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  • B bryce

    dude shes already moved on - hate to say you need to as well (asap) sorry man Bryce

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    Brian C Hart
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    Oh that relationship ended a long time ago..just checking to see if I got her point correctly She actually said it twice 2 or 3 months apart lol and kept changing her mind until the last time Usually I start by assuming whatever comes out out of women's mouths is total BS half the time

    Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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    • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

      Oh that relationship ended a long time ago..just checking to see if I got her point correctly She actually said it twice 2 or 3 months apart lol and kept changing her mind until the last time Usually I start by assuming whatever comes out out of women's mouths is total BS half the time

      Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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      Christian Graus
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      Brian C Hart wrote:

      Usually I start by assuming whatever comes out out of women's mouths is total BS half the time

      That is sadly an instance where being right does not end up helping your cause.

      Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. Read my blog to find out how I've worked around bugs in Microsoft tools and frameworks.

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      • A AspDotNetDev

        Ah, so women do eventually give up and settle.

        Help a brotha out and vote Managing Your JavaScript Library in ASP.NET as the best ASP.NET article of May 2011.

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        :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

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        • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

          The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

          Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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          A while ago I was on the highway and passed the exit named 'Neandertal'. I am very sure that some 200000 or 30000 years ago some guys sat there in a cave around a fire and discussed similar questions. And like them, we can just sit here and guess. Of course you could simply ask her what it is supposed to mean. But do that only if you are the adventurous type and are prepared for the possible consequences. Pick the wrong time/word/gesture/smell/color of your shirt and she will discover some nonexisting hidden meaning in even the most straightforward question and start to make your life interesting.

          "I just exchanged opinions with my boss. I went in with mine and came out with his." - me, 2011 ---
          I am endeavoring, Madam, to construct a mnemonic memory circuit using stone knives and bearskins - Mr. Spock 1935 and me 2011

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          • A AspDotNetDev

            Ah, so women do eventually give up and settle.

            Help a brotha out and vote Managing Your JavaScript Library in ASP.NET as the best ASP.NET article of May 2011.

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            Brian C Hart
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            Hahahahaha

            Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

            Regards,

            Dr. Brian Hart
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            LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-brian-hart-astrophysicist-veteran/

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            • C Christian Graus

              Brian C Hart wrote:

              Usually I start by assuming whatever comes out out of women's mouths is total BS half the time

              That is sadly an instance where being right does not end up helping your cause.

              Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. Read my blog to find out how I've worked around bugs in Microsoft tools and frameworks.

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              Brian C Hart
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              Hahahahaha Sad but true, bro, sad but true Oh well there are approx 3.25 billion (plus or minus a billion) others on the planet

              Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

              Regards,

              Dr. Brian Hart
              drbrianhart343@gmail.com email
              LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-brian-hart-astrophysicist-veteran/

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              • _ _Damian S_

                He's your best friend now, because he took her off your hands!! rofl...

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                Brian C Hart
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                Totally. Were talking total Mary Jane Rottencrotch here

                Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

                Regards,

                Dr. Brian Hart
                drbrianhart343@gmail.com email
                LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-brian-hart-astrophysicist-veteran/

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                • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                  The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

                  Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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                  Albert Holguin
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                  I agree with Christian... asking this type of question in a development forum is like asking Stephen Hawking for a good jogging route... you may get an answer, but its just not a reliable source... ;P

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                    Christian Graus wrote:

                    but to stay on friendly terms

                    That's what they (we...) say... but in actual fact, staying friends with an ex is a man's thing. Someone said to me: Men chooses the "Save as..." option whereas women just hit the "Save" button and click "yes" to "Do you want to overwrite this data?" ;P Likelihood is, she'll do her best, but you'll be completely erased from her life in a few weeks.:~

                    Almost, but not quite, entirely unlike... me...

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                    Yeah, we actually both just hit "Save" and "Overwrite this data" the next day... Wait a minute if that's true then why am I posting this? Oh, wait, I forgot to empty my memory's "Recycle Bin"...dang you, Microsoft Windows Cerebellum 7! Hahahahahaha

                    Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

                    Regards,

                    Dr. Brian Hart
                    drbrianhart343@gmail.com email
                    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-brian-hart-astrophysicist-veteran/

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                    • L Lost User

                      A while ago I was on the highway and passed the exit named 'Neandertal'. I am very sure that some 200000 or 30000 years ago some guys sat there in a cave around a fire and discussed similar questions. And like them, we can just sit here and guess. Of course you could simply ask her what it is supposed to mean. But do that only if you are the adventurous type and are prepared for the possible consequences. Pick the wrong time/word/gesture/smell/color of your shirt and she will discover some nonexisting hidden meaning in even the most straightforward question and start to make your life interesting.

                      "I just exchanged opinions with my boss. I went in with mine and came out with his." - me, 2011 ---
                      I am endeavoring, Madam, to construct a mnemonic memory circuit using stone knives and bearskins - Mr. Spock 1935 and me 2011

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                      Hahahaha

                      Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

                      Regards,

                      Dr. Brian Hart
                      drbrianhart343@gmail.com email
                      LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-brian-hart-astrophysicist-veteran/

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                      • A AspDotNetDev

                        Ah, so women do eventually give up and settle.

                        Help a brotha out and vote Managing Your JavaScript Library in ASP.NET as the best ASP.NET article of May 2011.

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                        PIEBALDconsult
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                        On occasion. She was a lone stranger in a strange (to her, normal to everyone else) city and I must have (somehow) appeared as a brilliant ray of light (or something). She was working on her Master's in psychology and I figured she just needed a subject. ::shrug::

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                        • A Albert Holguin

                          I agree with Christian... asking this type of question in a development forum is like asking Stephen Hawking for a good jogging route... you may get an answer, but its just not a reliable source... ;P

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                          Sexists.

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                          • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                            Hahahaha

                            Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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                            Yes, it's funny if you put it that way, but it's the actual problem. Some women can't say a single sentence without some hidden meaning or implication. And we just hear either just 'bla bla bla' or take it far too literally. And, the other way around, they try to get your hidden meanings without ever realizing that you simply meant it just the way you said it. If it was god who played that prank on us, I sure hope he really enjoys seeing us stumble around in confusion :)

                            "I just exchanged opinions with my boss. I went in with mine and came out with his." - me, 2011 ---
                            I am endeavoring, Madam, to construct a mnemonic memory circuit using stone knives and bearskins - Mr. Spock 1935 and me 2011

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                            • A Albert Holguin

                              I agree with Christian... asking this type of question in a development forum is like asking Stephen Hawking for a good jogging route... you may get an answer, but its just not a reliable source... ;P

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                              I am sure that Stephen Hawking would include some factors into his analysis of the optimum jogging route which many of us never heard of or could even spell :)

                              "I just exchanged opinions with my boss. I went in with mine and came out with his." - me, 2011 ---
                              I am endeavoring, Madam, to construct a mnemonic memory circuit using stone knives and bearskins - Mr. Spock 1935 and me 2011

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                              • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                                The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

                                Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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                                It means she herself doesn't know what she means. All she knows is she feels compelled to move on, but she still has feelings. Pretty stupid if you ask me.

                                The difficult we do right away... ...the impossible takes slightly longer.

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                                  I am sure that Stephen Hawking would include some factors into his analysis of the optimum jogging route which many of us never heard of or could even spell :)

                                  "I just exchanged opinions with my boss. I went in with mine and came out with his." - me, 2011 ---
                                  I am endeavoring, Madam, to construct a mnemonic memory circuit using stone knives and bearskins - Mr. Spock 1935 and me 2011

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                                  Good thing for spell-check... :)

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                                  • Richard Andrew x64R Richard Andrew x64

                                    It means she herself doesn't know what she means. All she knows is she feels compelled to move on, but she still has feelings. Pretty stupid if you ask me.

                                    The difficult we do right away... ...the impossible takes slightly longer.

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                                    Still sexists.

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                                    • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                                      The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

                                      Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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                                      Brian C Hart wrote:

                                      what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

                                      "Go away, dude, you're my brother"

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                                      • C Christian Graus

                                        I'd say she's telling you she wants to cease all access to her trouser area, but to stay on friendly terms. But, women are confusing, don't ask a bunch of geeks to decode, ask her for clarification.

                                        Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. Read my blog to find out how I've worked around bugs in Microsoft tools and frameworks.

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                                        :) Christian has just hit the nail firmly on the head.

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                                          Sexists.

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                                          Pete OHanlon
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                                          Go on. I'll bite. Why is it sexist to say you may not get a good answer here? I'm genuinely curious.

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