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  • Z ZurdoDev

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    I think they do quite enough to share their beliefs.

    Do you believe the media "shares their beliefs" less than churches?

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    loctrice
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    No, I don't. Then again, I have the same feelings for the media :D

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    • R R Giskard Reventlov

      And I with you: my point was not about the right of the church to have an opinion, rather what that opinion might be based upon and whether or not it has any merit. I suppsoe one could further extrapolate that given that the opinion is worthless and, possibly, dangerous (based, as it is, on an outmoded set of morlas and values) that they should not, in fact, promulgate those beliefs through opinions given in a political context. And that's my opinion. :-)

      "If you think it's expensive to hire a professional to do the job, wait until you hire an amateur." Red Adair. nils illegitimus carborundum me, me, me

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      I'm at a loss to why this was downvoted. I tried to counter, but my kung fu is not that strong :doh: Maybe someone thought a downvote was needed. I think a 1 was a bit harsh though...

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      • Z ZurdoDev

        Sure, I understand that. Now, consume this: What if God is real? You just said "you have this opinion, but not for a logical reason." Assuming God is real then your opinion has no logical reason. I appreciate your comments but they are just as much opinion as you claim mine to be.

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        ryanb31 wrote:

        Assuming God is real then your opinion has no logical reason.

        ryanb31 wrote:

        Remember what assume does to you.

        Use carrots and sticks to force the little fish into the big tent - Anon

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        • K Keith Barrow

          Gay marriage: Roman Catholic archbishops step up fight[^] "The letter says Roman Catholics have a duty to make sure it does not happen." They seem to have missed the reformation, or the fact that the UK legal system is secular. They should have no more say in the matter than any of the other citizens in the UK. The legislation doesn't mandate religious bodies to solemnise gay marriages, so I don't see that this is any of their business. To say it will "shame the United Kingdom in the eyes of the world" is just wrong in the parts of the world that matter, and I don't see why we should care anyway. I'd have thought they'd have kept a pretty low profile, seeing as they have lost their moral authority by keeping certain "priestly activities" under wraps - given that is quite possibly the result of repressing normal sexuality, homosexual or otherwise.

          Sort of a cross between Lawrence of Arabia and Dilbert.[^]
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          TheGreatAndPowerfulOz
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          I am personally against gay "marriage" in part, since marriage by definition implies the potential of childbearing. But, whatever. But, I'm also against the gov't getting involved in the situation.

          If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
          You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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            No, my point was that what was illegal a few years ago is now considered 'normal'; however not everyone has reached the point where they accept that. More importantly is, as I said before, that we have a reasoned and open debate and listen to everyone's point of view, even those diametrically opposed to ours. As to my personal views ... well, they're personal.

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            Richard MacCutchan wrote:

            well, they're personal.

            Then what's the point of having them?

            If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
            You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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            • L Lost User

              No... first I categorized your argument as argumentum ad verecundiam because your argument is basically: God said so, so it's true. And you put it as an opinion so it's not a very serious offense, but you're still walking around with an unjustified opinion. Also, since you're not god (probably), how do you know God even said that? Presumably from the bible, which (if god is assumed to exist) is an other argumentum ad verecundiam, with the bible as authority. On the other hand if god is assumed not to exist then there is no logical fallacy, just fiction, so the first argumentum ad verecundiam comes into effect (fictional characters aren't an authority). Then you said something about assumptions and I addressed that - after all if you are god then you are an authority on what you said. Then your argument is reduced to "I believe this because I believe this, and I believe I am right in believing that so I am", which is 1) nicely circular and 2) still argumentum ad verecundiam, with yourself as the authority.

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              harold aptroot wrote:

              still walking around with an unjustified opinion.

              If he believes in God, which he clearly does, that's justification enough.

              harold aptroot wrote:

              unjustified opinion.

              Really? Opinions don't need justification since they are subjective and not necessarily based upon fact or knowledge. Merely "reason".

              If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
              You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                No no look, I actually included that as a possibility. I'll just rehash it here I guess. In that case your argument is still broken, because gods existence doesn't in itself validate the bible, so we still don't know his opinion. But even if we did know gods opinion on the matter, so what? That's still an appeal to authority.

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                harold aptroot wrote:

                That's still an appeal to authority

                Well, that's true. But, in that case, we probably aught to listen. Unless we don't care what God's "opinion" is.

                If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
                You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                • L loctrice

                  No, I don't. Then again, I have the same feelings for the media :D

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                  TheGreatAndPowerfulOz
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                  At least you're consistent. I somewhat agree with you: will everyone just "SHUT UP!"

                  If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
                  You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                  • T TheGreatAndPowerfulOz

                    harold aptroot wrote:

                    That's still an appeal to authority

                    Well, that's true. But, in that case, we probably aught to listen. Unless we don't care what God's "opinion" is.

                    If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
                    You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                    Why should we care what his opinion is?

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                    • T TheGreatAndPowerfulOz

                      harold aptroot wrote:

                      still walking around with an unjustified opinion.

                      If he believes in God, which he clearly does, that's justification enough.

                      harold aptroot wrote:

                      unjustified opinion.

                      Really? Opinions don't need justification since they are subjective and not necessarily based upon fact or knowledge. Merely "reason".

                      If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
                      You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                      Depends what kind of opinion it is.. you don't need to justify your preference for sweet candy or whatever, but if you start having "opinions about facts" then that's a problem.

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                      • T TheGreatAndPowerfulOz

                        Richard MacCutchan wrote:

                        well, they're personal.

                        Then what's the point of having them?

                        If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
                        You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                        To keep you guessing. :laugh:

                        Unrequited desire is character building. OriginalGriff I'm sitting here giving you a standing ovation - Len Goodman

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                        • Z ZurdoDev

                          Several people are responding with the opinion of "who gives them the right to tell people what to do?" And that is fine. However, where do we draw the line? There was a point in history where if you told people that one day men would be able to marry each other you would have been laughed at and banished from your village. So, what happens when the popular voice starts to say that killing another person is OK? Sounds absurd now but what if? So, what is wrong with a religious organization standing up for what it believes? Separation of church and state meant that the state should not mandate a specific religion. It does not mean church cannot publicize opinion to the state.

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                          ryanb31 wrote:

                          So, what happens when the popular voice starts to say that killing another person is OK?

                          Nonsense. One could state as well - what happens when the popular voice starts to advocate that the church and only the church is allowed to dictate all laws? And contrary to your example there are already societies that allow the church to do just that.

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                          • Z ZurdoDev

                            1. What makes you think homosexuality is not a choice? 2. You say that homosexuality is a "response to evolution." Homosexuality, if followed by all, would mean the end of the human race so how can that be considered evolution? Are you suggesting evolution is intentionally killing us off? Maybe you meant it as humor, like the Darwin awards or something. 3. What definition of "hate" are you using? I hate to do my homework or extreme hostility?

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                            ryanb31 wrote:

                            1. What makes you think homosexuality is not a choice?

                            What about pedophile priests, priests that cover it up, and religious dictates specifying rules to minimize damage from that? Choice right?

                            ryanb31 wrote:

                            You say that homosexuality is a "response to evolution." Homosexuality, if followed by all, would mean the end of the human race so how can that be considered evolution?

                            Utter nonsense. First, there are many instances of homosexual behavior in other species and they aren't extinct. Second, absolutely no one is claiming anything at all about making it universal. Third, a significant reduction in the worlds population would solve a vast number of problems.

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                            Are you suggesting evolution is intentionally killing us off?

                            I would guess that you do not understand evolution, the animal kingdom nor do you have a scientific via of humanity (thus your take on evolution in regards to that is hypocritical.)

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                            3. What definition of "hate" are you using? I hate to do my homework or extreme hostility?

                            How about execution? Or 20 years in prison? Those are in fact some possible state sanctioned results of homosexuality in some places. I suspect as well that there would be some extreme 'hostile' reactions to you expressing your religion in general way if you chose to express it openly in certain parts of the world. Might as well note that in some parts of the world 'homework' for certain segments of the population would likely be met with 'hostile' result as well. But hey all of that is perfectly ok with you right?

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                              ryanb31 wrote:

                              1. What makes you think homosexuality is not a choice?

                              What about pedophile priests, priests that cover it up, and religious dictates specifying rules to minimize damage from that? Choice right?

                              ryanb31 wrote:

                              You say that homosexuality is a "response to evolution." Homosexuality, if followed by all, would mean the end of the human race so how can that be considered evolution?

                              Utter nonsense. First, there are many instances of homosexual behavior in other species and they aren't extinct. Second, absolutely no one is claiming anything at all about making it universal. Third, a significant reduction in the worlds population would solve a vast number of problems.

                              ryanb31 wrote:

                              Are you suggesting evolution is intentionally killing us off?

                              I would guess that you do not understand evolution, the animal kingdom nor do you have a scientific via of humanity (thus your take on evolution in regards to that is hypocritical.)

                              ryanb31 wrote:

                              3. What definition of "hate" are you using? I hate to do my homework or extreme hostility?

                              How about execution? Or 20 years in prison? Those are in fact some possible state sanctioned results of homosexuality in some places. I suspect as well that there would be some extreme 'hostile' reactions to you expressing your religion in general way if you chose to express it openly in certain parts of the world. Might as well note that in some parts of the world 'homework' for certain segments of the population would likely be met with 'hostile' result as well. But hey all of that is perfectly ok with you right?

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                              You have not read what I wrote properly. Everything you said was off.

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                              • Z ZurdoDev

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                                Freedom of thought and life, without church intervention

                                It sounds like you are saying the church (I don't care which) is not allowed to share its beliefs. Your own beliefs come from many different sources: news, friends, experiences, personal pondering moments, church, school, books, movies, media, etc, etc. So, why are you trying to take the church out of that list? Why are they not allowed to try and influence people?

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                                ryanb31 wrote:

                                Why are they not allowed to try and influence people?

                                Because I do not want your church telling me how to live my life. When you go to church they clergy are allowed to tell you how to live your life. Your church. Your life. Not mine. Other than that your examples are not analogous.

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                                  ryanb31 wrote:

                                  Why are they not allowed to try and influence people?

                                  Because I do not want your church telling me how to live my life. When you go to church they clergy are allowed to tell you how to live your life. Your church. Your life. Not mine. Other than that your examples are not analogous.

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                                  The media tell you how to live. School teaches you how to live. Your neighbors influence you how to live. Your government tells you how to live. Athletes tell you how to live. Actors tell you how to live. I could go on and on. The church is no different. Listen if you want to, don't if you don't. It's that simple.

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                                  • L Lost User

                                    Depends what kind of opinion it is.. you don't need to justify your preference for sweet candy or whatever, but if you start having "opinions about facts" then that's a problem.

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                                    depends on what you consider a "fact". Some things people consider "facts" are just theories or themselves deeply held opinions.

                                    If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
                                    You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                                    • L Lost User

                                      Why should we care what his opinion is?

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                                      TheGreatAndPowerfulOz
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                                      LOL. It's your choice to care or not. Just my opinion that you should care, if you believe God exists.

                                      If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
                                      You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                                      • T TheGreatAndPowerfulOz

                                        LOL. It's your choice to care or not. Just my opinion that you should care, if you believe God exists.

                                        If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
                                        You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                                        I meant it more as a question, as in, can you give a reason why we should?

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                                        • T TheGreatAndPowerfulOz

                                          depends on what you consider a "fact". Some things people consider "facts" are just theories or themselves deeply held opinions.

                                          If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
                                          You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun

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                                          Yes that's exactly the problem I mean..

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