How do you get your first job?
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What amazed me is that the Vardy dealership chain sold everything from Aston Martin down to cheap pre-registered Fiats... Usually [edit: your average dealer] would use a different dealership name so that one brand didn't tarnish the image of the other. I heard a rumour that the Vardys funded a local school which was in the anti-evolution / pro-intelligent-design mould, too?
While he's backing academies, from what I've read they aren't really creationist.
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My first job was federal work study for a teacher at my college my freshman year. My second was an internship over summer. My third was another internship. My first job out of college was for a startup; I forget how I came across them, but it may have been a job board (e.g., Monster). I should note that my first couple jobs paid only $8/hour and one of them was doing QA ( X| ). If I were you, I wouldn't be too picky at first. I've never landed a job in a remote city, so I can't give you any advice in that area.
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Actually, IBM breathed new life into RPG with the latest operating system release. They have created Open Access, which allows a handler to re-route all the ugly 5250 traffic to the web for example. We are currenly using ASNA's handler to accomplish this. We import the displays into ASP.NET, then change them. The RPG buisness logic stays intact and runs on the POWER box (formerly AS/400), while the web server renders the web stuff. I know, there have been many discussions that RPG is dead. But I think it will be around for quite some time. Yes, the interface is dead, and has been dead, but all the user will see is a web page. RPG still powers it. It also gives me some tranportable skills with JavaScript and HTML.
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Actually, IBM breathed new life into RPG with the latest operating system release. They have created Open Access, which allows a handler to re-route all the ugly 5250 traffic to the web for example. We are currenly using ASNA's handler to accomplish this. We import the displays into ASP.NET, then change them. The RPG buisness logic stays intact and runs on the POWER box (formerly AS/400), while the web server renders the web stuff. I know, there have been many discussions that RPG is dead. But I think it will be around for quite some time. Yes, the interface is dead, and has been dead, but all the user will see is a web page. RPG still powers it. It also gives me some tranportable skills with JavaScript and HTML.
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I've been programming since I was in middle school nine years (almost 10) ago. I've known since then that this was the career for me. The only problem is, I can't find my first job. It doesn't help that I'm in a small town with no programming jobs. I'm slowly working towards a degree but due to two bad years, I feel I'm falling behind. I'm 22... I should have graduated by now but I haven't even earned my associates degree. I don't know if I can make it through 3 more years of college. It's very tempting to save up some money and just move to a big city with lots of jobs (like Seattle) but I'd have no guarantee that I'd get a job. I'm so bored with my life. I want to earn a living programming. How do you get your first programming job? <.>
Lots of mid-size and large company like to hire student programming interns - the one's who work out usually are offered a permanent position upon graduation. If you were going to a school where there are local companies that have intern programs then you could do it concurrent with school, otherwise you would need to take time off (usually 4-6 months) to do it. You college placement center or counselor should be able to help you find opportunities. I think, however, most companies want you to be at least a Junior before they will consider you. -Shon
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I've been programming since I was in middle school nine years (almost 10) ago. I've known since then that this was the career for me. The only problem is, I can't find my first job. It doesn't help that I'm in a small town with no programming jobs. I'm slowly working towards a degree but due to two bad years, I feel I'm falling behind. I'm 22... I should have graduated by now but I haven't even earned my associates degree. I don't know if I can make it through 3 more years of college. It's very tempting to save up some money and just move to a big city with lots of jobs (like Seattle) but I'd have no guarantee that I'd get a job. I'm so bored with my life. I want to earn a living programming. How do you get your first programming job? <.>
I can only talk to you from my own experience, I can't pretend to be Bill Gates, Paul Allen or Larry Ellison, who through some confluence of luck and skill attained heights we mere mortals can only dream of. I am 58 years old and started programming in 1971 in assembler language on a CDC 6600 at my college NYU. I went on to get a BA in Math and Computer Science and two Master's Degrees, one in Mathematics and one in Computer Science. Today, I am a Senior Software Engineer at General Atomics in San Diego. My great regret in life is that I too was bored with school getting my first Master's degree and left school to work for General Motors in Detroit before I could complete my PhD program. I have always felt that I would have gone much further in my career endeavors had I completed my PhD. Other people I have spoken to feel just the opposite, that an advanced degree or any degree at all mean little in corporate America, but I look around me and the majority of successful people that I know (the three aforementioned entrepreneurs aside) all have advanced degrees of some kind. I say to you from my experience, stick it out in school, get your degree, the job will come naturally after that. I was 25 also before I got my first job, and from where I sit now I'd love to be 25 again. Its a wonderful time of life, so as bored as you seem to be, enjoy it while you can, life goes by very quickly!
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I've been programming since I was in middle school nine years (almost 10) ago. I've known since then that this was the career for me. The only problem is, I can't find my first job. It doesn't help that I'm in a small town with no programming jobs. I'm slowly working towards a degree but due to two bad years, I feel I'm falling behind. I'm 22... I should have graduated by now but I haven't even earned my associates degree. I don't know if I can make it through 3 more years of college. It's very tempting to save up some money and just move to a big city with lots of jobs (like Seattle) but I'd have no guarantee that I'd get a job. I'm so bored with my life. I want to earn a living programming. How do you get your first programming job? <.>
What's a degree got to do with anything? Sorry, this from a Dad who's just packed off his daughter to Uni and is cracking the whip over his son to make sure he gets there next year. But, if you're struggling with finance, and you've got years to go, and you reckon you're a shit-hot programmer, then why not just start working now? Not learning English Lit or Biology, but building systems for people? Having a degree simply proves you can get a degree... There are umpteen sites out there posting literally hundreds (thousands, probably) of projects a day for guys (and girls) like you to work on. Five years ago, in breaks between "long-term" contracts and when "bored with my life", I bid on these little jobs on vWorker (Rent-a-Coder as it was then), eLance, PeoplePerHour etc.. Sure, the headline rates are pretty abysmal, as you're competing with folks in India, China and Eastern Europe who'll work for a couple of bucks an hour. So, don't compete on rates. Compete on quality, value added, responsiveness, professionalism, communication. They're all winnable against that competition. Turn the little jobs into big ones. 4 years ago I did a $250 job, won against Indian competition, completed it in an afternoon. The client was happy, asked for some more work, and 4 years later his organisation is wholly dependent on my tech input; he's paying $100 / hour, with a guaranteed minimum $16000/month payment regardless of the hours I work. He's never asked if I have a degree (as it happens, I do, but not in IT) nor whether I have any other qualifications. I do work for numerous other clients at the same rate for people referred to me by happy clients or picked up in those on-line auctions. Winning those first auctions isn't easy, but it's not hard either. Focus on quality of bid and volume of bids. Of course that's just one route. Use your imagination, write a mobile app and market it. It MAY make you a billionaire, probably won't; but it WILL give you some practical experience and something to show potential employers. Or build a killer website. Or write some PC shareware. NOBODY is stopping you from doing that - except maybe yourself. When I was a teenager needing to find some work through the summer break, I made 99 applications for bar jobs, shop work, anything easy and not needing qualifications. I got nowhere. I decided I'd write one last letter, but it had to be a corker. Where did I really want to work above all else, what would be a dream job? For me, the answer was working at the UK's Railway Technic
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Joe Woodbury wrote:
Did you go to UNC and ask to see the placement statistics?
It's more about location than what the college itself can do about getting me a job.
Joe Woodbury wrote:
You can spend less than every number you listed and (and earlier gave lower numbers.)
I was giving you the full cost this time, not what I payed. I split all those numbers three ways last time (other than food) but this time I'll be responsible for all of the rent. That's why the numbers are different. Why is your full time wage hire than mine?$7.25 at 40 hours a week (full time) 4 weeks a month == $1160. Again, before taxes.
Joe Woodbury wrote:
You may be hired as a Java programmer and then told to edit and fix hundreds of batch file install scripts.
It's still related at least. Fixing computers is not related to selling car speakers. It's like if you were hired as a programmer and they made you the secretary instead (no offense to secretaries, it's just an example).
Joe Woodbury wrote:
ncidentally, one great place to look for work, that people often overlook, is your state employment agency.
I check there every now and then. My mom is a state employee so she typically keeps an eye out for jobs in the network.
Joe Woodbury wrote:
There are technical jobs in the military.
I'd join the military if I could be guaranteed I'd see no combat, but that's just not going to happen. (The promise, not the likeliness of it happening.)
Stephen Dycus wrote:
Why is your full time wage hire than mine?$7.25 at 40 hours a week (full time) 4 weeks a month == $1160
(7.25 x 40 x 52) / 12
Stephen Dycus wrote:
Fixing computers is not related to selling car speakers. It's like if you were hired as a programmer and they made you the secretary instead
Yes, and this will happen in your career. I can't count the times I've heard, or uttered, the phrase "I wasn't hired to do this." Usually followed by an expletive. If you have to pay your bills you suck it up and do the job and chalk it up to experience. At one job, I was suddenly assigned to produce some marketing materials. At another job, I was put in charge of maintaining some equipment barely related to my job. Sometimes this leads to finding out you like doing something else. I had a technical writer who ended up writing for the usability team. She started helping with some testing, found she liked it and was very good at it, worked a while in usability at a very well known company and is now a product manager at that company. I'll bet if you ask the question here on CP, you'd find every developer at one time got assign some crap task way outside their field.
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You must admire the irony of being lambasted to work harder by someone whose username is...
Truth hurts, especially for the weaker ones. Being a cry baby will get you no where in life. If that makes me an asshole, then so be it. As for my online name, it is completely opposite of how I really am...reason why I picked it. :)
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I've been programming since I was in middle school nine years (almost 10) ago. I've known since then that this was the career for me. The only problem is, I can't find my first job. It doesn't help that I'm in a small town with no programming jobs. I'm slowly working towards a degree but due to two bad years, I feel I'm falling behind. I'm 22... I should have graduated by now but I haven't even earned my associates degree. I don't know if I can make it through 3 more years of college. It's very tempting to save up some money and just move to a big city with lots of jobs (like Seattle) but I'd have no guarantee that I'd get a job. I'm so bored with my life. I want to earn a living programming. How do you get your first programming job? <.>
You mean a summer job while you are in school, or a full time job? One summer many moons ago two friends and I got the bright idea to hitchhike to Wyoming and look for work. After arriving in Jackson Hole we spent a day knocking on doors, asking at every business with no luck. We got a ride from a man driving a big Cadillac and I guess we were sounding discouraged. I remember him saying "Oh, you have been looking one day? Then you have just started." Right. We got the message. We all ended up getting jobs, my friends with the Yellowstone Park Company as busboys, and I with the Park Service as a trash collector. We were thrilled. After college it was a bit easier. I got a letter from Uncle Sam saying we want you. There used to be this thing called the Draft. But the US Army sent me off to programming training at the IBM Ed Center in D.C., thus launched a career. So it appears you are at a wonderful age. You can haul ass to Wyoming (or wherever) and not be too particular about what you do, or you could join the military for a few years to get some practical experience (but if you do get a guaranteed MOS (military occupation) before signing on the dotted line). Have fun.
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I've been programming since I was in middle school nine years (almost 10) ago. I've known since then that this was the career for me. The only problem is, I can't find my first job. It doesn't help that I'm in a small town with no programming jobs. I'm slowly working towards a degree but due to two bad years, I feel I'm falling behind. I'm 22... I should have graduated by now but I haven't even earned my associates degree. I don't know if I can make it through 3 more years of college. It's very tempting to save up some money and just move to a big city with lots of jobs (like Seattle) but I'd have no guarantee that I'd get a job. I'm so bored with my life. I want to earn a living programming. How do you get your first programming job? <.>
After I got a degree in Physics (and learned FORTRAN for statistics), my dad got me an interview for a job fixing IBM hardware far from home in Washington, D.C. - not programming, and I worked hard and got a good reputation, but the frequent late night emergency calls made life miserable and undependable. After 4-1/2 years of that, I was recruited by a competitor to fix their hardware, in exchange for a promise to make me an instructor in 6 months, so that I could have a normal life. Because instructing entailed writing and scheduling courses, I had the opportunity to write programs to schedule training and deliver computer-based training modules. The languages I had to use were mainly IBM REXX, JCL, IBM mainframe assembly language, and a little bit of Visual Basic, Perl and Pascal, all of which I learned on my own, and not much people would use these days. The key here is that I was given work by managers who wanted some results, but knew nothing about software, so accepted whatever I came up with, as long as it did the job. That allowed me to put programming successes on my resume, so that when I got laid off (for refusal to move), after nine months and getting a certificate in Java, I was able to get a programming job at an organization where the managers had the understanding (or lack of prejudicial knowledge) to think that my programming skills could be easily transferred to other languages and systems. So then, I gradually worked my way into making modifications to a Perl web/database program on a FreeBSD system, then Linux, then VB.NET and C# on Windows, and now I'm dabbling in PHP and Android. In sumary, I would say to get any job that you can excel in, and work your way into IT.
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Huh? Because I'm part of 8.3% of unemployed US citizens means I can't complain? Your logic is beyond me. o.O
now you are tripping, lack of respect won't land you a job to start with. No wonder you are whining, you seem to lose patience quickly, a quality that is not admirable in a programmer. :laugh:
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I've been programming since I was in middle school nine years (almost 10) ago. I've known since then that this was the career for me. The only problem is, I can't find my first job. It doesn't help that I'm in a small town with no programming jobs. I'm slowly working towards a degree but due to two bad years, I feel I'm falling behind. I'm 22... I should have graduated by now but I haven't even earned my associates degree. I don't know if I can make it through 3 more years of college. It's very tempting to save up some money and just move to a big city with lots of jobs (like Seattle) but I'd have no guarantee that I'd get a job. I'm so bored with my life. I want to earn a living programming. How do you get your first programming job? <.>
You do remind me my current situation, pretty much the same conditions, but you make me feel good in a way that I have zero worries about it and don't complain to NOBODY. I left my parents home at the same week when I wrote my high school exam. Left the city, left the country. I even sent my mother to take my graduation paper and asked to send me by mail. People around me worry more about me more than me myself. I'd say just code if you enjoy it, work on what you like and in the end you will succeed. To make you feel better (or maybe worse), here is a little story. At the moment I am 21, finishing 4th semester of computer science degree, same poor m*****f***** as you, living like a bummer in a hole. God, even my mother which visited me once started to cry after she saw my place, opened the fridge. But I am not accepting any help from nobody. Everyone digs through their own mud, so do I. I do work once a week in a night club which makes me able to pay the rent. The rest of my time goes working on open source, pet or school projects with same poor friends around me 14+ hours a day. Although I do get some random job offers once in a while, sometimes accepting temporarily to buy a new hardware, sometimes not, but I am not feeling to settle with one job yet. And not going to anytime soon. To be honest you do sound like missing some networking. There are tons of events going on, like: http://startupweekend.org/[^] where you can find a job pretty fast. Everyone is looking for devs there! But don't think about something small as getting a job only. Do you think Steve Jobs goal was to get a job for 20k a year? You are not going to get any further than your dreams. Always have your ultimate goal of life in your head. Having a huge goal makes all problems in the way relatively small. And relatively small problems you solve easier. Don't let the problems to conceal the whole goal. If they do - your goal is to small. That's my personal inside-click which makes me to move on.
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I've been programming since I was in middle school nine years (almost 10) ago. I've known since then that this was the career for me. The only problem is, I can't find my first job. It doesn't help that I'm in a small town with no programming jobs. I'm slowly working towards a degree but due to two bad years, I feel I'm falling behind. I'm 22... I should have graduated by now but I haven't even earned my associates degree. I don't know if I can make it through 3 more years of college. It's very tempting to save up some money and just move to a big city with lots of jobs (like Seattle) but I'd have no guarantee that I'd get a job. I'm so bored with my life. I want to earn a living programming. How do you get your first programming job? <.>
Tough Love Time The only reliable way to get a programming job (even in Seattle, especially in Seattle) is to get a four year degree in Computer Science. Period. End of story. Yeah, yeah, you've been programming for 10 years. So how much does that experience when you were 12 count as full-time job experience? My guess is you have the equivalent of maybe a couple years of serious programming behind you. But even if you were a boy-genius who wrote compilers for breakfast and operating systems for lunch, unless you know your data structures and algorithms, you'll bomb out at the coding interview stage. Microsoft, Google, Facebook, Amazon, Boeing (don't laugh), and all the bigger employers of SW folks expect degrees, and test for your algo & data structure experience. I don't know you, and I am not in a position to judge your life, but it would be easy for a hiring manager to assume that your history shows you as just the kind of screwup that companies want to avoid. If you wanna make it in the big city, you need a better story than you've told so far. You probably don't want to tell that story at all, just say, "It took me a while to grow up." Do you own an awesome open source project? Got some tremendous game you can show off? No? Why would an employer look at you if the previous resume on the pile went to college? Now, I know there are guys who made it as programmers without a degree, so don't you all write in saying, "I made it and I don't have a degree". These guys are the exception. The great bulk of developers have a Bachelor's degree in CS. Lots of 'em have a Masters. That's your competition, so you better be damn good. You might have a chance applying for a job as a tester, and moving to development later. That's a hard road because being a tester marks you as not-ready-for-prime-time as a dev. (Mostly. Please don't flame me you testers; good testers are really valuable folks, but you gotta admit there are a lot of mediocre wannabes doing testing). If you get "bored" when faced with the need to work your ass off, better forget programming anyway. One thing a degree does show is that a person is able to commit to a goal for a period of about four years. Serious dev projects go on for years, and may involve a lot of hard thinking and maybe a lot of uncompensated overtime. Especially if you're hired by the kind of bottom feeder willing to take on difficult-to-place young employees. Good luck man.
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What's a degree got to do with anything? Sorry, this from a Dad who's just packed off his daughter to Uni and is cracking the whip over his son to make sure he gets there next year. But, if you're struggling with finance, and you've got years to go, and you reckon you're a shit-hot programmer, then why not just start working now? Not learning English Lit or Biology, but building systems for people? Having a degree simply proves you can get a degree... There are umpteen sites out there posting literally hundreds (thousands, probably) of projects a day for guys (and girls) like you to work on. Five years ago, in breaks between "long-term" contracts and when "bored with my life", I bid on these little jobs on vWorker (Rent-a-Coder as it was then), eLance, PeoplePerHour etc.. Sure, the headline rates are pretty abysmal, as you're competing with folks in India, China and Eastern Europe who'll work for a couple of bucks an hour. So, don't compete on rates. Compete on quality, value added, responsiveness, professionalism, communication. They're all winnable against that competition. Turn the little jobs into big ones. 4 years ago I did a $250 job, won against Indian competition, completed it in an afternoon. The client was happy, asked for some more work, and 4 years later his organisation is wholly dependent on my tech input; he's paying $100 / hour, with a guaranteed minimum $16000/month payment regardless of the hours I work. He's never asked if I have a degree (as it happens, I do, but not in IT) nor whether I have any other qualifications. I do work for numerous other clients at the same rate for people referred to me by happy clients or picked up in those on-line auctions. Winning those first auctions isn't easy, but it's not hard either. Focus on quality of bid and volume of bids. Of course that's just one route. Use your imagination, write a mobile app and market it. It MAY make you a billionaire, probably won't; but it WILL give you some practical experience and something to show potential employers. Or build a killer website. Or write some PC shareware. NOBODY is stopping you from doing that - except maybe yourself. When I was a teenager needing to find some work through the summer break, I made 99 applications for bar jobs, shop work, anything easy and not needing qualifications. I got nowhere. I decided I'd write one last letter, but it had to be a corker. Where did I really want to work above all else, what would be a dream job? For me, the answer was working at the UK's Railway Technic
DerekTP123 wrote:
There are umpteen sites out there posting literally hundreds (thousands, probably) of projects a day
Yeah, and the streets are paved with gold. Those sites pay most people a couple dollars an hour. Maybe ok if you live in Latvia; not so good if you're trying to make a wage as a developer in the US.
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You do remind me my current situation, pretty much the same conditions, but you make me feel good in a way that I have zero worries about it and don't complain to NOBODY. I left my parents home at the same week when I wrote my high school exam. Left the city, left the country. I even sent my mother to take my graduation paper and asked to send me by mail. People around me worry more about me more than me myself. I'd say just code if you enjoy it, work on what you like and in the end you will succeed. To make you feel better (or maybe worse), here is a little story. At the moment I am 21, finishing 4th semester of computer science degree, same poor m*****f***** as you, living like a bummer in a hole. God, even my mother which visited me once started to cry after she saw my place, opened the fridge. But I am not accepting any help from nobody. Everyone digs through their own mud, so do I. I do work once a week in a night club which makes me able to pay the rent. The rest of my time goes working on open source, pet or school projects with same poor friends around me 14+ hours a day. Although I do get some random job offers once in a while, sometimes accepting temporarily to buy a new hardware, sometimes not, but I am not feeling to settle with one job yet. And not going to anytime soon. To be honest you do sound like missing some networking. There are tons of events going on, like: http://startupweekend.org/[^] where you can find a job pretty fast. Everyone is looking for devs there! But don't think about something small as getting a job only. Do you think Steve Jobs goal was to get a job for 20k a year? You are not going to get any further than your dreams. Always have your ultimate goal of life in your head. Having a huge goal makes all problems in the way relatively small. And relatively small problems you solve easier. Don't let the problems to conceal the whole goal. If they do - your goal is to small. That's my personal inside-click which makes me to move on.
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Truth hurts, especially for the weaker ones. Being a cry baby will get you no where in life. If that makes me an asshole, then so be it. As for my online name, it is completely opposite of how I really am...reason why I picked it. :)
"the meat from that butcher is just the dogs danglies, absolutely amazing cuts of beef." - DaveAuld (2011)
"No, that is just the earthly manifestation of the Great God Retardon." - Nagy Vilmos (2011) "It is the celestial scrotum of good luck!" - Nagy Vilmos (2011) "But you probably have the smoothest scrotum of any grown man" - Pete O'Hanlon (2012)The "truth" doesn't hurt coming from you, it just comes off as trollish and unreliable. You use short, one sentence responses to convey your point. It's a jab: 1. "Hmm..." 2. Two sentence angry response, followed by "Hmmm..." 3. "[Work harder, you're a troll or a whiner]" 4. "Yep, you're a whiner." If you want me to take you seriously, then take the time to form a *real* response to my posts. You can provide negative feedback without coming off insulting. People don't learn from insults, so your "help" is largely unhelpful. If you were to say something like: "That's not the best attitude to go about this. You need to buck up, and take hold of your life. You're going to have to make some sacrifices and work your ass off to get where you want to go." It would go over much better, not make you look like a troll, and convey essentially the same thing you were trying state.
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now you are tripping, lack of respect won't land you a job to start with. No wonder you are whining, you seem to lose patience quickly, a quality that is not admirable in a programmer. :laugh:
How am I being disrespectful... instead of judging me, you could explain what I'm doing wrong so I can change. My response wasn't facetious, I honestly don't understand why someone who's unemployed doesn't have the right to say their position of unemployment sucks...
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The "truth" doesn't hurt coming from you, it just comes off as trollish and unreliable. You use short, one sentence responses to convey your point. It's a jab: 1. "Hmm..." 2. Two sentence angry response, followed by "Hmmm..." 3. "[Work harder, you're a troll or a whiner]" 4. "Yep, you're a whiner." If you want me to take you seriously, then take the time to form a *real* response to my posts. You can provide negative feedback without coming off insulting. People don't learn from insults, so your "help" is largely unhelpful. If you were to say something like: "That's not the best attitude to go about this. You need to buck up, and take hold of your life. You're going to have to make some sacrifices and work your ass off to get where you want to go." It would go over much better, not make you look like a troll, and convey essentially the same thing you were trying state.
I will admit my responses were mean spirited. I have been active on this site for 4+ years now and I have contributed a bit in that time, so I am no troll. I hurt your feelings, this I can see, so I apologize for the way I presented my views to you, although I meant what I said. You did whine a lot. I also meant what I said that you need to toughen up a bit, get a thicker skin, especially if you are going to hang out here on this site. Not being mean, just stating a fact. -- Cheers
"the meat from that butcher is just the dogs danglies, absolutely amazing cuts of beef." - DaveAuld (2011)
"No, that is just the earthly manifestation of the Great God Retardon." - Nagy Vilmos (2011) "It is the celestial scrotum of good luck!" - Nagy Vilmos (2011) "But you probably have the smoothest scrotum of any grown man" - Pete O'Hanlon (2012) -
The "truth" doesn't hurt coming from you, it just comes off as trollish and unreliable. You use short, one sentence responses to convey your point. It's a jab: 1. "Hmm..." 2. Two sentence angry response, followed by "Hmmm..." 3. "[Work harder, you're a troll or a whiner]" 4. "Yep, you're a whiner." If you want me to take you seriously, then take the time to form a *real* response to my posts. You can provide negative feedback without coming off insulting. People don't learn from insults, so your "help" is largely unhelpful. If you were to say something like: "That's not the best attitude to go about this. You need to buck up, and take hold of your life. You're going to have to make some sacrifices and work your ass off to get where you want to go." It would go over much better, not make you look like a troll, and convey essentially the same thing you were trying state.
Are you down voting all of my posts? Your debator points match the hits I'm getting.
"the meat from that butcher is just the dogs danglies, absolutely amazing cuts of beef." - DaveAuld (2011)
"No, that is just the earthly manifestation of the Great God Retardon." - Nagy Vilmos (2011) "It is the celestial scrotum of good luck!" - Nagy Vilmos (2011) "But you probably have the smoothest scrotum of any grown man" - Pete O'Hanlon (2012)