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  • D Dalek Dave

    Thanks for that, it makes no difference to anyone here you know. But, firstly, I know it can be difficult to admit it at first, (I have gay and Lesbian friends who had terrible trouble admitting it), so well done. Secondly, unless people are living in the middle ages (or the 1950's or Croydon), it is of little matter. I am a Fat, Middle-aged, Conservative Man with a nasty drug habit (Smoke, Drink and Eat Cheese), it is who I am. Your sexuality is your own concern. Whatever, young dude, just be yourself and don't go screaming queen on us. (Even amongst my Gay friends, they dislike Screaming Queens). So long as whatever you do is legal, consensual and nobody is hurt, who gives a tinker's cuss?

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    TheGreatAndPowerfulOz
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    Exactly. A more long winded response comparable to what I said.

    If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
    You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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    • L Lost User

      So am I. Well, that was until I fell in love and got married. :)

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      Dalek Dave
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      You told us all a while ago you were Bi, and that has never been an issue. I have argued and moaned with you, and have blasted you for being dim, offensive, wrong etc. But I have never felt the need to raise your sexuality as an issue. Being French, yes, that was a choice!

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      • R R Giskard Reventlov

        Ravel H. Joyce wrote:

        I'm gay.

        and? p.s. No future Ravels?

        "If you think it's expensive to hire a professional to do the job, wait until you hire an amateur." Red Adair. nils illegitimus carborundum me, me, me

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        AspDotNetDev
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        digital man wrote:

        No future Ravels?

        I do not like children, but I have been thinking of making a donation at the bank just because it would be an aweful waste not to have my genes in the progeny pool. :rolleyes:

        Martin Fowler wrote:

        Any fool can write code that a computer can understand. Good programmers write code that humans can understand.

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        • R R Giskard Reventlov

          Ravel H. Joyce wrote:

          I'm gay.

          and? p.s. No future Ravels?

          "If you think it's expensive to hire a professional to do the job, wait until you hire an amateur." Red Adair. nils illegitimus carborundum me, me, me

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          Dalek Dave
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          That doesn't necessarily have to happen.

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            digital man wrote:

            No future Ravels?

            I do not like children, but I have been thinking of making a donation at the bank just because it would be an aweful waste not to have my genes in the progeny pool. :rolleyes:

            Martin Fowler wrote:

            Any fool can write code that a computer can understand. Good programmers write code that humans can understand.

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            R Giskard Reventlov
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            Trust me: I've had a few and they are worth it.

            "If you think it's expensive to hire a professional to do the job, wait until you hire an amateur." Red Adair. nils illegitimus carborundum me, me, me

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            • T TheGreatAndPowerfulOz

              It was not rude. It was matter-of-factual.

              If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
              You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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              fjdiewornncalwe
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              No, it was rude.

              I wasn't, now I am, then I won't be anymore.

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              • R RC_Sebastien_C

                I don't think it matters to anyone but him, but why should it matter less than the fact that Michael Martin had egg sandwiches for dinner? Edit: I didn't downvote either of your posts.

                modified on Monday, September 12, 2011 11:17 AM

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                RC_Sebastien_C wrote:

                matters to anyone but him

                Then why the need to announce it? (It's not as if we didn't already know given the way he's responded to other postings.) He should keep it to himself. You don't find heterosexuals going around announcing do you?

                RC_Sebastien_C wrote:

                diner

                dinner. It matters not at all.

                If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
                You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                • S Soulus83

                  Any failed attempt you want to talk about? ;P

                  "Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--either way, you are right." — Henry Ford "When I waste my time, I only use the best, Code Project...don't leave home without it." — Slacker007

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                  AspDotNetDev
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                  You offerring a shoulder to cry on, an ear to listen, a hug to cure what ails him, and a bed to sleep it off?

                  Martin Fowler wrote:

                  Any fool can write code that a computer can understand. Good programmers write code that humans can understand.

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                  • R R Giskard Reventlov

                    Trust me: I've had a few and they are worth it.

                    "If you think it's expensive to hire a professional to do the job, wait until you hire an amateur." Red Adair. nils illegitimus carborundum me, me, me

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                    Dalek Dave
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                    They pay you for sperm donations... When I think of all the money I have let slip through my fingers... :(

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                    • L Lost User

                      If you'll pardon the phrase - bollocks.

                      Every man can tell how many goats or sheep he possesses, but not how many friends.

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                      TheGreatAndPowerfulOz
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                      No need to pardon. You're welcome to your opinion.

                      If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
                      You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                      • S soap brain

                        I'm gay. Not a hugely interesting revelation, I freely confess, so I shan't go on about it.

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                        Mike Hankey
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                        So that was what that extension cord leading to the closet was for. :)

                        Sects Therapy

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                        • D Dalek Dave

                          They pay you for sperm donations... When I think of all the money I have let slip through my fingers... :(

                          ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave CCC Link[^] Trolls[^]

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                          Lost User
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                          Isn't it actually illegal to pay someone for their sperm in the UK, so that donors only get paid 'expenses'.

                          Every man can tell how many goats or sheep he possesses, but not how many friends.

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                          • D Dalek Dave

                            They pay you for sperm donations... When I think of all the money I have let slip through my fingers... :(

                            ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave CCC Link[^] Trolls[^]

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                            W Balboos GHB
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                            Dalek Dave wrote:

                            let slip through my fingers...

                            I suppose it's just another form of "Coming" out ? (worth a 5, anyway).

                            "The difference between genius and stupidity is that genius has its limits." - Albert Einstein

                            "As far as we know, our computer has never had an undetected error." - Weisert

                            "If you are searching for perfection in others, then you seek disappointment. If you are seek perfection in yourself, then you will find failure." - Balboos HaGadol Mar 2010

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                            • F fjdiewornncalwe

                              No, it was rude.

                              I wasn't, now I am, then I won't be anymore.

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                              TheGreatAndPowerfulOz
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                              Saying "I don't care, it matters not to me" is rude? OK, whatever.

                              If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
                              You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                              • D Dalek Dave

                                Political, have you tried telling your mother? Diplomacy is required. Although when my friend Biggles came out, he stood in the pub and said "I just need to clear the air and let you all know that I am gay". We all stood, shocked. Shocked that he felt he had to tell us, we all knew.

                                ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave CCC Link[^] Trolls[^]

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                                Dalek Dave wrote:

                                Political, have you tried telling your mother?
                                 
                                Diplomacy is required.

                                I'll have to trust your firsthand experience.

                                "I have a theory that the truth is never told during the nine-to-five hours. " — Hunter S. Thompson My comedy.

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                                • T TheGreatAndPowerfulOz

                                  RC_Sebastien_C wrote:

                                  matters to anyone but him

                                  Then why the need to announce it? (It's not as if we didn't already know given the way he's responded to other postings.) He should keep it to himself. You don't find heterosexuals going around announcing do you?

                                  RC_Sebastien_C wrote:

                                  diner

                                  dinner. It matters not at all.

                                  If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
                                  You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                                  RC_Sebastien_C
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                                  ahmed zahmed wrote:

                                  dinner.

                                  Thanks, fixed.

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                                  • T TheGreatAndPowerfulOz

                                    RC_Sebastien_C wrote:

                                    matters to anyone but him

                                    Then why the need to announce it? (It's not as if we didn't already know given the way he's responded to other postings.) He should keep it to himself. You don't find heterosexuals going around announcing do you?

                                    RC_Sebastien_C wrote:

                                    diner

                                    dinner. It matters not at all.

                                    If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
                                    You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                                    Lost User
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                                    ahmed zahmed wrote:

                                    He should keep it to himself.

                                    Really?

                                    ahmed zahmed wrote:

                                    You don't find heterosexuals going around announcing do you?

                                    Have you never been on here when a new female turns up? There is plenty of 'announcing' going on.

                                    Every man can tell how many goats or sheep he possesses, but not how many friends.

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                                      Dalek Dave wrote:

                                      Political, have you tried telling your mother?
                                       
                                      Diplomacy is required.

                                      I'll have to trust your firsthand experience.

                                      "I have a theory that the truth is never told during the nine-to-five hours. " — Hunter S. Thompson My comedy.

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                                      Dalek Dave
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                                      I had to tell my Mother (a Labour Party political activist of many years standing), that I had joined the Tory Party, and was on several committees. She said she knew that I was that way inclined, but had decided not to raise it as it would lead to embarrassment all round. She was even more appalled when I stood in the elections earlier this year, for my name was on the list and her Commie-Trotskyite chums would know!

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                                      • S soap brain

                                        I'm gay. Not a hugely interesting revelation, I freely confess, so I shan't go on about it.

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                                        hairy_hats
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                                        +5 for having the guts to say it.

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                                        • T TheGreatAndPowerfulOz

                                          RC_Sebastien_C wrote:

                                          matters to anyone but him

                                          Then why the need to announce it? (It's not as if we didn't already know given the way he's responded to other postings.) He should keep it to himself. You don't find heterosexuals going around announcing do you?

                                          RC_Sebastien_C wrote:

                                          diner

                                          dinner. It matters not at all.

                                          If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
                                          You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                                          Lost User
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                                          ahmed zahmed wrote:

                                          Then why the need to announce it?

                                          Then why the need for the lounge? Its only purpose is to serve as a kind of life blog for CPites.

                                          ahmed zahmed wrote:

                                          You don't find heterosexuals going around announcing do you

                                          Actually you do, in indirect ways, such as posting pictures of men groping the breasts of a female passenger.

                                          ============================== Nothing to say.

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