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  • N Nish Nishant

    Tim Smith wrote: SWM looking for SWF Just curious, are inter-race marriages always an unintended end-effect of a non-romantic friendship? Because from the looks of things no white person seems to go for a colored person in the love-at-first-sight mode (and vice versa - means same for colored people). Seems to me that if at all white-black or white-asian couples come up, it came up when a really close friendship dissolved into love. Nish


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    I wrote 20 poems or sketches for some oil paintings today. Here is one: a black woman **** Brave independent we had a month for our friendship one day we both left.. "Barbados 1978" jhaga --------------------------------- Every generation laughs at the old fashions, but follows religiously the new. Henry David Thoreau, "Walden", 1854

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    • N Nish Nishant

      Tim Smith wrote: SWM looking for SWF Just curious, are inter-race marriages always an unintended end-effect of a non-romantic friendship? Because from the looks of things no white person seems to go for a colored person in the love-at-first-sight mode (and vice versa - means same for colored people). Seems to me that if at all white-black or white-asian couples come up, it came up when a really close friendship dissolved into love. Nish


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      Jim Crafton
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      No way dude! While I am currently "off the market" (sorry ladies :) ), I have seen countless "colored" girls who I thought absolutely gorgeous and would have happily gone out with (and ultimately marrying if thats the way the relationship worked out). ¡El diablo está en mis pantalones! ¡Mire, mire! Real Mentats use only 100% pure, unfooled around with Sapho Juice(tm)! SELECT * FROM User WHERE Clue > 0 0 rows returned

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        Could also be construed as "Stupid Wanker" .... :) ¡El diablo está en mis pantalones! ¡Mire, mire! Real Mentats use only 100% pure, unfooled around with Sapho Juice(tm)! SELECT * FROM User WHERE Clue > 0 0 rows returned

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        • N Nish Nishant

          Tim Smith wrote: SWM looking for SWF Just curious, are inter-race marriages always an unintended end-effect of a non-romantic friendship? Because from the looks of things no white person seems to go for a colored person in the love-at-first-sight mode (and vice versa - means same for colored people). Seems to me that if at all white-black or white-asian couples come up, it came up when a really close friendship dissolved into love. Nish


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          Miszou
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          I dated an Indian girl for over a year when I was at school in England. It didn't last though - she had an arranged marriage back in India and her Dad didn't like me at all. In fact, we kept the whole thing a secret from him. We weren't really friends before we started dating - we were just two kids who didn't really think about the race thing. (Until her dad made such a big issue out of it :mad: )

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          • N Nish Nishant

            Tim Smith wrote: SWM looking for SWF Just curious, are inter-race marriages always an unintended end-effect of a non-romantic friendship? Because from the looks of things no white person seems to go for a colored person in the love-at-first-sight mode (and vice versa - means same for colored people). Seems to me that if at all white-black or white-asian couples come up, it came up when a really close friendship dissolved into love. Nish


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            Navin
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            Not true at all for me - having limited choices as it is, why should I narrow down the selection pool any further? :-D However your point is legitimate - a lot of people still have problems with interracial relations... especially between whites and blacks. If your nose runs and your feet smell, then you're built upside down.

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            • T Tim Smith

              SWM looking for SWF mid thirties with a high tolerance for geeks. Tim Smith I'm going to patent thought. I have yet to see any prior art.

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              Steven Hicks n 1
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              Tim Smith wrote: looking for SWF mid thirties Thats one old flash animation. -Steven Hicks

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                Tim Smith wrote: looking for SWF mid thirties Thats one old flash animation. -Steven Hicks

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                Tim Smith
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                Don't say flash animation to a man in a trench coat. Tim Smith I'm going to patent thought. I have yet to see any prior art.

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                • N Nish Nishant

                  Tim Smith wrote: SWM looking for SWF Just curious, are inter-race marriages always an unintended end-effect of a non-romantic friendship? Because from the looks of things no white person seems to go for a colored person in the love-at-first-sight mode (and vice versa - means same for colored people). Seems to me that if at all white-black or white-asian couples come up, it came up when a really close friendship dissolved into love. Nish


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                  Nope. Women from other races/nationalities/suberbs are HOT! (except for English women of course)

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                  • T Tim Smith

                    Don't say flash animation to a man in a trench coat. Tim Smith I'm going to patent thought. I have yet to see any prior art.

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                    Steven Hicks n 1
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                    :laugh: i hope you don't say that from experience :~ -Steven Hicks

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                    • N Nish Nishant

                      l a u r e n wrote: not true nish i speak from personal experience here Ah, nice to hear that. Its a basic requirement for world unification that after abput 40-50 generations just about everyone should be of mongrel blood :) Nish


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                      Nishant S wrote: Its a basic requirement for world unification that after abput 40-50 generations just about everyone should be of mongrel blood Well, a generation is about 30 years. We haven't gotten very far in 1200-1500 years. For some reason, I don't think we will get much further in the next 1500 years either. Marc Latest AAL Article My blog Join my forum!

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                        SWM looking for SWF mid thirties with a high tolerance for geeks. Tim Smith I'm going to patent thought. I have yet to see any prior art.

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                        Codin Carlos
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                        from a Natural History / Selection point of view, mates of different races should probably be the hottest / most attractive / schweet! there are - since their genetic predispositions, strengths, and natural resilience are the most different from yours then your children will have the MOST benefit from both gene trees. They will be the smartest and healtiest they possibly could be. GO FOR IT! ;-)

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                        • N Nish Nishant

                          Tim Smith wrote: SWM looking for SWF Just curious, are inter-race marriages always an unintended end-effect of a non-romantic friendship? Because from the looks of things no white person seems to go for a colored person in the love-at-first-sight mode (and vice versa - means same for colored people). Seems to me that if at all white-black or white-asian couples come up, it came up when a really close friendship dissolved into love. Nish


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                          Marc Clifton
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                          Nishant S wrote: Seems to me that if at all white-black or white-asian couples come up, it came up when a really close friendship dissolved into love. I find "non-WASP" (White-Anglo-Saxon-Protestant) women considerably more attractive than most WASP women, and have had many "love-at-first-sight" experiences. Possibly, though, it's a cultural-locale thing. Let me give you an example. There's a very attractive woman at this Indian restaurant that frequent. Besides her natural beauty, she's very attractive because she's intelligent, witty, articulate, and has a vibrant "aura" about her. Besides her physical attractiveness, I think anyone that has the ability to move from her native land to my country, find a job, put herself through college, and work hard at fullfulling her career dreams (which is NOT being a waitress at an Indian restaurant, BTW, that's just a job she has over the summer) is someone that IS easy to fall in love with. What I'm trying to say is, "non-white" women in a predominantly white society are attractive because they are different and often have special qualities. I think the same can be said of white women in a non-white society, and can be generalized to anyone that "sticks out"--man or woman. Does that make sense? Marc Latest AAL Article My blog Join my forum!

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                          • N Nish Nishant

                            Tim Smith wrote: SWM looking for SWF Just curious, are inter-race marriages always an unintended end-effect of a non-romantic friendship? Because from the looks of things no white person seems to go for a colored person in the love-at-first-sight mode (and vice versa - means same for colored people). Seems to me that if at all white-black or white-asian couples come up, it came up when a really close friendship dissolved into love. Nish


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                            peterchen
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                            I don't know why you were voted down (and I guess I'll be too, but..) Guess cultural differences play a major part here. The mating ritual is complicated enough that even the small differences between "caucasians" can be a problem. Another issue is that in many places where colors mix, there's an clear social hierarchy that correlates with color. It's easy to say not to care what others say, but when you can mail-order a russian bride, people will assume you did for getting no other and she did for getting to germany - this does put pressure on a relationship. Third, people flock together in their groups. Culture, again.


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                              Nishant S wrote: Seems to me that if at all white-black or white-asian couples come up, it came up when a really close friendship dissolved into love. I find "non-WASP" (White-Anglo-Saxon-Protestant) women considerably more attractive than most WASP women, and have had many "love-at-first-sight" experiences. Possibly, though, it's a cultural-locale thing. Let me give you an example. There's a very attractive woman at this Indian restaurant that frequent. Besides her natural beauty, she's very attractive because she's intelligent, witty, articulate, and has a vibrant "aura" about her. Besides her physical attractiveness, I think anyone that has the ability to move from her native land to my country, find a job, put herself through college, and work hard at fullfulling her career dreams (which is NOT being a waitress at an Indian restaurant, BTW, that's just a job she has over the summer) is someone that IS easy to fall in love with. What I'm trying to say is, "non-white" women in a predominantly white society are attractive because they are different and often have special qualities. I think the same can be said of white women in a non-white society, and can be generalized to anyone that "sticks out"--man or woman. Does that make sense? Marc Latest AAL Article My blog Join my forum!

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                              Codin Carlos
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                              Well said. Summed up what I was thinking, eh!

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                                Nishant S wrote: Seems to me that if at all white-black or white-asian couples come up, it came up when a really close friendship dissolved into love. I find "non-WASP" (White-Anglo-Saxon-Protestant) women considerably more attractive than most WASP women, and have had many "love-at-first-sight" experiences. Possibly, though, it's a cultural-locale thing. Let me give you an example. There's a very attractive woman at this Indian restaurant that frequent. Besides her natural beauty, she's very attractive because she's intelligent, witty, articulate, and has a vibrant "aura" about her. Besides her physical attractiveness, I think anyone that has the ability to move from her native land to my country, find a job, put herself through college, and work hard at fullfulling her career dreams (which is NOT being a waitress at an Indian restaurant, BTW, that's just a job she has over the summer) is someone that IS easy to fall in love with. What I'm trying to say is, "non-white" women in a predominantly white society are attractive because they are different and often have special qualities. I think the same can be said of white women in a non-white society, and can be generalized to anyone that "sticks out"--man or woman. Does that make sense? Marc Latest AAL Article My blog Join my forum!

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                                I was trying to come u p with this, but from the other side. Typically we "stick to our own" because of what is comfortable and is easier. It's not a rule, it's just a natural trait to become involved with a person you have a great deal in common with. This typically means same religion, or culture, or financial background, or whatever else you can think of. Obviously, there are countless cases where this doesn't apply. There are also plenty of people who date people from other backgrounds, who then end out marrying someone closer to their own upbringing.

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                                  l a u r e n wrote: not true nish i speak from personal experience here Ah, nice to hear that. Its a basic requirement for world unification that after abput 40-50 generations just about everyone should be of mongrel blood :) Nish


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                                  Nishant S wrote: Its a basic requirement for world unification that after abput 40-50 generations just about everyone should be of mongrel blood Amazingly the Chinese, Japanese and white descendants of missionary's managed to intergrate remarkably quickly in Hawaii. I wish SA would hurry up with that sort of intergration, so we could all just be South Africans. Considering it's only eyesight, one of 5 senses, which alerts us to the difference and causes so many people so much distress, it's really very sad. I'm sure there are people all over the world who feel the same way about their own nationalities. As for the mongrel blood - diversity is our greatest strength. I see this at my current job, where I'm a white woman on a team with a Nigerian (the boss) and a guy from Bangladesh. We all have our own ways of tackling the same problem, which is very beneficial. From a purely biological point of view, look at the problems pedigree dogs have, as opposed to the strength mongrel dogs have. Yep, I believe intergration of the races would be very beneficial.


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                                    Don't say flash animation to a man in a trench coat. Tim Smith I'm going to patent thought. I have yet to see any prior art.

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                                    Tim Smith wrote: Don't say flash animation to a man in a trench coat. :eek: Speaking from experience:confused::-D Later,
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                                      SWM looking for SWF mid thirties with a high tolerance for geeks. Tim Smith I'm going to patent thought. I have yet to see any prior art.

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                                      Thinking preferences are a bigger concern to me, rather than skin color.:rolleyes: SINTPM looking for SINTxF ;P age didn't stop me either in my first marriage. 13 years difference. It didn't last because of her difference in thinking preferences(and she had mental issues didn't help either). It makes communication harder than it needs to be on big issues in a long term relationship. Later,
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                                        Short, wide. "Some people are like Slinkies... not really good for anything,
                                        but you still can't help but smile when you see one
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                                        • N Nish Nishant

                                          Tim Smith wrote: SWM looking for SWF Just curious, are inter-race marriages always an unintended end-effect of a non-romantic friendship? Because from the looks of things no white person seems to go for a colored person in the love-at-first-sight mode (and vice versa - means same for colored people). Seems to me that if at all white-black or white-asian couples come up, it came up when a really close friendship dissolved into love. Nish


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                                          Hmmm, it might be that way in your small part of the world, but in the more civilized parts it's absolute not true! - Anders Money talks, but all mine ever says is "Goodbye!" http://SourceLocker.net[^] SourceControl and DefectTracker Project. nsms@spyf.dk <- Spam Collecting ;)

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