him, presuming that he will punish himself. So what ? I hope the $20,000 went straight to her, at least. I doubt it would cover her doctors bills. Christian No offense, but I don't really want to encourage the creation of another VB developer. - Larry Antram 22 Oct 2002
            C# will attract all comers, where VB is for IT Journalists and managers - Michael P Butler 05-12-2002
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              Maximilien wrote: This is so hard! not for the faint of heart! Not to detract from Jacqui at all, I've seen far worse locally, and they aren't the victims of drunk driving: they are the victims of inbreeding. It must be very hard for them, you can see how concsious they are, and we being humans cannot help but stare as they are so different. Poor girl. I hope for the boy's sake she is forgiving. Any idiot who drink drives deserves to kill themselves as far as I am concerned. Maybe if every one of the idiots who do so ended up with 60% burns and one lid-less eye they might think twice about fucking with other people's lives in the future. :~


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              David Wulff wrote: Any idiot who drink drives deserves to kill themselves as far as I am concerned. Maybe if every one of the idiots who do so ended up with 60% burns and one lid-less eye they might think twice about f***ing with other people's lives in the future. Good theory, David, but in reality, every drunk believes it will never happen to him. Alcohol causes illusions to seem like reality, and makes inhibitions go away. As the t-shirt says, "Warning - consumption of alcohol can make you think you are smarter, better looking, and tougher than a guy next to you named 'Bubba'." A lot of us are between worlds. When I was growing up, booze and fast cars were considered a normal combination. Every TV show included people with never-empty drinks in their hands and a set of car keys in their pockets. Police didn't arrest drunk drivers - they followed you home and wished you a goodnight on your doorstep. If you were the courteous sort, you'd buy the copper a drink next time he was in the bar, which was most nights. Times changed, and it became socially unacceptable to drink and drive, yet we have an entire generation still living for whom going home with a good buzz on is standard procedure. They won't be changing their ways, no matter how restrictive the laws become, because they all believe that nothing will ever happen to them, and no amount of logic will change that. The world you were raised in and theirs don't have much overlap - your world isn't real to them. I've been there, and I know how they think. I've been caught, long ago and thankfully before I did any damage. I did time in jail and paid hefty fines, and my rude awakening to the new reality had the desired effect - I don't drink and drive. But the vast majority will not be caught, and in time, they'll die off. The fact is that most drunk drivers never hurt anyone, but it's not socially acceptable to say that. The stats about it are also deliberately misleading - alcohol-involved doesn't really mean drunk. Those stats include cases where there was a six-pack behind the seat and no one drunk in the vehicle. They also include anyone who is not legally drunk or impaired in any way - maybe had a glass of wine at dinner and had the misfortune to get rammed by an idiot at an intersection. In more cases than not, the person identified as the drinker was not even at fault in the accident, but just happenned to be in the wrong place. Don't believe everything you read - there is a deliberate and malic

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                David Wulff wrote: Any idiot who drink drives deserves to kill themselves as far as I am concerned. Maybe if every one of the idiots who do so ended up with 60% burns and one lid-less eye they might think twice about f***ing with other people's lives in the future. Good theory, David, but in reality, every drunk believes it will never happen to him. Alcohol causes illusions to seem like reality, and makes inhibitions go away. As the t-shirt says, "Warning - consumption of alcohol can make you think you are smarter, better looking, and tougher than a guy next to you named 'Bubba'." A lot of us are between worlds. When I was growing up, booze and fast cars were considered a normal combination. Every TV show included people with never-empty drinks in their hands and a set of car keys in their pockets. Police didn't arrest drunk drivers - they followed you home and wished you a goodnight on your doorstep. If you were the courteous sort, you'd buy the copper a drink next time he was in the bar, which was most nights. Times changed, and it became socially unacceptable to drink and drive, yet we have an entire generation still living for whom going home with a good buzz on is standard procedure. They won't be changing their ways, no matter how restrictive the laws become, because they all believe that nothing will ever happen to them, and no amount of logic will change that. The world you were raised in and theirs don't have much overlap - your world isn't real to them. I've been there, and I know how they think. I've been caught, long ago and thankfully before I did any damage. I did time in jail and paid hefty fines, and my rude awakening to the new reality had the desired effect - I don't drink and drive. But the vast majority will not be caught, and in time, they'll die off. The fact is that most drunk drivers never hurt anyone, but it's not socially acceptable to say that. The stats about it are also deliberately misleading - alcohol-involved doesn't really mean drunk. Those stats include cases where there was a six-pack behind the seat and no one drunk in the vehicle. They also include anyone who is not legally drunk or impaired in any way - maybe had a glass of wine at dinner and had the misfortune to get rammed by an idiot at an intersection. In more cases than not, the person identified as the drinker was not even at fault in the accident, but just happenned to be in the wrong place. Don't believe everything you read - there is a deliberate and malic

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                Roger Wright wrote: They also include anyone who is not legally drunk or impaired in any way - maybe had a glass of wine at dinner and had the misfortune to get rammed by an idiot at an intersection. In more cases than not, the person identified as the drinker was not even at fault in the accident, but just happenned to be in the wrong place Tough situation, happens a lot here where the alcohol level is one of the lowest in the world. Even a whisker (or whiskey... bad joke I know) above the level and you are automatically blamed as the perpetrator of the accident, does not matter what the other guy did (a guy got busted for being tipsy in his PARKED car when someone else lost control and plowed into him!) Still, rather too strict than too relaxed on an issue like this. As you said people think "I won't happen to me."

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                  I suspect the problem is largely one of intent. I doubt that a 19 year old football player sets out to turn a hot girl into a freak, and so the courts are unlikely to punish him, presuming that he will punish himself. So what ? I hope the $20,000 went straight to her, at least. I doubt it would cover her doctors bills. Christian No offense, but I don't really want to encourage the creation of another VB developer. - Larry Antram 22 Oct 2002
                  C# will attract all comers, where VB is for IT Journalists and managers - Michael P Butler 05-12-2002
                  Again, you can screw up a C/C++ program just as easily as a VB program. OK, maybe not as easily, but it's certainly doable. - Jamie Nordmeyer - 15-Nov-2002

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                  Christian Graus wrote: I suspect the problem is largely one of intent. I doubt that a 19 year old football player sets out to turn a hot girl into a freak, and so the courts are unlikely to punish him, presuming that he will punish himself. So what ? So that's a piss poor excuse, a cop out. I don't give a fuck if he planned it, he did it. He's a legally responsible adult who knew he shouldn't consum alcohol before getting behind the wheel of his car. And I'm not just on my horse cause it was an SUV, I don't care if it was a 1.2L 4 banger. Also while I remember something about the topic in the middle of my rant, the 7 years was for the 2 people he actually did kill. If he used a gun, a knife or his hands he would be up for the death penalty. He fucked up and should be face real consequences. How would you feel if this was Hanna? Personally I would prefer my child was dead than living what cannot be called a life. Christian Graus wrote: I hope the $20,000 went straight to her, at least. I doubt it would cover her doctors bills. Not a chance. Too many pockets would need to be lined before she got anywhere near the money. Michael Martin Australia mjm68@tpg.com.au "I personally love it because I can get as down and dirty as I want on the backend, while also being able to dabble with fun scripting and presentation games on the front end." - Chris Maunder 15/07/2002

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                    Maximilien wrote: This is so hard! not for the faint of heart! Not to detract from Jacqui at all, I've seen far worse locally, and they aren't the victims of drunk driving: they are the victims of inbreeding. It must be very hard for them, you can see how concsious they are, and we being humans cannot help but stare as they are so different. Poor girl. I hope for the boy's sake she is forgiving. Any idiot who drink drives deserves to kill themselves as far as I am concerned. Maybe if every one of the idiots who do so ended up with 60% burns and one lid-less eye they might think twice about fucking with other people's lives in the future. :~


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                    David Wulff wrote: Any idiot who drink drives deserves to kill themselves as far as I am concerned. Maybe if every one of the idiots who do so ended up with 60% burns and one lid-less eye they might think twice about f***ing with other people's lives in the future. :~ I believe being circumcised with a potato peeler without the use of anaesthetic would be a more fitting punishment and deterent. :| Michael Martin Australia mjm68@tpg.com.au "I personally love it because I can get as down and dirty as I want on the backend, while also being able to dabble with fun scripting and presentation games on the front end." - Chris Maunder 15/07/2002

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                      David Wulff wrote: Any idiot who drink drives deserves to kill themselves as far as I am concerned. Maybe if every one of the idiots who do so ended up with 60% burns and one lid-less eye they might think twice about f***ing with other people's lives in the future. :~ I believe being circumcised with a potato peeler without the use of anaesthetic would be a more fitting punishment and deterent. :| Michael Martin Australia mjm68@tpg.com.au "I personally love it because I can get as down and dirty as I want on the backend, while also being able to dabble with fun scripting and presentation games on the front end." - Chris Maunder 15/07/2002

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                      And instead death penalty it can be applied more than once even if everything has an end :-D


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                        Christian Graus wrote: I suspect the problem is largely one of intent. I doubt that a 19 year old football player sets out to turn a hot girl into a freak, and so the courts are unlikely to punish him, presuming that he will punish himself. So what ? So that's a piss poor excuse, a cop out. I don't give a fuck if he planned it, he did it. He's a legally responsible adult who knew he shouldn't consum alcohol before getting behind the wheel of his car. And I'm not just on my horse cause it was an SUV, I don't care if it was a 1.2L 4 banger. Also while I remember something about the topic in the middle of my rant, the 7 years was for the 2 people he actually did kill. If he used a gun, a knife or his hands he would be up for the death penalty. He fucked up and should be face real consequences. How would you feel if this was Hanna? Personally I would prefer my child was dead than living what cannot be called a life. Christian Graus wrote: I hope the $20,000 went straight to her, at least. I doubt it would cover her doctors bills. Not a chance. Too many pockets would need to be lined before she got anywhere near the money. Michael Martin Australia mjm68@tpg.com.au "I personally love it because I can get as down and dirty as I want on the backend, while also being able to dabble with fun scripting and presentation games on the front end." - Chris Maunder 15/07/2002

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                        Michael Martin wrote: How would you feel if this was Hanna? I don't think that's the issue. I don't disagree with you, the fact that he was careless rather than evil does not change what happened. But from the courts POV, they seek justice more than vengeance ( unless it's a black man, then it's the death penalty, chum ), and would consider the case in that light. I'm not presenting my opinion, just commenting on how it works. Christian No offense, but I don't really want to encourage the creation of another VB developer. - Larry Antram 22 Oct 2002
                        C# will attract all comers, where VB is for IT Journalists and managers - Michael P Butler 05-12-2002
                        Again, you can screw up a C/C++ program just as easily as a VB program. OK, maybe not as easily, but it's certainly doable. - Jamie Nordmeyer - 15-Nov-2002

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                          Michael Martin wrote: How would you feel if this was Hanna? I don't think that's the issue. I don't disagree with you, the fact that he was careless rather than evil does not change what happened. But from the courts POV, they seek justice more than vengeance ( unless it's a black man, then it's the death penalty, chum ), and would consider the case in that light. I'm not presenting my opinion, just commenting on how it works. Christian No offense, but I don't really want to encourage the creation of another VB developer. - Larry Antram 22 Oct 2002
                          C# will attract all comers, where VB is for IT Journalists and managers - Michael P Butler 05-12-2002
                          Again, you can screw up a C/C++ program just as easily as a VB program. OK, maybe not as easily, but it's certainly doable. - Jamie Nordmeyer - 15-Nov-2002

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                          Christian Graus wrote: I don't think that's the issue. I don't disagree with you, the fact that he was careless rather than evil does not change what happened. But from the courts POV, they seek justice more than vengeance ( unless it's a black man, then it's the death penalty, chum ), and would consider the case in that light. I'm not presenting my opinion, just commenting on how it works. I know your right, you know your right and I was just in a shit mood swinging punches at those that don't deserve it. It probably comes down to my shitty childhood, my 13 months out of work, the shitty job I now have and more than likely mostly the fact cunt was released on 17-12-2002. It now harks back to 14-10-1998 when my little sister died and my life/head literally exploded . I have no one that understands, no one to talk too and I am the typical yobbo Aussie bloke that just sucks it all up until Boom. So in short didn't mean to bring the whole Hanna line into the arguement. I'm still hopelessly wrapped up in the whole life should be fair thing even though I am such a cynic/realist. Michael Martin Australia mjm68@tpg.com.au "I personally love it because I can get as down and dirty as I want on the backend, while also being able to dabble with fun scripting and presentation games on the front end." - Chris Maunder 15/07/2002

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                            Christian Graus wrote: I don't think that's the issue. I don't disagree with you, the fact that he was careless rather than evil does not change what happened. But from the courts POV, they seek justice more than vengeance ( unless it's a black man, then it's the death penalty, chum ), and would consider the case in that light. I'm not presenting my opinion, just commenting on how it works. I know your right, you know your right and I was just in a shit mood swinging punches at those that don't deserve it. It probably comes down to my shitty childhood, my 13 months out of work, the shitty job I now have and more than likely mostly the fact cunt was released on 17-12-2002. It now harks back to 14-10-1998 when my little sister died and my life/head literally exploded . I have no one that understands, no one to talk too and I am the typical yobbo Aussie bloke that just sucks it all up until Boom. So in short didn't mean to bring the whole Hanna line into the arguement. I'm still hopelessly wrapped up in the whole life should be fair thing even though I am such a cynic/realist. Michael Martin Australia mjm68@tpg.com.au "I personally love it because I can get as down and dirty as I want on the backend, while also being able to dabble with fun scripting and presentation games on the front end." - Chris Maunder 15/07/2002

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                            Michael Martin wrote: It now harks back to 14-10-1998 when my little sister died :omg: Bloody hell. You've had a really bad run, haven't you ? Michael Martin wrote: So in short didn't mean to bring the whole Hanna line into the arguement. I was not offended by that, at all. I share your opinion of the whole thing, and I was worried that you thought I was saying otherwise, when I was just commenting on how it *is*, not how it *should be*. Michael Martin wrote: I'm still hopelessly wrapped up in the whole life should be fair thing even though I am such a cynic/realist. Yeah, it would be nice if life was fair. As you know, I expect justice from a higher source. You sure as hell won't find it here on earth. Christian No offense, but I don't really want to encourage the creation of another VB developer. - Larry Antram 22 Oct 2002
                            C# will attract all comers, where VB is for IT Journalists and managers - Michael P Butler 05-12-2002
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                              Michael Martin wrote: It now harks back to 14-10-1998 when my little sister died :omg: Bloody hell. You've had a really bad run, haven't you ? Michael Martin wrote: So in short didn't mean to bring the whole Hanna line into the arguement. I was not offended by that, at all. I share your opinion of the whole thing, and I was worried that you thought I was saying otherwise, when I was just commenting on how it *is*, not how it *should be*. Michael Martin wrote: I'm still hopelessly wrapped up in the whole life should be fair thing even though I am such a cynic/realist. Yeah, it would be nice if life was fair. As you know, I expect justice from a higher source. You sure as hell won't find it here on earth. Christian No offense, but I don't really want to encourage the creation of another VB developer. - Larry Antram 22 Oct 2002
                              C# will attract all comers, where VB is for IT Journalists and managers - Michael P Butler 05-12-2002
                              Again, you can screw up a C/C++ program just as easily as a VB program. OK, maybe not as easily, but it's certainly doable. - Jamie Nordmeyer - 15-Nov-2002

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                              :omg: Christian Graus wrote: Bloody hell. You've had a really bad run, haven't you ? When life sucks it really sucks hard. My mother was chased out when I was 4 and I grew up hating her for leaving me. Finally went to see her about the time I turned 21 just for the hell of it. Decided I had to see her so I one day didn't have the whole 'I never got to see and now she's dead' crap. Still continued believing she was in the wrong. A few months later I didn't see her any more as I was engaged then building a house and planning for the wedding. December 1990 or January 1991 I got a from an old family friend from my mother's side who wanted us (sister and I) to see him. Turned out my mother had melanoma and was pretty fucked up. It hit her spine got a free ride to her brain and she was then completely fucked and died 1 month to the day before her 41st birthday. I mean time went back to life, she was dead, so what?, it didn't affect me. 6 years and some months later I get a call from my litle sister. Guess what she's got melanoma too. Operations to cut out this and that. Doesn't work. Professors and the like are all barred up as they have a mother daughter situation to work through. Test out theories on hereditary nature of cancer and all that. Decide to try out white blood cell replacement like they do for Leukemia. New technique involves donor taking drugs to up white blood cell count and extraction via needle and not having to get your femur hole punched to get it. Turns out I'm a perfect match for my sister which is good for her as I was the only sibling and therefore the only likely donor anyway. So they fuck around for months doing fuck knows what calling me in to keep checking I understand what's going on. 'Like yes you dumb cunt, I do, let's just get oin with it'. Eventually long weekend October 1998 I get the needles. Cause I'm a fairly big bloke I get to stab myself in the stomach twice a day for 4 days (OK so I got my wife to do it). Fifth day is rest day and then into get drained. About 5 hours I am there needle in each arm and machine in the middle sucking out all the white blood cells. Meanwhile my sister has had her immune system killed off by chemicals so it can be replaced by mine. Which the theory says won't be succeptible to the cancer. Problem is that they fucked about for too long. The cancer had hit the stomach/intestines/liver (one of them) and she is bleeding into her stomach cavity. I was there when she finally died via suffocation as her lungs

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                                :omg: Christian Graus wrote: Bloody hell. You've had a really bad run, haven't you ? When life sucks it really sucks hard. My mother was chased out when I was 4 and I grew up hating her for leaving me. Finally went to see her about the time I turned 21 just for the hell of it. Decided I had to see her so I one day didn't have the whole 'I never got to see and now she's dead' crap. Still continued believing she was in the wrong. A few months later I didn't see her any more as I was engaged then building a house and planning for the wedding. December 1990 or January 1991 I got a from an old family friend from my mother's side who wanted us (sister and I) to see him. Turned out my mother had melanoma and was pretty fucked up. It hit her spine got a free ride to her brain and she was then completely fucked and died 1 month to the day before her 41st birthday. I mean time went back to life, she was dead, so what?, it didn't affect me. 6 years and some months later I get a call from my litle sister. Guess what she's got melanoma too. Operations to cut out this and that. Doesn't work. Professors and the like are all barred up as they have a mother daughter situation to work through. Test out theories on hereditary nature of cancer and all that. Decide to try out white blood cell replacement like they do for Leukemia. New technique involves donor taking drugs to up white blood cell count and extraction via needle and not having to get your femur hole punched to get it. Turns out I'm a perfect match for my sister which is good for her as I was the only sibling and therefore the only likely donor anyway. So they fuck around for months doing fuck knows what calling me in to keep checking I understand what's going on. 'Like yes you dumb cunt, I do, let's just get oin with it'. Eventually long weekend October 1998 I get the needles. Cause I'm a fairly big bloke I get to stab myself in the stomach twice a day for 4 days (OK so I got my wife to do it). Fifth day is rest day and then into get drained. About 5 hours I am there needle in each arm and machine in the middle sucking out all the white blood cells. Meanwhile my sister has had her immune system killed off by chemicals so it can be replaced by mine. Which the theory says won't be succeptible to the cancer. Problem is that they fucked about for too long. The cancer had hit the stomach/intestines/liver (one of them) and she is bleeding into her stomach cavity. I was there when she finally died via suffocation as her lungs

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                                Michael Martin wrote: She was chased off and cause my father had a job and his parents funded the court case she lost custody. She fought till she ran out of money and just gave up. The child custody system in this country has always been screwed. I believe nowadays it's as equally unfair in the womans favour. Your poor mother. My sister in law is going out with a guy who claims he does not see his kids from a previous relationship because she is hiding them, but he has to pay alimony by court order via a bank account. If it was my kids, I'd be fighting to see them while I had breath in my body. I suspect he's had a restraining order put on him, I've seen enough to make it seem likely. If I were you I would have taken legal action after what the doctors did to your sister. Nothing can change what happened, but you might be able to make it so doctors in future think twice about acting that way. For what it's worth, I think you're doing pretty well for someone who has gone through so much. I'm used to people saying that to me, but I'm not even in the race. Christian No offense, but I don't really want to encourage the creation of another VB developer. - Larry Antram 22 Oct 2002
                                C# will attract all comers, where VB is for IT Journalists and managers - Michael P Butler 05-12-2002
                                Again, you can screw up a C/C++ program just as easily as a VB program. OK, maybe not as easily, but it's certainly doable. - Jamie Nordmeyer - 15-Nov-2002

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