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    Uh..what a dull night this turned aout to be..:( So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action.:-O Any good tips...possible bad to...are much appreciated. :-D /M


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      Uh..what a dull night this turned aout to be..:( So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action.:-O Any good tips...possible bad to...are much appreciated. :-D /M


      - Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.

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      Did you try talking to her?

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        Uh..what a dull night this turned aout to be..:( So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action.:-O Any good tips...possible bad to...are much appreciated. :-D /M


        - Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.

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        i found out that it is always being a dilemma in such situations. to be a man,i should take some actions(as you said,but do not imagine further),but most probably the result is the girl will slam the door or slap your face. but if i do not do something,the girl will also slam the door and maybe do not say a word to you within quite a few days. consulting is badly welcome! :-O you are far from being a bad man:go and reform

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          Uh..what a dull night this turned aout to be..:( So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action.:-O Any good tips...possible bad to...are much appreciated. :-D /M


          - Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.

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          http://www.fastseduction.com This stuff works because it's based on NLP.

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            Uh..what a dull night this turned aout to be..:( So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action.:-O Any good tips...possible bad to...are much appreciated. :-D /M


            - Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.

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            before you go down to the porn store, you might want to read this -c


            To explain Donald Knuth's relevance to computing is like explaining Paul's relevance to the Catholic Church. He isn't God, he isn't the Son of God, but he was sent by God to explain God to the masses.
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            Fractals!

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              Uh..what a dull night this turned aout to be..:( So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action.:-O Any good tips...possible bad to...are much appreciated. :-D /M


              - Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.

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              loket wrote: So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action Well if you are desperate then it definitley won't happen. Women can smell desperation a mile away, trust me, I know! Secondly if your soul aim is to get some action, go to Amsterdam. I seriously do not see the point of taking a girl home for hot-chocolate in a cup when you really want to be licking hot-chocolate off her. Enjoy her company, enjoy her conversation. If there is action to be had, it will come. If there is no action to be had, it won't come and there is no point in trying to force the issue. Your sig is rather apt :-D loket wrote: - Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things. Just relax, be yourself and if that does not work get a ticket to Amsterdam, they don't care much about conversation. regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Alison Pentland wrote: I now have an image of you in front of the mirror in the morning, wearing your knickers, socks and shoes trying to decided if they match!

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                Uh..what a dull night this turned aout to be..:( So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action.:-O Any good tips...possible bad to...are much appreciated. :-D /M


                - Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.

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                If she's interested, she'll let you know. Like others have said, talk to her and let things happen naturally. Talk to her about how you want the relationship to progress, the worst thing she can say is 'No'. Michael :-) Look, try and use your intelligence, man, even if you are a politician. - The Doctor

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                  Uh..what a dull night this turned aout to be..:( So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action.:-O Any good tips...possible bad to...are much appreciated. :-D /M


                  - Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.

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                  Do a crash course on NLP Regardz Colin J Davies

                  Sonork ID 100.9197:Colin

                  I am sick of fighting with Martin, I think I will ignore his posts from here on in, and spend the time working on articles instead. Christian Graus

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                    If she's interested, she'll let you know. Like others have said, talk to her and let things happen naturally. Talk to her about how you want the relationship to progress, the worst thing she can say is 'No'. Michael :-) Look, try and use your intelligence, man, even if you are a politician. - The Doctor

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                    Michael P Butler wrote: the worst thing she can say is 'No'. How about "Michael, I am pregnant." ;P Michael P Butler wrote: Talk to her about how you want the relationship to progress, Of course if it is a first date or still very early in a relationship, you don't want to put the cart before the horse and scare her away. I don't think there is any "best practices" guide for dating or "getting action." Being yourself sounds so cliched and trite, but it is really the only way to do it "honestly." regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Alison Pentland wrote: I now have an image of you in front of the mirror in the morning, wearing your knickers, socks and shoes trying to decided if they match!

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                      Do a crash course on NLP Regardz Colin J Davies

                      Sonork ID 100.9197:Colin

                      I am sick of fighting with Martin, I think I will ignore his posts from here on in, and spend the time working on articles instead. Christian Graus

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                      Colin Davies wrote: Do a crash course on NLP I did a search on Google and all I am getting is crap about self-hypnosis and using hypnotic phrases and techniques for dating. Is that really what you are advocating? Or what does NLP reall mean/do to you? regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Alison Pentland wrote: I now have an image of you in front of the mirror in the morning, wearing your knickers, socks and shoes trying to decided if they match!

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                        Uh..what a dull night this turned aout to be..:( So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action.:-O Any good tips...possible bad to...are much appreciated. :-D /M


                        - Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.

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                        1. Find a chick that will give you a knobber without being asked. 2) Tell your next date that you think you're gay. 3) Tell your next date that you think SHE'S gay. 4) Become gay. Based on what you said, and the fact that you're complaining to propeller heads, you're a lost cause anyway. ------- signature starts "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio. ------- signature ends
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                          Michael P Butler wrote: the worst thing she can say is 'No'. How about "Michael, I am pregnant." ;P Michael P Butler wrote: Talk to her about how you want the relationship to progress, Of course if it is a first date or still very early in a relationship, you don't want to put the cart before the horse and scare her away. I don't think there is any "best practices" guide for dating or "getting action." Being yourself sounds so cliched and trite, but it is really the only way to do it "honestly." regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Alison Pentland wrote: I now have an image of you in front of the mirror in the morning, wearing your knickers, socks and shoes trying to decided if they match!

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                          Paul Watson wrote: Of course if it is a first date or still very early in a relationship, you don't want to put the cart before the horse and scare her away. I assumed it was further along than a first date. If it was a first date then he should know that there is no chance of getting "some action". Not unless the girl is of questionable morals but you don't really want to meet those kind ;-) Michael :-) Look, try and use your intelligence, man, even if you are a politician. - The Doctor

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                            1. Find a chick that will give you a knobber without being asked. 2) Tell your next date that you think you're gay. 3) Tell your next date that you think SHE'S gay. 4) Become gay. Based on what you said, and the fact that you're complaining to propeller heads, you're a lost cause anyway. ------- signature starts "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio. ------- signature ends
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                            John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote: 4) Become gay. Based on what you said, and the fact that you're complaining to propeller heads, you're a lost cause anyway. ROFLMAO - I think you should put this stuff in a book, it'd be a best seller. Michael :-) Look, try and use your intelligence, man, even if you are a politician. - The Doctor

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                              Michael P Butler wrote: the worst thing she can say is 'No'. How about "Michael, I am pregnant." ;P Michael P Butler wrote: Talk to her about how you want the relationship to progress, Of course if it is a first date or still very early in a relationship, you don't want to put the cart before the horse and scare her away. I don't think there is any "best practices" guide for dating or "getting action." Being yourself sounds so cliched and trite, but it is really the only way to do it "honestly." regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Alison Pentland wrote: I now have an image of you in front of the mirror in the morning, wearing your knickers, socks and shoes trying to decided if they match!

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                              I think you should have said "cart before the horse trying to put the horse between the shafts" :-D Roger Allen Sonork 100.10016 If I had a quote, it would be a very good one.

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                                Did you try talking to her?

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                                Yes..we talked and talked and talked....but nothing more and that was the problem. :( /M


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                                  http://www.fastseduction.com This stuff works because it's based on NLP.

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                                  Dont know what NLP is, but everything is worth a try. =) /M


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                                    loket wrote: So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action Well if you are desperate then it definitley won't happen. Women can smell desperation a mile away, trust me, I know! Secondly if your soul aim is to get some action, go to Amsterdam. I seriously do not see the point of taking a girl home for hot-chocolate in a cup when you really want to be licking hot-chocolate off her. Enjoy her company, enjoy her conversation. If there is action to be had, it will come. If there is no action to be had, it won't come and there is no point in trying to force the issue. Your sig is rather apt :-D loket wrote: - Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things. Just relax, be yourself and if that does not work get a ticket to Amsterdam, they don't care much about conversation. regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Alison Pentland wrote: I now have an image of you in front of the mirror in the morning, wearing your knickers, socks and shoes trying to decided if they match!

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                                    Paul Watson wrote: loket wrote: So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action Well if you are desperate then it definitley won't happen. Women can smell desperation a mile away, trust me, I know! I was not desperate, probably more to the other side...and maybe to much at that to. :( Paul Watson wrote: Secondly if your soul aim is to get some action, go to Amsterdam. I seriously do not see the point of taking a girl home for hot-chocolate in a cup when you really want to be licking hot-chocolate off her. Enjoy her company, enjoy her conversation. If there is action to be had, it will come. If there is no action to be had, it won't come and there is no point in trying to force the issue Maybe her aim is to get some action, but she dont want to initiate it then if i do nothing she will think that i am a wuss and find it somewhere else. What i wnant is some smoot move that she could pick up on if thats what she wants. Or either i can make it look like it was innocent and carry on talking, knowing she dont want some action...yet. :-D /M


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                                      Paul Watson wrote: Of course if it is a first date or still very early in a relationship, you don't want to put the cart before the horse and scare her away. I assumed it was further along than a first date. If it was a first date then he should know that there is no chance of getting "some action". Not unless the girl is of questionable morals but you don't really want to meet those kind ;-) Michael :-) Look, try and use your intelligence, man, even if you are a politician. - The Doctor

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                                      Michael P Butler wrote: I assumed it was further along than a first date. Yes it was. Michael P Butler wrote: Not unless the girl is of questionable morals but you don't really want to meet those kind Yes i do. And who is talking about a relationship? Just came off one and now i just wanted a little action. :-D /M


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                                        i found out that it is always being a dilemma in such situations. to be a man,i should take some actions(as you said,but do not imagine further),but most probably the result is the girl will slam the door or slap your face. but if i do not do something,the girl will also slam the door and maybe do not say a word to you within quite a few days. consulting is badly welcome! :-O you are far from being a bad man:go and reform

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                                        Yes, im not really have a problem with that i got no action. What bothers me is thay maybe She wanted that and i did not make any move. /M


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                                          Paul Watson wrote: loket wrote: So anyway, had a girl here tonight...and....nothing happened. So im in desperate needs of some good tips for how to turn a nice sitting chatting in the sofa to a litte more..uhm..action Well if you are desperate then it definitley won't happen. Women can smell desperation a mile away, trust me, I know! I was not desperate, probably more to the other side...and maybe to much at that to. :( Paul Watson wrote: Secondly if your soul aim is to get some action, go to Amsterdam. I seriously do not see the point of taking a girl home for hot-chocolate in a cup when you really want to be licking hot-chocolate off her. Enjoy her company, enjoy her conversation. If there is action to be had, it will come. If there is no action to be had, it won't come and there is no point in trying to force the issue Maybe her aim is to get some action, but she dont want to initiate it then if i do nothing she will think that i am a wuss and find it somewhere else. What i wnant is some smoot move that she could pick up on if thats what she wants. Or either i can make it look like it was innocent and carry on talking, knowing she dont want some action...yet. :-D /M


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                                          loket wrote: Maybe her aim is to get some action, but she dont want to initiate it then if i do nothing she will think that i am a wuss and find it somewhere else. What i wnant is some smoot move that she could pick up on if thats what she wants. Or either i can make it look like it was innocent and carry on talking, knowing she dont want some action...yet. I don't think you get what everyone is telling you. If you just want to get laid, go to the specialists. Don't try and chat up a friend or aquaintence and try smooth moves on them if all you want is release. Casual sex is just lame, even if you both want it. If you want meaningful sex then get a relationship (though really it shouldnt work that way either. You should get a relationship and then meainingful sex happens.) Talk to her, laugh with her, be her friend and let her be yours. Let things develop and if it is right, it will happen. If she thinks you are a wuss for not tearing off her blouse and ravishing her right there on the couch... then you have the wrong woman for you. This whole first move thing is just confused when it is purely casual sex. When it it isn't, first move is irrelevant. So in short: Either get a red light district friend, or get a girlfriend. Smooth moves are for movies and jocks who end up 40 years old with three divorces, ten unwanted kids and a lot of angry women. regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass Cape Town, South Africa The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and to be loved in return - Moulin Rouge Alison Pentland wrote: I now have an image of you in front of the mirror in the morning, wearing your knickers, socks and shoes trying to decided if they match!

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