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  • B Bassam Abdul Baki

    Perhaps, but like I said, I've heard more good than bad about circumsision. Is this any worse than getting your baby girl's ears pierced just because her mother likes putting earings on her? Sorry ladies, not trying to say all of you are like that. However, traditionally, it's been said that circumsizing a kid is better than not. Maybe there is very little chance of getting cancer or any disease these days with it, but it hasn't proven to have any side effects, especially since every male I know had one shortly after birth and none have ever complained about it. "For that one fraction of a second, you were open to options you would never have considered. That is the exploration that awaits you. Not mapping stars and studying nebula, but charting the unknown possibilities of existence." - Q (Star Trek: The Next Generation) ^ Blog

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    Colin Angus Mackay
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    Bassam Abdul-Baki wrote: traditionally, it's been said that circumsizing a kid is better than not. I've never heard that. It must be a cultural thing rather than based in fact.


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    • A aplope

      We had our first son circumcised and plan to have our second son (due in about a month) circumcised. We had no real opinion on the matter with our first until our birth class instructor told us about men going through basic training having to take up to a week to recover from circumcision. Seems all the training and such led to not being able to keep the organ clean enough and getting lots of infections. So the men would then elect to have the circumcision which from what I have gathered is more traumatic later in life than it is for an infant. Plus, you can't really count on little boys having great hygenic practices. Also knew a women married to an uncircumcised man. She said she had lots of yeast infections and female issues because of her husband. :suss: Knowing what I know of this woman now, this information may be circumspect, but still might be true. Something to consider. Given the right pain medications and such, I don't believe there is any harm to the boy to have him circumcised. As for reducing sexual performance, interest, etc., I find it hard to believe from what I observe in society and my own marital relations. Good luck! Pegmeister

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      aplope wrote: Also knew a women married to an uncircumcised man. She said she had lots of yeast infections and female issues because of her husband. Sounds like a hygene problem. Like David said above - it takes 20 seconds in the shower per day to solve the problem.


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        What a wierd bunch of responses you got! Out of all the male friends I have ever had in my entire life as far as I know only one was un-circumcised and he has zero opinions on the matter. Where are all these irate people coming from, what kind of personal failings are they trying to blame on such an innocuous procedure. Here (in Canada, well in B.C. anyway) it's generally accepted that all children will be circumcised. I am and am quite happy with the results. I think the wierd rhetoric you are hearing is completely out to lunch. Some are claiming it's maiming or worse, hogwash! What a bunch of ridiculous statements. If you fail to do it you are in effect putting off what will be quick short term pain now for what he will (assuming he's enlightened) have to go through later as an adult. We have no need for our appendix either, is it maimimg a person to remove it? Speaking as a circumcised person, the thought of smegma or whatever is just disgusting, what kind of cruel parent would sentence their child to that for life? Get him circumcised, ask any doctor! The responses you got here for the most part are not based on logic, they are based on emotion only. On another topic entirely, what you really do have to watch out for is the breast feeding nazis and marketing leeches that will be all over you shortly after birth. Decide in advance about the breast feeding thing, because if your hospital is anything like our local ones you will get some crazy eyed ladies bugging the hell out of you to commit to breast feeding. They put up signs all over the maternity ward (no, the hospital and it's staff do *not* put up most of the signs you see in a hospital, it's people with axes to grind). Secondarily you will be pressured by smily marketers disguised as something else trying to get you to sign up for a lot of great free stuff for you and your baby. If you really press hard enough and for long enough you will eventually discover that what they are in effect doing is attempting to sign up your baby for a lifetime of marketing. To hard core marketers there is nothing more precious than a newborn. They firmly believe that what a child is raised on will affect them for life so they are incredibly interested in marketing directly to your baby via the mother. When weird strangers start popping in and asking how your baby is etc etc kick them the hell out immediately!!!!

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        John Cardinal wrote: We have no need for our appendix either, is it maimimg a person to remove it? I have had my appendix removed. But only because I needed to have it removed. I would still have my appendix if it wasn't necessary to remove it. I don't see the point of removing parts of the body unless it is necessary.


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        • W wrykyn

          Paul Watson wrote: I'm no doctor Neither am I :) I just read some stuff about it since I promised my sister I would look into it about a year ago when she had her son. That's what the websites said. I might be slightly mistaken about the time frame though. "One of the Georges," said Psmith, "I forget which, once said that a certain number of hours' sleep a day--I cannot recall for the moment how many--made a man something, which for the time being has slipped my memory."

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          From what I've read, you are actually correct. Don't ask me why though.


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          • A aplope

            We had our first son circumcised and plan to have our second son (due in about a month) circumcised. We had no real opinion on the matter with our first until our birth class instructor told us about men going through basic training having to take up to a week to recover from circumcision. Seems all the training and such led to not being able to keep the organ clean enough and getting lots of infections. So the men would then elect to have the circumcision which from what I have gathered is more traumatic later in life than it is for an infant. Plus, you can't really count on little boys having great hygenic practices. Also knew a women married to an uncircumcised man. She said she had lots of yeast infections and female issues because of her husband. :suss: Knowing what I know of this woman now, this information may be circumspect, but still might be true. Something to consider. Given the right pain medications and such, I don't believe there is any harm to the boy to have him circumcised. As for reducing sexual performance, interest, etc., I find it hard to believe from what I observe in society and my own marital relations. Good luck! Pegmeister

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            Thanks for the reply aplope - it's interesting especially to talk to other parents having to make the same decisions. However, I don't think you should include the experience of your married woman friend when weighing it up. I say this as a happy, infection free woman married to an uncircumcised man :).


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            • A Anna Jayne Metcalfe

              Edbert P. wrote: I believe you meant shouldn't, Anna. Oops! It should have read "no infant...", but a broken <b> tag stopped it appearing. Fixed now. :-O Edbert P. wrote: I'm glad my parents didn't though, because I've never had problems with being uncircumcised. Given what happened to me in 2003, I'd have been pretty annoyed if I'd have been circumcised at birth! ; Anna :rose: Riverblade Ltd - Software Consultancy Services Anna's Place | Tears and Laughter "Be yourself - not what others think you should be" - Marcia Graesch "Anna's just a sexy-looking lesbian tart" - A friend, trying to wind me up. It didn't work.

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              Anna-Jayne Metcalfe wrote: Given what happened to me in 2003, I'd have been pretty annoyed if I'd have been circumcised at birth! Yeah, that's extreme circumcision :-D "After all it's just text at the end of the day. - Colin Davies "For example, when a VB programmer comes to my house, they may say 'does your pool need cleaning, sir ?' " - Christian Graus

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              • J Jorgen Sigvardsson

                Tomaž Štih wrote: I propose you add reducing oral sexual pleasure to your argument list against circumcision. How would you know the difference if you were circumcised as a child? Unless of course... -- My name in Katakana is ヨルゲン. My name in German is Jörgen. My name in Mandarin/Kanji is 乔尔根 西格瓦德森. I blog too now[^]

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                When a girl does fellatio in particular way there is certain feeling of pleasure that I can't imagine without the part that provides it. :rolleyes: Tomaž

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                • C Colin Angus Mackay

                  Shog9 wrote: he was also big into Neuro-Linguistic Programming as a technique to pick up women You have to be kidding me. :laugh:


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                  Oh no, he was a very big fan of NLP. I recall him giving lectures on its correct application and being a member of some dedicated web sites. :rolleyes:


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                  • C Colin Angus Mackay

                    Bassam Abdul-Baki wrote: traditionally, it's been said that circumsizing a kid is better than not. I've never heard that. It must be a cultural thing rather than based in fact.


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                    Bassam Abdul Baki
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                    As far as I know, it's still popular among doctors in the U.S. and other modern nations, and most cultures support it too, so it can't be just a cultural thing. I have yet to speak to a doctor who's said don't do it. You have nothing to gain from it. Even the pamphlets that we got from the hospital while my wife was pregnant recommended circumcision. They didn't say it would save his life, but the pros (hygeine, chances of cancer and all) were more than the cons. "For that one fraction of a second, you were open to options you would never have considered. That is the exploration that awaits you. Not mapping stars and studying nebula, but charting the unknown possibilities of existence." - Q (Star Trek: The Next Generation) ^ Blog

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                    • B Bassam Abdul Baki

                      As far as I know, it's still popular among doctors in the U.S. and other modern nations, and most cultures support it too, so it can't be just a cultural thing. I have yet to speak to a doctor who's said don't do it. You have nothing to gain from it. Even the pamphlets that we got from the hospital while my wife was pregnant recommended circumcision. They didn't say it would save his life, but the pros (hygeine, chances of cancer and all) were more than the cons. "For that one fraction of a second, you were open to options you would never have considered. That is the exploration that awaits you. Not mapping stars and studying nebula, but charting the unknown possibilities of existence." - Q (Star Trek: The Next Generation) ^ Blog

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                      Bassam Abdul-Baki wrote: the U.S. and other modern nations What do you regard as a "modern nation"? One that is westernised? Or a "New World" nation like Australia, Canada, New Zealand and the US? From the responses I see that most Europeans are against the idea of circumcision.


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                      • C Colin Angus Mackay

                        Bassam Abdul-Baki wrote: the U.S. and other modern nations What do you regard as a "modern nation"? One that is westernised? Or a "New World" nation like Australia, Canada, New Zealand and the US? From the responses I see that most Europeans are against the idea of circumcision.


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                        Bassam Abdul Baki
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                        Certainly not westernized, but any nation that keeps up-to-date on the latest medical and technological break-throughs. New World sounds too much like New Order. Like I said, here in the U.S., it is still a very popular practice and from my family and friends in Europe and abroad, it seems to be there too. Maybe I only meet circumisized people for some reason. :-D "For that one fraction of a second, you were open to options you would never have considered. That is the exploration that awaits you. Not mapping stars and studying nebula, but charting the unknown possibilities of existence." - Q (Star Trek: The Next Generation) ^ Blog

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                        • B Bassam Abdul Baki

                          Certainly not westernized, but any nation that keeps up-to-date on the latest medical and technological break-throughs. New World sounds too much like New Order. Like I said, here in the U.S., it is still a very popular practice and from my family and friends in Europe and abroad, it seems to be there too. Maybe I only meet circumisized people for some reason. :-D "For that one fraction of a second, you were open to options you would never have considered. That is the exploration that awaits you. Not mapping stars and studying nebula, but charting the unknown possibilities of existence." - Q (Star Trek: The Next Generation) ^ Blog

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                          Bassam Abdul-Baki wrote: but any nation that keeps up-to-date on the latest medical and technological break-throughs Here in the UK I am not aware that it is a popular practice. Until only a few years ago I thought it was only done for two reasons. First, the religion of the parents mandates it. Second, purely on medical grounds because it is causing an immediate problem. Bassam Abdul-Baki wrote: Maybe I only meet circumisized people for some reason :omg: Do you often check? ;P Just kidding


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                          • C Colin Angus Mackay

                            Bassam Abdul-Baki wrote: but any nation that keeps up-to-date on the latest medical and technological break-throughs Here in the UK I am not aware that it is a popular practice. Until only a few years ago I thought it was only done for two reasons. First, the religion of the parents mandates it. Second, purely on medical grounds because it is causing an immediate problem. Bassam Abdul-Baki wrote: Maybe I only meet circumisized people for some reason :omg: Do you often check? ;P Just kidding


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                            Bassam Abdul Baki
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                            Colin Angus Mackay wrote: Do you often check? Just kidding Word of mouth only. No pun intended. Ewww. ;P "For that one fraction of a second, you were open to options you would never have considered. That is the exploration that awaits you. Not mapping stars and studying nebula, but charting the unknown possibilities of existence." - Q (Star Trek: The Next Generation) ^ Blog

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                            • M Megan Forbes

                              Having been told that the baby we're expecting in May is a little boy this is obviously a question we need to resolve in our own minds, where the outcome hopefully answers "what is best for the child". Neither mine nor Brendan's families have ever had their sons circumcised, but as we're more concerned with health than cosmetic issues this alone would not be a reason for avoiding it. We first started to look into the pro's and con's in SA where it seems that it is pushed as a good choice. The literature our SA doctor provided us with stated things like hygeine and a good preventative of penile cancer in later life. However, I'm pretty sure that one of the reasons it's recommended to parents over there is an attempt to slow down deaths and amputations at "initiation schools" for teenagers in future years. In the UK there doesn't seem to be too much of an opinion (at least at our hospital) beyond "why bother". Not exactly a strong argument when taking a decision on part of your childs future. However, after looking into it a little further there do seem to be people vehemently opposed to it. Some claim that the preventative effect for penile cancer has never been proven, and that accidents happen on babies each year which result in the child being raised as a girl (is this really possible in the 21st century?!) - obviously an unacceptable situation if true. Right now we are steering towards leaving the baby uncut, especially as it seems that hygeine will not be affected. Apparently the foreskin should never be pushed back until the boy is old enough to do it himself, and until that age it's not possible for dirt to get trapped underneath anyway as it hasn't fully separated yet. Are there any true arguments for having this operation done? Would we be letting our son down by not having the op? As most of you here are male, and many are fathers I'd be very interested to hear any sides to the argument which should be weighed up before a final decision is taken. Just one of many confusing decisions when embarking upon the journey to parenthood :)


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                              Please don't do it. There was a time when it was a good thing to do i.e. "hygeine and a good preventative of penile cancer in later life", but in today's world it's not needed anymore. Over here in the US, it's still done "in the name of health" but it just allows the doctors to make an extra hundred bucks or so and not to really protect the child. Congratulations on your future parenthood!

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