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  • L Lost User

    I saw [this one^](https://www.codeproject.com/Questions/1203337/I-have-an-attachment-stored-in-the-database-in-byt) today.. :)

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    "Provide the solution how to do this"

    I miss the good old days when people asking questions were more polite and would at least add "plzzzzz" at the end. What's happened to manners these days? Tut, tut.. :laugh:

    Now is it bad enough that you let somebody else kick your butts without you trying to do it to each other? Now if we're all talking about the same man, and I think we are... it appears he's got a rather growing collection of our bikes.

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    WiganLatics
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    Well perhaps we need to add another section to the QA submissions. We already have the "What have I tried" part. Perhaps we should add a "Which pleasantry would you like to add" section...

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      I've noticed the younger generation (millenials, especially from the 90s) are quite aggresive. Its a trend I guess.

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      Jeremy Falcon
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      I totally agree. It's because they never grew up. Babies are aggressive, it's just they are so tiny and small people think it's cute. But when people never grow up mentally after reaching "adulthood" psychically then it's not so cute any more. Overgrown children... sitting at home.

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        I totally agree. It's because they never grew up. Babies are aggressive, it's just they are so tiny and small people think it's cute. But when people never grow up mentally after reaching "adulthood" psychically then it's not so cute any more. Overgrown children... sitting at home.

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        Abhinav S
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        Jeremy Falcon wrote:

        sitting at home.

        Or...in an office.

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        • Z ZurdoDev

          If you question them I find most of the time they do not mean it literally. I think English as a second language is part of the problem. Most of the time I find they actually are just asking for some help, not asking anyone to do everything for them. At least that's been my experience when I ask them for more details and they answer.

          There are two kinds of people in the world: those who can extrapolate from incomplete data. There are only 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

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          Jeremy Falcon
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          Just to play devil's advocate. And I totally agree with your point btw, just playing advocate here. I did study a second language once for a few months: Japanese. Granted, Japan's culture is much more polite in general than most, but it was always made a point to teach the polite mannerisms and speech in class. Same thing goes with learning English as a kid. We learn to say "piss off" from other people moreso than class. So, I propose they must've learned English from some dude in the back of a van selling cigarettes if they can't figure out how to say stuff like please. :)

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            Well perhaps we need to add another section to the QA submissions. We already have the "What have I tried" part. Perhaps we should add a "Which pleasantry would you like to add" section...

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            Jeremy Falcon
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            Only problem is that people that don't read won't exactly read that either.

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            • A Abhinav S

              Jeremy Falcon wrote:

              sitting at home.

              Or...in an office.

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              Jeremy Falcon
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              Touché

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              • L Lost User

                I saw [this one^](https://www.codeproject.com/Questions/1203337/I-have-an-attachment-stored-in-the-database-in-byt) today.. :)

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                "Provide the solution how to do this"

                I miss the good old days when people asking questions were more polite and would at least add "plzzzzz" at the end. What's happened to manners these days? Tut, tut.. :laugh:

                Now is it bad enough that you let somebody else kick your butts without you trying to do it to each other? Now if we're all talking about the same man, and I think we are... it appears he's got a rather growing collection of our bikes.

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                Deflinek
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                I used to say "if you say pls because it's shorter than please then I say no because it's shorter then yes". But this? That's the whole new level... :~

                -- "My software never has bugs. It just develops random features."

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                • L Lost User

                  I saw [this one^](https://www.codeproject.com/Questions/1203337/I-have-an-attachment-stored-in-the-database-in-byt) today.. :)

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                  "Provide the solution how to do this"

                  I miss the good old days when people asking questions were more polite and would at least add "plzzzzz" at the end. What's happened to manners these days? Tut, tut.. :laugh:

                  Now is it bad enough that you let somebody else kick your butts without you trying to do it to each other? Now if we're all talking about the same man, and I think we are... it appears he's got a rather growing collection of our bikes.

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                  dandy72
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                  It doesn't sound rude to me, it sounds like what I used to see on assignments I got in high school.

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                  • J Jeremy Falcon

                    Just to play devil's advocate. And I totally agree with your point btw, just playing advocate here. I did study a second language once for a few months: Japanese. Granted, Japan's culture is much more polite in general than most, but it was always made a point to teach the polite mannerisms and speech in class. Same thing goes with learning English as a kid. We learn to say "piss off" from other people moreso than class. So, I propose they must've learned English from some dude in the back of a van selling cigarettes if they can't figure out how to say stuff like please. :)

                    Jeremy Falcon

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                    ZurdoDev
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                    Jeremy Falcon wrote:

                    they must've learned English from some dude in the back of a van selling cigarettes if they can't figure out how to say stuff like please.

                    Serious?! How many American born people actually say please? :laugh: :omg:

                    There are two kinds of people in the world: those who can extrapolate from incomplete data. There are only 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

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                    • Z ZurdoDev

                      Jeremy Falcon wrote:

                      they must've learned English from some dude in the back of a van selling cigarettes if they can't figure out how to say stuff like please.

                      Serious?! How many American born people actually say please? :laugh: :omg:

                      There are two kinds of people in the world: those who can extrapolate from incomplete data. There are only 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

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                      Jeremy Falcon
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                      People in the south do. ;)

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                      • J Jeremy Falcon

                        People in the south do. ;)

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                        ZurdoDev
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                        Outside of Atlanta, maybe. But Atlanta isn't really the south anymore. :-D

                        There are two kinds of people in the world: those who can extrapolate from incomplete data. There are only 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

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                        • L Lost User

                          I saw [this one^](https://www.codeproject.com/Questions/1203337/I-have-an-attachment-stored-in-the-database-in-byt) today.. :)

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                          "Provide the solution how to do this"

                          I miss the good old days when people asking questions were more polite and would at least add "plzzzzz" at the end. What's happened to manners these days? Tut, tut.. :laugh:

                          Now is it bad enough that you let somebody else kick your butts without you trying to do it to each other? Now if we're all talking about the same man, and I think we are... it appears he's got a rather growing collection of our bikes.

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                          Joe Woodbury
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                          I've long noticed that you can tell when new school semesters start by the type and volume of questions posted here and elsewhere.

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                          • L Lost User

                            I saw [this one^](https://www.codeproject.com/Questions/1203337/I-have-an-attachment-stored-in-the-database-in-byt) today.. :)

                            Quote:

                            "Provide the solution how to do this"

                            I miss the good old days when people asking questions were more polite and would at least add "plzzzzz" at the end. What's happened to manners these days? Tut, tut.. :laugh:

                            Now is it bad enough that you let somebody else kick your butts without you trying to do it to each other? Now if we're all talking about the same man, and I think we are... it appears he's got a rather growing collection of our bikes.

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                            RedDk
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                            Brent Jenkins wrote:

                            good old days

                            Ha! And you managed to tunnel out into the Lounge ... for what reason, now? In keeping with all my posts thus far today, I have to post this question. Why did you stop here? Keep tunneling on into the Soapbox. (This is actually a veiled attempt to reiterate my plea to stop responding to SPAM in QA by posting anything that is a reaction. Again, my reason is two-fold. One, there is no reward in acknowledging a spam. Two, the whole forum, as you say, is becoming a queue for thumby nonsense which every doofuss with a spam agenda takes as being real decorum, thus humanizing the mindset.)

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                            • J Jeremy Falcon

                              Just to play devil's advocate. And I totally agree with your point btw, just playing advocate here. I did study a second language once for a few months: Japanese. Granted, Japan's culture is much more polite in general than most, but it was always made a point to teach the polite mannerisms and speech in class. Same thing goes with learning English as a kid. We learn to say "piss off" from other people moreso than class. So, I propose they must've learned English from some dude in the back of a van selling cigarettes if they can't figure out how to say stuff like please. :)

                              Jeremy Falcon

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                              Jon McKee
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                              To play devil's advocate to your devil's advocate. That's party because in Japanese you conjugate verbs differently based on the level of respect or at least occupational hierarchy. In fact entire sentences can change. English isn't entirely like that. We generally just use qualifiers like "sir" or "ma'am."

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                              • L Lost User

                                I saw [this one^](https://www.codeproject.com/Questions/1203337/I-have-an-attachment-stored-in-the-database-in-byt) today.. :)

                                Quote:

                                "Provide the solution how to do this"

                                I miss the good old days when people asking questions were more polite and would at least add "plzzzzz" at the end. What's happened to manners these days? Tut, tut.. :laugh:

                                Now is it bad enough that you let somebody else kick your butts without you trying to do it to each other? Now if we're all talking about the same man, and I think we are... it appears he's got a rather growing collection of our bikes.

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                                abmv
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                                new people join n need n instant fix to things....

                                Scared beyond belief way down in the shadows
                                And the perverted fear of violence
                                Chokes the smile on every face
                                And common sense is ringing out the bell
                                This ain't no technological breakdown
                                Oh no, this is the road to hell

                                And all the roads jam up with credit
                                And there's nothing you can do
                                It's all just bits of paper flying away from you
                                Oh look out world, take a good look
                                What comes down here
                                You must learn this lesson fast and learn it well
                                This ain't no upwardly mobile freeway
                                Oh no, this is the road
                                Said this is the road
                                This is the road to hell

                                Caveat Emptor. "Progress doesn't come from early risers – progress is made by lazy men looking for easier ways to do things." Lazarus Long

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                                • Z ZurdoDev

                                  If you question them I find most of the time they do not mean it literally. I think English as a second language is part of the problem. Most of the time I find they actually are just asking for some help, not asking anyone to do everything for them. At least that's been my experience when I ask them for more details and they answer.

                                  There are two kinds of people in the world: those who can extrapolate from incomplete data. There are only 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

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                                  Lost User
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                                  I have to say that in the three "foreign" languages I learned - Welsh, French and Russian, the first things I was taught were to ask for basic things politely (ending with "please") and to respond with respect when people helped me (by saying "thank you").. Even if I was being rude to someone! :laugh:

                                  Now is it bad enough that you let somebody else kick your butts without you trying to do it to each other? Now if we're all talking about the same man, and I think we are... it appears he's got a rather growing collection of our bikes.

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