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sfdougl wrote: Fair enough, its still insane. Fair enough, I agree. sfdougl wrote: Some how this one doesn't surprise me. I trust the Judge chucked at her request for child support and denied the request? Actually her lawyer found out while taking the official statements for divorce case. He was furious, plus the fact that she was already receiving child-support (though too little) from the father, my lawyer asked her why (why is a risky question, but my lawyer was getting to know my wife well enough to know she would fry herself), why she was asking for 10 times the amount of money for child-support from me than what she was already receiving from the father of the children. She said she didn't want to damage her relationship with the father. Her lawyer almost collapsed in his seat, stood up and started pacing for all other statemetents. When he got to ask questions of me, he asked my name and address, time of marriage, income and then stopped asking questions. He had my wife sign my offer several weeks later (I would have loved to be a fly on the wall for that conversation). My offer, although my lawyer argued with me over, had always been 50/50. My lawyer wanted to make an equally outrageous offer in my favor in hopes of meeting in the middle. I told her that my wife would never negotiate, in the end it would be either her winning or her loosing, she would never reduce her demands once made -- therefore I had to go with my conscience which would never allow me to make an unfair offer. however the same judge was assigned the case when it returned in 6 months from her not paying her half of the bills (I kind-of sued her -- order to show cause, demand she explain her actions in court). The judge was NOT pleased. Since extenuating circumstances would also place my job at risk when all co-owned debts prior to divorce (and assigned to her to repay) went into default, the judge forced her to refinance into her name only so she could shoot herself in the foot as often as she wanted. So you could say the judge was unhappy over the whole scenerio. I did notice that my ex represented herself in that case. :laugh: _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
Jeffry J. Brickley wrote: she would never reduce her demands once made Women cant live with them can’t live without em. :sigh: One of the fellow CP members has a signature to the effect of “I just want the source to the universe.” Personally I would settle for a meager understanding of the thought patterns of women in general. :confused: ------------------------------- DEBUGGING : Removing the needles from the haystack.
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Jeffry J. Brickley wrote: she would never reduce her demands once made Women cant live with them can’t live without em. :sigh: One of the fellow CP members has a signature to the effect of “I just want the source to the universe.” Personally I would settle for a meager understanding of the thought patterns of women in general. :confused: ------------------------------- DEBUGGING : Removing the needles from the haystack.
sfdougl wrote: Women cant live with them can’t live without em. I sincerely doubt most women are anywhere near as bad as my ex, maybe that is my hidden optimist. She was ... unique. But I would never claim that all women are like her. _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
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sfdougl wrote: Women cant live with them can’t live without em. I sincerely doubt most women are anywhere near as bad as my ex, maybe that is my hidden optimist. She was ... unique. But I would never claim that all women are like her. _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
Jeffry J. Brickley wrote: I sincerely doubt most women are anywhere near as bad as my ex, Given the public nature of the board, all I will say is all women provide a unique challenge. At least that’s been my experience thus far in life. :) Jeffry J. Brickley wrote: maybe that is my hidden optimist. If I weren’t an optimist and trust everything will work out in the wash I would have gone nuts a few years ago (I’m not claiming, full sanity here just partial). :-D ------------------------------- DEBUGGING : Removing the needles from the haystack.