Vacation + Kids...
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I am seeking input from fellow cpians who are married with children:). Most years I take at least one nice vacation with my wife. We've been to Hawaii, Yellowstone, Italy, Caribean cruise, etc. This year, we have not been able to take such a vacation. We had planned to take a trip to London in the summer but I blew my knee out and we had to cancel. Anyway, in the past my mother kept the kids while my wife and I went away. (I have 3 kids, all girls ages 4, 3 and 9 months.) My mother is now working again and cannot keep the kids except during the summer, so that leaves us trying to decide what type of vacation to take with the kids. I am in desperate need of a vaction. So far in the past 12 months, I have been out of work for 10 days. 5 days when I blew my knee out and 5 days when my daughter was born. So, what do other people with kids do for a nice vacation? I think it will be easier when the kids are older, but I sure could use a break now. Thanks in advance. Matt Gullett
I have two kids close in age to yours .. 4 & 5 1/2 years old. They have always been good travelers ... airplanes, car trips, didnt matter ... although for car trips it helps to have one of those video setups. Most of our vacations have been at beach resort type places which is great because the kids are perfectly happy playing in the sand everyday and then we go out for a really nice dinner. Some advice I have are .. 1. Keep it simple, dont plan a lot of activities ... kids make their own fun. 2. Dont pack a lot of toys and entertainment ... instead purchase it all on-site. There are several reasons for this. First, it is less to pack and with 3 kids you are carrying a lot just with the clothes and baby stuff. Second, the kids always love getting presents and new toys .. the cost is irrelevant to them .. a new $2 toy is more fun than an old $100 toy. Of course you may have to bring a few "essential toys" ... my daughter doesnt go anywhere without her stuffed llama :-). 3. (Kids or not) I always tell people that instead of carrying stuff back from vacation they should look into shipping it back by UPS or Postal Service. It's nice going through the airport with only the kids and on carry-on for the expensive stuff.
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I am seeking input from fellow cpians who are married with children:). Most years I take at least one nice vacation with my wife. We've been to Hawaii, Yellowstone, Italy, Caribean cruise, etc. This year, we have not been able to take such a vacation. We had planned to take a trip to London in the summer but I blew my knee out and we had to cancel. Anyway, in the past my mother kept the kids while my wife and I went away. (I have 3 kids, all girls ages 4, 3 and 9 months.) My mother is now working again and cannot keep the kids except during the summer, so that leaves us trying to decide what type of vacation to take with the kids. I am in desperate need of a vaction. So far in the past 12 months, I have been out of work for 10 days. 5 days when I blew my knee out and 5 days when my daughter was born. So, what do other people with kids do for a nice vacation? I think it will be easier when the kids are older, but I sure could use a break now. Thanks in advance. Matt Gullett
My wife and I just had our fifth child two weeks ago. We decided after numbers three and four (twins), two yeas ago, that a ‘relaxing vacation’ would have to wait for about 18 years.:sigh: Now we simply concentrate on vacations and weekend outings that will give our children good memories of their childhood. I have my parents to thank for many of those good memories including several trips to Yellowstone.:) We were very lucky to live only a few hundred miles away from Yellowstone. My parents never had a lot of money so our vacations/trips were always simple and close to home. Nothing is better than the memories of a Saturday fishing trip or a weekend camp out under the stars. Now I live on the other side of the good old USA (The east coast) and there is a lot more to with my children. My kids love to visit civil war sites, boating on the Chesapeake Bay, the science center in Baltimore and pretty much the whole Baltimore Inner Harbor, the zoo, the Smithsonian Museum and, of course camping and fishing and probably another hundred things that I can't think of right now... Now if your looking for a good vacation for both young and old. You can never go wrong with Disney World. I took my family and parents there last fall and my parents (in their late 60’s) loved it just as much (maybe even more:rolleyes:) than the kids.
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I am seeking input from fellow cpians who are married with children:). Most years I take at least one nice vacation with my wife. We've been to Hawaii, Yellowstone, Italy, Caribean cruise, etc. This year, we have not been able to take such a vacation. We had planned to take a trip to London in the summer but I blew my knee out and we had to cancel. Anyway, in the past my mother kept the kids while my wife and I went away. (I have 3 kids, all girls ages 4, 3 and 9 months.) My mother is now working again and cannot keep the kids except during the summer, so that leaves us trying to decide what type of vacation to take with the kids. I am in desperate need of a vaction. So far in the past 12 months, I have been out of work for 10 days. 5 days when I blew my knee out and 5 days when my daughter was born. So, what do other people with kids do for a nice vacation? I think it will be easier when the kids are older, but I sure could use a break now. Thanks in advance. Matt Gullett
Just get in the car and drive really long distances. That's a barrel of laughs.:) Anyone who thinks he has a better idea of what's good for people than people do is a swine. - P.J. O'Rourke
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Just get in the car and drive really long distances. That's a barrel of laughs.:) Anyone who thinks he has a better idea of what's good for people than people do is a swine. - P.J. O'Rourke
Matt Gullett wrote: (I have 3 kids, all girls ages 4, 3 and 9 months.) I don't know what just happend...my computer took over and posted before I was finished.:wtf: Anyway...I just wanted to say that a LONG drive:eek: might not be a whole lot of fun for anybody involved.:((
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Matt Gullett wrote: (I have 3 kids, all girls ages 4, 3 and 9 months.) I don't know what just happend...my computer took over and posted before I was finished.:wtf: Anyway...I just wanted to say that a LONG drive:eek: might not be a whole lot of fun for anybody involved.:((
Sorry, I was being sarcastic. This last spring and summer my wife and I spent way too many hours on long drives with four kids, 7 to 15. Anyone who thinks he has a better idea of what's good for people than people do is a swine. - P.J. O'Rourke
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Sorry, I was being sarcastic. This last spring and summer my wife and I spent way too many hours on long drives with four kids, 7 to 15. Anyone who thinks he has a better idea of what's good for people than people do is a swine. - P.J. O'Rourke
Joe Woodbury wrote: I was being sarcastic I caught the sarcasm...;) I was actually attempting to add sarcasm to your sarcasm until the computer demons took over and ruined my momentum.:rolleyes:
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My wife and I just had our fifth child two weeks ago. We decided after numbers three and four (twins), two yeas ago, that a ‘relaxing vacation’ would have to wait for about 18 years.:sigh: Now we simply concentrate on vacations and weekend outings that will give our children good memories of their childhood. I have my parents to thank for many of those good memories including several trips to Yellowstone.:) We were very lucky to live only a few hundred miles away from Yellowstone. My parents never had a lot of money so our vacations/trips were always simple and close to home. Nothing is better than the memories of a Saturday fishing trip or a weekend camp out under the stars. Now I live on the other side of the good old USA (The east coast) and there is a lot more to with my children. My kids love to visit civil war sites, boating on the Chesapeake Bay, the science center in Baltimore and pretty much the whole Baltimore Inner Harbor, the zoo, the Smithsonian Museum and, of course camping and fishing and probably another hundred things that I can't think of right now... Now if your looking for a good vacation for both young and old. You can never go wrong with Disney World. I took my family and parents there last fall and my parents (in their late 60’s) loved it just as much (maybe even more:rolleyes:) than the kids.
Brad Fackrell wrote: My wife and I just had our fifth child two weeks ago Catholic, right ? :P Christian I have drunk the cool-aid and found it wan and bitter. - Chris Maunder
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I am seeking input from fellow cpians who are married with children:). Most years I take at least one nice vacation with my wife. We've been to Hawaii, Yellowstone, Italy, Caribean cruise, etc. This year, we have not been able to take such a vacation. We had planned to take a trip to London in the summer but I blew my knee out and we had to cancel. Anyway, in the past my mother kept the kids while my wife and I went away. (I have 3 kids, all girls ages 4, 3 and 9 months.) My mother is now working again and cannot keep the kids except during the summer, so that leaves us trying to decide what type of vacation to take with the kids. I am in desperate need of a vaction. So far in the past 12 months, I have been out of work for 10 days. 5 days when I blew my knee out and 5 days when my daughter was born. So, what do other people with kids do for a nice vacation? I think it will be easier when the kids are older, but I sure could use a break now. Thanks in advance. Matt Gullett
What your kids will most appreciate is not seeing some fancy place, but to spend time with you. I have two ( working on the third, having fun but not success so far ), and we only go on holiday every second or third year, but I couldn't imagine doing something without them. We tend to just take the boat to the mainland, get in our car and drive around to places that are not too far apart, spend time with the kids, go to fun parks, you name it. The kids make a holiday, and they will be happy where-ever you go, they will just be glad to be with you all day. Christian I have drunk the cool-aid and found it wan and bitter. - Chris Maunder
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Brad Fackrell wrote: My wife and I just had our fifth child two weeks ago Catholic, right ? :P Christian I have drunk the cool-aid and found it wan and bitter. - Chris Maunder
Christian Graus wrote: Catholic, right ? No, we just love our kids:-D Note: Always check the expiration date on condoms before use.:~
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Christian Graus wrote: Catholic, right ? No, we just love our kids:-D Note: Always check the expiration date on condoms before use.:~
Brad Fackrell wrote: No, we just love our kids Yeah, I know what you mean. Donna wants four kids, and while I love them to death, it's taken a year or two to convince me that we can afford to have a third. Brad Fackrell wrote: Always check the expiration date on condoms before use ROTFL. I can do one better. Whenever we use condoms, I usually end up yelling something like 'I can't feel a damn thing', ripping the thing off and throwing it across the room. I can be out and back in within seconds, I've done that so many times. Christian I have drunk the cool-aid and found it wan and bitter. - Chris Maunder
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Brad Fackrell wrote: No, we just love our kids Yeah, I know what you mean. Donna wants four kids, and while I love them to death, it's taken a year or two to convince me that we can afford to have a third. Brad Fackrell wrote: Always check the expiration date on condoms before use ROTFL. I can do one better. Whenever we use condoms, I usually end up yelling something like 'I can't feel a damn thing', ripping the thing off and throwing it across the room. I can be out and back in within seconds, I've done that so many times. Christian I have drunk the cool-aid and found it wan and bitter. - Chris Maunder
Christian Graus wrote: ripping the thing off and throwing it across the room ...be careful now. You’ve already almost caught up to me.:cool:
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Christian Graus wrote: ripping the thing off and throwing it across the room ...be careful now. You’ve already almost caught up to me.:cool:
Brad Fackrell wrote: You’ve already almost caught up to me. Well, we are trying for a third. The odd thing is that before we decided we were trying we used no contraception, but once we decided we were trying, Donna insisted I buy the condoms as she wants to lose weight first. An abortion is not an option for us, so I dunno what was happening beforehand. Christian I have drunk the cool-aid and found it wan and bitter. - Chris Maunder
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Brad Fackrell wrote: You’ve already almost caught up to me. Well, we are trying for a third. The odd thing is that before we decided we were trying we used no contraception, but once we decided we were trying, Donna insisted I buy the condoms as she wants to lose weight first. An abortion is not an option for us, so I dunno what was happening beforehand. Christian I have drunk the cool-aid and found it wan and bitter. - Chris Maunder
Christian Graus wrote: we are trying for a third Well, just keep up the hard:rolleyes: work. I'm sure you will get that third one soon enough.:-D ...and then you will be pulling closer to me. But who knows, mybe I'll have another by then:wtf: ...That reminds me, I need to check some expiration dates...