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It is tough when life changes Vikas but this is quite a natural and, well, obvious change. You need to learn how to see something so big coming rather than finding yourself unexpectedly cut loose after the deal. Unless the couple are really young I don't think most married couples would want a roomie still hanging around. And I'd get out before it comes to a boil and there is a more serious friendship breach. Go out and make your own life eh :) regards, Paul Watson Ireland Colib and ilikecameras. K(arl) wrote: oh, and BTW, CHRISTIAN ISN'T A PARADOX, HE IS A TASMANIAN!
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Life moves on and situations change. You just have to accept that your relationship with your friend has changed and is different now. The best think is to get on with your life and make new friends and create new relationships. It isn't easy but it is sure a lot of fun. Michael CP Blog [^] Development Blog [^]
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vikas amin wrote:
U can do one thing for me pls pry we get together again
Friendships change in some ways after one or another gets married. That is expected, especially roommates. There are some innappropriate requests for changes in friendships, and it is hard to tell if this is one of those. It doesn't seem like it is so far. Coming from a current hermit, you are better off learning to be by yourself also. Once upon a time there was a young man, didn't have the happiest childhood, but never learned to be alone either. To him being alone was worse than the abuse he received at home. When he finally had too much of it he left suddenly, but he still didn't know how to be alone. As such he went from one failed marriage to a second. If you don't know how to be independant also, you can never hope to have a healthy friendship or romance. A true friendship, romance or any other partnership requires two individuals who "want" to be together, not desperately "need" to be together. No one ever wants to lose a friendship, but life doesn't end when it happens, if it does it was never a friendship, it was co-dependancy. _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb) -- modified at 15:30 Wednesday 4th January, 2006
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I'd definitely feel awkward about living with a friend and his wife - unless it's for a short visit. Do yourself a favor, and find another apartment. That way, you'll still be able to maintain your friendship. Do that before they kick you out!
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Glad someone got it. :)
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vikas amin wrote:
I respect his wife very much but i dont know whats wrong with her nighter i want to heart her or my buddy.
I'm not sure what this means. Here's some hard news. Boys have a penis, girls have a vagina. These two items like to party together, especially when people first get married. The number of people who regard sex as a spectator sport are extremely limited, so this girl wants you to clear off, so she can get her rocks off. This is just natural. If this guy is the only friend you have, that's probably not natural. Just accept that they need some space, and in time, when she grows tired of it all and wants to watch soaps all day instead, he'll give you a call. In the meantime, find some other friends. Maybe even female ones, then you can be the one kicking some guy out so you can have some marital fun. Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++
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I'd definitely feel awkward about living with a friend and his wife - unless it's for a short visit. Do yourself a favor, and find another apartment. That way, you'll still be able to maintain your friendship. Do that before they kick you out!
I don't think this is what he means, Nish. I think she just wants him not to be around all the time. Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++
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vikas amin wrote:
I respect his wife very much but i dont know whats wrong with her nighter i want to heart her or my buddy.
I'm not sure what this means. Here's some hard news. Boys have a penis, girls have a vagina. These two items like to party together, especially when people first get married. The number of people who regard sex as a spectator sport are extremely limited, so this girl wants you to clear off, so she can get her rocks off. This is just natural. If this guy is the only friend you have, that's probably not natural. Just accept that they need some space, and in time, when she grows tired of it all and wants to watch soaps all day instead, he'll give you a call. In the meantime, find some other friends. Maybe even female ones, then you can be the one kicking some guy out so you can have some marital fun. Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++
You got my 5 My articles BlackDice
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vikas amin wrote:
I respect his wife very much but i dont know whats wrong with her nighter i want to heart her or my buddy.
I'm not sure what this means. Here's some hard news. Boys have a penis, girls have a vagina. These two items like to party together, especially when people first get married. The number of people who regard sex as a spectator sport are extremely limited, so this girl wants you to clear off, so she can get her rocks off. This is just natural. If this guy is the only friend you have, that's probably not natural. Just accept that they need some space, and in time, when she grows tired of it all and wants to watch soaps all day instead, he'll give you a call. In the meantime, find some other friends. Maybe even female ones, then you can be the one kicking some guy out so you can have some marital fun. Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++
Don't hold back now :) Marriage slows down your coding, a baby slows it down even more!
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Let's see. Some hard advice: GET A FRIGGIN' SPINE! Some softer advice--yeah, when people get married, they have a partnership that is closer, more intimate, more personal, and therefore requiring MORE PRIVACY than when everyone is just "pals". Accept it, you're the spare wheel. Marc Pensieve
Marc Clifton wrote:
Accept it, you're the spare wheel
You ever thought of a career change, I think counselling could suit a man of your talents... :) Gavin Taylor w: http://www.gavspace.com
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vikas amin wrote:
I respect his wife very much but i dont know whats wrong with her nighter i want to heart her or my buddy.
I'm not sure what this means. Here's some hard news. Boys have a penis, girls have a vagina. These two items like to party together, especially when people first get married. The number of people who regard sex as a spectator sport are extremely limited, so this girl wants you to clear off, so she can get her rocks off. This is just natural. If this guy is the only friend you have, that's probably not natural. Just accept that they need some space, and in time, when she grows tired of it all and wants to watch soaps all day instead, he'll give you a call. In the meantime, find some other friends. Maybe even female ones, then you can be the one kicking some guy out so you can have some marital fun. Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++
:laugh: 5 Gavin Taylor w: http://www.gavspace.com
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Glad someone got it. :)
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But I did not and is killing me, please help :confused:
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Glad someone got it. :)
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I don't get it at all... :confused: would you explain ? :-D "Courage choose who will follow, Fate choose who will lead" - Lord Gunner, Septerra Core "Press any key to continue, where's the ANY key ?" - Homer Simpsons Drinking gives me amazing powers of insight. I can solve all the worlds problems when drunk, but can never remember the solutions in the morning. - Michael P Butler to Paul Watson on 12/08/03
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vikas amin wrote:
I respect his wife very much but i dont know whats wrong with her nighter i want to heart her or my buddy.
I'm not sure what this means. Here's some hard news. Boys have a penis, girls have a vagina. These two items like to party together, especially when people first get married. The number of people who regard sex as a spectator sport are extremely limited, so this girl wants you to clear off, so she can get her rocks off. This is just natural. If this guy is the only friend you have, that's probably not natural. Just accept that they need some space, and in time, when she grows tired of it all and wants to watch soaps all day instead, he'll give you a call. In the meantime, find some other friends. Maybe even female ones, then you can be the one kicking some guy out so you can have some marital fun. Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++
Christian Graus wrote:
Boys have a penis, girls have a vagina
You've been watching Kindergarten Cop. ColinMackay.net "Man who stand on hill with mouth open will wait long time for roast duck to drop in." -- Confucius "If a man empties his purse into his head, no man can take it away from him, for an investment in knowledge pays the best interest." -- Joseph E. O'Donnell
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Christian Graus wrote:
Boys have a penis, girls have a vagina
You've been watching Kindergarten Cop. ColinMackay.net "Man who stand on hill with mouth open will wait long time for roast duck to drop in." -- Confucius "If a man empties his purse into his head, no man can take it away from him, for an investment in knowledge pays the best interest." -- Joseph E. O'Donnell
That's where you found this out, too ? I was shocked !! Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++
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But I did not and is killing me, please help :confused:
Re-read vikas' post. While doing so, keep track of the characters you'd need to make actual words and phrases...
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I don't get it at all... :confused: would you explain ? :-D "Courage choose who will follow, Fate choose who will lead" - Lord Gunner, Septerra Core "Press any key to continue, where's the ANY key ?" - Homer Simpsons Drinking gives me amazing powers of insight. I can solve all the worlds problems when drunk, but can never remember the solutions in the morning. - Michael P Butler to Paul Watson on 12/08/03
See my reply to Albert.
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Re-read vikas' post. While doing so, keep track of the characters you'd need to make actual words and phrases...
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GOT it! He was missing letters, Funny if I got it the first time, now just a little .... :-O Thanks Al
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Marc Clifton wrote:
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You ever thought of a career change, I think counselling could suit a man of your talents... :) Gavin Taylor w: http://www.gavspace.com
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