Moving out...
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So after more than 26 years I'm moving out of my first house/home. My parents bought a new house and I'm moving with them. My own house will hopefully be ready later this year (there have been lots of problems with the build...). It amazes me how much stuff I actually have. And how little of it I actually use. I am subscribed to three magazines. I've kept about 15 years of a popular scientific magazines, about 15 years of gaming magazines and 10 years of a (metal) music magazine. Furthermore I have about 1000 CD's and LP's and 500 DVD's. And some random stuff that has sentimental value, like gifts from people and souvenirs from faraway places. And I get to move all of it again in a few months... :sigh:
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What amazes me is that you still feel compelled to life with (and therefore off ) your parents. Given that you must be at least 26, why haven't you moved out before and got your own place? Ye Gods, I was 18 when I left for university and have never lived with my parents since. My son was 17 when he left home and moved in with a couple of pals. (Didn't work out, but he didn't come home, just moved in with his girlfriend). To still be at home at your age is really odd.
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I live on a seperate floor with two pretty big rooms and a toilet. My parents leave me alone most of the time. I don't do (m)any chores at home, I don't pay for stuff, I can use the BMW on the driveway. I used to play the drums which is easy here since we live in a house detached from others. When I move out on my own (prior to this that probably would've been a small apartment) I'd lose space, I'd lose the car, I'd lose time doing all those chores, I would have to give up drumming... The last thing I'd want is to live with some strangers in a big city in a students apartment. Yikes! I guess I'm just really spoiled. Since about a year I don't want to live here anymore. My dad has been picking up on piano playing, so I get to listen to that every night for a few hours. I've been living with it for about one to two years and decided I really needed to get out. Plus something has been missing here since my cat died at the age of almost twenty over a year ago. That's when I bought a house (I could get a girlfriend and two kids there and I'd still have enough rooms, not that I don't want any kids). I still really don't feel like moving out on my own though... Because that's just what it'll be; on my own. At least I'll get a new cat.
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there have been lots of problems with the build.
Just fix the errors, ignore the warnings. You'll be fine for a while. :cool:
The error was that my house is apparently being build in a swamp... The whole block sank a few millimeters into the ground cracking some walls etc. They fixed it, but then it happened again :~ Don't know much about that though. I'll be hearing more next week.
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What amazes me is that you still feel compelled to life with (and therefore off ) your parents. Given that you must be at least 26, why haven't you moved out before and got your own place? Ye Gods, I was 18 when I left for university and have never lived with my parents since. My son was 17 when he left home and moved in with a couple of pals. (Didn't work out, but he didn't come home, just moved in with his girlfriend). To still be at home at your age is really odd.
--------------------------------- Obscurum per obscurius. Ad astra per alas porci. Quidquid latine dictum sit, altum videtur.
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Dalek Dave wrote:
To still be at home at your age is really odd
This a typical "old fart" comment, really :-D
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Middle aged fart!
--------------------------------- Obscurum per obscurius. Ad astra per alas porci. Quidquid latine dictum sit, altum videtur.
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The error was that my house is apparently being build in a swamp... The whole block sank a few millimeters into the ground cracking some walls etc. They fixed it, but then it happened again :~ Don't know much about that though. I'll be hearing more next week.
Why would you build in a swamp :^) Sometimes you have to sink pilings down until you hit something solid, or build the whole thing on a big raft, to provide a stable base to build on. I'd prefer just building in the right place to start with :-)
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What amazes me is that you still feel compelled to life with (and therefore off ) your parents. Given that you must be at least 26, why haven't you moved out before and got your own place? Ye Gods, I was 18 when I left for university and have never lived with my parents since. My son was 17 when he left home and moved in with a couple of pals. (Didn't work out, but he didn't come home, just moved in with his girlfriend). To still be at home at your age is really odd.
--------------------------------- Obscurum per obscurius. Ad astra per alas porci. Quidquid latine dictum sit, altum videtur.
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So after more than 26 years I'm moving out of my first house/home. My parents bought a new house and I'm moving with them. My own house will hopefully be ready later this year (there have been lots of problems with the build...). It amazes me how much stuff I actually have. And how little of it I actually use. I am subscribed to three magazines. I've kept about 15 years of a popular scientific magazines, about 15 years of gaming magazines and 10 years of a (metal) music magazine. Furthermore I have about 1000 CD's and LP's and 500 DVD's. And some random stuff that has sentimental value, like gifts from people and souvenirs from faraway places. And I get to move all of it again in a few months... :sigh:
I recently moved and, although I was just in a rented flat with really hardly any stuff, it's still amazing how much accumulates in three years. Moving was difficult enough and I ended up throwing away a lot of things that I never quite got around to doing that with before. I'm sure next time (I bought my current place so I'm getting furniture and plan to be there a while) it will be much worse. So I can imagine how much stuff you have over 25 years. Actually I can do more than imagine as I know how much stuff there was to sort out from my grandparents' houses when they died (after about 25 years there in both cases).
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I heard a definition of a house as follows: A house is where you keep all your stuff while you are out getting more stuff. That sums it up for me.
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I recently moved and, although I was just in a rented flat with really hardly any stuff, it's still amazing how much accumulates in three years. Moving was difficult enough and I ended up throwing away a lot of things that I never quite got around to doing that with before. I'm sure next time (I bought my current place so I'm getting furniture and plan to be there a while) it will be much worse. So I can imagine how much stuff you have over 25 years. Actually I can do more than imagine as I know how much stuff there was to sort out from my grandparents' houses when they died (after about 25 years there in both cases).
I dream of a house with a huge basement (that's not common in the Netherlands, we already live below sea level as it is!) or attic where I can store stuff indefinitly :D And of course I'd never need to move.
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Why would you build in a swamp :^) Sometimes you have to sink pilings down until you hit something solid, or build the whole thing on a big raft, to provide a stable base to build on. I'd prefer just building in the right place to start with :-)
Well, it isn't literally a swamp. Except for the fact that the new row of houses sunk in the ground. Maybe it's quicksand. And of course we're talking about millimeters...
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I dream of a house with a huge basement (that's not common in the Netherlands, we already live below sea level as it is!) or attic where I can store stuff indefinitly :D And of course I'd never need to move.
