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  • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

    Hi all, just lost my Dad to diabetes and renal failure, at age 67. :-( He and I were super close, and he lived with me in the last 3-ish years of his life. When I was very little, we made a "pact" that we would be "old buddies" from the get-go and we would have all kinds of stuff we'd tell each other and not my Mom, and we'd do "buddy running around" every Saturday. He passed just last week, on Cinco de Mayo, in fact. Anyway, I will miss him very much. Now, back to work! lol As if -- the new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow. Anyway, it's good to go. I've brought in some other ways to occupy myself :-) But, am missing Dad. Brian

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    Sorry for your loss. That must really bite. I am glad you had an awesome father. :rose:

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    • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

      Hi all, just lost my Dad to diabetes and renal failure, at age 67. :-( He and I were super close, and he lived with me in the last 3-ish years of his life. When I was very little, we made a "pact" that we would be "old buddies" from the get-go and we would have all kinds of stuff we'd tell each other and not my Mom, and we'd do "buddy running around" every Saturday. He passed just last week, on Cinco de Mayo, in fact. Anyway, I will miss him very much. Now, back to work! lol As if -- the new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow. Anyway, it's good to go. I've brought in some other ways to occupy myself :-) But, am missing Dad. Brian

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      Sorry for your loss :rose:

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      • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

        Hi all, just lost my Dad to diabetes and renal failure, at age 67. :-( He and I were super close, and he lived with me in the last 3-ish years of his life. When I was very little, we made a "pact" that we would be "old buddies" from the get-go and we would have all kinds of stuff we'd tell each other and not my Mom, and we'd do "buddy running around" every Saturday. He passed just last week, on Cinco de Mayo, in fact. Anyway, I will miss him very much. Now, back to work! lol As if -- the new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow. Anyway, it's good to go. I've brought in some other ways to occupy myself :-) But, am missing Dad. Brian

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        Condolences :rose:

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        • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

          Hi all, just lost my Dad to diabetes and renal failure, at age 67. :-( He and I were super close, and he lived with me in the last 3-ish years of his life. When I was very little, we made a "pact" that we would be "old buddies" from the get-go and we would have all kinds of stuff we'd tell each other and not my Mom, and we'd do "buddy running around" every Saturday. He passed just last week, on Cinco de Mayo, in fact. Anyway, I will miss him very much. Now, back to work! lol As if -- the new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow. Anyway, it's good to go. I've brought in some other ways to occupy myself :-) But, am missing Dad. Brian

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          • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

            Hi all, just lost my Dad to diabetes and renal failure, at age 67. :-( He and I were super close, and he lived with me in the last 3-ish years of his life. When I was very little, we made a "pact" that we would be "old buddies" from the get-go and we would have all kinds of stuff we'd tell each other and not my Mom, and we'd do "buddy running around" every Saturday. He passed just last week, on Cinco de Mayo, in fact. Anyway, I will miss him very much. Now, back to work! lol As if -- the new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow. Anyway, it's good to go. I've brought in some other ways to occupy myself :-) But, am missing Dad. Brian

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            Brian, my deepest sympathies on your loss.

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            • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

              Hi all, just lost my Dad to diabetes and renal failure, at age 67. :-( He and I were super close, and he lived with me in the last 3-ish years of his life. When I was very little, we made a "pact" that we would be "old buddies" from the get-go and we would have all kinds of stuff we'd tell each other and not my Mom, and we'd do "buddy running around" every Saturday. He passed just last week, on Cinco de Mayo, in fact. Anyway, I will miss him very much. Now, back to work! lol As if -- the new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow. Anyway, it's good to go. I've brought in some other ways to occupy myself :-) But, am missing Dad. Brian

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              Brian, my profound sympathies for your loss. Your dad sounds like a great guy. :rose:

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              • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                Hi all, just lost my Dad to diabetes and renal failure, at age 67. :-( He and I were super close, and he lived with me in the last 3-ish years of his life. When I was very little, we made a "pact" that we would be "old buddies" from the get-go and we would have all kinds of stuff we'd tell each other and not my Mom, and we'd do "buddy running around" every Saturday. He passed just last week, on Cinco de Mayo, in fact. Anyway, I will miss him very much. Now, back to work! lol As if -- the new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow. Anyway, it's good to go. I've brought in some other ways to occupy myself :-) But, am missing Dad. Brian

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                :thumbsup: Feel for you!

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                • K Kevin Marois

                  I'm sorry to hear about your dad. My dad passed a few years ago. We were close and I miss him.

                  Brian C Hart wrote:

                  he new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow.

                  This sounds EXACTLY like my situation. Started at a new company as a contractor 2 weeks ago. Money's awesome but the gave me a laptop and, like yours, it's totally locked down. To install anything I have to go to IT and they have to come do it. The app I'm working on has some dependencies on other DLL's/COM objects etc. Toook 3 days of Admins coming to ym desk and installing to get it to work. They finally opened the USB port. The app has a hardware device that I need to work on the app. EVERY DAY the laptop "resets" various setting... Browser homepage is the company's page, which is REALLY annoying. Lot's of sites are blocked. Can't use any kind of files sharing apps. I still use the Quick Launch toolbar. I have to re-add it every day. The shortcuts are all there but the toolbar is removed every day. VERY annoying. I don't see the point in some of these restrictions. Seems WAY too restrictive. I'll get used to it I guess.

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                  Kevin Marois wrote:

                  I'll get used to it I guess.

                  I am in the same situation - I even wonder if we are not working for the same employer. Anyway, I found some workarounds for some of the restrictions, and I got used to the rest. The IT eventually gave me admin rights on my machine, because they got tired to see me showing up every day for something else, and because I have to access the sacred "program files" directory, and they did not find a solution to grant me access without granting it to everybody else in the same group.

                  Kevin Marois wrote:

                  Browser homepage is the company's page

                  Put it on "blank page" in the settings -> The Windows policy is able to force the homepage, but not to switch between "blank" or "use this link".

                  Kevin Marois wrote:

                  Lot's of sites are blocked. Can't use any kind of files sharing apps

                  Use the URL in Goggle translate : this allows to bypass the restriction, while giving you access to the sites (well, in a google translate frame, but still...).

                  Kevin Marois wrote:

                  I still use the Quick Launch toolbar. I have to re-add it every day

                  Also had something similar that at the beginning, I put a .reg file in the startup folder. Curiously, the registry change was made without requiring admin rights (but with the confirmation popup window...).

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                  • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                    Hi all, just lost my Dad to diabetes and renal failure, at age 67. :-( He and I were super close, and he lived with me in the last 3-ish years of his life. When I was very little, we made a "pact" that we would be "old buddies" from the get-go and we would have all kinds of stuff we'd tell each other and not my Mom, and we'd do "buddy running around" every Saturday. He passed just last week, on Cinco de Mayo, in fact. Anyway, I will miss him very much. Now, back to work! lol As if -- the new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow. Anyway, it's good to go. I've brought in some other ways to occupy myself :-) But, am missing Dad. Brian

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                    Sorry to hear about your dad.

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                    • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                      Hi all, just lost my Dad to diabetes and renal failure, at age 67. :-( He and I were super close, and he lived with me in the last 3-ish years of his life. When I was very little, we made a "pact" that we would be "old buddies" from the get-go and we would have all kinds of stuff we'd tell each other and not my Mom, and we'd do "buddy running around" every Saturday. He passed just last week, on Cinco de Mayo, in fact. Anyway, I will miss him very much. Now, back to work! lol As if -- the new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow. Anyway, it's good to go. I've brought in some other ways to occupy myself :-) But, am missing Dad. Brian

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                      Sorry to hear of you losing your dad.:rose: I lost mine when I was 17, just before we got to start doing interesting projects together - he was a master carpenter and had been slowly teaching me lots of useful stuff - which I hardly ever get to use these days. Be happy that you had the time you had.

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                      • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                        Hi all, just lost my Dad to diabetes and renal failure, at age 67. :-( He and I were super close, and he lived with me in the last 3-ish years of his life. When I was very little, we made a "pact" that we would be "old buddies" from the get-go and we would have all kinds of stuff we'd tell each other and not my Mom, and we'd do "buddy running around" every Saturday. He passed just last week, on Cinco de Mayo, in fact. Anyway, I will miss him very much. Now, back to work! lol As if -- the new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow. Anyway, it's good to go. I've brought in some other ways to occupy myself :-) But, am missing Dad. Brian

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                        Condolences on your dad :( :rose: Good story on the new work laptop :laugh:

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                        • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                          Hi all, just lost my Dad to diabetes and renal failure, at age 67. :-( He and I were super close, and he lived with me in the last 3-ish years of his life. When I was very little, we made a "pact" that we would be "old buddies" from the get-go and we would have all kinds of stuff we'd tell each other and not my Mom, and we'd do "buddy running around" every Saturday. He passed just last week, on Cinco de Mayo, in fact. Anyway, I will miss him very much. Now, back to work! lol As if -- the new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow. Anyway, it's good to go. I've brought in some other ways to occupy myself :-) But, am missing Dad. Brian

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                          :rose:

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                          • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                            Hi all, just lost my Dad to diabetes and renal failure, at age 67. :-( He and I were super close, and he lived with me in the last 3-ish years of his life. When I was very little, we made a "pact" that we would be "old buddies" from the get-go and we would have all kinds of stuff we'd tell each other and not my Mom, and we'd do "buddy running around" every Saturday. He passed just last week, on Cinco de Mayo, in fact. Anyway, I will miss him very much. Now, back to work! lol As if -- the new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow. Anyway, it's good to go. I've brought in some other ways to occupy myself :-) But, am missing Dad. Brian

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                            All I can say: :rose::rose::rose::rose:

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                            • OriginalGriffO OriginalGriff

                              I'm sorry to hear about your Dad - mine passed when I was a child, so I can say with some certainty that it does get better with time. And remember: they aren't truly gone while you remember them. :rose: So sit there, play solitaire and write memos in Word explaining that's all you can do, and think of the money stacking up while you do nothing useful. Then write an article for here, and they pay for it...:laugh:

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                              Sorry to hear. I lost my pops in 2012. Thanks for sharing. :thumbsup:

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                              • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                                Hi all, just lost my Dad to diabetes and renal failure, at age 67. :-( He and I were super close, and he lived with me in the last 3-ish years of his life. When I was very little, we made a "pact" that we would be "old buddies" from the get-go and we would have all kinds of stuff we'd tell each other and not my Mom, and we'd do "buddy running around" every Saturday. He passed just last week, on Cinco de Mayo, in fact. Anyway, I will miss him very much. Now, back to work! lol As if -- the new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow. Anyway, it's good to go. I've brought in some other ways to occupy myself :-) But, am missing Dad. Brian

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                                Sorry to hear. I lost my pops in 2012. Thanks for sharing. :thumbsup:

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                                • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                                  Hi all, just lost my Dad to diabetes and renal failure, at age 67. :-( He and I were super close, and he lived with me in the last 3-ish years of his life. When I was very little, we made a "pact" that we would be "old buddies" from the get-go and we would have all kinds of stuff we'd tell each other and not my Mom, and we'd do "buddy running around" every Saturday. He passed just last week, on Cinco de Mayo, in fact. Anyway, I will miss him very much. Now, back to work! lol As if -- the new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow. Anyway, it's good to go. I've brought in some other ways to occupy myself :-) But, am missing Dad. Brian

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                                  :rose:

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                                  • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                                    Hi all, just lost my Dad to diabetes and renal failure, at age 67. :-( He and I were super close, and he lived with me in the last 3-ish years of his life. When I was very little, we made a "pact" that we would be "old buddies" from the get-go and we would have all kinds of stuff we'd tell each other and not my Mom, and we'd do "buddy running around" every Saturday. He passed just last week, on Cinco de Mayo, in fact. Anyway, I will miss him very much. Now, back to work! lol As if -- the new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow. Anyway, it's good to go. I've brought in some other ways to occupy myself :-) But, am missing Dad. Brian

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                                    Sorry to hear that... truly... :rose:

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                                    • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                                      Hi all, just lost my Dad to diabetes and renal failure, at age 67. :-( He and I were super close, and he lived with me in the last 3-ish years of his life. When I was very little, we made a "pact" that we would be "old buddies" from the get-go and we would have all kinds of stuff we'd tell each other and not my Mom, and we'd do "buddy running around" every Saturday. He passed just last week, on Cinco de Mayo, in fact. Anyway, I will miss him very much. Now, back to work! lol As if -- the new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow. Anyway, it's good to go. I've brought in some other ways to occupy myself :-) But, am missing Dad. Brian

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                                      :rose:

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                                      • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                                        Hi all, just lost my Dad to diabetes and renal failure, at age 67. :-( He and I were super close, and he lived with me in the last 3-ish years of his life. When I was very little, we made a "pact" that we would be "old buddies" from the get-go and we would have all kinds of stuff we'd tell each other and not my Mom, and we'd do "buddy running around" every Saturday. He passed just last week, on Cinco de Mayo, in fact. Anyway, I will miss him very much. Now, back to work! lol As if -- the new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow. Anyway, it's good to go. I've brought in some other ways to occupy myself :-) But, am missing Dad. Brian

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                                        :rose:

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                                        • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                                          Hi all, just lost my Dad to diabetes and renal failure, at age 67. :-( He and I were super close, and he lived with me in the last 3-ish years of his life. When I was very little, we made a "pact" that we would be "old buddies" from the get-go and we would have all kinds of stuff we'd tell each other and not my Mom, and we'd do "buddy running around" every Saturday. He passed just last week, on Cinco de Mayo, in fact. Anyway, I will miss him very much. Now, back to work! lol As if -- the new company where I just started --- here, they bring me in at a huge hourly rate, and as a software dev consultant, and they then give me a laptop that is so locked down, permissions-wise, all i can do is use MS Office on it. I can't hardly browse the web (except for CP haha) and I can't access any of the network shares I need for my first task. My colleagues say, "Good luck" getting access anytime soon, because their paperwork process is so slow. Anyway, it's good to go. I've brought in some other ways to occupy myself :-) But, am missing Dad. Brian

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                                          I was just looking at hospice care facilities for my father. Opening up CP and am reminded we're how we're all slowly swept away. My mother passed this past February. My logical self can prepare and rationalize. Except for the helplessness of those of us that remain. There's no way to really grasp this. I try to dwell on the nice memories - odd little things that, in the scheme of things, count for a lot more than could be imagined. With time and luck, what we have left of those who've gone before us are only the good times.

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                                          "If you are searching for perfection in others, then you seek disappointment. If you are seek perfection in yourself, then you will find failure." - Balboos HaGadol Mar 2010

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