King Kong and a Five-year old?
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Daniel Turini wrote:
I also thought that of my 7 year old boy, but, when I took him to see "Herbie Fully Loaded", on that scene when the Monster truck was about to destroy Herbie, I look at his face: it was covered in tears, because he was so revolted that they would destroy his newest hero, Herbie.
Christ, my 5 year daughter just waited for Herbie to get out of trouble. She had seen through out the movie that nothing really bad ever happened to Herbie. Michael Martin Australia "I controlled my laughter and simple said "No,I am very busy,so I can't write any code for you". The moment they heard this all the smiling face turned into a sad looking face and one of them farted. So i had to leave the place as soon as possible." - Mr.Prakash 24/04/2004
Michael Martin wrote:
Christ, my 5 year daughter just waited for Herbie to get out of trouble. She had seen through out the movie that nothing really bad ever happened to Herbie.
You see, women are immune to men suffering :) From the Churchdown Parish Magazine: "Would the Congregation please note that the bowl at the back of the Church, labelled 'For The Sick,' is for monetary donations only."
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My jaw just about hit the floor when one of my co-workers said he took his 5 year old to see Saving Private Ryan. I just don't get people.
andy brummer wrote:
My jaw just about hit the floor when one of my co-workers said he took his 5 year old to see Saving Private Ryan.
You should ask him why. I bet he says "I want my son to know what war is like". Marc VS2005 Tips & Tricks -- contributions welcome!
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Daniel Turini wrote:
I also thought that of my 7 year old boy, but, when I took him to see "Herbie Fully Loaded", on that scene when the Monster truck was about to destroy Herbie, I look at his face: it was covered in tears, because he was so revolted that they would destroy his newest hero, Herbie.
Christ, my 5 year daughter just waited for Herbie to get out of trouble. She had seen through out the movie that nothing really bad ever happened to Herbie. Michael Martin Australia "I controlled my laughter and simple said "No,I am very busy,so I can't write any code for you". The moment they heard this all the smiling face turned into a sad looking face and one of them farted. So i had to leave the place as soon as possible." - Mr.Prakash 24/04/2004
Michael Martin wrote:
Christ, my 5 year daughter just waited for Herbie to get out of trouble. She had seen through out the movie that nothing really bad ever happened to Herbie.
Proof positive from your own "mouth" that she has become desensitized to violence.
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Jim A. Johnson wrote:
but I'm getting understandable resistance from his mother.
Good!
Jim A. Johnson wrote:
He know the difference between movies and reality
That's BS. You think he does because you see him through your adult eyes. 5 year olds do NOT have a clear understanding of the difference between movies (fantasy, in other words) and reality. Nor should they. They should have an imagination that only laters questions, "why isn't this possible". imHo. Marc VS2005 Tips & Tricks -- contributions welcome!
Marc Clifton wrote:
5 year olds do NOT have a clear understanding of the difference between movies (fantasy, in other words) and reality.
That's BS. Most 5 year olds are much wiser than adults give them credit for. In addition, it's important to feed their imaginations with a little fantasy now and them. I say, bring the kid to the movies. Better to live one day as a lion than a hundred years as a sheep.
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Marc Clifton wrote:
5 year olds do NOT have a clear understanding of the difference between movies (fantasy, in other words) and reality.
That's BS. Most 5 year olds are much wiser than adults give them credit for. In addition, it's important to feed their imaginations with a little fantasy now and them. I say, bring the kid to the movies. Better to live one day as a lion than a hundred years as a sheep.
Mike Mullikin wrote:
it's important to feed their imaginations with a little fantasy now and them.
I prefer to watch children develop their imaginations without being spoon fed images of disguisting monsters and violence, which, lacking any other imagination, they act out toward each other at the day care. Marc VS2005 Tips & Tricks -- contributions welcome!
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Michael Martin wrote:
In the end it comes down to the mental strength of the individual to what they do.
I agree, and personally feel that exposure to the media weakens this strength of character rather than building it. Just because a person isn't exposed to the problems of the world as a child doesn't mean they have they are inept at handling them as an adult. After all, isn't that what "education" should achieve (but of course, fails miserably)?
Michael Martin wrote:
With my childhood I should be out killing everything and everypone I don't like and molesting the rest.
A serious question--why is that? What part of your life do you feel is a result of your childhood? Do you feel you had a defining moment, as an adult, where you said "I'm no longer letting my past control me?" I for one do not buy into Freudian psychology. At some point, as an adult, we have the ability to grow out of our childhood traumas. It may be incredibly difficult, but I think the modern day shrink emphasizes digging into the past too much, and not enough of "get a spine and grow out of it". Marc VS2005 Tips & Tricks -- contributions welcome!
Marc Clifton wrote:
A serious question--why is that? What part of your life do you feel is a result of your childhood?
Permanent anger and rage. This eased off quite a bit in 2000 when I won my court case. After that my brain/mind was able to turn off at night and let me sleep.
Marc Clifton wrote:
Do you feel you had a defining moment, as an adult, where you said "I'm no longer letting my past control me?"
No, at about 10 or 11 I made up my mind never to be anything like my father.
Marc Clifton wrote:
I for one do not buy into Freudian psychology. At some point, as an adult, we have the ability to grow out of our childhood traumas. It may be incredibly difficult, but I think the modern day shrink emphasizes digging into the past too much, and not enough of "get a spine and grow out of it".
Never been to a psychiatrist, probably would have been good as a child but but the time I was an adult my putrecent hatred of the world was complete. I did see a psychologist twice in 2000 as part of my court case (a requirement), but told her that further visits were a waste of time as it was too late to fix the problem. Obviously you have missed the posts years ago or have forgotten them so a quick attempted cleaned up version for the lounge. Mother was chased off when I was 4 after catching daddy if in the act of poo pushing. Poofter pedophile who used me as bait to get mothers to allow their kids to stay over and play with me. They got molested, live in poofter boyfriend pedophile molseted me. Older molested boys also decided the best way to get back at the perpetrator was to molest me as well. Completely fucked up. There is a shitload more to it. As for the whole spine thing (I know you weren't directing this at me), without blowing too much sunshine up my own arse, there aren't too many people on earth who could live through my childhood and be fucked up as little as I am. I refuse to hide my kids from too much (somethings have to wait until they are older) because that is what my father did. As much as I love a drink I am not an alcoholic or addicted to anything, why?? Because that faggot was an alcoholic and I will die before I am anything like him. It's late, I worked a shitload again today, am having a couple of drinks and am losing track of where my post was going, will stop now as several rereads haven't helped any.
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Michael Martin wrote:
Christ, my 5 year daughter just waited for Herbie to get out of trouble. She had seen through out the movie that nothing really bad ever happened to Herbie.
Proof positive from your own "mouth" that she has become desensitized to violence.
How is that desensitized? I would mark it more as she knows how movies work. She found a pattern that is very prevalent in American movies and that is that the good guy always gets into a hard spot before breaking out into an amazing win. -J
Think of a computer program. Somewhere, there is one key instruction, and everything else is just functions calling themselves, or brackets billowing out endlessly through an infinite address space. What happens when the brackets collapse? Where's the final 'end if'? Is any of this making sense? -Ford Prefect
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Michael Martin wrote:
Christ, my 5 year daughter just waited for Herbie to get out of trouble. She had seen through out the movie that nothing really bad ever happened to Herbie.
Proof positive from your own "mouth" that she has become desensitized to violence.
ahz wrote:
Proof positive from your own "mouth" that she has become desensitized to violence.
Bullshit! Smart enough to work shit out from what she is seeing. Michael Martin Australia "I controlled my laughter and simple said "No,I am very busy,so I can't write any code for you". The moment they heard this all the smiling face turned into a sad looking face and one of them farted. So i had to leave the place as soon as possible." - Mr.Prakash 24/04/2004
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How is that desensitized? I would mark it more as she knows how movies work. She found a pattern that is very prevalent in American movies and that is that the good guy always gets into a hard spot before breaking out into an amazing win. -J
Think of a computer program. Somewhere, there is one key instruction, and everything else is just functions calling themselves, or brackets billowing out endlessly through an infinite address space. What happens when the brackets collapse? Where's the final 'end if'? Is any of this making sense? -Ford Prefect
jasontg wrote:
How is that desensitized? I would mark it more as she knows how movies work. She found a pattern that is very prevalent in American movies and that is that the good guy always gets into a hard spot before breaking out into an amazing win.
Exactly. Thank you for more eloquently putting into words what I meant. Michael Martin Australia "I controlled my laughter and simple said "No,I am very busy,so I can't write any code for you". The moment they heard this all the smiling face turned into a sad looking face and one of them farted. So i had to leave the place as soon as possible." - Mr.Prakash 24/04/2004
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Michael Martin wrote:
Christ, my 5 year daughter just waited for Herbie to get out of trouble. She had seen through out the movie that nothing really bad ever happened to Herbie.
You see, women are immune to men suffering :) From the Churchdown Parish Magazine: "Would the Congregation please note that the bowl at the back of the Church, labelled 'For The Sick,' is for monetary donations only."
Daniel Turini wrote:
You see, women are immune to men suffering
:) Well put. Michael Martin Australia "I controlled my laughter and simple said "No,I am very busy,so I can't write any code for you". The moment they heard this all the smiling face turned into a sad looking face and one of them farted. So i had to leave the place as soon as possible." - Mr.Prakash 24/04/2004
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Mike Mullikin wrote:
it's important to feed their imaginations with a little fantasy now and them.
I prefer to watch children develop their imaginations without being spoon fed images of disguisting monsters and violence, which, lacking any other imagination, they act out toward each other at the day care. Marc VS2005 Tips & Tricks -- contributions welcome!
Marc Clifton wrote:
at the day care.
Who in their right mind would send their kid to day care??!! Seriously! Parents should raise their own children - not hire strangers to do so. IMHO - Day care does more harm than the occassional movie. Better to live one day as a lion than a hundred years as a sheep.
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ahz wrote:
Proof positive from your own "mouth" that she has become desensitized to violence.
Bullshit! Smart enough to work shit out from what she is seeing. Michael Martin Australia "I controlled my laughter and simple said "No,I am very busy,so I can't write any code for you". The moment they heard this all the smiling face turned into a sad looking face and one of them farted. So i had to leave the place as soon as possible." - Mr.Prakash 24/04/2004
you are only fooling yourself.
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Marc Clifton wrote:
A serious question--why is that? What part of your life do you feel is a result of your childhood?
Permanent anger and rage. This eased off quite a bit in 2000 when I won my court case. After that my brain/mind was able to turn off at night and let me sleep.
Marc Clifton wrote:
Do you feel you had a defining moment, as an adult, where you said "I'm no longer letting my past control me?"
No, at about 10 or 11 I made up my mind never to be anything like my father.
Marc Clifton wrote:
I for one do not buy into Freudian psychology. At some point, as an adult, we have the ability to grow out of our childhood traumas. It may be incredibly difficult, but I think the modern day shrink emphasizes digging into the past too much, and not enough of "get a spine and grow out of it".
Never been to a psychiatrist, probably would have been good as a child but but the time I was an adult my putrecent hatred of the world was complete. I did see a psychologist twice in 2000 as part of my court case (a requirement), but told her that further visits were a waste of time as it was too late to fix the problem. Obviously you have missed the posts years ago or have forgotten them so a quick attempted cleaned up version for the lounge. Mother was chased off when I was 4 after catching daddy if in the act of poo pushing. Poofter pedophile who used me as bait to get mothers to allow their kids to stay over and play with me. They got molested, live in poofter boyfriend pedophile molseted me. Older molested boys also decided the best way to get back at the perpetrator was to molest me as well. Completely fucked up. There is a shitload more to it. As for the whole spine thing (I know you weren't directing this at me), without blowing too much sunshine up my own arse, there aren't too many people on earth who could live through my childhood and be fucked up as little as I am. I refuse to hide my kids from too much (somethings have to wait until they are older) because that is what my father did. As much as I love a drink I am not an alcoholic or addicted to anything, why?? Because that faggot was an alcoholic and I will die before I am anything like him. It's late, I worked a shitload again today, am having a couple of drinks and am losing track of where my post was going, will stop now as several rereads haven't helped any.
Michael Martin wrote:
so a quick attempted cleaned up version for the lounge.
[speechless]. Ah. That is a terrible experience. I can see that yet again, my lofty ideals are met with the horror of people's real experiences. Marc VS2005 Tips & Tricks -- contributions welcome!
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Marc Clifton wrote:
A serious question--why is that? What part of your life do you feel is a result of your childhood?
Permanent anger and rage. This eased off quite a bit in 2000 when I won my court case. After that my brain/mind was able to turn off at night and let me sleep.
Marc Clifton wrote:
Do you feel you had a defining moment, as an adult, where you said "I'm no longer letting my past control me?"
No, at about 10 or 11 I made up my mind never to be anything like my father.
Marc Clifton wrote:
I for one do not buy into Freudian psychology. At some point, as an adult, we have the ability to grow out of our childhood traumas. It may be incredibly difficult, but I think the modern day shrink emphasizes digging into the past too much, and not enough of "get a spine and grow out of it".
Never been to a psychiatrist, probably would have been good as a child but but the time I was an adult my putrecent hatred of the world was complete. I did see a psychologist twice in 2000 as part of my court case (a requirement), but told her that further visits were a waste of time as it was too late to fix the problem. Obviously you have missed the posts years ago or have forgotten them so a quick attempted cleaned up version for the lounge. Mother was chased off when I was 4 after catching daddy if in the act of poo pushing. Poofter pedophile who used me as bait to get mothers to allow their kids to stay over and play with me. They got molested, live in poofter boyfriend pedophile molseted me. Older molested boys also decided the best way to get back at the perpetrator was to molest me as well. Completely fucked up. There is a shitload more to it. As for the whole spine thing (I know you weren't directing this at me), without blowing too much sunshine up my own arse, there aren't too many people on earth who could live through my childhood and be fucked up as little as I am. I refuse to hide my kids from too much (somethings have to wait until they are older) because that is what my father did. As much as I love a drink I am not an alcoholic or addicted to anything, why?? Because that faggot was an alcoholic and I will die before I am anything like him. It's late, I worked a shitload again today, am having a couple of drinks and am losing track of where my post was going, will stop now as several rereads haven't helped any.
Michael Martin wrote:
version for the lounge.
Wow! I'm real sorry you had to go through that, but I'm real glad you've become a much better person in spite (maybe because?) of it. For my own part, my father was an alcoholic abusive bastard as well. Although I never experienced anything like what you did from him. So, I have at least a partial understanding of your rage and anger. Kudos to you.
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you are only fooling yourself.
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don't have to know her
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Michael Martin wrote:
so a quick attempted cleaned up version for the lounge.
[speechless]. Ah. That is a terrible experience. I can see that yet again, my lofty ideals are met with the horror of people's real experiences. Marc VS2005 Tips & Tricks -- contributions welcome!
Marc Clifton wrote:
[speechless]. Ah. That is a terrible experience. I can see that yet again, my lofty ideals are met with the horror of people's real experiences.
Don't disregard your lofty ideals. At times I wish I wasn't as cynical and was easier on my kids. Though having said that they both know I love them more than anything (though the wife is up there too) and am never too scared to tell them and make time for hugs and all that gooey crap. Will still kick the crap out of them when they stuff up. Michael Martin Australia "I controlled my laughter and simple said "No,I am very busy,so I can't write any code for you". The moment they heard this all the smiling face turned into a sad looking face and one of them farted. So i had to leave the place as soon as possible." - Mr.Prakash 24/04/2004
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Michael Martin wrote:
version for the lounge.
Wow! I'm real sorry you had to go through that, but I'm real glad you've become a much better person in spite (maybe because?) of it. For my own part, my father was an alcoholic abusive bastard as well. Although I never experienced anything like what you did from him. So, I have at least a partial understanding of your rage and anger. Kudos to you.
ahz wrote:
Wow! I'm real sorry you had to go through that, but I'm real glad you've become a much better person in spite (maybe because?) of it. For my own part, my father was an alcoholic abusive bastard as well. Although I never experienced anything like what you did from him. So, I have at least a partial understanding of your rage and anger. Kudos to you.
Thank you. Sorry you had a shitty childhood. Michael Martin Australia "I controlled my laughter and simple said "No,I am very busy,so I can't write any code for you". The moment they heard this all the smiling face turned into a sad looking face and one of them farted. So i had to leave the place as soon as possible." - Mr.Prakash 24/04/2004
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And sadly, because you and so many other parents feel the same way, the violence of children against children is perpetuated as they act out their on-screen fantasies and roll models against each other, and as they mature into adults, the result is a decensitization to all forms of violence. Marc VS2005 Tips & Tricks -- contributions welcome! -- modified at 11:34 Friday 16th December, 2005
Marc Clifton wrote:
...decensitization...
This one word says it all.
"Take only what you need and leave the land as you found it." - Native American Proverb
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Marc Clifton wrote:
And sadly, because you and so many other parents feel the same way, the violence of children against children is perpetuated as they act out their on-screen fantasies and roll models against each other...
Of the couple of times we have been called to school it has all been retaliation to someone else, never has he been the perpetrator. Closest he gets is at home, but that is his little sister, who just like mine was, is a scheming little bitch who niggles and niggles till he explodes. If he does the right thing and leaves it up to me she gets the flogging, if he can't help himself and let's loose he cops it.
Marc Clifton wrote:
and as they mature into adults, the result is a decensitization to all forms of violence.
Now if only I was lucky enough to have watch movies to get my desensitivation. Movies are the least of the worlds problems when it comes to kids becoming fucked up adults. In the end it comes down to the mental strength of the individual to what they do. With my childhood I should be out killing everything and everypone I don't like and molesting the rest. I'm not doing it though. Michael Martin Australia "I controlled my laughter and simple said "No,I am very busy,so I can't write any code for you". The moment they heard this all the smiling face turned into a sad looking face and one of them farted. So i had to leave the place as soon as possible." - Mr.Prakash 24/04/2004
Michael Martin wrote:
...never has he been the perpetrator.
Just out of curiosity, did the other parent(s) say the same thing about their child?
"Take only what you need and leave the land as you found it." - Native American Proverb