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  • C charlieg

    wife is binge watching the hurricane coming in, 88 yo father in law was doddering around, and somewhere in my recent past I thought I retired. Gin, I need gin.

    Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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    Choroid
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    This might help I listen to the song when things get to me The sight of all those people with NO CELL phones is inspiring And besides Andy Kaufman was dam funny R.E.M. - Man on The Moon (Wiesbaden, Germany 2003) - YouTube[^]

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    • C charlieg

      wife is binge watching the hurricane coming in, 88 yo father in law was doddering around, and somewhere in my recent past I thought I retired. Gin, I need gin.

      Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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      Mircea Neacsu
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      Print one of these The Serenity Prayer Version - 10 Free PDF Printables | Printablee[^]... or more ...or all of them. Hope it helps. Wish you the best as you seem to go through a really rough patch. :sigh:

      Mircea

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      • C charlieg

        wife is binge watching the hurricane coming in, 88 yo father in law was doddering around, and somewhere in my recent past I thought I retired. Gin, I need gin.

        Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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        grralph1
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        Weirdly I just poured myself a gin and soda and then logged into the lounge and was faced with your post. Cheers Charlie... I know exactly how you feel. The only good thing is that life goes on, regardless. Retirement is a lie. I did like the "Man on the Moon" link that Choroid sent you. It cheered me up. You Keep Well....

        "Rock journalism is people who can't write interviewing people who can't talk for people who can't read." Frank Zappa 1980

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        • C charlieg

          I actually saw that. I detect your sarcasm. Please tell me I'm right. ;) I'm listening to a youtube weather channel want a be drone on and on. He's actually quite good, but 24x7 coverage of a hurricane? ffs. for what it's worth, I live 40 miles north of Atlanta, and the hurricane (which will be a tropical storm by the time it reaches us) will be here early am. I'm getting up early to sit on my front porch and watch and enjoy. If I get a spin up tornado, waaa hoo. good grief, I am dark tonight.

          Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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          Steve Raw
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          Yes, the thing about communicating via text is that sarcasm doesn't come through. Even though I was being sarcastic, there is an element of legitimate concern that exists when I see a Wafflehouse closed. You probably already know this, but FEMA uses the number of closed Wafflehouses to partially gauge the severity of a natural disaster. I think it's referred to as the "Wafflehouse Index". It's been around for a long time and is still in use, so it must be a reliable indication to some extent.

          charlieg wrote:

          for what it's worth, I live 40 miles north of Atlanta, and the hurricane (which will be a tropical storm by the time it reaches us) will be here early am. I'm getting up early to sit on my front porch and watch and enjoy. If I get a spin up tornado, waaa hoo.

          I would love to see a tornado in real life. Chasing any kind of storm intrigues me, so I can understand why you'd enjoy watching it. I've never been in a hurricane, or a tropical storm. That's something I'd want to experience as long as I was several floors up inside a concrete building.

          charlieg wrote:

          good grief, I am dark tonight.

          You're having a rough time right now. I understand that. It's perfectly fine. Hang in there. :)

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          • C charlieg

            wife is binge watching the hurricane coming in, 88 yo father in law was doddering around, and somewhere in my recent past I thought I retired. Gin, I need gin.

            Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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            RickZeeland
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            I just watched the movie Jerry & Marge Go Large (2022) - IMDb[^], which is about a retired man, and can recommend it. Although IMDB states that it is "Based on a true story" I find that hard to believe, but nevertheless a very enjoyable movie without the usual shooting and computer generated graphics :-\

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            • C charlieg

              wife is binge watching the hurricane coming in, 88 yo father in law was doddering around, and somewhere in my recent past I thought I retired. Gin, I need gin.

              Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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              Mike Hankey
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              Helene came through close to us and we have one heck of a mess to clean up. Yard looks like a bomb went off. Fortunately we just had a Generac unit put in so we have power.

              A home without books is a body without soul. Marcus Tullius Cicero PartsBin an Electronics Part Organizer - Release Version 1.4.0 (Many new features) JaxCoder.com Latest Article: EventAggregator

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                I'm here: [^]

                Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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                I couldn't watch that film

                In a closed society where everybody's guilty, the only crime is getting caught. In a world of thieves, the only final sin is stupidity. - Hunter S Thompson - RIP

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                • C charlieg

                  wife is binge watching the hurricane coming in, 88 yo father in law was doddering around, and somewhere in my recent past I thought I retired. Gin, I need gin.

                  Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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                  theoldfool
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                  As I sat in my gloom, a voice came to me: "cheer up things could be worse" So, I cheered up. Things got worse. Successful retirement: wife does her thing, I do my thing. We give each other space.

                  >64 It’s weird being the same age as old people. Live every day like it is your last; one day, it will be.

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                    I couldn't watch that film

                    In a closed society where everybody's guilty, the only crime is getting caught. In a world of thieves, the only final sin is stupidity. - Hunter S Thompson - RIP

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                    Lost User
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                    I did watch it, but thought it was absolute rubbish. I still can't (be bothered to) figure out what it was all about.

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                    • S Steve Raw

                      Yes, the thing about communicating via text is that sarcasm doesn't come through. Even though I was being sarcastic, there is an element of legitimate concern that exists when I see a Wafflehouse closed. You probably already know this, but FEMA uses the number of closed Wafflehouses to partially gauge the severity of a natural disaster. I think it's referred to as the "Wafflehouse Index". It's been around for a long time and is still in use, so it must be a reliable indication to some extent.

                      charlieg wrote:

                      for what it's worth, I live 40 miles north of Atlanta, and the hurricane (which will be a tropical storm by the time it reaches us) will be here early am. I'm getting up early to sit on my front porch and watch and enjoy. If I get a spin up tornado, waaa hoo.

                      I would love to see a tornado in real life. Chasing any kind of storm intrigues me, so I can understand why you'd enjoy watching it. I've never been in a hurricane, or a tropical storm. That's something I'd want to experience as long as I was several floors up inside a concrete building.

                      charlieg wrote:

                      good grief, I am dark tonight.

                      You're having a rough time right now. I understand that. It's perfectly fine. Hang in there. :)

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                      The only proper storm I have ever been in was in about 1963, in the middle of the North Atlantic in late autumn. Moderately scary, as the only thing the ship could do was to point into the waves and hope we were not going backwards.

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                        I did watch it, but thought it was absolute rubbish. I still can't (be bothered to) figure out what it was all about.

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                        dandy72
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                        Richard MacCutchan wrote:

                        I did watch it, but thought it was absolute rubbish.

                        What's a good psychological thriller then? I mean, something I could stream tonight based on your recommendations...I don't know of many movies falling into the horror genre that do much better in terms of IMDB rating.

                        Richard MacCutchan wrote:

                        I still can't (be bothered to) figure out what it was all about.

                        Figuring out what it's all about is what make Kubrick movies what they are. That's part of the fun of them. Every time I've watched it, I felt entertained.

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                          Richard MacCutchan wrote:

                          I did watch it, but thought it was absolute rubbish.

                          What's a good psychological thriller then? I mean, something I could stream tonight based on your recommendations...I don't know of many movies falling into the horror genre that do much better in terms of IMDB rating.

                          Richard MacCutchan wrote:

                          I still can't (be bothered to) figure out what it was all about.

                          Figuring out what it's all about is what make Kubrick movies what they are. That's part of the fun of them. Every time I've watched it, I felt entertained.

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                          dandy72 wrote:

                          something I could stream tonight based on your recommendations

                          I have not made any recommendations, and I am not likely to. What appeals to me may not appeal to other people.

                          dandy72 wrote:

                          Every time I've watched it, I felt entertained.

                          Proves my point then.

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                          • T theoldfool

                            As I sat in my gloom, a voice came to me: "cheer up things could be worse" So, I cheered up. Things got worse. Successful retirement: wife does her thing, I do my thing. We give each other space.

                            >64 It’s weird being the same age as old people. Live every day like it is your last; one day, it will be.

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                            dandy72
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                            theoldfool wrote:

                            Successful retirement: wife does her thing, I do my thing. We give each other space.

                            Never married. I look forward to seeing how things will turn out for me. Does that mean I get all the space in the world?

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                              I have one more wedding to go through. Late October. I was so down in late June, I was contemplating hitting the road, Jack Reacher style. Sucked it up, then MIL broke her hip on 8.5 - my anniversary. There went my life. Looking real hard at the gin. Wife calls it angry juice. Somehow I need to learn some humility and accept my fate. I cannot even get my adult children who don't live at home anymore to remove their crap. Sure, I get it, it's an inconvenience for them. But when SWMBO defends them... sigh. Rapidly approaching the FI moment.

                              Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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                              Alister Morton
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                              I can sympathise. I broke my hip (well, neck of femur) in March and my partner had to put her life on hold while I was recuperating, which was quite slow at first. As the hackneyed old saying goes, nil illegitimum carborundum.

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                                theoldfool wrote:

                                Successful retirement: wife does her thing, I do my thing. We give each other space.

                                Never married. I look forward to seeing how things will turn out for me. Does that mean I get all the space in the world?

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                                theoldfool
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                                Quote:

                                Never married.

                                disqualified!!

                                >64 It’s weird being the same age as old people. Live every day like it is your last; one day, it will be.

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                                  I can sympathise. I broke my hip (well, neck of femur) in March and my partner had to put her life on hold while I was recuperating, which was quite slow at first. As the hackneyed old saying goes, nil illegitimum carborundum.

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                                  charlieg
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                                  Amen. Not on the broken hip, the "do not despair."

                                  Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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                                  • C Choroid

                                    This might help I listen to the song when things get to me The sight of all those people with NO CELL phones is inspiring And besides Andy Kaufman was dam funny R.E.M. - Man on The Moon (Wiesbaden, Germany 2003) - YouTube[^]

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                                    charlieg
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                                    listening to Guardians of the Galaxy mix at the moment....

                                    Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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                                    • S Steve Raw

                                      Yes, the thing about communicating via text is that sarcasm doesn't come through. Even though I was being sarcastic, there is an element of legitimate concern that exists when I see a Wafflehouse closed. You probably already know this, but FEMA uses the number of closed Wafflehouses to partially gauge the severity of a natural disaster. I think it's referred to as the "Wafflehouse Index". It's been around for a long time and is still in use, so it must be a reliable indication to some extent.

                                      charlieg wrote:

                                      for what it's worth, I live 40 miles north of Atlanta, and the hurricane (which will be a tropical storm by the time it reaches us) will be here early am. I'm getting up early to sit on my front porch and watch and enjoy. If I get a spin up tornado, waaa hoo.

                                      I would love to see a tornado in real life. Chasing any kind of storm intrigues me, so I can understand why you'd enjoy watching it. I've never been in a hurricane, or a tropical storm. That's something I'd want to experience as long as I was several floors up inside a concrete building.

                                      charlieg wrote:

                                      good grief, I am dark tonight.

                                      You're having a rough time right now. I understand that. It's perfectly fine. Hang in there. :)

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                                      charlieg
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                                      tornado chasing trip is on my bucket list. Mind you, I don't want to catch one... :) It's a better morning. I'm spinning up a new proposal, I am almost certainly coming out of retirement. It's just not going to work for me to putter around the house. I'm going insane.

                                      Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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                                        I just watched the movie Jerry & Marge Go Large (2022) - IMDb[^], which is about a retired man, and can recommend it. Although IMDB states that it is "Based on a true story" I find that hard to believe, but nevertheless a very enjoyable movie without the usual shooting and computer generated graphics :-\

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                                        charlieg
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                                        I'll check it out. I like the actor Cranston. He's been brilliant.

                                        Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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                                          dandy72 wrote:

                                          something I could stream tonight based on your recommendations

                                          I have not made any recommendations, and I am not likely to. What appeals to me may not appeal to other people.

                                          dandy72 wrote:

                                          Every time I've watched it, I felt entertained.

                                          Proves my point then.

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                                          Richard MacCutchan wrote:

                                          I have not made any recommendations, and I am not likely to.

                                          I knew from the get-go this is exactly the response I was gonna get.

                                          Richard MacCutchan wrote:

                                          What appeals to me may not appeal to other people.

                                          Exactly. So with that, I'll leave you to...well, you didn't mention.

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