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  • S snorkie

    This last Friday, I decided (based on a social media post) to travel over 5 hours north of where I live for a weekend trip with the family. From first thought of I should do this till we were on the road was a little over 2 hours. Several of my co-workers think I'm crazy and said they could never do something so spontaneous. I've done stuff like this in the past and it amazes me how inflexible people can be. Of interest, it seems that singles and couples without kids (people who should be most flexible) are most likely to find it crazy. Does anybody else find this to be true?

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    I always go with the flow. The caveat is that, unlike in the ever so distant past, the flow isn't rainwater cascading down a mountain side but simply from one drain pipe to another. That's just how life works.       When it works at all.

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    • S snorkie

      This last Friday, I decided (based on a social media post) to travel over 5 hours north of where I live for a weekend trip with the family. From first thought of I should do this till we were on the road was a little over 2 hours. Several of my co-workers think I'm crazy and said they could never do something so spontaneous. I've done stuff like this in the past and it amazes me how inflexible people can be. Of interest, it seems that singles and couples without kids (people who should be most flexible) are most likely to find it crazy. Does anybody else find this to be true?

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      Kirk 10389821
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      When our daughter was small, we went to Disney so many times (Season Pass holders, and 198 mile drive), that she would roll her eyes and say "Not Disney AGAIN!"... We stopped getting Season Passes after that, and now as a teenager she says "Why would you listen to a CLEARLY STUPID 6 year old???" LOL. It depends. We have a Dog now. But I was always up for that stuff. Leave work early drive to the keys with some friends. Did not do that stuff EVERY week, but when things came up, loved to jump on it. Now, I am old. Tired. Like sleeping in my own bed. Hate planes and traveling. I have about 8 states in this country I have not been through. Been to Europe (many countries), Russia, Norway, Australia, Puerto Rico, Bahamas, Jamaica, Canada, and Mexico. There are only a few places left on my list. But as others have said. No matter where you go, there you are! Nowadays, I am almost happy with Ordering food for a specific country, and eating it while watching YouTube videos :-))))

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      • S snorkie

        This last Friday, I decided (based on a social media post) to travel over 5 hours north of where I live for a weekend trip with the family. From first thought of I should do this till we were on the road was a little over 2 hours. Several of my co-workers think I'm crazy and said they could never do something so spontaneous. I've done stuff like this in the past and it amazes me how inflexible people can be. Of interest, it seems that singles and couples without kids (people who should be most flexible) are most likely to find it crazy. Does anybody else find this to be true?

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        PJ Arends
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        I once went to Bullhead City Arizona on a whim. 2 days drive there, 1 day visit, and 2 days back. So no, I do not think you are crazy. But now with a wife and child I find I cannot be quite so spontaneous.

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        • M MarkTJohnson

          We've done stuff like that. My kids are older so they are mostly easier (we can leave them at home for the weekend and they won't die). Last year the wife and I set out at the beginning of June with no real destination in mind. We drove north from Atlanta, GA and at first thought we would go to the Smoky Mountains on the Tennessee side but as we got closer decided "nah" and chose to go to Washington DC via an interstate road that took us up the entire northwest border of Virginia. Right before Christmas, the 23rd I think, we decided that we would go to the beach and found a Condo for several days at New Smyrna Beach. We were able to take the youngest, 15 on that trip. You're not crazy.

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          Phew, For a second there, I thought that was ONE Trip! :-) Left the kids in June, and on Christmas, still deciding where to go next...

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          • J jgakenhe

            It's probably part of your personality and you should always be yourself. I am the opposite: single, no kids, and very structured. I have to plan everything out. I typically plan clothes for the week, food, naps, job/work to be done, finances, workout, ect... It works for me and hate when I can't keep to somewhat of a schedule. I will say I am not scared to do the Joel from Risky Business saying from time to time; such as my 2 week May trip, but it is already planned and budgeted out!

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            Both types are a kind of Quality, and both are good I think. Having different types, makes the community more colorful. :thumbsup:

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            • K Kirk 10389821

              Phew, For a second there, I thought that was ONE Trip! :-) Left the kids in June, and on Christmas, still deciding where to go next...

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              I can see the confusion, the Mrs. probably would have liked that trip. Glad to see you weren't confused about "the youngest, 15 on that trip." considering I left out the second comma. I only have 3 kids not 16+. "the youngest, 15, on that trip."

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              • S snorkie

                This last Friday, I decided (based on a social media post) to travel over 5 hours north of where I live for a weekend trip with the family. From first thought of I should do this till we were on the road was a little over 2 hours. Several of my co-workers think I'm crazy and said they could never do something so spontaneous. I've done stuff like this in the past and it amazes me how inflexible people can be. Of interest, it seems that singles and couples without kids (people who should be most flexible) are most likely to find it crazy. Does anybody else find this to be true?

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                Kyle Moyer
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                30. Married. No kids. Dog. If we knew the dog would be welcome where we were going, 5 hours for a weekend trip isn't unthinkable for us. Otherwise getting a sitter for the weekend pretty much shuts things down. No dog? Short notice makes it (more) difficult (but not impossible) to find accommodations, at least for reasonable rates. If the five hour drive were the only variable in the decision? Sure, why not? Better than sitting around at home like we do every other weekend. Unfortunately nothing in life is ever so simple...

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                • S snorkie

                  This last Friday, I decided (based on a social media post) to travel over 5 hours north of where I live for a weekend trip with the family. From first thought of I should do this till we were on the road was a little over 2 hours. Several of my co-workers think I'm crazy and said they could never do something so spontaneous. I've done stuff like this in the past and it amazes me how inflexible people can be. Of interest, it seems that singles and couples without kids (people who should be most flexible) are most likely to find it crazy. Does anybody else find this to be true?

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                  I never want to go north of here, I'd only end up in Luton.

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                  • S snorkie

                    This last Friday, I decided (based on a social media post) to travel over 5 hours north of where I live for a weekend trip with the family. From first thought of I should do this till we were on the road was a little over 2 hours. Several of my co-workers think I'm crazy and said they could never do something so spontaneous. I've done stuff like this in the past and it amazes me how inflexible people can be. Of interest, it seems that singles and couples without kids (people who should be most flexible) are most likely to find it crazy. Does anybody else find this to be true?

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                    snorkie wrote:

                    Does anybody else find this to be true?

                    Yes. You're crazy :-D

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                    • 9 9082365

                      Well it's all very well if you've got motive, means, and opportunity but those of us who've been on the earth long enough to realise that everywhere you go is pretty much the same (and worse, wherever it is, you will be there), lack funds, and/or have dependents such as dogs for which arranging transport and accommodation is not always easy ....

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                      9082365 wrote:

                      verywhere you go is pretty much the same

                      Amen! I hate traveling. It's a stupid waste of time.

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                      • S snorkie

                        This last Friday, I decided (based on a social media post) to travel over 5 hours north of where I live for a weekend trip with the family. From first thought of I should do this till we were on the road was a little over 2 hours. Several of my co-workers think I'm crazy and said they could never do something so spontaneous. I've done stuff like this in the past and it amazes me how inflexible people can be. Of interest, it seems that singles and couples without kids (people who should be most flexible) are most likely to find it crazy. Does anybody else find this to be true?

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                        Scott Serl
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                        I don't often leave on a unplanned trip on only a few hours notice, but that's just because I would have already made plans a day or two ahead. I am always planning somewhere to go. I don't need accommodations, because I usually go camping, so dogs are just fine. I live in the western USA, so there is plenty of public land where camping is free. We keep my SUV loaded for camping most of the time, so just need to grab some clothing and food and we're gone.

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                        • S snorkie

                          This last Friday, I decided (based on a social media post) to travel over 5 hours north of where I live for a weekend trip with the family. From first thought of I should do this till we were on the road was a little over 2 hours. Several of my co-workers think I'm crazy and said they could never do something so spontaneous. I've done stuff like this in the past and it amazes me how inflexible people can be. Of interest, it seems that singles and couples without kids (people who should be most flexible) are most likely to find it crazy. Does anybody else find this to be true?

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                          Before marriage and kids this was standard practice, to the point where I once decided to go to New Zealand (from Sydney) on a Thursday, quit the job on Friday, flew out with a one way ticket on Saturday, return 4 months later. Now I need to book a holiday 4-6 months in advance so deployments are handled while I'm around.

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                          • S snorkie

                            This last Friday, I decided (based on a social media post) to travel over 5 hours north of where I live for a weekend trip with the family. From first thought of I should do this till we were on the road was a little over 2 hours. Several of my co-workers think I'm crazy and said they could never do something so spontaneous. I've done stuff like this in the past and it amazes me how inflexible people can be. Of interest, it seems that singles and couples without kids (people who should be most flexible) are most likely to find it crazy. Does anybody else find this to be true?

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                            PIEBALDconsult
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                            snorkie wrote:

                            travel over 5 hours north of where I live for a weekend trip

                            Sounds like driving to Las Vegas from San Diego. :cool: The wife and I used to do that before the trouble. Many a Friday evening we'd be wondering what to do, then I'd say, "Vegas", she'd say "OK", and off we'd go. Now Vegas is a little farther and it's no longer a straight shot on a super-highway. BUT! Grand Canyon is closer and a pretty straight shot north. :-D We were just there for a couple of nights a week ago. :jig:

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                            • S snorkie

                              This last Friday, I decided (based on a social media post) to travel over 5 hours north of where I live for a weekend trip with the family. From first thought of I should do this till we were on the road was a little over 2 hours. Several of my co-workers think I'm crazy and said they could never do something so spontaneous. I've done stuff like this in the past and it amazes me how inflexible people can be. Of interest, it seems that singles and couples without kids (people who should be most flexible) are most likely to find it crazy. Does anybody else find this to be true?

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                              Back when I was younger and foolisher, my wife and I and/or kids (before we had kids and after) would sometimes pack up the car for a weekend and start heading down the street before deciding where we were going. Those were fun times. Lots of good memories.

                              I'm retired. There's a nap for that... - Harvey

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                              • S snorkie

                                This last Friday, I decided (based on a social media post) to travel over 5 hours north of where I live for a weekend trip with the family. From first thought of I should do this till we were on the road was a little over 2 hours. Several of my co-workers think I'm crazy and said they could never do something so spontaneous. I've done stuff like this in the past and it amazes me how inflexible people can be. Of interest, it seems that singles and couples without kids (people who should be most flexible) are most likely to find it crazy. Does anybody else find this to be true?

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                                Many moons ago when I was in college I came back from work and my friend said lets go to Melbourne and within an hour we were on our way from Sydney to Melbourne driving 900km....

                                Zen and the art of software maintenance : rm -rf * Maths is like love : a simple idea but it can get complicated.

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                                  Many moons ago when I was in college I came back from work and my friend said lets go to Melbourne and within an hour we were on our way from Sydney to Melbourne driving 900km....

                                  Zen and the art of software maintenance : rm -rf * Maths is like love : a simple idea but it can get complicated.

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                                  Did you ever get there? :laugh:

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                                    Did you ever get there? :laugh:

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                                    Yes took us just over 9 hours and one time we almost run out of fuel...

                                    Zen and the art of software maintenance : rm -rf * Maths is like love : a simple idea but it can get complicated.

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                                      This last Friday, I decided (based on a social media post) to travel over 5 hours north of where I live for a weekend trip with the family. From first thought of I should do this till we were on the road was a little over 2 hours. Several of my co-workers think I'm crazy and said they could never do something so spontaneous. I've done stuff like this in the past and it amazes me how inflexible people can be. Of interest, it seems that singles and couples without kids (people who should be most flexible) are most likely to find it crazy. Does anybody else find this to be true?

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                                      Daniel Pfeffer
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                                      My schedule is as flexible as my wife allows it to be.

                                      If you have an important point to make, don't try to be subtle or clever. Use a pile driver. Hit the point once. Then come back and hit it again. Then hit it a third time - a tremendous whack. --Winston Churchill

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                                      • J jgakenhe

                                        It's probably part of your personality and you should always be yourself. I am the opposite: single, no kids, and very structured. I have to plan everything out. I typically plan clothes for the week, food, naps, job/work to be done, finances, workout, ect... It works for me and hate when I can't keep to somewhat of a schedule. I will say I am not scared to do the Joel from Risky Business saying from time to time; such as my 2 week May trip, but it is already planned and budgeted out!

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                                        The chaotic way my planning goes, I wouldn't have any time left to do anything I've already planned to do.

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                                          I never want to go north of here, I'd only end up in Luton.

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                                          Just keep going. You'll be OK once you get past the Watford Gap. Mind you, you probably won't understand any of the local lingos.

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